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The Luella Jonk Show

Dr. Luella Jonk, PhDredcircle.com

From the therapy room of a registered psychotherapist, dating coach and solopreneur who has tirelessly attempted a 'healthy' work-life balance for 25 years, it rarely existed for me and likely does not for most business owners, entrepreneurs and executives. The truth is relationships can really suffer. I will be interviewing expert guests who are doing things right so we can all learn to mix business with pleasure. Topics will range from building better relationships, connection, dating, and how to spread more kindness and compassion towards others while doing so. Listeners, you have the right to have passion surrounding your work while maintaining passionate relationships. You can have your cake and eat it too. New episodes premiere every Tuesday.

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Episodes

The Real Truth About Aging and Weight Gain with Elizabeth Resnick

I just had to get Elizabeth back on the show to bust more myths about weight gain, especially concerning aging. It all comes down to people making excuses or in other words, choosing REASONS over RESULTS. We can tell many stories about why you feel your body is different. You have unique tastes, preferences, and variances in DNA, but ultimately, that may account for 20% (at most) of the differences. So, where does the remaining 80% of your body composition stem from? Lifestyle choices, baby! Eli...

Nov 28, 202353 minSeason 2Ep. 103

Solo Episode - The Best Ways To Make Sure Your Relationship Does Not Last

In today’s solo episode, I do a fun take on all the things we should do if we want to sink the relation-SHIP. The best way to solve any disaster is prevention. Just like in health, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure; it is no different in relationships. In business, it is called reverse engineering. In medicine, it is called functional medicine. In psychology, it is called inversion thinking. So, I will coin my own phrase related to relationship woes; “A drop in expectations is wort...

Nov 21, 202347 minSeason 2Ep. 102

Why Switching to Decaf is a Good Idea with Chad Polski

As someone who drinks a lot of decaf coffee, it is important to know I am only ingesting quality ingredients when I drink, especially my coffee. Drinking coffee is a ritual I want to continue doing, which is why I decided to seek out the truth. Chad Polski is the owner of Blue Spruce Decaf Coffee Co., and his passion is roasting organic arabica, chemical-free decaf coffee. As a young Dad, working full time and doing ‘all the things’ Chad noticed his anxiety was peaking. He also realized that his...

Nov 14, 202339 minSeason 2Ep. 101

Celebrating my 100th Episode With Melanie Ann Layer of Alpha Femme!!

As a special celebration of my 100th recording of I Think, I Can, I couldn’t think of a more suitable guest than Melanie. She truly embodied the idea of I think…Thus, I Can. Melanie has been my most powerful mentor to date regarding women’s emotional intelligence, business mindset, and setting powerful standards on placing value on Self. As a mentee of hers, I can honestly say she has changed my life in incredibly meaningful ways. I now pass this same knowledge on to my own clients, and so the r...

Nov 07, 20231 hr 7 minSeason 1Ep. 100

The Role Reassurance Plays In Saving Your Relationship With John Gray

I am so excited to have John Gray back for a second time on my podcast! In today’s episode, I ask Dr. Gray to define the terms masculine and feminine energy and the importance of balancing these energy types between couples. I further inquired about his views on why marriages are not being maintained and divorce rates continue to soar. We also discuss what couples should concentrate on to build and maintain a closer connection. John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relations...

Oct 31, 20231 hr 12 minSeason 1Ep. 99

Solo Episode - Love The One You’re With

Conflict is inevitable in any relationship. In fact, if you don’t have conflict, I would question the integrity of the relationship. Conflict means passion and a zest for life. However, when couples experience conflict, they often feel they are failing or doing something wrong. In this episode, I dissect the most common areas of communication breakdown and the analogies of what it takes to create success in your business to bring in some good examples of strong communication and leadership skill...

Oct 24, 202346 minSeason 1Ep. 99

Cassie Howard Speaks to the Woman Who Dreams of Owning Her Own Business

I had a great interview with Cassie Howard, a well-known intuitive business strategist and money mentor (Yes, please). In this podcast episode, you will get to know Cassie more on a personal level and not just another business coach. What attracted me the most to Cassie is that she believes in you as a client; that is, you can be, do, and have anything you want and need right now, and you can experience it in your own way. She strongly advocates for work ethic, staying power, taking big, bold mo...

