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The Modern Mommy Doc Podcast

Whitney Casares, MD, MPH, FAAPwww.modernmommydoc.com
Wouldn't it be great to find a podcast for the Modern Working Mom that addresses life as a mom, life as a working mom with an ambitious career and life as a mom who wants to also have time for her own life? That is what the Modern Mommy Doc podcast is all about. We live in a world where we are supposed to raise kids as if we don't work and work as if we don't have kids (and don't even mention that we may also want to fit in some time for ourselves to read a book or take a SoulCycle class.) Everyone has an opinion on what it takes to be the perfect Working Mom in today's society. Most of the advice is unattainable, anxiety-provoking and certainly doesn't address how the modern working mom is supposed to make time for her own life. The Modern Mommy Doc Podcast helps working moms say "no" to unrealistic expectations for a perfectly-balanced life and say "yes" to what really matters. You'll hear inspiring interviews with experts in each of the core areas modern working moms who parent with intention know are critical for success –dreaming big, spending time on things that matter, making space for themselves, investing in their mental and physical health, parenting in partnership, and being intentional about the way they parent their kids. Your host is Whitney Casares, M.D., M.P.H., F.A.A.P. She's a Stanford-trained, board-certified pediatrician, author, speaker, blogger @modernmommydoc, mom of two and avid Peloton-er. Drawing on her own experience as a working mom in the modern world, she's curated a group of expert guests to help you find the credible advice you're looking for when it comes to taking care of your child, your career and yourself. We live in an era filled with so many questions around Working Mom Life and finding balance. On the Modern Mommy Doc Podcast, you'll find the focused answers you've been looking for to truly have it all.
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Episodes

When Did I Stop Listening to Myself? How to Trust Your Gut Again

You know that moment when you find yourself scrolling late at night, looking for parenting advice you already know deep down? That’s what we’re talking about today: why so many of us have lost touch with our own gut as moms, and how we can get it back. In this honest, no-fluff episode, Dr. Whitney breaks down how information overload, social pressure, and fear have drowned out our inner voice—and how to rebuild trust in your own knowing. You’ll leave this episode with a deep breath, a little mor...

Jun 12, 202513 minSeason 1Ep. 190

Why Can't We Be Normal? Shame and Vulnerability in Modern Motherhood

“Why can’t I just be normal?” It’s the question that plays on loop in the minds of so many moms—especially when life feels chaotic, your kids are acting out, and every other parent seems to have it all together. In this raw and research-backed episode, Dr. Whitney unpacks the hidden shame driving that question and why vulnerability—not perfection—is the real superpower of motherhood. She shares personal stories, science-backed takeaways, and five ways to challenge shame and redefine “normal” for...

Jun 05, 202517 minSeason 1Ep. 189

The Hidden Grief of Working Motherhood

We’re not supposed to say it out loud, but here it is: working moms grieve too. We grieve missed milestones, canceled bedtimes, and the tiny, invisible moments no one else sees. In this episode, Dr. Whitney Casares opens up about the emotional weight of “having it all” and the myth that we can be everywhere at once. She shares how to name the grief, process it with mindful self-compassion, and redefine what it means to show up for your kids (and yourself). If you’ve ever felt torn between ambiti...

May 29, 202514 minSeason 1Ep. 188

Outsourcing Isn't Lazy—It's Leadership

Ever feel like you’re drowning in laundry, mental load, and school forms—and somehow still supposed to be creating magical family memories and raising emotionally healthy, body-confident kids? In this episode, Dr. Whitney sits down with Christine Landis , founder of Peacock Parent and the concierge delegation service Proxy , to talk about exactly how parents can offload the stuff that’s draining them—and do it proudly. Christine isn’t just preaching about letting go of perfection—she’s built an ...

May 22, 202525 minSeason 1Ep. 187

Your Teen Isn’t Broken (But Their Screen Habits Might Be): What Every Parent Needs to Know About Teens, Tech + Brain Development

Feel like you’re constantly battling your kid over screen time? Wondering if their love of Roblox, TikTok, or skincare influencers is harmless—or harmful? Overwhelmed by all the fear-based headlines about what tech is doing to your kid’s brain? Same. That’s why this week’s episode is a must-listen . Dr. Whitney sits down with Erin Walsh—social scientist, parenting expert, and author of It’s Their World: Teens, Screens, and the Science of Adolescence —to dig into what’s really going on with our k...

