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The Messy Inbetween

Hosts - Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M. This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy. In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey. #tmipodcastke #themessyinbetween #itsmessedup Instagram handles - @tmipodcast_ @_lydiakm @murugi.munyi Get in touch with us - [email protected]
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Episodes

‘Not all women orgasm’ and other things we wish we knew about sex | Episode 65

Before we were the queens of the sex podcast 😄, we knew nothing at all. Nada! We thought orgasms came every two minutes, we thought porn could teach us about sex in real life and we thought that sexuality was black and white. Wrong! We have learned many things about sex on the years so we wanted to share as we debunk some of these misconceptions! This episode is proudly sponsored by Beducated. The Netflix of sexual wellness. A platform that helps you get more *wow* between the sheets! With over...

Oct 12, 20221 hr 5 min

My mother once told me…😍💙 | Episode 64

We both have close relationships with our mums. We listen to them very intently so you may have heard us drop little gems here and there that our mums have taught us over the years. From relationship advice to money and life in general so we thought to share them all here. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YouTube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM -...

Oct 05, 20221 hr 5 min

“It’s a girlfriend’s job to make her man happy” 👀 - Girlfriend duties | Episode 63

We’ve heard of wife duties but what are girlfriend duties?👀 Is it her job to make her man happy, stay looking good for him and give him the best sex? 😭Also, are these duties or they’re optional? Girlfriends of TMI…Let us know. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! YouTube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=co...

Sep 28, 202253 min

An Inbetweener once said…👀😭😂

We see pretty much every comment the inbetweeners post but we can’t always respond directly. We are going through some of your comments in this episode and sharing our remarks. Whether you disagree with us, you’re giving us feedback or you sharing a supportive comment, we appreciate every single one. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm...

Sep 21, 20221 hr

“It’s only cute to be a foodie if you’re slim”🙄 - Double standards we are sick of | Episode 61

From body size to gender based double standards, there are too many out here that we are simply tired of. Newsflash, women can own their successes, men can express their emotions and anyone can be foodie and it’s totally cute! Let us know in the comments the double standards that you’re sick of. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medi...

Sep 14, 20221 hr 2 min

I'm a 10 but...| Episode 60

We've dragged the whole town but what about US? What are some of the things that are really not a 10 in us? This one was tough to do but self introspection is key.😄 Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_m...

Sep 07, 20221 hr 5 min

Hey big sisters!🤩 Dilemma episode | Episode 59

We are back with another dilemma episode. We know it’s a fave. Every dilemma no matter how simple the answer may look can be very complicated for the person going through it. As per usual, help us advise the inbetweeners in the comments below with support and encouragement. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM ...

Aug 31, 202259 min

The TMI LIVE Experience 🤩 | Episode 58

3 weeks ago we had the time of our lives at the TMI Live experience to celebrate one year of TMI! We know so many of you couldn’t make it and we hope sharing this here allows you to feel like you were part of it, even if it’s only a little bit. We shared our life lessons and so did some inbetweeners. Lots of chat, lots of hugs, lots and fun. Thank you for the inbetweeners who made it. You made our year! Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtub...

Aug 24, 20221 hr 40 min

She’s a 10 but…👀😭 | Episode 57

Another one for the laughs!😂 You guys requested this one so who are we to not give it!! Whomst?! Have fun with it and let us know yours in the comments. 😁 Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=cop...

Aug 17, 202259 min

Hysterics cannot be the brand sis 😩😭 | Conflict resolution with bae | Episode 56

Ooo conflict resolution?!😭 Pull up a seat honey, we are learning! Conflict is normal but there are practices that can make it healthy or unhealthy. Do you shout, insult, dismiss, walk away..👀 Or are you calm, intently listening and empathetic? 🥰 We can all have a moment but making some bad habits a practice in conflict resolution can harbour long term resentment. What are your tips on healthy conflict resolution? Let’s chat in the comments. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! You...

Aug 10, 20221 hr 13 min

He’s a 5 but…👀😍 | Episode 55

Back again with another one! We are glad you’re loving this series. As mentioned in the previous episode in the series, this is is just for laughs. That’s it hun. Everyone is a 10 to someone okay?😄 Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https:/...