Oct 17, 202354 minSeason 1Ep. 97

Solo Episode - Tying The Knot: The Most Important Decision in Your Life

Choosing your partner for life? Hello!! It can be arguably the most important decision of your lifetime. Who will be my lifelong partner? How do I know that for certain? Nothing is ever for certain in life – that is one thing I do know for certain!! But we can make decisions that will bring us greater clarity to make the best decision we can in the moment. That is all we can do. So, if I can understand a topic further, whether that is how to invest my money best or choose the best electric knife...

Oct 10, 202339 minSeason 1Ep. 96

Solo Episode - Don’t Let Your Trauma Become Your Never-Ending Drama

Today, I discuss what to do when you feel triggered in relationships. As children, we learn through patterning thoughts, leading to patterned outcomes. This makes us feel very comfortable because patterning leads to certainty. One plus one equals two. We know what to expect, so it removes any discomfort. As kids, we were also told to stop crying and were distracted in order to be happy, mainly because our parents wanted us to be happy so that they could be happy. Then life happens, and we realiz...

Oct 03, 202340 minSeason 1Ep. 95

Why Wait for a Miracle When Life’s Answers are Already There Within with Corin Grillo

I began my dark night of the soul over 1.5 years ago when I decided to give meditation a real go. I started listening to guided meditations and then sat contemplating each morning. My morning spiritual practice has varied, but it all comes back to deep reflection and going deeper within me. I now help my clients do the same because of the tremendous joy and peace it has brought to me. In today’s episode, I speak with a like-minded soul who has also made her passion for helping others once she he...

Sep 26, 202355 minSeason 1Ep. 94

Solo Episode - You Get To Make Mistakes and Still Be Liked!

Despite everyone from Oprah, your Gramma, and your daughter’s kindergarten teacher claiming how we need to love ourselves more, it is very apparent in my practice that we as a society have a lot of work to do around this topic. Many still beat themselves up because they feel terrible for doing the wrong thing. The bottom line is that nothing will change unless you practice forgiveness for yourself and others. You will be caught up in anger and resentment for a long time. The key to a joyful and ...

Sep 19, 202349 minSeason 1Ep. 93

Why Your Human Design Allows You To Be You with Amy Elizabeth

If there is one thing that has really made a difference in many people’s lives, it is me telling them that ‘You get to be you’. So many of my clients struggle with shame and guilt because they feel that they are not doing enough or being enough. Whether it is in how you run your business, your personal relationships, and even in your parenting style, being authentic and genuine in how you show up is so important. This is called being in alignment, and this is what the human design profiling syst...

Sep 12, 202355 minSeason 1Ep. 92

Solo Episode - Becoming Radically Responsible in Terms of What we Truly Believe About Ourselves and Others

Originally this was a live done on Facebook, but I felt it needed to become an episode so that everyone may feel less stressed in a world that often feels overwhelming – especially regarding personal development. Truth be told, self-growth and self-awareness develop through daily practice. What are you doing on a daily basis to grow, learn, and attain a higher sense of emotional intelligence? Little changes bring about big results. In the episode, I speak a lot about my favorite topics: Self-awa...

Sep 05, 202346 minSeason 1Ep. 91

A Client’s Journey Towards Self-Love and Using Prayer Intentionally

I had the privilege to interview a past client, Noordeep Kaur, whom I worked with to uncouple from both a physically and emotionally abusive marriage and show up for herself, her daughter, and her lineage in a way that will have a rippling effect in her East Indian culture as a whole. We get deep into her transformational journey from self-doubt to self-empowerment. The journey never ends, but it gets to be a journey of self-love and acceptance of who you as at the core of your human evolution. ...

Aug 29, 20231 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 90

Solo Episode - The Importance of Having Difficult Conversations, Prayer, and Going Inward Within the Human Experience

If you are someone that has been avoiding difficult conversations, forgot the power of having conversations with God, or tapped into spirituality, and know that you have been avoiding doing the inner work, this episode is for you! Please consider rating and reviewing this podcast, it would mean so much to me. Also, if you are interested in accessing my signature offer, which starts August 31, 2023, you can click this link: https://www.subscribepage.com/luellajonk_freedom If I Decide: Feeling the...

