Send us a text You may remember from Season 1, my friend, Mia. I invited her onto the podcast to talk about dating as an introvert. In this episode, Mia joins me again to give us a little update on her dating life. Check out Mia’s art and follow her on social media: https://linktr.ee/Miarussell Check out La Vette Social Club: https://www.instagram.com/lavettesocialclub/ All the good stuff: https://linktr.ee/thetalkativeintrovert Theme Song by Eugene (Mikie) Manalo: https://soundcloud.com/mikieik...
May 17, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Season 2Ep. 12
Send us a text As a feminist, I think it’s also important to look into and understand the issues that men face. To see the issues that men’s rights activists fight for, check out the links below. Resources: https://nationalcenterformen.org/ https://www.reddit.com/r/INTJfemale/comments/mjn39t/what_is_your_opinion_on_the_current_state_of/ https://www.reddit.com/r/feminismformen/comments/fokbpp/seeking_feminist_perspective/ https://docs.google.com/document/d/1zCjX9PF8RwboWCCCHq0gLLavS7q8G65Y8r6hSqf...
Apr 26, 2021•40 min•Season 2Ep. 11
Send us a text Just don’t do it. Don’t chase your passion. I’ll tell you why in this episode. Stop searching for your passion | Terri Trespicio - https://youtu.be/6MBaFL7sCb8 All the good stuff: https://linktr.ee/thetalkativeintrovert Theme Song by Eugene (Mikie) Manalo: https://soundcloud.com/mikieika...
Apr 19, 2021•25 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Send us a text Leah and I scour the internet for interesting INTJ statistics. We picked our favorites from the list to share in this episode. If you want to check out the ones we didn’t include in the show, here’s the link to the website: https://astroligion.com/intj-statistics-facts-about-intj/ All the good stuff: https://linktr.ee/thetalkativeintrovert Theme Song by Eugene (Mikie) Manalo: https://soundcloud.com/mikieika...
Apr 12, 2021•1 hr 33 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Send us a text Introverts tend to share similar characteristics and those characteristics can make them really good listeners. (Obviously, this doesn’t apply to all introverts.) Being a good listener is a skill not everyone has and if you can master that skill, it can help you in both your professional and personal life. However, when stuck in the listener role, this can lead to some problems. So, in this episode, I go over those issues and what I plan to do to be a better advocate for myself. A...
Mar 29, 2021•29 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Send us a text The date this episode goes live will be my 14th anniversary with my husband. So, in celebration of our anniversary, I asked my husband to join me in this episode to talk about how we first met, and the pros and cons of marrying your high school sweetheart. https://www.reddit.com/r/instantbarbarians/ All the good stuff: https://linktr.ee/thetalkativeintrovert Theme Song by Eugene (Mikie) Manalo: https://soundcloud.com/mikieika...
Mar 22, 2021•49 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Send us a text In this episode, I am joined by my two friends, Shannon, and Mia. We focus on certain words that may seem innocent but may actually be negative. Since we’re women, we focused more on terms that are related to women and how certain words make us feel. Then Mia entertains us with information she has on the meanings behind our first names. Links to the books she mentioned are below. https://www.amazon.com/Hidden-Truth-Your-Name-Complete/dp/034542266X https://www.amazon.com/Power-Birt...
Mar 08, 2021•1 hr 18 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Send us a text Cancel Culture: What is it? Is it a good thing? Bad? Did what Gina Carano posted on her social media platforms warrant her removal from the Mandalorian? These are some of the questions I ask myself in this episode. Follow me on social media and let me know your thoughts. Random article I said I would share in the description: https://www.abc10.com/article/money/california-edd-fraud-claims/103-b07ad3ec-6190-486c-b0ba-56de41defb20 All the good stuff: https://linktr.ee/thetalkativein...
Mar 01, 2021•39 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Send us a text In this episode, I am joined again with my INTJ sister-in-law. However, this time we are also joined with Katrina and Austin who so happen to be both ENFJs. We talk through different scenarios and how each of us would react in that moment. You can tell from the first scenario how both personalities can be complete opposites. Let us know on social media how you felt about the episode and if you relate. https://www.16personalities.com/ Katrina's YT Channel: https://www.youtube.com/u...
Feb 22, 2021•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 4
Send us a text Year after to year, my New Year’s resolution is the same. However, year after year, I don’t ever achieve that goal: weight loss. This year, though, I’m trying to change my mindset and approach it from a different angle and that is through micro goals. It’s an extremely simplistic approach, but one that can be easily overlooked, because of its simplicity. In this episode, I’ll go over what that is and what I hope to achieve this year. Will I lose weight in 2021? I guess we’ll find ...
