According to Dr. Robert Glover, an authority on the subject of the Nice Guy Syndrome, a "Nice Guy" is a man who harbors a belief that he isn't acceptable in his natural state. He's firmly convinced that he must mold himself into what he perceives as others' expectations in order to gain affection, love, and have his needs fulfilled. In this episode, we're giving Illdris Hellbruh the spotlight as he delves into the pivotal concepts from Dr. Glover's renowned book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy," drawing ...
Nov 28, 2023•16 min•Season 11Ep. 3
In the second episode of "My Confessions," we delve deep into the fascinating realms of female intuition and the intricacies of female jealousy. First, we explore the concept of female intuition, a mysterious and often misunderstood phenomenon that seems to give women an uncanny ability to read between the lines and perceive things that may elude others. Next, we navigate the complex landscape of female jealousy. From friendships to romantic relationships, jealousy can rear its head in various f...
Nov 23, 2023•36 min•Season 11Ep. 2
Why are boundaries important? "Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself" is a book by Nedra Glover Tawwab, a licensed therapist and sought-after relationship expert. In her book, Tawwab provides a comprehensive guide to setting and enforcing boundaries to create a peaceful life. In today's episode Luna Ma enters the Tangent Talk studio solo to share some of her confessions around boundaries. She also discusses key themes from the book "Set Boundaries, Find Peace" and the author...
Aug 25, 2023•30 min•Season 11Ep. 1
Carlee Russell (dubbed "Carlee Smollett") is an Alabama woman who disappeared for 2 days in the summer of 2023. Russell's case is an example of the maxim: “The boy who cried wolf.” The moral of “the boy who cried wolf” story is that when you signal false alarms, no one will come to your aid when you are in real danger. Further, liars (and those impacted) will suffer the consequences of their dishonesty. In this episode, the Tangent Talk crew explores why hoaxes—like the one Carlee Russell commit...
Aug 08, 2023•37 min•Season 10Ep. 2
We're back, folks, and we are coming in hot like the summer! In this sizzling episode, we discuss the now infamous Keke Palmer & Usher storyline. What started out as the R&B legend’s successful Vegas residency has become the centerpiece of conversations about love, respect, loyalty, & insecurity. "You Don’t Have to Call"...but, we do encourage you to listen to our first episode of Season 10. Join us as we weigh in! In an article published today (August 7, 2023), Usher reacts to Dar...
Aug 07, 2023•35 min•Season 10Ep. 1
In this episode, we discuss the controversy surrounding the suspension of Boston Celtics' head coach Ime Udoka for having an "inappropriate relationship" with a fellow team employee. Udoka has also been engaged to actress Nia Long for 10 years, with whom he has one child. The employee with whom he had the alleged affair is a married woman. Many netizens believe Miss Long thinks she is immune to being cheated on because of her good looks, but why would people think that? What has the actress said...
Oct 19, 2022•55 min•Season 9Ep. 2
In this episode, we discuss modern terminologies heard often in the dating world today: "Simp" and "Pick-Me." Not only do we break down the general meaning of these terms, but what the panelists understand these terms to believe from our own perspectives. Do these terms carry any merit or are they just another way for men and women to tear each other down? Join us as we weigh in, along with our guest panelists.
Aug 26, 2022•1 hr•Season 9Ep. 1
It has become known as The Slap Heard 'Round the World. You know what we're talking about—the infamous Oscars Night slap over an unscripted joke Chris Rock made about actor Will Smith's wife, Jada Pinkett-Smith, and her shaved head. The opinions of the public on this issue have been divided. On one side, people say Will Smith had every right to protect his wife, while on the other, people say he committed assault and should have been charged. On one side people say Chris Rock should sue Will Smi...
Apr 15, 2022•43 min•Season 8Ep. 3
During a Variety interview, when asked her advice for women in business, Kim Kardashian uttered these famous last words: "I have the best advice for women in business. Get your fu%*ing ass up and work. It seems like nobody wants to work these days.” As a woman raised with immense privilege who shot to fame in a way that many consider not hard work at all, this remark garnered a huge backlash from the public. It also brought to light claims from former employees who state that the Kardashian fami...
Apr 15, 2022•27 min•Season 8Ep. 2
While we know our image is heavily-shaped through media and Hollywood stereotypes, how much control—and ultimately how much responsibility—do we, as black and brown people, have when it comes to how we are ‘presented’ to the world? How will we rebrand ourselves moving forward? Join us for this interesting topic: “Rebranding People of Color.” Reference Material: What is Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)?...
