Relationships are made a lot harder by the amount of misconceptions we are fed. Every relationship is different so how are all the rules the same ?👀 We have probably left whole relationships because they didn’t match these “lies”. So let’s unpack.. is there “the one?”, it real love easy? Is fighting wrong?? Sis, Issa lot. What we choose to believe definitely shape how you’re showing up to your relationships so at the very least, assess why you think what you do. What do you think? Are these tru...
Mar 16, 2022•55 min
It’s you we are talking to. Come back here!😂 Sex should be free and exactly how you want it to be but we can all agree that that there are some things that no partner is really enjoying. Eg - just laying there inactive. We wanted to share some DON’Ts during sex to remind us that we are active participants. We admit that we are guilty of some of these things ourselves but we are striving to do better. Which ones are you guilty of? Be honest. 👀 Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Yo...
Mar 09, 2022•49 min
It’s our birthday week! Murugi turns 32 today and Lydia turns 31 tomorrow. As we celebrate our birthdays with excitement and positive anticipation, we know that’s not always the case when you’re turning a year older. Sometimes birthdays can be a loud reminder of your shortcomings, they can reflect your loneliness or lack of fulfillment. Other times it’s just pure dread. We wanted to unpack age anxiety - why it happens, if we’ve experienced it and how to navigate if you’re feeling that way. Have ...
Mar 02, 2022•57 min•Ep. 33
This episode is inspired by a video we came across on Instagram. There are so many of these “facts“ that are shared about women or relationships that usually go without comment but this one really inspired conversation. These facts are designed to be some guide for women to understand men while dealing with them but are they actually true, let alone “facts“? Will men do anything for the woman they love? Should women give second chances? This is our take. What’s yours? Do you agree with these poi...
Feb 23, 2022•55 min
Our first Q&A episode!🥳 We arr always chatting on DMs but we wnates do so an episode answering all your questions. We loved them all! Are we dating? Do we fight? What is the age difference between us and our partners? We also loved the personal dilemmas. We hope this helped you get to know us a little better. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tm...
Feb 16, 2022•38 min
Ladies! 🗣Single is the default. Our society is so obsessed with relationships to the point that you are made to feel weird when you're single. Although we are both in partnerships, we had a fantastic time single. We enjoyed our season of single and lived it to the fullest. We always say that if you're not happy single, that's the you you’re taking into a relationship. So here are some things we did in order to have a full and happy time as single ladies. It looks different for everyone so pleas...
Feb 09, 2022•39 min•Ep. 27
The Alpha female. Who is she? What defines her? There’s so much conversation around what it means to be an alpha female and we wanted to sit down and unpack it all. We both fit the definition of the alpha female and we invited Kitt Kiarie who is also an alpha to share our experiences walking in these shoes. Do we like it? What are the challenges? What are the misconception? It was an enlightening conversation to say the least. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast...
Feb 02, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 30
The self love trend is here. But what does it even mean to love yourself? Do I love myself because I love the soft life? There’s just so many narratives around self love so we wanted to have a conversation about what it really means to love yourself, how we can practice self love and the things that hold us back from truly loving ourselves. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE...
Jan 26, 2022•54 min
New year, new things, new journeys! As long as you’re willing to try new things you are likely to stumble on rejection. A new relationship, a new job, a new friendship - they can all come with a “NO!” Naturally, rejection feels awful but we can’t allow it to determine our forever. On today’s episode we share our experiences with rejection, how we navigated through it and tips on how you can too. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/ch...
Jan 19, 2022•46 min
We are starting a new year and if you listened to us and left that dusty man in 2021, then you may just be ready for your first date!😁 If we are honest, a lot of our ghetto relationships were probably giving us signs from the first date. So this episode is all about the etiquette to make sure you are putting your best foot forward but also making sure you’re not being sold short! From sex on the first date, who pays for the bill and the mentality we need to date with. We spill the tea on our fi...