May 15, 202542 minSeason 1Ep. 186

Beyond Yoga Pants: How to Dress With Confidence in Real Mom Life

In this style-meets-substance episode of The Modern Mommy Doc Podcast , Dr. Whitney sits down with wardrobe stylist and educator Connie Jespersen of Art in the Find to talk about the mental blocks, mom-life logistics, and emotional hangups we face when it comes to what we wear — and why it actually matters. Connie brings empathy, wit, and a refreshing no-pressure approach to personal style, reminding us that confidence isn’t about having the “perfect” closet — it’s about getting dressed in a way...

May 08, 202524 minSeason 1Ep. 185

Hot Mess, Big Hearts: How a Cleaning Crew Became a Modern-Day Village for Moms

In this heartfelt and refreshingly honest episode of The Modern Mommy Doc Podcast , Dr. Whitney chats with Brittinie Tran, co-founder of Hot Mess Express — a women-led, volunteer-powered movement helping overwhelmed women declutter their homes and their minds. What started as a one-time cleaning rescue for a postpartum mom turned into a nationwide community of women supporting women — no judgment, no shame, just pure help. Whether your junk drawer is a metaphor or a literal disaster zone, this c...

May 01, 202527 minSeason 1Ep. 184

Raising Confident, Capable Kids – The Life Skills They Really Need with Katie Kimball

As parents, we spend so much time making sure our kids succeed in school, sports, and activities—but are we teaching them the life skills they’ll need to thrive in the real world? From cooking and problem-solving to resilience and independence, these skills are just as important as academics (if not more!). In this episode of The Modern Mommy Doc Podcast , I sit down with Katie Kimball , a former teacher, mom of four, and the founder of Kids Cook Real Food , to talk about why life skills matter ...

Apr 10, 202530 minSeason 1Ep. 183

A Better Share: How to Stop Carrying the Mental Load Alone with Dr. Morgan Cutlip

Have you ever felt like the weight of the household is constantly on your shoulders? That you’re the one keeping everything running while your partner is blissfully unaware of all the behind-the-scenes work? If so, you’re not alone—and there’s a way out of the cycle of frustration and resentment. This week, I sit down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip to talk about her new book, A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex . She’s here to unpack what t...

Apr 03, 202530 minSeason 1Ep. 182

Scared to Start Solids? What Every Parent Needs to Know

Starting solids can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be! In this episode, Dr. Whitney is joined by registered dietitian Cinthia Scott, RD, IBCLC, co-author of Baby Leads the Way: An Evidence-Based Guide to Introducing Solid Foods , to break down everything parents need to know about introducing solid foods with confidence. They discuss common misconceptions, signs of readiness, gagging vs. choking, allergy introduction, and how to encourage adventurous eating from the start. If you're f...

Mar 27, 202522 minSeason 1Ep. 181

How to Handle Conflict with Your Partner—Without Making it Worse

Conflict in relationships is inevitable—but sometimes we make it even worse than it needs to be. In this episode, Dr. Whitney explores why couples argue, how to approach disagreements in a healthier way, and what to do when communication breaks down. Drawing from relationship research and her own experiences as a working mom, she breaks down the Four Horsemen of relationship conflict (from Julie Schwartz Gottman & John Gottman), explains the difference between solvable vs. perpetual problems...

Mar 13, 202521 minSeason 1Ep. 180

The Village Moms Deserve – How New Mom School is Transforming Postpartum Support

Motherhood can feel deeply isolating, especially in those early postpartum months. But what if there were a structured, research-backed way to connect with other moms going through the exact same challenges—without the guesswork? In this episode, Dr. Whitney Casares sits down with Alexandra Spitz , founder of New Mom School , to discuss the postpartum loneliness epidemic and why traditional support systems for new moms are failing. Alexandra shares how her organization is redefining postpartum c...

Mar 06, 202533 minSeason 1Ep. 179

Never Not Working: Why Moms Struggle to Slow Down and How to Break Free

Why do so many high-achieving, perfectionist moms struggle with anxiety and burnout? Because we've been taught to equate our worth with productivity. In this episode, Dr. Whitney Casares dives deep into the roots of hustle culture, workaholism, and the pressure to always be "on." Drawing from insights in Melissa Clark’s Never Not Working and her own experiences as a pediatrician and working mom, she explores the hidden costs of over-functioning —from mental health struggles to strained relations...

Feb 27, 202517 minSeason 1Ep. 178

Why Today’s Kids (and Parents!) Are More Anxious Than Ever—And How to Fix It

In this episode of The Modern Mommy Doc Podcast , Dr. Whitney dives into the growing epidemic of anxiety in both parents and children. Why are we all so anxious? And more importantly—what can we do about it? She explores the major cultural and technological shifts that have contributed to rising anxiety levels, from social media and smartphone addiction to the decline of unstructured play and increased parental overprotection. Dr. Whitney also shares practical strategies for reducing anxiety in ...

