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The New Man

Advice for Men to Align Career, Sex, Relationships, and Money
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Relationships, Fighting, and Lack of Sex: What Can You Do? — Jayson Gaddis

Jayson Gaddis discusses Relationship Warrior, why we tolerate draining relationships, fighting, and a lack of sex. Are we doomed to be dissatisfied as the wimp or the posturing jerk? Plus, why erectile dysfunction most likely isn’t a medical issue. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Apr 19, 2019

229 How to Align Your Work with Your Values — Jon Mitchell Functional Medicine

Jon Mitchell Functional Medicine Health Consultant put a lot of time, money, and energy into his career and then realized it wasn’t for him. Instead of staying stuck, Jon hired a coach, stopped hiding out, and created his own opportunities. In this interview we talked about how he shifted his mindset, turned pro, and took bold action to shift his career path. Also: How Jon Mitchell helps people optimize their bodies, brains, and energy and combats chronic disease.

Mar 28, 201951 minEp. 229

228 What She’s Not Telling You – How to Communicate Without Arguing – Alyson Schwabe Lanier

Relationship Advice - How to Communicate Without Arguing. Relationships go off the rails when we believe we can’t talk about challenging things with our partner. We avoid certain topics because we’re afraid of a fight, strong emotions, rejection, or worse. Too many of us are settling and tolerating a relationship that leaves us feeling drained, trapped, stressed, or bored. In this discussion Tripp and Alyson Lanier share practical tips for getting relationships back on track.

Mar 05, 20191 hr 3 min

227 Intuition and Trusting Your Gut – Rick Snyder

Intuition and Trusting Your Gut - Rick Snyder author of Decisive Intuition: Use Your Gut Instincts to Make Smart Business Decisions. Why denying our instincts makes us weak. How Snapchat’s Evan Spiegel lost billions by using intuition incorrectly. How to use your gut to be more powerful in life, work, and relationships.

Feb 21, 201941 min

226 Stuck: No Longer Passionate About Your Work? Time to Upgrade Your Mindset

No Longer Passionate About Work? An excerpt from a coaching conversation with Tripp Lanier. In this call, we explore some of the reasons why my client was feeling stuck and unable to see any attractive professional opportunities in front of him. Plus: How our mindset determines whether we’ll stay stuck doing the same old thing or if we’ll expand into the next phase of our lives.

Feb 06, 201935 min

225 How to Stop Coddling Yourself and Others – Jonathan Haidt

Jonathan Haidt thinks we frequently lie to ourselves as a way to rationalize emotional choices. So should we become Vulcans, living lives devoid of anything rewarding? Or can we tap into our emotions so that we’re more powerful? Plus we’ll also talk about how good intentions are creating a generation of fragile young people.

Jan 24, 201936 min

224 Motivation, Pressure, and Getting Off the Hamster Wheel — Craig Revord

Do you depend on fear for motivation? Do you make progress but still feel anxious, tired, or under pressure? And is success really just a strategy to outrun the things that scare you? In this conversation with Craig Revord we talk about how he’s learned to find power, face major fears, and get off the hamster wheel all while growing his business.

Jan 09, 201933 min

223 Energy, Power, and a Wife That Wants to Go to an Orgy — Rob Kandell

What if your wife asked you to go to an orgy? Rob Kandell (Unhidden) explores why so many guys are feeling drained and exhausted in our relationships and work. Also: Is it a challenging time to be a man? Plus how to reclaim power, energy, and confidence. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance...

Dec 19, 2018

222 How to Live When You Should Be Dead — Dave Baker

In May of 2007 at the age of 49, Dave Baker a competitive athlete and lifeguard went through, let’s just say, an “incident”. This is his story — what happened, how he recovered, and why he refused to just “exist” after getting a second chance at life. Guest: Dave Baker, Wrightsville Beach Ocean Rescue Director

Nov 28, 201851 min

220 How to Drop the Negativity – AJ Jacobs

Human guinea pig and bestselling author AJ Jacobs (Thanks a Thousand) returns to discuss what he’s learned from his latest long term experiment. This time he’s set out to explore what will make him less grouchy — and it all starts with a simple cup of coffee. Also: Year of Living Biblically, Drop Dead Healthy

Oct 31, 201830 min

219 Using Failure and Loss to Become Stronger — Coaching Call

Why do we stay in jobs and marriages way past their due date? Why are loss and failure critical to future success? How do we unconsciously self sabotage? Tripp and a coaching client discuss how to become stronger after a business failure. Plus: Phil Stutz and “Only the dead survive.” Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thene...