Aug 22, 202354 minSeason 1Ep. 89

Solo Episode - Belief, Decision, and Trusting our Intuition

Today I share my experience and what I have seen with my clients regarding our belief systems, what it truly means to believe, questioning what it means to believe, and showing up in a way that speaks to our true conviction on a topic. I also dive into what it truly feels like to trust your gut instincts and intuition and how important it is to practice this skill. For example, we always play with fear and intuition but often do not even know that this is what we are doing. How difficult it is t...

Aug 15, 202353 minSeason 1Ep. 88

Solo Episode - The July IG Live Extravaganza

In late July I did several Instagram Lives, which topics ranged from relationships, taking ownership of your behavior, what it truly means to be humble, and much more. Also, I announced my signature offer; a transformational journey to freedom of mind! Doesn’t that sound yummy? Most of my clients strive for peace of mind and freedom of choice, so I created this 12-week program. It is essentially what I led myself through in order to be more present and happier. You can learn more about this offe...

Aug 08, 202352 minSeason 1Ep. 87

How to Trust Again After a Betrayal with Jaclyn Shaw

If you are looking for a ‘How to’ methodology for coming back to trust again after being deeply hurt by betrayal, whether that be within an intimate partnership or any other relationship, this episode is NOT for you. You are not going to receive a protocol to follow. Instead, you will receive gentle guidance towards going within the depths of your soul, what it means to tap into intuition and wisdom, and what it means to come back into yourself. You can trust that this episode is one not to skip...

Aug 01, 20231 hrSeason 1Ep. 86

Solo Episode - Why I Decided to Start Intermittent Fasting Again

Most people start intermittent fasting for all the wonderful health benefits that come along with it, specifically insulin sensitivity and possibly shedding weight, and reducing inflammation. But that was not my sole reason to restart IF. The sole reason was to stop my little addiction, leverage the power of my mind, and call in Spirit to assist with this. For more in-depth information on intermittent fasting, listen to Episode 12, with Gin Stephens. https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/i-think...

Jul 25, 202341 minSeason 1Ep. 85

Solo Episode - Why Being Uncomfortable is Good for Your Soul

In this episode, I talk about the importance of getting used to being uncomfortable, whether it be because of a breakup, a death, or even external factors. Being in discomfort allows you to realize I will be okay. During this discomfort, you realize that you are capable of much more than you thought, AND this benefits everyone around you. For me, for you, for us… Relevant Links | Social Media: https://luellajonk.com/ https://www.instagram.com/luellajonk/ https://www.facebook.com/luella.jonk.7...

Jul 18, 202336 minSeason 1Ep. 84

Solo Episode - How Validation and Your Addiction to Therapy Can Keep You From Where You Want to Go

In this episode, I get truthful about why some of us stay stuck in the ‘my life sucks’ loop. For anyone who knows me, I don’t like to sugarcoat things. In the episode, I described how this was sometimes very difficult for me to be ME as a registered psychotherapist. There is a time and place when you are meant to move on from therapy to coaching. In this episode, I try to explain when and what that looks like and for who. I believe in people’s intelligence and power and remind them of this const...

Jul 11, 202354 minSeason 1Ep. 83

The Importance of Being in Alignment: A Physical and Mental Perspective with Dr. Nathalie Beauchamp

Today I remind you of the importance of caring for your ‘human’ from a physical perspective, which inevitably ties into your mental health. Dr. Nathalie Beauchamp is a chiropractor who works on your physical alignment to regulate your emotional well-being. Unless you do the deeper work of regulating your nervous system, it will be a matter of time before your body becomes physically misaligned. The only way to become truly aligned is through grounding ourselves energetically, emotionally, mental...

