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The Self Love Fix

Beatrice Kamauselflovefix.libsyn.com
Welcome to The Self Love Fix Podcast. I’m your host, Beatrice -an embodiment coach, teacher, and mentor, and founder of The Self Love Over Codependency Program. Are you ready to finally step into your worthiness and magnetism? Are you tired of your limiting beliefs and self-doubt affecting every aspect of your life? You deserve to live an abundant life, you deserve to desire and achieve all of your dreams, and most importantly, you deserve to embody unshakable self-confidence. Believe it or not, I didn’t always embody self-trust. Most of my life, I lived at the mercy of what other people thought of me. It was only during a very low point I experienced during grad school where I asked myself, “Where does your need for perfectionism come from?” This was a game-changing moment for me. For the first time in my life, I asked myself about the origins of my behavior instead of blaming myself for them. From then on, I promised to live out my passion and mission for embodying my true essence and to teach others to do the same. That’s exactly why I created this podcast. This podcast is all about helping you shift from shame, people-pleasing, codependency, low self-esteem, and self-doubt and into alignment, expansion, and unapologetic self-trust through spirituality and healing the inner-child. For more information about the podcast, or other ways you can work with me, visit: www.beatricekamau.com I would love to connect with you more on social media! You can find me at: IG: @theselflovefix Website: beatricekamau.com
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Episodes

78. The Highs and Lows of the Self Love Journey

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about the highs and lows of the self love journey and how it is ANYTHING but a linear, predictable process. We dive deep into balancing our humanness and our spirituality as we navigate codependency & our wounds. Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekamau.com...

Oct 29, 202011 min

77. Intuition & Deep Inner Child Healing

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about our intuition & trusting our intuition cultivates deep, expansive inner child healing Click here to get your FREE copy of my Anatomy of Self Love workbook Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekamau.com...

Oct 22, 202016 min

76. How Codependency Affects the way you view yourself done

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about how codependency affects the way you view yourself. Codependency impacts your ability to love yourself and to see yourself as worthy. You will NOT want to miss this episode. Tune in to hear more! Click here to get your FREE copy of my Anatomy of Self Love workbook Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekamau.com...

Oct 15, 202014 min

75. Working Through Triggers and Criticism

Hey sis! In this episode from a previous Instagram live, we talk all about working through triggers and criticism and how triggers are NOT a sign that you are "not healing". You won't want to miss this. Click here to join the waitlist for my upcoming Self-love course to get $150 off! Hurry! The waitlist closes on October 11, 2020! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekamau.com...

Oct 08, 202011 min

74. How Narcissism Affected the Way I Viewed Myself

Hey sis! In this episode we talk all about my experience with narcissism growing up and how it affected the way I viewed myself and others and how it affected my dating experiences and self-esteem. Can't wait for you to tune in! Click here to join the waitlist for my upcoming Self-love course to get $150 off! Hurry! Waitlist closes October 11, 2020! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekamau.com...

Oct 01, 202021 min

73. A Typical Day in My Codependent Past

Hey sis! In this episode, I am going to be walking you through what a typical day in my codependent past looked like. I reflect on the college days of obsessing over getting a text back, feeling insecure, and feeling unworthy. I also reflect on some of my shadows that jumped out during these times. Can't wait for you to tune in! Click here to join the waitlist for my upcoming Self-love course to get $150 off! Hurry! Waitlist closes September 25th, 2020! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@bea...

Sep 24, 202020 min

72. Embodying Your Worth

Hey sis! Have you ever heard the phrase "know your worth" and felt like you didn't really "know" it? Or maybe you felt like even though you have an idea of the life you want or how you want things to show up in your relationships, they just... don't. I've been there! Listen in on this episode where we talk all about embodying your worth and why it's different from "knowing" it. Click here to join the waitlist for my upcoming Self-love course to get $150 off! Hurry! Waitlist closes September 25th...