Jan 12, 2022•49 min•Season 2Ep. 27
Hey inbetweeners! Happy New Year! Welcome to our first episode of the year! We're chatting about things we want for the new year and our resolutions to help us get there! Most resolutions are broken before February but that has never stopped us. Starting the year with intention can be very powerful in helping you clarify how you want to direct your year. We shared our love, self, health, wealth, career and family resolution. We wish you an incredible year ahead and I hope you are able to direct ...
Jan 05, 2022•43 min•Season 1Ep. 25
And just like that, 2021 is coming to an end. As we start a new one we wanted to share what we are leaving in 2021. From songs, to habits to trends. We want 2022 to be fresh and new so some of things just can't come with us. Some people and places can't come with you either sis. Maybe your man can't either hun. Only you know what kind of 2022 you want so check in and see what needs to be dropped. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/c...
Dec 29, 2021•45 min•Season 2Ep. 24
What a year it’s been? The year we started TMI, first and foremost!😄 It’s also been a year of many highs but also some lows. We wanted to have a sit down to have a frank conversation of how the year went. From family to health to relationships. Sometimes our minds only remembers the extremes, so sitting down to review each area of life to see what was great and what wasn’t allows you to actually see the truth of the year. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE ...
Dec 15, 2021•45 min
It’s not break up season we swear!! But since we talked about how to know when it’s over, we thought we offer some support on what to do if you do break up. We have all been through a break up. They suck. Nothing will change that! But there are some things you can do to make the ghetto a little less ghetto! Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcas...
Dec 08, 2021•1 hr
Before accepting that your relationship is over…it takes time. But whether you like it or not, eventually there comes a point of no return and you are left with no option. We thought we share our personal non negotiables. The things that we believe are obvious signs that the relationship is over or at least it needs to be. What are some things that let you know that it’s time to break up? Let us know in the comments. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - http...
Dec 01, 2021•1 hr 1 min
One of the most overused word in 2021 but a necessary one. We have touched on boundaries before we wanted to do a full episode so we ca share our personal experiences with boundaries and the long ghetto road to learning how to enforce them. Boundaries also have a very bad reputation as most people see them as barriers. We wanted to change that narrative into a positive one. Boundaries are for you and for others in your relationships. We share examples in the workplace, family, relationships and ...
Nov 24, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 20
Money money moooneeyyyy! We are always talking about securing the bag but what happens after the you secure it? What are our money habits and are they they helping us get and stay rich? On this week's episode we share how we are TRYING to have better money habits and the things that have helped. Major disclaimer... we are also very much students in this game so we are also learning. From learning to budget to planning purchases...many things can help us keep our money growing and working for us....
Nov 17, 2021•56 min•Season 2Ep. 19
We are always complaining about how our partners are... what our exes did...how hard done by we have been... what about us? Are we present in our relationships? Are we putting in effort to to be the best partners we can be? This episode is an honest conversation about how we have learnt to be better partners. We also share the ways we weren't at some point. Being unkind, not taking accountability of our experiences... we have been in the hood. But now as we are evolving as women, it's good to lo...
Nov 10, 2021•57 min
After last week's very triggering episode (check out "Episode 16 - How to know your partner is cheating" if you haven't), we are on the other side of the spectrum this week. How to know you have found or you are with 'the one'. We appreciate that 'the one' means different things to everyone. We also know that the one may not be this 'soul mate' but it is the one who aligns with you in a healthy way and you are both committed to each other. That said, we will are using 'the one' for the purposes ...
Nov 03, 2021•55 min
Disclaimer - Each of these things separately aren't necessarily red flags but a couple of them together probably are. Cheating is a constant conversation and a lot of the times the person who is being cheated on is the last to know. We have both been cheated on and we have both cheated so we know what it's like from both sides. It is obviously devastating to be cheated on but better to know than not to. We shared some of the signs that confirmed that we were being cheated on and what do once you...
