What happens when you take a hard look at reality? How do we truly assess where we are, what we're capable of, and where we should be going? In this episode, Adrian and Bri explore the often uncomfortable but necessary process of interrogating reality. From understanding your current skill set to mapping out a realistic path forward, they discuss the discipline required to grow without getting stuck in self-doubt or unrealistic expectations. Adrian shares personal stories from his days playing b...
Sep 18, 2024•39 min
Have you ever wondered what happens when power meets fear? 🤔 This week on the New Rules Podcast, we're diving into the Tyreek Hill controversy to explore the deeper lessons on power, authority, and how fear shapes our reactions to both. 🏈💼 Starting with Tyreek Hill's recent incident, we break down the power dynamics in leadership, discussing how power can be wielded, misused, and even reformed. 🛠️ But the conversation doesn't stop there—we tackle the often unspoken reality: the fear many Bla...
Sep 12, 2024•54 min
What happens when creators meet critics? Are they truly at odds, or do they share more common ground than we think? We explore the complexities of these roles, offering insights on how to navigate the delicate balance between creation and critique. Discover how to engage in conversations that uplift rather than tear down, and learn how to take criticism without letting it stifle your creativity. We’ll also examine how to deconstruct entrenched ideals and how different generations can come togeth...
Sep 04, 2024•56 min
What happens when we live in a world of extremes? How do these polarizing forces shape our beliefs, influence our consumption, and affect our relationships? In this episode, Bri and Adrian tackle the complexities of extremism—its pervasive impact on every aspect of our lives, and the critical importance of finding balance in the "gray zone.” We also touch on unifying moments like USA Women's Gymnastics and divisive topics such as the current presidential race, examining how these extremes shape ...
Aug 21, 2024•59 min
What made Team USA’s Men’s Basketball team so successful in securing the gold medal? Was it just pure talent, or was there something more profound at play? Bri and Adrian break down the key factors behind Team USA’s triumph, highlighting the leadership of legends like Steph Curry, LeBron James, and Coach Steve Kerr, along with the relentless drive of stars like Devin Booker. We’ll explore how a blend of elite teamwork, strategic coaching, and the championship mindset set them apart from the comp...
Aug 14, 2024•49 min
In this episode, we explore the complexities and intricacies of team dynamics. Discover the art of managing gossip, effectively addressing conflicts, and fostering genuine, positive connections within your team. Learn practical strategies to transform your workplace into a harmonious and productive environment. Join us as we unravel the secrets to mastering team dynamics and creating a culture of trust and collaboration. Highlights: Dealing with Gossip: Understanding Gossip: The reasons behind g...
Aug 07, 2024•1 hr 6 min
Dive into the latest episode of New Rules Podcast hosted with Bri and Adrian. This episode offers an insightful exploration of the current state of leadership in America, featuring a blend of cultural and political commentary. Here's a sneak peek of what you'll discover: Analyzing Leadership in America: The leadership dynamics of President Trump and President Biden. They explore the deficiencies in their leadership styles and the broader implications for the country. Peaceful Disruption: Learn a...
Jul 24, 2024•50 min
We’re getting into the captivating yet often paralyzing world of potential. What holds us back from turning our dreams into reality? Why do so many of us get stuck in the fantasy land of potential, too scared to take the steps needed to achieve our goals? We explore the concept of potential and the common fear of failure that prevents people from taking action. Living in the realm of potential can feel safe and comforting, but it often results in missed opportunities and unfulfilled dreams. We'l...
Jul 17, 2024•56 min
Today, we’re exploring the often overlooked realities of leadership. What does it truly cost to lead and inspire growth within your team? Leadership isn't just about guiding others to success; it often involves asking them to change, adapt, and even let go of familiarity. We explore the nuanced challenges leaders face, distinguishing between technical and adaptive challenges. Technical challenges are straightforward, with clear solutions that can be implemented through existing knowledge and exp...
Jul 10, 2024•45 min
What are the real dynamics between leading and being led? We’re talking about the essential but often difficult aspects of leadership and the necessity of confronting uncomfortable truths. Bri and Adrian share their personal experiences and insights on the delicate balance of guiding and challenging their teams. They offer a candid look at the struggles and triumphs of pushing their team members to grow, even when it means risking discomfort or conflict. If you’re too afraid of losing someone, y...