Feb 06, 202520 minSeason 1Ep. 177

Gamifying Kindness: How Small Acts of Goodness Create Big Impact

What if being kind could be fun, energizing, and contagious? In this inspiring episode, Dr. Whitney chats with Brian Driscoll, author of The Goodness Game: Make the World Better and Feel Awesome While Doing It . Brian shares how his runaway journey as a teenager and the kindness of strangers inspired him to gamify generosity. Together, they explore actionable strategies for weaving kindness into everyday life—even when you're a busy parent feeling stretched thin. Learn how to identify your uniqu...

Jan 17, 202529 minSeason 1Ep. 176

So You're Taking Ozempic. Does That Mean You're Not a Body-Positive Parent? with Dr. Krista Gonzales

Struggling to balance your own health goals with teaching your kids to love their bodies? Dr. Whitney Casares sits down with Dr. Krista Gonzalez, a triple-board-certified endocrinologist and obesity medicine specialist, to discuss if weight-loss medications like Zepbound, Wegovy, and Ozempic fit into a body-positive parenting philosophy. Together, they tackle: Why these medications are disrupting industries and creating conversations. Addressing the stigma of weight-loss treatments in the contex...

Jan 09, 202545 minSeason 1Ep. 175

The Mental Load, Modern Parenting, and Making Homes Equitable

In this empowering episode of The Modern Mommy Doc Podcast , Dr. Whitney Casares sits down with Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands , to unpack the challenges of creating equity at home. They explore how societal norms, mental loads, and parenting dynamics shape modern families. Brian shares his personal journey of stepping back from his career to support his wife’s ambitions and how that decision changed their family dynamic. Together, they discuss practical strategies for dividing household...

Nov 26, 202442 minSeason 1Ep. 174

Advocating for Your Neurodivergent Child: Tools and Strategies Every Parent Needs

In this episode of The Modern Mommy Doc , Dr. Whitney Casares dives into a deeply personal and important topic: advocating for neurodivergent children. As a pediatrician and mom to two neurodivergent daughters, Dr. Whitney shares practical strategies for navigating the complexities of raising kids with ADHD, OCD, autism, and anxiety. Whether your child is struggling in school or dealing with miscommunication with educators, you'll learn how to advocate effectively, build strong relationships wit...

Oct 31, 202419 minSeason 1Ep. 173

Breaking the Mom Code: Tackling Systemic Barriers for Working Moms and Reclaiming Your Power

In this episode of the Modern Mommy Doc podcast, Dr. Whitney Casares dives deep into the systemic issues that working moms face—from the gender pay gap and unpaid labor to the childcare crisis. Join her as she provides practical solutions to help mothers reclaim their power and advocate for systemic change. Whether it's pushing for paid parental leave, advocating for employer-sponsored childcare, or finding support in your community, this episode is packed with actionable advice to ease the ment...

Oct 17, 202425 minSeason 1Ep. 172

From Postpartum to Perimenopause: Real Talk on Sex, Hormones, and Health with Drs. Sara Twogood and Alyssa Quimby

In this episode of the Modern Mommy Doc Podcast , Dr. Whitney is joined by two powerhouse OB-GYNs and co-founders of Fem.ed , Dr. Sara Twogood and Dr. Alyssa Quimby from Cedars-Sinai. Together, they tackle the often-taboo topics of sexual health, perimenopause, and the mental load women carry as they navigate motherhood and their careers. This episode breaks down important discussions around: The impact of perimenopause and postpartum changes on sexual health. How to improve communication with y...

Oct 03, 202441 minSeason 1Ep. 171

Could AI Help You Be a Better Parent? With Sam Gardner and Chloe Picot-Jacobs from Happy Pillar

In this episode of the Modern Mommy Doc podcast, Dr. Whitney sits down with Sam Gardner, CEO and co-founder of Happypillar , and Chloe Picot-Jacobs, Clinical Director of the app, to discuss an innovative approach to parenting that blends technology and evidence-based strategies. Happypillar is designed to help parents tackle common behavioral challenges in children aged 2 to 7, using techniques from Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT), enhanced by AI for accessibility and scalability. Dr. Wh...

