Do you wish you could change something about your partner? Is there something about them that keeps you from committing? And how is staying in the shallow end of the pool drowning your relationship? My wife Alyson and I share a cup of coffee and flounder through a conversation about changing your partner, refusing to be the bad guy, and why it’s so important to keep your side of the street clean. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/changing-your-partner What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity ...
Jan 02, 2024•48 min•Ep. 352
Is meditation a tool to help you be more productive or an ancient practice for expanding consciousness? Is personal growth really just another way to escape the discomfort and uncertainty of life? And can peace only be experienced once we’ve accomplish all of our goals? Today my wife Alyson and I share another coffee date where we talk about what has drawn me into decades of spiritual practice. There’s the good and the not so good. So why do I keep doing it after all these years? https://www.the...
Dec 19, 2023•38 min•Ep. 351
Do you know any white guys with dreadlocks? Could you be in a cult without even knowing it? And is it possible for science and spirituality to co-exist? My wife Alyson and I decided to have a coffee date…with microphones. This means I got to ask her silly questions, and she did what she normally does — dig down to find the deepest, grittiest stuff she can find. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/science-spirituality What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video...
Dec 05, 2023•52 min•Ep. 350
Is success a way to make you look more impressive? Do you ruminate about ways to get the approval of others? And what truly motivates you to be more successful? Today’s call is an emotional one. Our guy has had a checkered past which has left him estranged from his daughters. He’s gotten his own life back on track, but when it comes to his girls there’s still a lot to repair. In this call we start out talking about making money, but we quickly reveal what’s driving his need for success. Make sur...
Nov 21, 2023•49 min•Ep. 349
Do you ever feel like you’re playing the wrong game in life? Are you overwhelmed by all of the personal growth stuff you “should” to be doing? And if you check all the boxes, should life be easy? Heroic CEO and app creator Brian Johnson is back to discuss his new book "Areté: Activate Your Heroic Potential". Since we last spoke a lot has happened including a challenge that nearly sank his business — and millions of dollars — just two days before their product launch. Today, we dive into what he ...
Nov 07, 2023•57 min•Ep. 348
Do you get fired up to set goals but suck at following through? Are you waiting for inspiration or motivation to make it easier to battle procrastination? And would it bring you peace to give up on your dreams? Today’s call is with a guy who’s sick of allowing resistance to get the best of him. He sets tons of goals but doesn’t follow through. Pissing away his time, strengths, and gifts is killing his peace of mind. So today we look at his mindset, his excuses, and we punch through his procrasti...
Oct 24, 2023•37 min•Ep. 347
Do you feel like everything will fall apart if you don’t bust your ass everyday? Do you expect work and family to be the only things that nourish you? And are you waiting for life to be different before you’re allowed to live the way you really want to live? Today’s coaching call focuses on a guy who’s made some big changes through major weight loss and therapy. That said, he still calls himself a workaholic without a life beyond the office and home. In this conversation we challenge the mindset...
Oct 10, 2023•47 min•Ep. 346
Are you stuck professionally because you’re afraid to put yourself out there? Why do we sabotage opportunities to be more successful? And is it possible that doing scary stuff can ultimately feel fun? Today we talk with someone who’s limiting his opportunities because he’s afraid of criticism. We put his fear in perspective, find his courage, and even have fun taking action. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/09/running-away-from-problems What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? ...
Sep 26, 2023•49 min•Ep. 345
Are you stuck professionally because you’re afraid to put yourself out there? Why do we sabotage opportunities to be more successful? And is it possible that doing scary stuff can ultimately feel fun? Today we talk with someone who’s limiting his opportunities because he’s afraid of criticism. We put his fear in perspective, find his courage, and even have fun taking action. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/09/putting-yourself-out-there What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? ...
Sep 14, 2023•38 min•Ep. 344
Do you ever wonder if you’re doing enough with your life? If you want more does that mean you’re not grateful for what you have? And would it be okay for someone to come in your house and do whatever they wanted with your partner, your kids, or your possessions? Today’s coaching conversation is with a man who wants more vitality and opportunity. We expose the mindset that allows him to be pushed around by resistance and laziness, and I challenge him to fight for his life force the same way he wo...
Aug 29, 2023•46 min•Ep. 343
Do you ever wonder if you’re doing enough with your life? If you want more does that mean you’re not grateful for what you have? And would it be okay for someone to come in your house and do whatever they wanted with your partner, your kids, or your possessions? Today’s coaching conversation is with a man who wants more vitality and opportunity. We expose the mindset that allows him to be pushed around by resistance and laziness, and I challenge him to fight for his life force the same way he wo...
Aug 16, 2023•54 min•Ep. 342
Today I have a fun conversation with a middle-aged business owner who’s done well for himself. But regardless of what he accomplishes, it never feels like enough. Instead of enjoying his good fortune, he’s constantly focusing on the future. What’s missing. What needs to be better. What threats may be coming. As a result he’s chronically stressed and overwhelmed. So we dive into his mindset to see what’s driving this constant need for more. And most importantly we help him clarify a version of su...