Aug 03, 20221 hr 2 min

“Not everyone likes to have sex”🤷🏾‍♀️ | Uncomfortable truths about sex | Episode 54

We love sex. Goes without saying 😅 but there are some truths we all need to get into! Not to make sex bad but to make it an honest experience. This episode is proudly sponsored by Beducated! The number 1 resource for sexual health and happiness. A platform designed to help you level up your love life by accessing online courses from the world’s top experts! You can access our landing page using this link below. http://beducate.me/bg2226-tmipodcast Use our code TMIPODCAST to get 40% off your ann...

Jul 27, 20221 hr 6 min

He’s a 10 but…👀| Episode 53

We have really been shaking tables in the last few episodes 😅 so today we are having some laughs! What are those things that can take a guy from a 10 to a 4. He lives with his mum, he cries every time you argue…😭 We came up with as many weird ones as possible. Let us know yours. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Ly...

Jul 20, 20221 hr 3 min

“You don’t have to love your body”🤚🏾🤷🏾‍♀️ | Unpopular opinions about the female body | Episode 52

We really did mean “uncomfortable truths“ but here we are. 😄 This episode is sponsored by beGirlKE. Their new website has officially launched. You can purchase the FitCup standard size and mini. You can also find so much helpful information on how to use your menstrual cup and FAQs. https://www.begirl.ke The female body is sooo scrutinized. But what are the truths around it? How much do we know about our bodies? Do we really have to love our bodies ? And why ? A lot to unpack. Enjoy the listen ...

Jul 13, 20221 hr 12 min

“Your partner will probably cheat on you”👀😩 - Uncomfortable truths about life | Episode 51

Deep breaths. This may be triggering but the truth is the truth. It’s safer and far more hopeful to go through life ignoring some of these uncomfortable truths and we definitely suggest you do but they has to be said. Will your partner cheat on you? Probably. Will we all be ‘successful’? No. Are all our parents good? No. But si ni life 😩 Do you agree with these uncomfortable truths and what are some others we missed? Let’s chat in the comments. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Y...

Jul 06, 202258 min

'Contraception is not just for whores' 👀 - Uncomfortable truths about family planning | Episode 50

We are always shouting about family planning but we know there are still some uncomfortable truths out there that we are still not ready to accept! This episode is in partnership with Marie Stopes! They are a network of caring professionals across Kenya delivering women’s wellness services. From pregnancy and maternity care to contraceptive and family planning. Uncomfortable truths are a major barrier to why a lot of people aren’t proactive about family planning. For example, ‘Family planning is...

Jun 29, 20221 hr 12 min

Things women do that 'turn us off' 😩🥴| Episode 49

We love women. A lot. But sometimes we really do some yucky things. Some of these are just our own icks but others are almost universal. From having a victim mentality to having that 'pick me' attitude. There are some things we just don't like that other women do. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://...

Jun 22, 202251 min

Things we love that women do 😍🥰🤩 | Episode 48

We love women and there’s plenty other women do that we love. In business, In friendships and even strangers. From how they approach us to how they are in their bag…there’s plenty to love. What are some things that women do that you love? Let’s chat in the comments. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https:...

Jun 15, 202254 min

Hey big sisters!👀😭 Dilemma episode | Episode 47

Another dilemma episode! Big sisters are here to help the best way we can. This is a sisterhood so we want you guys to also share your view on these dilemmas. Let’s chat in the comments. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.c...

Jun 08, 202251 min

Immediately no!🤮 Major turn offs | Episode 46

All turns off are valid. We said it. To be honest, you can help what gives you the ick! The yuck! The immediately no! We each shared our very specific and personal turn offs. From mama’s boy tendencies, smoking shisha 😅 and showing off… when you see what turns you off, you just know it. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_...

Jun 01, 202258 min

Girl Code 📝🔐 ft Over 25 | Episode 45

Finally! You guys have really been asking for this collabo and we finally did it. We had the ladies from Over 25 to chat about Girl code! We say there is a girl code but how does it play out in real life situations? Which ones are universal and which ones aren't? From keeping secrets from your man to dating each others siblings... what is your girl code? Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Over Twenty...