Jul 03, 2024•55 min
Life comes and goes, seasons of leadership come and go. Bri and Adrian share their personal insights and experiences navigating the varied phases of life and leadership. From times of intense focus and hard work to moments when seeking help is crucial. In this episode, we discuss the importance of knowing when to put your head down and grind, and when to reach out for support. It's about understanding the balance of tension between being a helper and accepting help, and recognizing that sometime...
Jun 19, 2024•1 hr 5 min
Have you ever wondered about the real impact of therapy on mental health? Or mental health on leadership capacity? This week, our hosts open up about the profound and often challenging journey of mental health and the transformative power of therapy. Bri and Adrian share their personal experiences, providing a raw and authentic look at their paths to mental wellness and their thoughts on the struggles and benefits of therapy. We tackle finding the right therapist. It’s not just about getting sup...
Jun 12, 2024•52 min
You can’t be good at everything. Even the most successful people face challenges when stepping out of their areas of expertise. In this episode, we delve into the importance of recognizing and embracing your unique talents to lead a more fulfilling and successful life. Highlights: Recognizing Unique Talents: Just like leaders, everyone needs to identify their strengths and focus on them. We explore how pinpointing and embracing your strengths can lead to greater fulfillment and success. Analyzin...
Jun 05, 2024•55 min
You’ve probably heard of the growing animosity between Drake and Kendrick Lamar. And likely Will Smith slapping Christ Rock. And maybe even sex robots? Just like leaders, celebrities face the consequences of their actions. From Drake and Kendrick's feud to Will Smith's Oscar moment, we explore how their past choices influence their present behavior. Join us as we discuss the importance of understanding your own history. By understanding your personal narrative, you can lead with maturity and int...
May 24, 2024•57 min
Are your eyes wide shut to the cost of the decisions you make? As a leader, every choice you make comes with its own set of losses, gains, and sacrifices to be made with both. In this week’s episode, we'll explore the intricate balance of weighing these costs and benefits. We discuss the value of having a deep understanding of the choices you make so you can be prepared for the ramifications– both positive and negative and how to lead with dignity when you find yourself stuck in a choice you hav...
May 08, 2024•52 min
Do you hoard power or do you give it away to empower the ones around you? As a leader, your journey of growth and empowerment isn't just about personal achievement; it's about creating an environment where everyone thrives. We discuss insights that illuminate how fostering development and empowerment among your team members isn't just a leadership tactic but a fundamental responsibility. By embracing this, leaders can not only unlock the full potential of their teams but also leave a lasting leg...
May 01, 2024•34 min
Have you ever had questions you wished you could ask someone before it’s too late? This week Bri does just that, as Adrian is in the hot seat! Join us for a special episode where we dive into a mix of leadership insights and a bit of fun! This week Bri takes time to ask Adrian questions she would want to know if anything ever happened to him. We tackle questions on leadership – Adrian gives advice on navigating how to challenge those around you to grow while still loving them where they are, fam...
Apr 17, 2024•51 min
Do you ever look around and wonder where did all the adults go? In this week's episode, Adrian and Bri discuss the nature of leadership and what it means to take responsibility for your actions as an authentic leader. Join us as we discuss: - How our extreme emotions have easily become the currency in this day and age - Maturity shifting to being the minority vs. the majority - The dangers of good intentions that are easily corrupted by power - How to not allow yourself to become a pawn in a gam...
Apr 10, 2024•43 min
Does the wake of your leadership make people better? If the answer is yes, it’s likely you’ve had to undergo heavy weight that has required sacrifice. In this week's episode, Adrian and Bri discuss why effective leadership will cost you - and how to develop the tools needed to navigate this challenge in a healthy way. Join us as we discuss: Using data to analyze human behavior and development How Adrian handles organizational culture slippage Knowing when to intervene in company challenges The i...
Apr 03, 2024•53 min
Decisions are what drives our life in any direction, whether positive or negative. We are often taught to ‘make better decisions’ in life, health, business, and beyond. However, if we don’t know what drives our decisions, how can we steer ourselves in the right direction when emotions are high? In this episode, Adrian and Bri talk through what it costs to evaluate, understand, and apply emotional intelligence around healthy decision-making. We’ll Discuss: How your ego will cause you to make bad ...