Oct 27, 2021•1 hr
Sexual confidence!!! Knowing you deserve pleasure, owing your right to have it and freely enjoying that right. We know that women especially are conditioned to dim this part of their identity and it's rarely talked about. On this episode we shared out journey, our obstacles and ultimately the defining factors that helped us build our sexual confidence. Where you do you feel you fall on the spectrum of sexual confidence? Do you feel shame? Are you somewhere in between? This episode is in collabor...
Oct 20, 2021•56 min•Season 2Ep. 15
It’s here guys! Our first collaboration! And it’s with the best in the biz 🤩 If you don’t know , get out from under your rock and go check their channel out. But first watch this video so you know what to expect 😂 In this testosterone + oestrogen balanced episode, we ask each other why women/men do what they do… and the responses are.. memorable. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Po...
Oct 13, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Season 2Ep. 14
Hey guys! Today we decided to do something different! You guys are constantly sending us questions about our lives, the podcast, content creation and careers, our friendships and relationships and so much more and in this video, we answer them ALL! Even the uncomfortable ones :) We hope you enjoy listening to this as much as we enjoyed shooting it! For daily updates or to connect with us, follow our socials: Lydia KM - https://www.instagram.com/_lydiakm/ Murugi Munyi - https://www.instagram.com/...
Oct 06, 2021•52 min•Ep. 13
The body of a woman! It goes through so many changes but we hardly ever see them coming. There are so many myths around our bodies that are simply not true. On this episode we each share our journey with our bodies and talk about some of the things we wish we knew as we transitioned into womanhood. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_m...
Sep 29, 2021•53 min
Work work work! One thing we both stand for is the importance of hard work! We have both worked in the corporate world and in the self employment world and along the way we have picked up a lot of lessons from office politics to knowing your value!!! All workplaces are different but the principles are the same. Here as some of the things we wish we knew. Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: ...
Sep 22, 2021•55 min•Season 2Ep. 11
Episode 10!!! Moving in with a partner whether a boyfriend or a husband comes with a lot! From making that decision, to the planning, to actually moving in... A lot!! Then there are the expectations vs reality when it comes to the day to day issues. From petty fights to getting used to their weird habits, it takes a lot of getting used to. On this episode we discuss our why we chose o move in with our partners when we did, what it's been like and what we have learnt so far. Enjoy the listen and ...
Sep 15, 2021•54 min•Season 2Ep. 10
We are officially in season 2! Thank you guys for sticking with us this long.. we promise bigger and better as we grow! Today we start a new series... What We Wish We Knew... and today it's about our 20's. The ghettoest decade of them all. The season of life where we were trying to figure out careers, love, parenting (for Murugi). and everything in the messy in-between! Not to say that we have figured them out now that we are in our 30's but damn, at least we're somewhere and now we're confident...
Sep 08, 2021•33 min•Season 2Ep. 1
We are sorry there was no episode last week. Murugi wasn't well but she is great now. Thank you for the well wishes. Episode 8 - end of Season 1! - The last of the "unspoken rules of.." series and we are ending with 'unspoken rules of dating!!!' Dating in this age has been said to be an extreme sport. Extreme!!! So we share some of the rules we believe can ease the process. From managing sexpectations to dating as the interviewer not the interviewee...! These rules are a result of a lot of our o...
Sep 01, 2021•44 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Episode 7!!🥳🥳🥳 Disclaimer - Sex should be as free and uninhibited as possible and by all means, you are not weird if you are not following ours. These are the unspoken rules that create a safe environment for us! Because even with freedom... surely we cannot just run riot! 😄 From no farting to 'slap me but not too hard'... we all have some! Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content! Youtube: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Instagram: TMI Podcas...
Aug 18, 2021•41 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Situationships!! The gherro we all know!!!! He is not your man but you are in it like he is. You are not just friends but you're not in a relationship! Why do we even do this to ourselves?!!! We discussed the unspoken rules of this entanglements just in case you're thinking about getting into one or you are in one. Hopefully these save one of two babes from entering the RED ZONE aka catching feelings and wanting more when he doesn't! Let us know some other unspoken rules. Enjoy the listen and fo...
Aug 11, 2021•37 min