Oct 17, 2018

218 What Fantasies Reveal About Your Mindset – Group Coaching Call

Are your goals making you unhappy? Are you busting butt to create a future that may never exist? What do our fantasies tell us about what we truly want in life? Here’s a simple way we can learn how to tap into unconscious beliefs in order to strengthen our mindset.

Oct 03, 201852 min

216 How to Get Your Life Together – Joe Bernstein

Mission, Money, and Meaning. How to get your life together; How to identify the mindset that keeps us playing small; Where we find the most satisfaction; And how Joe Bernstein reinvented his life after divorce, career change, and losing 150 pounds.

Sep 05, 20181 hr

For Coaches: Why Jerks Can Make Money

What’s the biggest threat to our coaching practice? And why can jerks make money? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/

Aug 23, 2018

For Coaches: Why Great Coaches Go Broke, Too

Why do some of the “best” coaches go broke? What else do we need other than coaching skills to have a thriving coaching practice? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches.

Aug 21, 20182 min

For Coaches: Why Most Coaches Won’t Experience 10X Growth

What can we learn from a professional coach who experienced 10X growth within 18 months? And why are so few coaches unwilling to do what it takes to create a thriving coaching practice? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches.

Aug 16, 20183 min

Overcome the Fear of Failure – You’re Not a Big Deal

What if you weren’t that big of a deal? What if your fear of failure was a waste of the precious time you have to be alive? In this episode we discuss some ideas for how to stop taking ourselves so seriously and make the most of our lives instead. It’s all a matter of perspective.

Aug 14, 20189 min

For Coaches: Take the Sting Out of Rejection

Rejection stings. And avoiding rejection will kill professional growth, too. Today we talk about ways to take the sting out of getting a “no”. Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches.

Aug 09, 20183 min

For Coaches: Why You’re Not Getting Penetration

Why aren’t you getting cool opportunities and referrals? Are you stuck in the dreaded Professional Friend Zone? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches.

Aug 02, 20183 min

Leadership Skills – Nearly Pissing Away Millions Because of Fear

How one of Tripp’s coaching clients nearly pissed away millions because he was stuck in fear. What happens when we play not to lose vs focusing on what we want? Plus: learning to lead instead of micromanage. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Aug 01, 2018

Mindset for Success – Will F-You Money Slay Your Dragons?

Are you hoping one day you’ll be successful enough to finally feel free from life’s “dragons”? What’s the mindset to find lasting peace, freedom, and confidence? Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Jul 25, 2018

45 Year Old Boys – Why Some Just Can’t Grow Up

Why is playing the victim the most natural thing we can do? And why is bitching, complaining and protesting a false sense of power? Learn the two basic keys to step out of chronic anxiety and disappointment. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/victim-mindset-anxiety Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and i...

Jul 18, 2018

Manliness – How Good Boys Become Manly Men

Why is the pursuit of manliness a trap? Who are the only guys who care about being ‘manly’? And how do we learn how to play our own game? Also discussed: don Miguel Ruiz and domestication. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/manliness Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewma...

Jul 11, 2018

Personal Growth Jackass – How to Tell if Optimization is a Distraction

What can Kenny Powers teach us about personal growth? Is optimizing your diet, meditation, mindset, and exercise a distraction from what’s most important? Here’s how to tell if you’re spinning your wheels. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/optimization-playing-small Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and...

Jul 04, 2018

Hunter or Prey? How Are You Approaching Your Life?

When it comes to how we create our ideal lifestyle, relationship, and profession — are we acting like hunter or prey? Are we letting fear and urgency dilute our focus? Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/06/mindset-hunter-prey Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.co...

Jun 27, 2018

Success or Failure – Why Most Guys Will Fail

When it comes to success and failure, why are some guys able to make amazing things happen while most will not? Instead of making excuses, what if we looked at our mindset? In this episode we talk about how to tap into greater power and identify the things that hold us back.

Jun 19, 20186 min

Why Tough Guys Make it Hard to Solve Problems

When you’re facing a challenge do you hide out and withdraw from others? In this episode we talk about why “tough guys” aren’t so smart when it comes to solving problems.

Jun 12, 20188 min

Finding Your Purpose in Life – Stop Making it So Hard

Most guys are trying to find their big, magical purpose for life — the profession or calling that will make them plenty of money and getting up in the morning exciting. In this video I talk about why that’s a recipe for frustration plus what we can do instead to reveal what our purpose is without playing the victim.

May 30, 201818 min
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