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The Narcissists' Code

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Welcome to my podcast. I am Lee Hammock a self aware narcissist and I'm known as Mental Healness all over social media. I have NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and I've been dealing with this personality disorder for as long as I can remember. I have been in psychotherapy for the last 4 years and Therapy has helped me to figure out exactly why I do what I do and it has allowed me to get to this point where I can offer you the perspective inside the head of a person battling this personality disorder. You might get triggered, but you'll get validated. @mentalhealness everywhere
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Episodes

Why don't narcissist tell the truth

In this episode of The Narcissists' Code, we delve into the question of why narcissists have difficulty telling the truth. From manipulation to self-preservation, we'll explore the reasons behind this behavior and how to handle it when dealing with a narcissist in your life. Don't miss this eye-opening episode! Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I'...

Mar 27, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 1050

Will a narcissist change for the right person

Are you wondering if a narcissist will ever change for the right person? Join me, Lee Hammock, a clinically diagnosed narcissist, as I share my perspective on this burning question. Spoiler alert: it's not as straightforward as you might think! Subscribe for more insights and discussions on narcissism. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been i...

Mar 26, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1049

Narcissist become relationship chameleons

Narcissists are truly relationship chameleons. What I mean by that is that the narcissistic person will become whoever they feel like they need to become in order to get you to fall for them. They change in literally every relationship and don't treat everyone the same. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality diso...

Mar 25, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 1048

Why narcissists stop Love Bombing you and take away the love

Why narcissists stop Love Bombing you and take away the love from you. Why does the love bombing stop with a narcissist? Why do they stop loving you and treating you well. In this video I talk about why narcissist eventually take away the love from everyone they get involved with. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my perso...

Mar 24, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 1047

How to finally let go of a narcissist for good

If you are ready to let go of the narcissist in your life, this video is for you. In this video I give you a few tips in order to get over a narcissist for good and to let them go forever. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would ...

Mar 23, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 1046

Narcissists expect total forgiveness if they confess

If a narcissist ever confesses or comes clean to you they expect total forgiveness. They do not think you should ever bring it up again and you should get over it. Narcissistic people really don't think you should ever use it against them again even if they do it again and again. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my person...

Mar 22, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1045

Some narcissists are "too smart" for their own good

Contrary to popular belief, some narcissists are very easy to manipulate. Notice I wrote SOME not all. There are some narcissists who think they are the smartest person in the room but it's usually a cover for insecurities and shallowness. If you make it seem like it's beneficial to them, then you can get what you want from those narcissistic people. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissi...

Mar 21, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1044

Some narcissists want you to feel sorry for them

Some narcissists absolutely want you to feel sorry for them and will use their bad experiences to try and connect with you. Not all narcissists want your pity, matter of fact some absolutely hate it. They dont' want you to feel sorry for them no matter what. But for those that do, they love pity and will absolutely take advantage of your empathy and compassion for them. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narciss...

Mar 20, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1043

Narcissists want to know how they affect you

Narcissists want to know how they affect you and get your reactions. Narcissistic people get bored very easily and they might try to trigger you on purpose just to get a reaction out of you. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I woul...

Mar 19, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1042

5 things that could set a narcissist off

5 things that could set a narcissist off and make them rage out on your or treat you differently. As you all might know, it typically doesn't take a lot to set off a narcissist or toxic person. A lot of them have short fuses, so I put together this video of things to be able to give you a heads up on a few of them. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) an...

Mar 18, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1041

Why do narcissists always think you want to leave them for someone else?

Whenever you tell a narcissist that you want to end the relationship, they almost always think that you have someone else in the picture. Why do narcissists always think you want to leave them for someone else? There could be a few different reasons behind it but the main one is that they want to avoid accountability at all costs and this is the easiest way to go about doing it. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self awar...

Mar 17, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1040

Some narcissists dont know why they are giving you the silent treatment

Some narcissists dont know why they are giving you the silent treatment. They really don't have a valid reason to stop talking to you. A lot of the time it's because of some perceived disrespect or something you may have done unintentionally. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has d...

Mar 16, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 1039

6 ways a narcissists controls you or punishes you

6 ways a narcissists controls you or punishes you. In this video you will find out 6 ways that a narcissist could enforce their will upon you in some way that benefits them. Narcissists tend to be unreasonable people a lot of the time and refuse to just communicate in a normal way. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my pers...

Mar 15, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1038

Was any of it real with a narcissist?

Was anything you experienced in the relationship with your narcissistic partner or ex real? That's the question isn't it? A lot of people tend to think that none of it was real and that helps them heal and move forward. But for a lot of people that realization would break them. So in this video you get the perspective of a diagnosed narcissist about was any of it real with the narcissist in your life. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is L...

Mar 14, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1037

What are the benefits of going NO CONTACT with a narcissist?

A lot of people talk about going NO CONTACT, but rarely do you see a video going over the direct benefits of how no contact brings in a bunch of positivity. There are so many benefits to going no contact (and downsides) but this video goes deep into detail about how it would work out. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my p...

Mar 13, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 1036

Why some narcissists refuse to leave you alone

There are a lot of narcissists and toxic people that refuse to leave you alone when the relationship is over. There are a few reasons behind this dynamic and they can vary greatly from person to person. Some narcissists have lost their minds and become completely obsessed, while others think they can still get some type of supply or validation from you. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narci...

