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The Messy Inbetween

Hosts - Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M. This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy. In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey. #tmipodcastke #themessyinbetween #itsmessedup Instagram handles - @tmipodcast_ @_lydiakm @murugi.munyi Get in touch with us - [email protected]
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Episodes

I knew the friendship was over when...💔 - Ep 95

Friendship heartbreaks can leave you wrecked ❤️‍🩹 and no one's ever really ready for it. Today, we're looking at examples of how people knew their friendships were over so that we can all learn about what to look out for. How did you know your friendship was over and how did you deal with it? Tell us in the comments below👇🏽 . . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https:...

May 10, 20231 hr

Ask Us Anything- Q& A Episode | Situationships, ghosting, long-distance marriages and more - Ep 94

We love catching up with you guys and sharing some updates so grab your cup of joe☕ (or whatever else you like) and sit with us, as we answer your questions about life, love, and everything in between. P.S. - If you don't want to miss out on our next Q&A session follow us on our socials!👇🏽 that's where all the fun is at.😉 Episode references about Dating as a single mom:- TMI's episode - https://youtu.be/Qz28jSuPM14 Murugi Munyi's episode - https://youtu.be/iNflk6B8A6o If you have more to ...

May 03, 202359 min

WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏾 | RELATIONSHIP EDITION - Ep 93

Back again with another episode of 'What Women Really Want' and this time, we are talking about relationships.👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏾 We have not because we ask not. Have we settled for the idea that we simply can’t have what we REALLY want that’s we aren’t even asking? It's time to make peace with the fact that no man can read your mind Susan...👀 so grab your boo and a notebook too📓, and let's get down to it! If you have more to add, drop a comment below! . . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more...

Apr 26, 202354 min

Things people are pretending to like👀...but no one really does! - Ep 92

You've got to be dreaming if you expect us to keep up with this act! We are calling out all the things that we all pretend to like because in the year of our Lord 2023 and ain't nobody got time for that!🙅🏽‍♀️ If you have more to add, drop a comment below!👇🏾 . . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https:...

Apr 19, 202358 minEp. 92

Sexuality and Gender Identity Featuring Chris Muriithi - Ep 91

We'll be the first to admit that we don't always have the answers to everything, but we want to learn, so we had Chris Muriithi ( They/Them) over to talk about a conversation that is as important to us as it should be to you. Sit with us as we explore the nuances of sexuality and gender identity and what it means to us as individuals, friends, sisters, mothers, and members of society because, at the end of the day, all we want to do is lead with love❤️ YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtu...

Apr 12, 202356 min

What Women REALLY Want | The Bedroom Edition - Ep 90

Get 40% off Beducated this month! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: http://beducate.me/bg2315-tmipodcast COUPON CODE: TMIPODCAST We know there’s what women say we want but is that REALLY want we want? 👀 Let’s talk about it! There's nothing as sexy as communication between the sheets so we're taking the lead with this one by listing down all the things that we really need to hit that spot. 💦 No more holding back or second-guessing our needs. We're being raw, honest, and messy so strap in and take notes!📝 ...

Apr 05, 202353 min

More Things We're Unlearning | Part Two - Ep 89

We're back with the second part of the "Things We're Unlearning" episode, and just like last time we have a lot we need to unpack...😮‍💨Come and sit with us as we keep going through the things that we are unlearning and redefining, have an open mind and heart, and let's grow together!🤗 . . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=...

Mar 29, 20231 hr 4 min

Things we’ve had to unlearn: Beliefs and habits that gotta go!🚪 - Ep 88

One thing about growth is unlearning a lot of what you thought served you, and to be honest, it's not that fun😬. Sit with us as we do some soul-searching and figure out what beliefs no longer serve us because just like everyone else, we're always going to be we are a work in progress😊 . . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=c...

Mar 22, 20231 hr 6 min

An Inbetweener Once Said... | Y'all really had a lot to say👀 - Ep 87

One thing about y’all is that you’ll always have something to say and we're all here for it.🤩 From heartfelt advice to brutal honesty, this episode has it all, so strap in as we go through your thoughts on what we've been talking about lately. . . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_...

Mar 15, 20231 hr 3 min

Womanhood Experience | The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly- Ep 86

It's International Women's day👭🏽, and although women deserve to be celebrated every day, we are really happy to have a day just for us. 🤗 In this episode, we're talking about all the amazing (and not-so-amazing🙄) things that come with being a woman. so feel free to add your pointers in the comment section below👇🏽! Remember to flex a little today sis💪🏼! You totally deserve to . . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/U...

Mar 08, 202359 min

Hey Big Sisters 🙋🏽| Inbetweener Dilemmas | Ep 85

The big sisters are back with another long-awaited dilemma episode, so scooch on over and let's talk about it because it's definitely TMI!😉 This week's episode is filled with a lot of bombastic side-eye 👀 moments that had us reeling, but one thing about us is that we never judge and we'll always keep it real! Remember, you can always open up and send over your dilemmas on our social media platforms for a feature (or a private response if you'd like to keep it on the down low🤫.) We got you boo...