Sep 26, 20241 hrSeason 1Ep. 170

Turning Tragedy into Triumph: Heather Salazar’s Mission with Pink Ribbon Good

In this heartfelt and inspiring episode of the Modern Mommy Doc podcast, Dr. Whitney is joined by Heather Salazar, President and CEO of Pink Ribbon Good (PRG). Heather shares her deeply personal journey, from adopting a baby girl whose mother battled breast cancer to her own cancer diagnosis, and how these experiences led her to start PRG—a nonprofit organization providing essential services to families affected by breast and gynecological cancers. This week's podcast and newsletter are brought ...

Sep 19, 202442 minSeason 1Ep. 169

How to Get Your Toddler, Kid, OR Teen to Sleep Way Better with Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown

In this episode, Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown, a sleep medicine expert, joins the Modern Mommy Doc podcast to discuss restful sleep for kids AND their parents. She and Dr. Whitney explore the challenges toddlers, kids, and teenagers face in getting enough sleep and the impact it has on their mental health. Dr. Brown emphasizes the importance of consistency, routines, and creating a sleep-friendly environment for better sleep. She also addresses the use of melatonin and sleep aids, recommending that b...

Sep 12, 202442 minSeason 1Ep. 168

How to Help Your Kids to Stop Freaking Out with Carla Naumburg

Summary In this episode, Dr. Whitney interviews Carla Naumburg about her new book, ' How to Stop Freaking Out: The Ultimate Guide to Keeping Cool When Life Feels Chaotic .' It's a book for kids all about learning to manage overwhelming emotions. They also talk about the importance of self-compassion and normalizing the experience of losing control. The book provides practical tips and techniques for both kids and parents to regulate their emotions and navigate difficult moments. Takeaways Losing...

Sep 05, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 167

The State of Maternal Support Report with Lalaina Rabary From Momcozy

May 15, 2024, Momcozy released its annual State of Maternal Support Report shedding light on whether Millennials and Gen Z feel supported in motherhood. The new study surveyed 1,187 pregnant and new moms to reveal that 67% of moms wished for more emotional support and more assistance with childcare or household tasks while 46% craved more social connections. Listen in as Momcozy's Lalaina Roberts talks more about what the Report found, and why it matters so much for working women. For more, go t...

Aug 15, 202434 minSeason 1Ep. 166

Is Your Kid a Different Thinker? with Yael Rothman and Katia Fredrickson

In this episode, Dr. Whitney discusses Different Thinkers: ADHD with authors Katia Frederickson and Yael Rothman. The episode focuses on ways parents can support their children if they have ADHD, and on the power of understanding your wiring as a child. They talk about their backgrounds as pediatric neuropsychologists and the importance of understanding brain behavior relationships. They also discuss the accessibility and cost of evaluations and the need for resources to help children understand...

Aug 08, 202445 minSeason 1Ep. 165

Cut the Fluff: Why Clutter Isn't Just Stealing Your Time, It's Also Adding to Your Mental Load

In this episode, Dr. Whitney Casares discusses the reasons why we feel cluttered, such as the chaotic pace of life, the feeling of control that clutter gives us, and the outward sign of an inside problem. She also talks about the importance of decluttering and how it can lead to more freedom, time, and space. Dr. Whitney provides practical tips for decluttering both our physical and mental spaces. For more, go to www.modernmommydoc.com/podcast...

Jul 25, 202414 minSeason 1Ep. 164

The Harm of Childhood Trauma and the Hope of Resilience with Marc Hauser

In this episode, Dr. Mark Hauser, author of Vulnerable Minds: The Harm of Childhood Trauma and the Hope of Resilience , discusses the impact of childhood trauma and the importance of understanding adverse childhood experiences (ACEs). He introduces the concept of the five T's framework (type, timing, tenure, turbulence, and toxicity) to understand how to respond to them and highlights the need for professionals and parents to be trauma-informed and aware of how childhood trauma can affect parent...

Jul 11, 202440 minSeason 1Ep. 163

What To Do When You Sign Your Kid Up for Soccer...And Now They Don't Want to Play

Parenting is a journey filled with countless decisions, especially when it comes to encouraging our kids to try new activities and experiences. For those of us with neurodivergent children, these decisions can be even more complex. In this episode, I share my personal experiences and challenges in helping my own child to try new activities, and offer detailed insights and actionable advice for parents facing similar challenges.

Jun 20, 202419 minSeason 1Ep. 162

How to Not Pass Your Body Image Issues Onto Your Kids

Dr. Whitney gets personal on this episode talking about body image, weight, and the world’s standards of health. She talks about why it’s so hard for women to have a positive body image even in the movement of body positivity and how we can help break that cycle for our kids. For more on this episode, go t o www.modernmommydoc.com/podcast .

May 30, 202417 minSeason 1Ep. 161
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