Mar 20, 2024•54 min
‘Values’ are terms given to define the principles that we embody in our personal and professional lives. However, many times we are unclear in our understanding of these important structures that make up the fabric of our lives. In Part Two of this Two-Part Episode, Adrian and Bri dive into what it means to truly live according to our values. We’ll discuss: How can you tell if something is a true value of yours? Is it possible to have values that we don’t live out properly? Why your character is...
Mar 13, 2024•30 min
When we hear the term projection, we often attribute it to how others dump their emotions in an unhealthy way. What if we could ‘project’ positive traits onto other people instead - simply through leading authentic lives? In part one of this two-part episode of the New Rules Podcast, we dive into “Projection Leadership” - and how those in power can lead by example to make a difference in the lives of others. We’ll dive into: How ‘Trauma’ and ‘PTSD’ have been hijacked and watered down by culture ...
Mar 06, 2024•37 min
In the fast-paced world we find ourselves in, we are constantly pressured to perform at a higher level. However, as authentic individuals, we know that leadership goes far beyond following trends and simple catchphrases. In an organization, it can be easy to be ‘seduced’ by a talent or skill - but culture prevails when it comes to longevity in the marketplace. When it comes to building authentic personal and professional lives, we must trust in the process of self-awareness backed with results-d...
Feb 21, 2024•1 hr 10 min
Relationships are the cornerstone of the human experience. Whether positive or negative, they can alter how we live our lives, view the world, and even view ourselves. If living authentically is vital for our own flourishing, how do we set the standard for authentic relationships in our personal and professional lives? It starts off with being self-aware. Without awareness, we can never be aware and in-tune with the needs of others. In this captivating episode, we will dive into: - Human beings ...
Feb 14, 2024•59 min
Unity is not formed for the sake of unity. When we move forward, we must move with a purpose. To kick off Black History Month, we’re recognizing not only the leaders that came before us - but what it means to move with a mission. First, we examine the complex life of the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. - and how he represented the nuance of authentic leadership through internal struggles and external triumph. Specifically, we’ll look into: The FBI Wiretaps of Dr Martin Luther King Jr. and “K...
Feb 07, 2024•35 min
Are YOU lonely? In a society built for fast-paced communication, with tools to link people together from all over the world, we still find ourselves feeling alone. In Episode 37, we take the necessary dive into why human beings are a “Loneliness Epidemic.” In order to solve loneliness, we first must give it an effective diagnosis - which we’ll find by examining the topics below: What are the practical symptoms of loneliness? How we are relationally malnourished Why conflict is a necessary thing,...
Jan 17, 2024•1 hr 3 min
Our work should be art - a reflection of our authentic selves. In the last episode, we examined why our work should be deeper than a 'necessary evil.' But how do we actually push through the challenges required to live out our purpose and calling in this world? In Part 2 of this 2-Part episode, we discuss why people are hesitant to make necessary changes required to authentically develop. We'll examine: Why people are resistant to change Why authenticity is incredibly important The College Footb...
Jan 10, 2024•30 min
Let our work be a masterpiece, a reflection of our passion and commitment. Embrace the canvas of your life, where your ‘art’ is a manifestation of creativity, purpose, and authentic development . I've often said that our work should be art - and still be challenging enough to pave the way forward. In part-one of this two part episode, we discuss how to make art and let others tell the story. - How Rick Rubin inspires Adrian to lead a life of creative development - Why your work SHOULD be art - W...
Jan 03, 2024•45 min
Will 2024 be a New Year, New You? Welcome to Episode 34 of the New Rules Podcast, where we delve into the intricacies of authentic development and goal-setting entering 2024. We explore the realities involved in creating more realistic goals, tackling challenges along the way, and discovering effective ways to help someone envision their own future. Get ready, because we’ll tackle: Why “New Year New Me” is not true, and how it can hurt setting realistic expectations. Examining the impact of gene...
Dec 20, 2023•1 hr
In the realm of leadership, there's a profound beauty in understanding the fuel behind your passions and values. It goes beyond mere goal-setting, serving as a pathway to genuine clarity that sparks motivation and transforms dreams into reality. As leaders, our responsibility extends beyond personal aspirations. It's about zeroing in on the passions and values that drive us, shaping a vision for the future. Setting standards that authentically reflect who we are, and then, with unwavering commit...
Dec 13, 2023•59 min