Feb 15, 2021•35 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Send us a text I am joined again with my INTJ sister-in-law, Leah. We scour the internet for a list of INTJ misconceptions and share the ones that really speak out to us. The first half of the episode, we break down these misconceptions and explain why they’re inaccurate. Then the second half really is just two INTJs ranting about random stuff. Enjoy! All the good stuff: https://linktr.ee/thetalkativeintrovert Theme Song by Eugene (Mikie) Manalo: https://soundcloud.com/mikieika...
Feb 08, 2021•1 hr 55 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Send us a text First episode of Season 2. Thanks for coming back for more! What great way to start the new season, but with an introvert episode? In this episode, I’ll be talking about whether I think 2021 will be another year for the introverts and why. If you’re interested in that board game I mentioned, here’s the link: https://www.amazon.com/Level-99-Games-Millennium-Blades/dp/1936920573 Don’t forget to check out the introvert subreddit. Here’s that thread I mentioned: https://www.reddit.com...
Feb 01, 2021•41 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Send us a text In this episode, we say goodbye to 2020 and to Season 1 of The Talkative Introvert Podcast. I do a recap on this year as it relates to me and the podcast. (I’m sure people don’t need a recap on everything that has been going on this year.) I also talk about what to look forward to in Season Two. Katrina's YT Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/katrinalim28 All the good stuff: https://linktr.ee/thetalkativeintrovert Theme Song by Eugene (Mikie) Manalo: https://soundcloud.com/miki...
Dec 21, 2020•38 min•Season 1Ep. 29
Send us a text There’s a lot of things to hate and love about social media and in this episode, I talk about the good and the bad. I also briefly talk about my opinion on The Social Dilemma documentary on Netflix and how it kind of sparked this episode. Let me know about how you felt about the documentary. What’s your love/hate relationship with social media? Is it more love or more hate or somewhere in the middle? All the good stuff: https://linktr.ee/thetalkativeintrovert Theme Song by Eugene ...
Dec 14, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 28
Send us a text I am joined again by the Bewitches (Katrina, Leah, and Bailey). We discuss Astrology and reveal our Sun, Moon, and Rising (i.e. our Zodiac signs). We are most definitely not professionals. In fact, I didn’t know there were other signs and different elements associated with the signs. I’m also very skeptical about Zodiacs, but there definitely were some eerily accurate descriptions of me based on my results. Let us know on social media how you felt about the episode and whether you...
Dec 07, 2020•1 hr 19 min•Season 1Ep. 27
Send us a text It’s Thanksgiving week in the U.S. and I reflect back on my last episode. This year has been rough for a lot of people, but there’s still some positives amidst all this negativity. I also went to reddit and asked the introvert redditors how they prep and recharge during holiday events. Stick to the end for the advice I got. Happy Thanksgiving, everyone, and I hope you can find some positive things about this year, because even though life sucks, there’s always something to be grat...
Nov 23, 2020•23 min•Season 1Ep. 26
Send us a text With everything going on in the world, I feel like it is definitely affecting my psyche. I’m very tired and very exhausted from it all. I did go into a little political rant, but it’s probably not what you’re thinking. I’m not necessarily discussing which party is better than the other. I also give a bit of a podcast journey update. This marks my 25th episode, which according to Buzzsprout, is a milestone! Thanks so much for all of you who have listened and stuck around. Thanks to...
Nov 09, 2020•26 min•Season 1Ep. 25
Send us a text A lot of businesses are opening back up and there’s already discussions about going back to the office. Although I’m happy to hear businesses are opening back up, the office, however, not so much. For some extroverts, they may be ecstatic for the work life to go back to how it was and for the day to day interactions with their colleagues. However, this can be a different story for introverts. In preparation for this episode, I went to social media to see how people felt about goin...
Nov 02, 2020•41 min•Season 1Ep. 24
Send us a text It is almost Halloween! My absolute favorite holiday. To celebrate, I am joined by my girls and we share some spooky stories. Oddly, during this episode, we kept experiencing some inconvenient technical difficulties. A coincidence? I hope so! The episode isn’t that scary, but if you get spooked easily like me, make sure to watch some good, wholesome Disney movies afterwards! LOL! Let me know on social media if you have ever had anything spooky happen to you. How did you react? I’d...
Oct 26, 2020•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 23
Send us a text In this episode, I’m going to talk about Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD). This is kind of a continuation from my Therapy episode. Go check that out if you haven’t heard it already. I’m going to talk about how I got into therapy and how I associate with BDD. I briefly explain what BDD is and some of the symptoms. If you want to know more about BDD, please go check out the BDD Foundation website at https://bddfoundation.org/ . They have some great resources to get you started. Here i...