Mar 12, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1035

Why does it seem like there are so many narcissists?

Why does it seem like there are so many narcissists today? I personally think there is an overuse of the word narcissist in today's society, but I also think it helps a lot of people understand what they have been through in this space. Narcissists have always been around since Biblical times and social media has shined a bright light on everything that narcissists are doing. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware n...

Mar 11, 202414 minSeason 1Ep. 1034

When you tell a narcissist you no longer want to be with them?

When you tell a narcissist you no longer want to be with them? What goes on in the mind of a narcissist when you tell them that you no longer want to be in the relationship and want to move on? How would that narcissist or toxic person even react? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it ...

Mar 10, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1033

Are narcissists attracted to other narcissists?

Are narcissists attracted to other narcissists in any way shape or form? There are some narcissists that like other narcissists because they think they understand where they are coming from or something along those lines. Like you would know what to expect and not have to explain yourself to someone repeatedly. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I'...

Mar 09, 20249 minSeason 1Ep. 1032

What's the dating profile of a narcissist look like?

The dating profile of a narcissist or highly toxic person! What does that even look like? well in this episode you get the perspective of a diagnosed narcissist about what the possible dating profile of a narcissistic person could look like. To give you a heads up on some possible red flags to help protect you or allow you more perspective on what to look for. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I hav...

Mar 08, 202416 minSeason 1Ep. 1031

Why do some narcissists act JUST LIKE YOU?

You ever met yourself in someone else? Narcissistic people tend to lack real identities or they internally don't really like themselves, so a lot of them learn to mimic or mirror other people. This happens a lot in relationships with narcissists where they will pick up on your personality traits and characteristics and start to act a lot like you in order to get you to fall for them. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self...

Mar 07, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1030

How do narcissists get so good at manipulation?

Narcissistic people are known for being "master'' Manipulators and being able to convince other people to do things that they don't really want to do. Where do they learn these tactics from? Are they born with this ability or do they learn it from somewhere? Find out from the perspective of diagnosed narcissist, Lee Hammock. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ...

Mar 06, 20249 minSeason 1Ep. 1029

How to get Revenge on a narcissist

Vengeance! How to finally get vengeance on a narcissist from the mind of a narcissist himself. Of course the main way to get revenge of a narcissistic person is to live well and prosper but to some people that isn't enough. They don't want people to get away unscathed with what they have done to them. Just tune into this video in order to find out other ways to get revenge on a toxic, narcissistic person. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name ...

Mar 05, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 1028

What happens when you ignore a narcissist?

The mind of a narcissist when you ignore them can be a very dark place. Narcissistic people feel really entitled to having access to you and to others, so when you ignore them they may lose their minds. Narcissistic people could pop up on you at work, call your friends and family or even sometimes pop up at your house. When you ignore a narcissist they feel like you are with someone else and they may lose it for real. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my vo...

Mar 04, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 1027

Do Narcissists have a "1 That Got Away?"

Are you the one that got away for a narcissist? Is that even possible? Is it possible that a narcissist could even regret losing anyone from their past? Narcissistic people can regret losing you, but they have to lose you first. Do narcissists have that one person they can never forget? In this video, we'll explore the concept of "the one that got away" for narcissists and how it affects their relationships. From their need for control to their inability to truly connect, we'll dive into the psy...

Mar 03, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1026

One of a narcissist's favorite games

The good old hypothetical game! Narcissistic people love to play this game for real because it allows them to test you in a weird way or to confess to something that they have done. If you have a narcissistic person that is always asking 'what if' scenarios, be on the look out for something that they may be doing behind the scenes or thinking about doing in the near future Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narc...

Mar 02, 202411 minSeason 1Ep. 1025

Who to contact when you need support from a Narcissist

Who you reach out to is an extremely important decision that you have to make when you are dealing with a narcissist. Reaching out to the wrong person or people can be detrimental to your healing process. People that don't understand what you have been going through may inadvertently become flying monkeys for the narcissist or toxic person that you are dealing with and that could keep you there with a narcissist or in a toxic relationship. So you have to be careful in who you share with. A good ...

Mar 01, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1024

Is your relationship toxic?

Is the relationship that you are in now toxic? In this video you get the perspective of a diagnosed narcissist, that points out the signs that you may be involved in a toxic relationship. Lots of people ask this question and are looking for the answer to whether or not they are with a toxic, narcissistic person. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I...

Feb 29, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1023

Who was the first narcissist in your life?

Ask yourself that question..who is the first narcissistic person that you encountered in your life or had to deal with in your life in some way, shape or form. Discovering the root of the narcissism in your life can help you out on your healing journey in ways you may not have realized. It helps you get to the root cause of the toxicity in your life and can help you get it out of your life. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am...

Feb 28, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 1022

How long can a narcissist hold a grudge?

How long do narcissists hold on to grudges? Well the answer can vary extremely depending on who you are dealing with. A lot of narcissists can and will hold onto grudges until the day that they leave this earth. They will never let it go because it serves them in some way. Very rarely will you have a narcissist that forgives and forgets, they will almost always use the things that you do against you later on when you are in a fight or an argument. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time s...

Feb 27, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 1021
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