May 25, 202259 min

Come here dzaddy!😈🥵 Our biggest turns ons | Episode 44

Not everyday “leave sis!”, sometimes we stop and just drool over the sexy things men do. The way they drive, the way they dress, the way they pay that bill 😍😅 We all have what gets us going in our partners, what’s yours ? Not what makes is feel good but what gets yoi horny! Let’s chat in the comments. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?...

May 18, 202250 minEp. 44

Hey big sisters, hide my ID.. - Answering your dilemmas | Episode 43

We love that you guys trust us with what’s going on with your lives. this episode is all about that. We get quite a lot of dilemmas so we wanted to do an episode so we can help some Queenbetweeneers together. From dilemmas about boundaries to dating… we can all use a little advice in the messy inbetween. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke...

May 11, 202251 min

Life in different sizes! | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 42

From childhood to adulthood, we have both been in nearly the same body sizes we are now and that has definitely affected how we go through life. From relationships, to confidence to our relationship with food and health. To the daily things that maybe none of us ever considered about the other. It was an enlightening conversation for both us. We may not represent the extreme of either size but we shed some light on how our bodies have affected our walk through life. Enjoy the listen and follow u...

May 04, 202257 min

Help! The passion is gone!😢 | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 41

Sometimes for many reasons the passion in any relationship can deplete. You love each other but you’ve become a little disconnected. If that’s something you’re experiencing, we are here to help and so is Beducated! Beducated is an online course platform with easy-to-follow video, audio, and written guides which provide techniques and information to level-up your love life. http://beducate.me/bg2215-tmipodcast Tap link to try ALL Beducated courses for 1 day FREE! You can also get 65% your yearly ...

Apr 27, 20221 hr

Dating as a single mum | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 40

One of the most requested episodes! Dating is already ghetto hood but having a child in the process adds another complexity. Murugi was a single mum for a while and Lydia was raised by a single mum. We each shared our views from those perspectives. How long should you wait to date? When is it okay to introduce someone to your kids? What are the great parts about dating as a single mum? Single mums or children of single mums… what’s your dos and don’ts? Any tips that have helped ease the process ...

Apr 20, 202255 min

Cheating is DEFINITELY a deal breaker! Or is it?👀| TMI Podcast KE | Episode 39

Deal breakers in relationships! I think it’s always very easy to say what would make you walk away until you’re faced with it. However, it’s good to have some sure limits in mind to safe guard you. Cheating? Substance abuse? Intentionally leaking your nudes ? Tell me when it’s the one.😄 Everyone has their own and we are not judging. Most people proclaim their deal breakers publicly but kwa ground vitu ni different 👀 What are your deal breakers? Have you ever left someone for that? Let’s chat i...

Apr 13, 202254 min

Feeling uninspired?! Try this! | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 38

The hype of the new year is over and maybe the year so isn’t as life changing as you hoped it would be. But it’s not over. it’s only just beginning. If you’re in a rut, the idea is to hit refresh instead of giving up. We can all get a little run down but to ace the whole year, you need to pause, breathe and try again. Are you in rut? how’s your year so far? Let’s chat in the comments. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fV...

Apr 06, 20221 hr 1 min

Are we actually in Bridgerton? 👀 | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 37

This episode is sponsored by Netflix. Watch Bridgerton season 2 out now! Bridgeton has the teaaaaa! Although it’s set hundreds of years ago we can see so many themes that still exist today which we definitely have an opinion about. From how there is still a double standard on hoeing - men are almost encouraged but woman are forbidden… have you seen that anywhere else!👀 Or how women have an expiry date when it comes to marriage but men don’t! You can see where we are going with this. Definitely ...

Mar 30, 202258 min

Why your man won’t open up to you | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 36

Let’s chat about it sis! Men being vulnerable with us and the world is not the norm. Partly because of their own struggles but also we might play a part. If your man cries to you, how do you feel ? How do you react ? Do you hold space for him ? When he shows anger, how do you respond? The same way we say that we love it when our men hold space for us, men just might want the same hun. We sat down with the amazing Shiv Simani to unpack men’s vulnerability to the world and to their partners. He to...

Mar 23, 202247 min
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