Mar 01, 20231 hr 10 min

Birthdays🥳- The good, the bad and the ugly - Ep 84

Our birthdays are next week and one thing about us is that we are going to celebrate🥳 but if you've been keeping up with us, you know that things are going to be a little different this year. We sat down to talk about the good, bad, and ugly things that come with birthdays. Age anxiety, pressure, time with family, a celebration of growth, mourning loss and so much more. How do you usually feel around your birthday? . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - h...

Feb 22, 202353 min

We're too old for this s%!t.’🙄| Epd 83

Ever had those moments where you're like, ‘I'm too old for this s%!t.’🙄 Well prepare to feel validated! Sit with us as we talk about those low vibrational moments that you just 👏🏽can’t 👏🏽even 👏🏽with anymore! What’s the one thing that you're just too old for? Tell us in the comments below!👇🏾 . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?...

Feb 15, 202359 min

Valentines' Day is CANCELLED??!! | Ep 82

Get 50% off Beducated and improve your intimacy in 2023! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: http://beducate.me/bg2302-tmipodcast It's the season of love and the pressure is getting worse-r!😮‍💨 Sit down with us as we navigate the different points of view that people are going to have this Valentines'. There's lots of laughter, lots of clownery, and tidbits that you can use to connect deeper with your partner...and get head.😏 Speaking of head... Whether you are expecting something special from your partner ...

Feb 08, 202355 min

Kingbetweeners Contribute🤴🏽| Red Flags That Men Should Look Out For In Women |Epd 81

Ladies, it’s time to take several seats because the men are talking, and oooh chile! they really had a lot to say! 😅 A lot of what we talk about today will have you serving side eye 👀but let's be honest, this is the feedback that we don’t want but we definitely need, so take notes📓 . . . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=...

Feb 01, 20231 hr 2 min

Social Media Real Talk | The Good, The Bad and The Ugly | Episode 80

We've been able to build a career in the social media space, ( something that still gives us 'pinch me I'm dreaming moments😊' ) and even though we absolutely love what we do, we have to admit that being as open and honest on social media as we are may come with its downsides.😬 Join us today as we talk about all the good, bad, and ugly bits that come with choosing to be online both as a content creator and a content consumer. . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Pod...

Jan 25, 20231 hr 21 min

An Inbetweener once said |Tons of love, tons of unpopular opinions | Y’all don’t hold back 😄 |Ep 79

It's time for 'An Inbetweener Once Said' and this time, y'all didn't hold back! 👀 We love getting feedback from you and we love that you don’t shy away from addressing your thoughts and opinions. Just like usssss! 🤩Whether you’re hating or showing love, we appreciate the engagement. In 2023 though, we want to encourage you to disagree without the hate. It never has to be brutal or mean. Our community is all about love 💙 And if you’ve never left a comment, let this be the episode. Even a small...

Jan 18, 20231 hr 12 min

Less Diets, More Pleasure | What You Need To Tweak To Hit Your Peak💦 |Epd 78

Get 40% off Beducated and improve your intimacy in 2023! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: http://beducate.me/bg2301-tmipodcast COUPON CODE: TMIPODCAST It's time to stop half-assing things when it comes to pleasure. We all deserve to hit the peaks over and over and over... 💦 In this episode, we're doing a little introspection into the things that often keep us from getting there; be it how we talk to ourselves, the quality of the experiences that we seek, and, the most obvious aspect, communication. It tak...

Jan 11, 20231 hr 2 min

Setting our 2023 Intentions | It's Going To Be One Hell Of A Ride🤩 | Episode 77

The arrival of a new year brings a new opportunity to reevaluate, reinvent and rewrite our stories. Since this exercise made an impact on how we approached the last 365 days, we thought we'd do it again!🤩 Just like last time, we broke it down into self, relationship, family, wealth career, and health and sat down together to catch up on how far we've come and what we now look forward to. Have you set your new year intentions? What aspects of your life are you prioritizing? let us know in the co...

Jan 04, 20231 hr 9 min

Taking Stock | Reviewing our 2022 goals | Epd 76

Christmas has just gone by and the new year's inching closer, so what better time to take stock than in this limbo period where no one ever really knows what time or date it is? ( Seriously though, what day is it today?) We were ambitious in the goals we set last year and we'll be even more ambitious this year because if 2022 has taught us one thing, it's that with intention and hard work, everything has a knack of working out. We hope you enjoy today's episode, and are as gracious and forgiving...