Aug 01, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 341
Today I’m talking with an emergency room surgeon who’s making the moves to change careers. That said, he’s anxious. He’s worried. He’s being pulled in too many directions, and he feels like he’s missing the boat. In this conversation, we identify the limiting beliefs killing his confidence and learn how clarity and integrity provide satisfaction — even if he hasn’t crossed the finish line yet. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/anxiety-confidence What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Ge...
Jul 19, 2023•42 min•Ep. 340
On this coaching call, a former client with too many options but not enough time. Luckily, we identify the mindset that’s draining her energy and provide a new way of approaching work so that it doesn’t devour her life or peace of mind. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/need-to-be-legit What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Boo...
Jul 05, 2023•46 min
How do you deal with the pressure to succeed? In this call, I talk with a father who feels an immense fear of failure. We take a look at what drives his perfectionism, and find a more playful way to provide. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/06/pressure-to-succeed What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practic...
Jun 21, 2023•46 min•Ep. 338
Is Huberman's approach over the top? Why should we never go "full Goggins"? And is there a better way to train our minds than the macho-achiever-bro-approach? Neuroscientist/Founder Anson Whitmer (Calm, Mental apps) walks us through Mental. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/06/mental-app-anson-whitmer What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will m...
Jun 06, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 337
Is imposter syndrome driving you nuts? In this conversation, we talk with a guy who’s convinced his success will come crashing down if he doesn’t constantly prove he’s legit. We reveal what’s truly driving his exhaustion and an unlikely solution. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/05/imposter-syndrome What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will ma...
May 23, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 336
Is the pursuit of your goals exhausting you? Are you unwilling to relax because something bad will happen? I talk with a high achiever who’s uncertain about where to go next in his business and life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/05/goals-lack-motivation What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical gui...
May 09, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 335
Are you dealing with burnout? Stuck in a "same sh*t different day" routine? In this coaching call, we see how one man reclaims his fire when he sees through his own BS. Plus, what life lesson can we learn from a six-year-old girl? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/04/dealing-with-burnout What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh ...
Apr 25, 2023•49 min•Ep. 334
Having the guts to face your fears. In this coaching call I talk with a high achiever who doesn’t understand why success isn’t as satisfying as expected. Instead of helping him pursue a life on “easy street”, we visit the place he’s been fighting like hell to avoid. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/04/face-your-fear What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the...
Apr 11, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 333
Dealing with Marriage Money Drama — I coach a married guy facing financial challenges. We discover there's something far more toxic poisoning their relationship. We discuss ways to shut down the drama so that both partners can have what they want. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/03/finances-marriage What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will m...
Mar 28, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 332
Does the fear of failure keep you from making a commitment? And what can the honey badger teach us about getting over ourselves? In today’s coaching call, we explore a strange way to overcome the fear of failure and truly commit to our work. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/03/fear-of-failure-4 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make yo...
Mar 14, 2023•1 hr•Ep. 331
Is getting old just a mindset? Steven Kotler (“Gnar Country”, “The Art of Impossible”, “Flow Research Collective”) discusses the new science of peak performance aging, why flow is critical for aging well, and ways to deal with fear and self-doubt. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/02/steven-kotler-gnar-country What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass th...
Feb 27, 2023•58 min•Ep. 330
In this coaching call, I talk with a guy who's built a successful business. The problem? It’s killing his soul. He’s lost touch with aliveness and meaning. How can he turn this around without blowing everything up? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/02/outgrow-your-career What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a ...
Feb 15, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 329
Can sexual attraction be repaired? Shana James (Honest Sex) talks about what really opens the doors to have more frequent and better sex. Hint: it's not about being jacked or more “masculine” — whatever the hell that means. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/sexual-attraction-repair What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out...
Jan 31, 2023•56 min•Ep. 328
Are you meant to do something else professionally? And how does nice guy syndrome show up at work? In this coaching call, I talk with an overwhelmed entrepreneur who's wondering if she should consider another business. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/overwhelming-workload What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. I...
Jan 17, 2023•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 326
Mark Manson's The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F is now a movie. Mark and I discuss making the film, what makes him feel insecure, and what Will Smith taught him about fame. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/mark-manson-movie What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly wan...
Jan 02, 2023•26 min•Ep. 326
How to deal with money fears. Are you sick of your 9-5 day job? Is money a mysterious force that seems to always have power over you? In this coaching call, I work with a woman who is tired of feeling dragged around by her finances. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/how-to-deal-with-money-fears What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make ...
Dec 20, 2022•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 325
Phil Stutz (the subject of Jonah Hill’s Netflix documentary, "Stutz") and Barry Michels discuss building energy, overcoming your worst habits, and the danger of your fantasy future. @TheToolsBook #philstutz #barrymichels https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/phil-stutz-barry-michels-coming-alive-interview What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that wil...
Dec 13, 2022•47 min
How to Deal with Nice Guy Syndrome. In this call: The client uses anxiety as a doorway to deal with nice guy syndrome. Also, moving from people pleasing to creating the wholeness and relationship he truly wants. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/nice-guy-syndrome What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a pract...
Dec 06, 2022•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 324