Sep 17, 202013 min

71. Why It's Okay to Ask for Help & Support

Hey sis! Have you ever struggled to ask for help at work? With your day to day tasks? When you were going through a hard time? Did asking for help ever make you feel like a burden? If that's you you are NOT going to want to miss this episode, in this episode, we talk alllllll about why it's okay to ask for help and support. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Click here to get your FREE copy of my Anatomy of Self Love wor...

Sep 10, 202016 min

70. Anxiety, C-PTSD, & Codependency

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking about something heavy & serious. We are talking about C-PTSD & anxiety and how it may show up in people who are codependent. We talk about how C-PTSD how can affect your sense of self, your identity, and your sense of well-being, you won't want to miss this one. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Click here to get your FREE copy of my guide on Toxic Shame, the Inner Critic...

Sep 03, 202022 min

69. Creating Boundaries with... Yourself? Let's Chat

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about boundaries... only this time, we are talking about having boundaries with ourselves! Most of the time, the conversation on boundaries centers on how to form them with our friends, colleagues, family, and acquaintances but what about when it comes to overworking ourselves and pushing ourselves too hard? Tune in now for more on this conversation! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/p...

Aug 27, 202012 min

68. You are Allowed to be Your Authentic Self

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about being authentic with yourself. We talk about how codependency can make it difficult to be your most authentic, true version of yourself, and why you should push through the blockages, and embrace your most authentic self anyway. Tune in to hear more! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Click here to get your FREE copy of my Anatomy of Self Love workbook (or visit beatrice...

Aug 20, 202013 min

67. The Effects of Love Bombing

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about love bombing. We get into what love bombing is, how to spot love bombing, and how to deal with the effects of being love bombed. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Click here to get your FREE copy of my Anatomy of Self Love workbook (or visit https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/fcba542339 ) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website...

Aug 13, 202014 min

66. Signs of Healthy Partner

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about healthy partners, the signs of healthy partners and potential partners, and ways for us to tell if we have a healthy partner or potential partner. Tune in to this episode for more! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Click here to get your FREE copy of my Anatomy of Self Love workbook (or visit https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/fcba542339 ) Business Inquiries? Email the team...

Aug 06, 202015 min

65. Enmeshment & Your Relationships (Part 4 of the Reparenting Series)

Hey sis! In this episode, we are concluding the reparenting series with part 4 of the series on the topic of Enmeshment. Enmeshment happens when we struggle to distinguish between who we are and who other people are. Oftentimes, this happens with our parents and our families. When this happens, it makes it difficult for us to know and realize our own identity & desires. Tune in to this episode for more! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatri...

Jul 30, 202015 min

65. Reparenting Part 3 Feeling Secure Within Your Own Energy

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about feeling secure within our own energy, knowing the difference between our energy and someone else's, and how codependency affects our energy. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs ) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekamau.com...

Jul 23, 202013 min

64. Reparenting Part 2- You don't have to make everyone else a priority

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about prioritizing ourselves and people pleasing. You are not going to want to miss this one! Tune in for more on this topic. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs ) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekamau.com...

Jul 16, 202017 min

63. Reparenting series- Part one, loving yourself even when it seems impossible

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about falling in love with the self love journey, how loving yourself is a destination, not a process, and meeting yourself where you are at. Tune in for so much more on this topic! Click here for the 3 step guide to radical self-forgiveness e-book Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs ) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekama...

Jul 09, 202013 min

62. Grieving the Parent You Never Had

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about the very real feelings we deal with when coming to grips with the narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, and absence we felt from our parents. We talk about grieving the love we never received and how to be compassionate with ourselves when moments like this hit us hard. Stay tuned for more. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs ) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com...

Jul 02, 202016 min

61 You are Allowed to Say No

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about why you are absolutely, 100% allowed to say no- or any variation of it. We talk about how our trauma and inner child wounds can hold us back from expressing that we do not want to do something. You are allowed to not want to do something. You are allowed to express that you do not want to do something without feeling guilty for how others will respond. Tune into this episode to listen in on more of the conversation! Click here to join the no more codepend...