Dec 28, 20221 hr 11 min

Sister Sister! The Christmas Episode| 'We miss the good old days' | 🎄Episode 75

Christmas is finally here and with it comes memories (some beautiful and others painful), frustrations, and expectations. In this episode, we sat down with our sisters to explore all of that. Join us as we talk about the nuances of navigating Christmas as an adult and figure out what the holidays mean to each of us. Let’s chat in the comments. . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Pod...

Dec 21, 202249 min

Understanding and embracing your kinks | Episode 74

Although conversations around pleasure are moving into the mainstream space, there's no denying that it is, more often than not, daunting to explore. In this episode, we weigh in on the different types of kinks that exist, shouting out those that we love and, hopefully, encouraging you to tap into your inner freak! This episode is proudly sponsored by Beducated., an online platform that helps you get more WOW between the sheets! They offer unique libraries of 80+ online courses of both visual an...

Dec 14, 20221 hr 2 min

Unspoken truths about the holiday season 🎄| Episode 73

The holidays are coming up and we know this is a joyous season for so many. However, there are many unspoken truths about this season that we wanted to talk about. Working on holidays, mismatches expectations, divorced home dynamics or grieving loss is part of the holidays for some this season. It can also be a triggering and sad time for many. If that’s you, do what you can to take it easy and do this season the best way you can. You’re seen and heard. 💙 . . Enjoy the listen and follow us for ...

Dec 07, 202256 min

Mixing friend groups, avocado, and other things we can’t stand that people love 😩 | Episode 72

Social media can easily make you feel like ‘the other’ for what you don’t like but we all have things we don’t like that other people love. Even our national dish avocado has haters like Murugi!😅 Lydia doesn’t like coffee, the internationally beloved beverage. There are also more intimate things like mixing friends groups or watching people be embarrassed… despite what social media says, you can dislike whatever you want. What are some of the things you can’t stand that other people love? Lets ...

Nov 30, 202256 min

Lessons we have learned from heartbreak featuring Jules ❤️‍🩹| Episode 71

What comes in mind when you hear the word ‘BreakUp?’ Another sad story for most of us, right? The truth is, in most cases breakups are the darkest pits but also the lessons learnt thereafter can magically change your life and lead to a mindblowing self discovery. On this episode we sat with the amazing Jules as we unpacked some of our personal lessons we have learned through our breakups. We shed light on how to deal with red flags, understanding your attachment styles, dealing with loneliness a...

Nov 23, 20221 hr 15 min

Sex dilemmas! He won’t go down in me. Post pregnancy loving and more!… 🤯🤪

With constant information surrounding us on Sex/Intimacy from Porn, hype by friends, ratchet music, movies, magazines etc, it’s easy to get muddled up on what’s right or not for you! On this episode we tackled some of the dilemma questions you asked us. As the Big sisters we are, we shared an open and honest conversation. We shared the DOs, DONT’S, HOWs, WHENs and a lot more!😉 This episode is proudly sponsored by Beducated., an online platform that helps you get more WOW between the sheets! The...

Nov 16, 202256 minEp. 70

ADULTING…. Things they didn’t tell us! 🥲

We all had a picture of how our adulthood would turn out to be while growing up. We couldn’t wait to embrace the word ‘I am an Adult’ so bad to enjoy the rightful privilege denied to us when we were kids.. Mom/dad would tell us “wait until you become an adult “ and that sentence lived rent free in our heads as we eagerly built fascinating stories about the hood! On the reals, now that we are adults and the reality of it has downed on us, there are so many things we wished we knew/taught before t...

Nov 09, 20221 hr 15 minEp. 69

‘TRUST… but VERIFY’… and other things we learned from our Fathers | Episode 68

We did an episode on what our mothers told us a while ago and immediately there were a lot of requests for us to do this episode. Despite not having great relationships with our fathers we see how much we’ve learned from them. This episode was actually very therapeutic so thank you inbetweeners for suggesting it. Let us know in the comments some things that you’ve learned from your father. If this episode does feel triggered, give yourself permission to pause. Also, we finally did the no-make ep...

Nov 02, 20221 hr 4 min

Q&A Episode!🤩 The break up, our goals for TMI, content creation and so much more | Episode 67

Q&A episode!🤩 We asked you to shoot some questions on our Instagram page and as usual, we spilled the tea. From the break up to splitting bills and our goals for TMI! Thank you for the questions. Let’s chat in the comments 🤗 Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=...

Oct 26, 20221 hr 1 min

Toxic family members! 😭👀 | Episode 66

A highly requested topic! Many of us are dealing with at least one toxic family member. It can be incredibly tough to navigate because of all the meaning we place on family. Should you draw boundaries, black tax…where’s the line ? So many questions so we are sharing how we’ve been able to deal with some of our toxic family members. Tell us in the comments how you’ve been able to deal with toxic family members or are you the toxic family member ?😁 P.S. This is a sensitive issue and each person i...

Oct 19, 20221 hr 7 min
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