Feb 12, 2022•30 min•Season 8Ep. 2
While we know our image is heavily-shaped through media and Hollywood stereotypes, how much control—and ultimately how much responsibility—do we, as black and brown people, have when it comes to how we are ‘presented’ to the world? How will we rebrand ourselves moving forward? Join us for this interesting topic: “Rebranding People of Color.” Reference Material: What is Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)?...
Feb 11, 2022•31 min•Season 8Ep. 1
DR. BRIAN MCGREGOR joins the cast to discuss "Let's Heal: When Men Prioritize Mental/Emotional Health & its Impact on Interpersonal Relationships.” Dr. McGregor is an Adjunct Clinical Assistant Professor for the Department of Psychiatry & Behavioral Health for Morehouse School of Medicine (MSM) in Atlanta GA. On December 2, 2021, Dr. McGregor also served as a panelist for the Ahmaud Arbery Foundation (AAF) “Shining a Light on Mental Wellness for Black Boys” discussion. The discussion was...
Jan 27, 2022•49 min•Season 7Ep. 4
DR. BRIAN MCGREGOR joins the cast to discuss "Let's Heal: When Men Prioritize Mental/Emotional Health & its Impact on Interpersonal Relationships.” Dr. McGregor is an Adjunct Clinical Assistant Professor for the Department of Psychiatry & Behavioral Health for Morehouse School of Medicine (MSM) in Atlanta GA. On December 2, 2021, Dr. McGregor also served as a panelist for the Ahmaud Arbery Foundation (AAF) “Shining a Light on Mental Wellness for Black Boys” discussion. The discussion was...
Jan 27, 2022•32 min•Season 7Ep. 3
Based on the textbook definition, to recreate means “to impart fresh life to; refresh mentally or physically.” It also means, “to create (something) again, duplicate.” As we experience the greatest public health crisis in our lifetimes, what does it mean for us to “recreate” during these trying times? For some of us, our attempts may remind us of Denise Huxtable’s infamous recreation of the “Gordon Gartrell” shirt, much to her brother Theo’s chagrin. While we are all wading through this pandemic...
Jan 09, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Season 7Ep. 2
Welcome to Season 7! Whether you are a new or faithful listener, we are excited you are here! As a culturally diverse cast, many members of the Tangent Talk are children of immigrant parents; parents who believe and have taught their offspring (seemingly since birth) that dedication to "hard work” is the source of success—but, is it the source of happiness or burnout? Moreover, is life to be endured or enjoyed? On OutKast’s Liberation, Cee-Lo Green croons, “Oh, Lord, I’m so tired, I'm so tired…w...
Nov 14, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Season 7Ep. 1
Dr. Derald Wing Sue is a notable professor of counseling psychology at Columbia University. He has been lauded as a pioneer in multicultural counseling and therapy and the psychology of racism/antiracism. Dr. Sue defines microaggressions as "everyday verbal, nonverbal, and environmental slights, snubs, or insults, whether intentional or unintentional, which communicate hostile, derogatory, or negative messages to target persons based solely upon their marginalized group membership." In this epis...
Jul 07, 2021•37 min•Season 6Ep. 3
Davis is University of North Carolina's (UNC) first Black basketball head coach since the school began playing the sport in 1910; that's 111 years! Cleary, Coach Davis has much to be proud of and much to celebrate. 'I'm Also Very Proud That My Wife Is White' he shared during the April 6, 2021 press conference introducing Hubert as the the first Black head coach at UNC. Was this simply a blunder or a peek into Coach Davis' deep seated thoughts on race? Reference Material: Hubert Davis Was So Clos...
Apr 26, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Season 6Ep. 3
What could possibly go wrong when a beautiful actress marries a real-life Prince Charming? Nothing—or at least that is what we would like to believe. But, as we have learned, things became quite hairy when the handsome, eligible prince of the British Royal Family married an actress who is biracial: white father, black mother. During a sensational interview with Oprah Winfrey in March 2021, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex discuss their break from the Royal Family — or, The Firm, as it was referred...
Apr 16, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Season 6Ep. 1
On part 1 of this two-part episode, the cast focused on the controversial coaching style of YouTuber, Kevin Samuels. On the day of the recording for part 1 (March 21, 2021), news broke about another YouTuber Dating Coach: Derrick Jaxn. The scandal, later confirmed by Jaxn himself and his wife, has created quite the social media storm. On part 2, the cast examines the downfall of Derrick Jaxn.