Oct 19, 2020•1 hr 18 min•Season 1Ep. 22
Send us a text I am joined in this episode by my two amazing friends, Mia and Shannon. In this episode, we’re going to reveal our Myers Briggs personality types and which Hogwarts house we got placed into. If you want to see which house you belong to, here is the link: https://www.wizardingworld.com/ https://www.psychologyjunkie.com/2019/11/20/the-hogwarts-house-of-each-myers-briggs-personality-type/ https://tests.enneagraminstitute.com/ Also, don’t forget to vote! https://ballotpedia.org/ . All...
Oct 12, 2020•1 hr 15 min•Season 1Ep. 21
Send us a text I mentioned in a previous episode that I didn’t only want to talk about introversion. I had other subjects I wanted to talk about, but I realized I couldn’t talk about certain subjects without first addressing therapy. There’s a lot of stigma around therapy, especially in certain cultures, so I was a little hesitant about doing an episode on this. However, I believe that therapy can be very beneficial to some people and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it, so why should I...
Oct 05, 2020•32 min•Season 1Ep. 20
Send us a text Fairly recently, my sister-in-law and I took the 16 Personalities quiz, which is basically the free version of the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) assessment. (Maybe some day I’ll take the actual one.) Not surprisingly, we ended up with both being an INTJ, except she’s an INTJ-T and I’m an INTJ-A. So, in this episode we talk about how to spot an INTJ. Here’s the link to the quiz: https://www.16personalities.com/ Resources: https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/13-spot-traits-intj...
Sep 28, 2020•1 hr 54 min•Season 1Ep. 19
Send us a text I got a solo one for you guys. I know I’ve been having guests on a lot lately, so I needed to put in a solo one in there. In this episode, I talk about my podcast voice and basically think out loud about what I want my voice to be and what the future of this podcast would look like. It’s really a rambling episode, so if you like those types of episodes, then this is the one for you. Enjoy! All the good stuff: https://linktr.ee/thetalkativeintrovert Theme Song by Eugene (Mikie) Man...
Sep 21, 2020•31 min•Season 1Ep. 18
Send us a text In this episode, I am joined by my good friend Shannon Ebler. She is another one of my closest introvert friends and we talk about her adventures outside the country and her experience living on the east coast. Shannon being a social and anxious introvert, I was curious about her adventures and how she prepares for traveling. I haven’t traveled much, so I love hearing her stories. Let me know your traveling stories. Are there places you have on your bucket list? Do you have any pl...
Sep 14, 2020•1 hr 56 min•Season 1Ep. 17
Send us a text In this episode, I am joined by my cousin-in-law, Patrick DeGuzman. We both very much enjoy playing video games, but our game choices may differ depending on our personalities. I sent Patrick an article that states that introverts and extroverts play the same amount of video games, but what differs is the choice of video game. We discuss whether we agree with that statement or not. At the end, Patrick delights us with an odd drunk story, so stick around to hear all about it. Check...
Sep 07, 2020•1 hr 23 min•Season 1Ep. 16
Send us a text In this episode, I am joined by my sister-in-law, Leah Guillama. She’s a fellow introvert like myself and that’s actually what bonded us together. Leah decided to leave all things safe, comfortable, and familiar for a new life all the way across the country to Virginia. We talk about her reasons for leaving, the pros and cons of living in a completely new environment, and how it’s been so far. I feel like a lot of introverts will resonate with the experiences that Leah goes throug...
Aug 31, 2020•1 hr 28 min•Season 1Ep. 15
Send us a text In this episode, I have some special guests on with me! If you listened to episode 11, then you’ve already met Katrina. She joins me today along with another one of our best friends, Ms. Bailey! These ladies join me as we talk about our love languages. We guess each other’s love language and reveal what we got on the quiz. If you’re interested in knowing about the 5 different love languages and figuring out what you are, here’s the link to the quiz: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/...
Aug 24, 2020•1 hr 13 min•Season 1Ep. 14
Send us a text In this episode, I talk about two friend finder apps that I tested out: Hey Vina! and Bumble BFF. I was inspired by the Introvert Dating episode I did with my friend Mia. She was talking about the dating apps she uses, and it was so interesting. I’m married, so I’m not looking to date. Instead, I googled if there was something similar for searching for new friends. As an adult, it gets a bit harder to find new friends, especially in the current quarantine world we live in. I talk ...
Aug 17, 2020•43 min•Season 1Ep. 13
Send us a text In this episode, I talk about the very much dreaded activity: Small Talk. No one likes and most people don’t know how to do it or at least do it very well. I talk about how even though we all hate small talk, it has its benefits, especially in the workplace and building relationships. I share some of the tips I have. By no means am I a professional small talker, so if you have any pointers, please let me know what you do. I’d love to get some new pointers. If you like the show, pl...
Aug 10, 2020•33 min•Season 1Ep. 12