Jul 04, 20231 hrSeason 1Ep. 82

Make Money Your Thing with Kalee Boisvert

It was a complete pleasure to interview this vibrant powerhouse, Kalee Boisvert! Kalee is stunning and wise, especially when it comes to having your money work for you – not against you. Her mission is to empower women to take control of their finances and to do it with micro-changes that, over time, make a huge difference in their financial security. She has been in the financial industry for over 15 years, but her love of money started very young. Growing up in a single-parent household, she w...

Jun 27, 202356 minSeason 1Ep. 81

Noticing the Small Bids of Connection from Your Partner with Julie Sharon-Wagschal

In today’s episode, I had the delight of bringing back a colleague and friend of mine who specializes in working with couples to build long-lasting relationships. Today, Julie and I discuss the importance of building a culture of awareness within your relationship that encourages couples to note each other’s need for attention, appreciation, love, and for respect. Individuality is vital in any relationship. Each person needs to have a sense of freedom and be their authentic self, not to feel opp...

Jun 20, 202353 minSeason 1Ep. 80

Getting Aligned With Your Daily Spending Habits with Esida Selfo

Esida Selfo is passionate about ensuring women become more involved in their personal and family spending. Esida suggests that if we all spend a maximum of twenty minutes daily, we can become much more financially literate, responsible, and, most importantly, empowered. Making sound investments at a young age will remove difficult decisions in years to come. Esida is a Senior Portfolio Manager at Baskin Wealth Management. She brings over twenty-two years of experience in the wealth management in...

Jun 13, 202358 minSeason 1Ep. 79

Solo Episode - Interested in Working With Me? Here are all the ways!

I rarely ‘sell’ on my podcasts, but I think it would be a disservice to my audience to be clueless about my services. I absolutely love my coaching and therapy practices, and the clients’ outcomes show it. I especially love the new group containers I launch nearly every two weeks, called the Communion. If you are not someone who might benefit from my services, please refer a friend! I am very proud of my medicine and feel confident about shifting peoples’ mindsets regarding self-responsibility, ...

Jun 06, 202331 minSeason 1Ep. 78

There is Light That Penetrates Through the Darkness: How to Free Yourself from a Narcissistic Relationship with Sarah Pacaro

It was such a pleasure to host Sarah Pacaro as she described her journey through a narcissistic abusive relationship. Sarah took her pain and made it her passion to help others on their journeys. No one person has the same relationship dynamics as another. We can never paint everyone with the same brush; however, through sharing her story, Sarah is helping so many other women break through their personal patterned beliefs of unworthiness, guilt, shame, standards, etc. These beliefs ultimately ke...

May 30, 202351 minSeason 1Ep. 77

Shedding the Layers of Limiting Beliefs with Natalie Ryan Hebert

Today I am welcoming Natalie Ryan Hebert, a transformational therapist and coach who uses specific tools to help shed the layers of limitations we have gathered throughout our lifetimes, which keep us back from reaching our full potential as humans. Natalie is a world-renowned therapist who has worked with thousands of clients worldwide, including Olympic athletes, actors, supermodels, coaches, and CEOs. She is passionate about raising the consciousness of humanity by activating the great healer...

May 23, 202354 minSeason 1Ep. 76

Solo Episode - Catching up with what has been going on in my world

I begin the conversation discussing my recent trip to Italy where I spent ten days basking in all that Tuscany has to offer. I then provide examples of the types of clients that typically reach out to me – just in case you see yourself as someone who would fit the description…I would love for you to be in my world! Finally, I sum it up with a discussion of what is coming up in the next few months for Luella Jonk Consulting! Check out my website: www.luellajonk.com Close Proximity: https://www.su...

May 16, 202353 minSeason 1Ep. 75

Conversations About Sleep and Constipation with Beth Claxton, MD, IFMCP

I first met Dr. Claxton when I began my journey into functional medicine nearly 4 years ago. Beth is an MD, certified in OB/GYN. Beth grew to love functional medicine just as I have and has used it extensively in her practice to help women specifically with hormone imbalance as it relates to perimenopause, menopause, sleep disturbances, and constipation. Beth Claxton sees herself as a human on a journey. Her degree as a Medical Doctor and board certification as an OB/Gyn marked her path. Her cur...

May 09, 202355 minSeason 1Ep. 74
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