Apr 01, 2021•57 min•Season 5Ep. 3
Kevin Samuels, dating guru and “image consultant,” gives dating advice online, but does he take it too far? In this episode, the cast will give their perspectives on the often-abrasive coaching style of Kevin Samuels. Is there a thin line between constructive criticism and “put-downs?” Is he keeping it real or being hurtful and harmful? With two men and two women on our panel, this topic is pretty sure to get juicy! Come join us as we discuss this popular yet controversial figure in the realm of...
Apr 01, 2021•42 min•Season 5Ep. 2
During this episode, the cast discusses the "Tessica Brown Gorilla Glue" hair fiasco. How did Miss Brown find herself in such a sticky situation? Was the public’s reaction warranted and fair? How far are women willing to go to ensure they look their best? We will further examine the history of the relationship black women have with their hair and how it led to the desire for a flawless doo by any means necessary. Special guest, Faith Gadal , joins us for this layered conversation. Reference Mate...
Mar 20, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Season 5Ep. 1
Life teaches us many lessons. What lessons have you mastered and what lessons were you taught? How have the lessons we learned from our family, teachers, and our experiences shaped our thinking and belief systems today? In this episode, special guest, Tuggy , joins the cast as it explores the following questions. For example: Were you taught to "thrive" in life or "survive life?" Have you learned to be a "risk taker" or are you "risk adverse?" Do you believe in "romantic partnership" or "self-su...
Mar 11, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Season 4Ep. 3
From the term "deadbeat dads" to the popular Temptations’ song: “Papa Was A Rollin' Stone," we are often reminded that some fathers just don't measure up to the criteria of being good parents. And, still, there are good fathers: Malcolm X, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., President Barack Obama, to name a few iconic names. “Father’s Day" comes early this year as the cast celebrates good fathers on this episode! Special guest, Mr. COAD (pronounced 'Code'), joins in on the discussion to explore: the s...
Feb 12, 2021•55 min•Season 4Ep. 2
Inspired by recent events in celebrity news—when a 16-year-old, Cheyenne, alleged her father (VH1’s Black Ink Crew member, Ceaser Emanuel) assaulted her—the cast tackles the sensitive topic of corporal punishment in the black community. Adding context to the discussion, Dr. Stacey Patton’s book Spare the Kids: Why Whupping Children Won’t Save Black America is examined along with various examples in popular movies and media, and a reflection on our own personal experiences of spanking and discipl...
Jan 18, 2021•54 min•Season 4Ep. 1
I dunno know who needs to hear this, but—Halle Berry is not 'Crazy!' When did 'unlucky in love' become synonymous with 'crazy?' We all know beautiful women who have been unsuccessful in love—perhaps it's your mother, your sister, your favorite cousin, your BFF, or even you. In this episode, we explore the complexities in dating and the tragic stereotypes of single (unwed), attractive women. Special Guest, Ms. Majyk Milan (host of the "Unspeakable Truths"), joins The Tangent Talk cast for this ri...
Jan 10, 2021•41 min•Season 3Ep. 3
Who will we be when the masks come off? What did 2020 teach us relative to our mental & emotional well-being? Also, is the COVID vaccination phobia in minority communities irrational or reasonable? Be sure to visit our website (https://thetangenttalk.com/) to view reference links for this episode.
Dec 17, 2020•33 min•Season 3Ep. 2
The cast explores the the viral 'twerking controversy' video in Dallas, Texas at TRUE Kitchen + Kocktails.
Dec 16, 2020•27 min•Season 3Ep. 1
It's 2020. How do you identify culturally or ethnically (Black, African American, etc.) & why? And, who are your/our leaders today?
Dec 16, 2020•47 min•Season 2Ep. 3
From Hattie McDaniel, first African American to win an Oscar in 1940, to 2021 posthumous Oscar contender, Chadwick Boseman; let's examine the roles black actors take.
Dec 15, 2020•38 min•Season 2Ep. 2
That crown looks heavy, sis! The burden of the Black Girl Magic movement. Special guests 'Shama' and 'P-Dubs' join The Tangent Talk to unpack and unburden this topic.
Dec 13, 2020•50 min•Season 2Ep. 1