Jun 25, 202021 min

60. Don't Be Hard on Yourself in Your Self Love Journey

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about what it looks like when we criticize how we heal, how fast we heal, and what our progress looks like. We talk about why we need to be more gentle on ourselves and why self-love has its ups and downs and why that's normal. Can't wait to catch you on the other side! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs ) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Web...

Jun 18, 202015 min

59. Emotional labor & Self Care

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about emotional labor. What is emotional labor? What does it look like in the context codependency, race, and our everyday experiences. You are not going to want to miss the nuggets in this episode :). Book of the month: All about love by Bell Hooks Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs ) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekam...

Jun 11, 202022 min

58. Racism, Trauma, & Spirituality

Speaking from my truth & my heart. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs ) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekamau.com...

Jun 04, 202024 min

57. Ways Our Ego Tells Us Lies About Ourselves

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about some of the ways our ego tells us lies about who we are. We discuss how some of these lies develop from our childhood. Often times, we feel as though we are broken, as though something is inherently wrong with us, and as though nothing good will ever come our way. We think these lies are our truth when in reality, they are actually lies that come from our ego. Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to join the no more codependent thought pat...

May 28, 202015 min

6 Sneaky Ways Codependency Shows Up as Perfectionism

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about the 6 sneaky ways codependency can show up as perfectionism. Perfectionism is a coping mechanism often developed from childhood that helps us feel a sense of control and a sense of worth. The truth is our worth is not in what we can produce or how we can produce it. Listen to this episode to discover more about perfectionism and how to release it as a form of self-love and inner child healing Check out https://trybetterhelp.com/selflovefix to save 10% on ...

May 21, 202019 min

55. 7 Signs You May Have A Mother Wound

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about the 7 Signs You May Have A Mother Wound. A "mother wound", in this episode, refers to the emotional damage that you may experience as an adult as a result of having had a relationship with an emotionally abusive, narcissistic, and/or emotionally unavailable parent. We talk about the signs and as always, we talk about how important it is to validate, love, & affirm yourself & your truth, despite it all. Click here to get your FREE ticket to the Cho...

May 14, 202017 min

54. How to let go of Negative & Self Critical Thoughts

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk negative and self-critical thoughts! We talk about how childhood trauma & narcissistic trauma can influence our thought patterns and how most of our thoughts are just that- patterns. We an AMAZING way to let go of negative & self critical thoughts and we discuss how you are not alone & you are not crazy, there's totally a way to break free from this! Can't wait to see you on the other side! Click here to pre-order my new masterclass: How to Stop Neg...

May 07, 202018 min

53. 10 Signs You Grew Up with A Narcissistic Mother

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about the 10 signs you grew up with a narcissistic mother. This is not a complete list as there are many other signs but, these are some of the most common signs you may come across. You're not going to want to miss this eye-opening episode! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs ) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi...

Apr 30, 202032 min

52. Quarantine Special: "Why Do I feel so Obsessed and Attached to Them?"

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about feeling "obsessed" with that potential partner, or that person you are "talking to", or even that person you have been ghosted to (hey what happened to them and why are they ignoring me?) we go into DETAIL about why we panic, why we get obsessed, and why we want more from those that give us less. Hint: it's not you, it's the pattern of thinking you were raised with. Are you ready to dive deep into this topic? I'll see you on the other side! xx Beatrice Pl...

Apr 23, 202025 min

51.Inner Child Healing with Alyssa Lia Mancao

Hey girl! In this episode, we have a special guest, licensed psychotherapist Alyssa Lia Mancao. During this episode, Alyssa and I chat about inner child healing work, trauma, and how to deal with it all especially, during the quarantine. You are not going to want to miss the gems she drops in this episode! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatric...

Apr 16, 202031 min

50. "Over it" How to Deal with Anger & Confrontational People

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about dealing with angry and confrontational people, how to deal with our own anger when we feel offended and/or attacked, and how to respond to the narcissists in our lives who try to elicit reactions out of us. In this episode, we also explore the ego and how our ego relates to our reactions and responses to the situations and things that upset and frustrate us. Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing...

Apr 09, 202016 min
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