The New Man

Advice for Men to Align Career, Sex, Relationships, and Money

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FOMO, Scarcity, and the Need for More, More, MORE

When it comes to Purpose, how do we define what’s worth our time and energy? And how do we avoid the traps of FOMO, scarcity, and always needing more, more, and more along the way?

May 23, 2018•9 min

The Right Path: How to Tell if You’re on the Wrong Path in Life

How can you tell if you’re on the right path in life? What can you do if you believe you’re on the wrong path? In this video we discuss a simple tip to keep us from playing the victim.

May 16, 2018•4 min

Goals, Grit, and the Hero’s Journey

Today we’re going to talk about goals, the hero’s journey, and what we can do to stay off the hamster wheel of scarcity and fear in our lives.

May 09, 2018•5 min

The Blind Spot: Watching a Guy Get a BJ at the Beach

What I learned from watching a guy get a blow job at the beach. What do our friends talk about when we’re not there? What keeps us stuck in unhealthy patterns? And what do extraordinary guys do to keep it from happening to them?

May 02, 2018•4 min

Masculine Power: Why Won’t She Have Sex With Me?

Why would your partner want to have sex with you? How are you penetrating the world? Healthy masculine power, nice guy syndrome, and a practice that sounds insane — except it works.

Apr 24, 2018•9 min

The Inner Critic and Self Love: How to Be an Ally to Yourself

How to tame our inner critic, what does self love in a practical way, how to be an ally to yourself, Kamal Ravikant - Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It

Apr 17, 2018•7 min

Anxiety: If You Don’t Want Anxiety Then Attack

If you’re feeling anxiety, let’s talk about a quick way to create some ease while gaining a ton of power and energy. It just may not be the way you’d think it should be. Say no to tolerating and avoiding.

Apr 11, 2018

Productivity Hacks: Why You Won’t Need Them If You Shift Focus

How to quickly become more focused and effective. Insights into why we’re busy spinning our wheels instead of getting stuff done.

Apr 05, 2018

215 What if Nobody Could Hurt You? — Aubrey Marcus

Aubrey Marcus discusses open relationships, why (most) high achievers are driven by demons, life balance, finding power in surrender, how plant medicine rituals help him stay out of the traps that brings down so many other men. Want to CRUSH procrastination and mental resistance? Learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. Get started here: https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//

Mar 27, 2018

Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power

Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power. What makes us believe that we have to achieve perfection or have the perfect plan? And what can we do to step into power?

Mar 21, 2018•4 min

Motivation Hacks: Why Passion is Overrated

Motivation Hacks: Why passion is overrated. How to build your fire. Let’s take a look at the myth that says we need to be full of desire before we can do what’s most important.

Mar 14, 2018•3 min

Dave Chappelle on Making Excuses and How to Quit

A lesson learned from Dave Chappelle about quitting and giving up on our dreams. Plus why I was afraid to quit playing football, how we abandon what strengthens us, and how to stop making excuses.

Mar 07, 2018•7 min

Addicted to Self Help? When Big Ideas Make Us Small

Learning big ideas feels good. But what feels better than discovering the latest big idea? When does learning and preparing and researching get in the way of what’s most important?

Mar 01, 2018•5 min

Ryan Gosling the Pick Up Artist? Standing Out From the Crowd

Can you imagine if Ryan Gosling gave up on his strengths and played pick up artist games to get women? That’s what many guys are doing on a professional level. How guys are selling themselves out by playing a role in order to be successful.

Feb 21, 2018•15 min

Tough Love for Entrepreneurs – Find Your Beast

Tripp Lanier shares some tough love from a group coaching call for entrepreneurs. Discussed: expecting things to be easy, how we’re getting soft as men, forgetting out power, finding the beast within.

Feb 14, 2018•10 min

10 Years of The New Man: A Few Lessons I’ve Learned Along the Way

The New Man Podcast crosses the decade mark. Host and coach Tripp Lanier shares a few lessons he’s learned about playing your own game, having better relationships, and the myth of being an alpha male.

Feb 06, 2018•15 min

214 Sex. Power. Desire. Danger? — Shana James

Why can some guys flirt without being offensive? Is sexual desire going to get you fired? Is shaming and repressing your turn-on the best way to deal with it? Healthy ways to deal with sexual desire and power.

Jan 09, 2018•50 min

213 Is Average Bad? External Validation & Comparing Yourself to Others – Barry Michels

Barry Michels (co-author of The Tools and Coming Alive with Phil Stutz) discusses lessons learned from working with celebrities and billionaires — the trap that comes from the need for external validation and comparing yourself to others. Tips for finding power, freedom, and playing your own game.

Dec 12, 2017

212 Sex Tips for Men: Break Out of Your Sex Routine – Alyssa Morin

Alyssa Morin Somatic Sex Educator - What is your partner complaining about when it comes to sex with you? What can you do if sex is stale or predictable? Practical tips for keeping your sex life off of the back burner.

Nov 20, 2017

211 How to Avoid Communication Breakdowns – Alan Alda

Alan Alda discusses why so many smart guys are terrible communicators, how bad communication makes life harder, and what you can do to be more powerful with others.

Nov 07, 2017•29 min

210 How to Break Free from Negativity – Tank Sinatra aka George Resch

Tank Sinatra aka George Resch discusses what Gary Vaynerchuk told him about trolls, being called a sellout, and what he does to break free from negativity. - https://www.tanksinatra.com

Oct 20, 2017•31 min

209 How to Create Life Changing Experiences – Dan Heath co-author of The Power of Moments

Why do we remember specific moments and forget the majority of others? Can we design “defining” moments and experiences that change our lives? With Dan Heath co-author of The Power of Moments.

Oct 10, 2017

Part 6: What I Learned from Being Really Bad at My Job

Part 6 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

Sep 28, 2017

Part 5: How to Tell if a Guy is Going to Fail

Part 5 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

Sep 26, 2017

Part 4: The Mindset to Get Out of “Stuck”

Part 4 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

Sep 21, 2017

208 The Tools to Beat the Devil In Your Head – Phil Stutz + Barry Michels

“The Tools” guys Phil Stutz and Barry Michels (Coming Alive) discuss how to have more energy, overcome your worst habits, what to do when you get knocked down, and the danger of getting your hopes up.

Sep 19, 2017•49 min

Part 3: Why Most Guys Don’t Get Stuff Done

Part 3 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire

Sep 14, 2017

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