What Do Men Consider Micro-Cheating?

What is cheating? It's the Jewel Show.

People have different definitions for what they see as being unfaithful or some it's if you make lusty eyeballs at another person across the room.

That could be for others.

It's that you touch your lusty lips to another person's equally as lusty lips definitely not a time for others. It's if it wasn't something that you paid for, because we all know it's not cheating if it's a business transaction. Anyway, yesterday on the show, at this time, we told you what is considered micro cheating to women. But now, ladies, what do dudes consider micro cheating? Will tell you next so you can see if you're a big, huge micro cheater or not.

Right after this, are.

You currently cheating on your significant other the Jewel Show, Well, you might be, and you might not even know it. They just release a study on what behavior men and women think is micro cheating. You know, those little, tiny, supposedly innocent things that you can do that are actually little cheat nuggets.

It's nearly that bad you call it.

Yeah, wow, yesterday we told you what the biggest micro cheats are according to women.

If you want to hear that.

You can check that out on the podcast at the jewelshow dot com. But they also asked men what behavior they see as micro cheating, and we'll go over that right now so you can see if you've done something tiny that could ruin your relationship. What are the top microcheets that men see as micro cheating. If a woman compliments a male colleague, often especially on his appearance, that was in the top of the other one too, really.

Because I do that a lot.

But that's just to make people feel good, just like making eye contact and smiling. Many men think that's an invitation. So would you feel like that was a micro cheat too? It depends how it's said. It all depends how it's said, the.

Energy and intention. If it's with not good intentions, then it's a micro cheat, right. If it is with fine intentions, then a world.

If she doesn't work and she comments on the guy's pants, was like, nice pants, okay, But if she's like, oh my gosh, you have an extra pair of socks in there.

What you didn't put your socks on your feet?

They're in your that it was.

Made of mirrors, I can see myself, that's understand Yes, that would be a macro teat.

I didn't know you had a pet Anicona. That would be like, what are you paying attention to? Yeah, produce me to the girl that says that, that's hilarious.

Here's another thing that a woman can do that guys consider a micro cheat venturing to a male friend about her relationship.

I mean, I could see why a man would feel that way, but I think women do thought a.

Lot, right.

It depends on the male friend. Like, if it's someone that she's known forever and it's like one of her best friends, then okay, she's going to talk about a relationship because that's what she does. But if it's like a new best friend that she's complaining about the relationship too, that's probably not a good sign.

I want to be secure here, but I think in this scenario, ninety nine point nine percent of all male friends are waiting for their turn. That's not true.

A lot of them are. But I agree with you on what Yeah a lot it's true. It is true, and a lot of them are well.

I guess for us at the about a Victoria and I come in here all the time talking about relationships with Brad and Jewbell, But nobody's really feeling threatened by that.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, we're not, you know, hanging out for coffee every day, going out like to the bars and hanging out and you're telling me about it. But I feel like a lot of dudes that are the quote unquote best friend, a lot of them are like waiting in the wings because they like the girl, but they know that they don't have a chance right now.

I do got to be clear, though, the girl doesn't always know that or care about that, or that's really not a factor for the girl sotally. I will say, it's not a micro cheat if it's a long term friend. If it's someone new and he's just slid in, he's like, tell me about the problems in your relationship. You know, that's weird. She should be at least warned that the intentions on the other side may or may not be good. But you gotta trust your partner. You can't worry about you.

As a matter of fact, I've known a lot of women that have had like a male friend and then all of a sudden they find out that he's had a crush the whole time, and it's upsetting because they can't talk to the dum work.

They're like, I wasn't interested. I thought we were friends.

Yeah, there's a whole trend of guys saying, hey, ask your best guy friend if you could hook up.

Really almost always a saying that's a really funny victoria.

To do that.

Today, I say, wait, best friend, don't have side note? Can we also define like micro cheat? Like, wouldn't it also just be anytime you're doing something that would be disrespectful to your partner or I think anything with an intention.

I think micro cheating for me is if you were doing anything that you wouldn't do around me that you don't want to know about, and I can't consider that a micro cheat. Another one of the top micro cheets that guys consider is if a woman holds eye contact with a stranger longer than usual to grab attention.

I probably started dating you because you love attention.

It's probably yeah, it's probably one of those times.

Can I got a free drink? I'm sad today?

Right? The number one micro cheating behavior according to men is if a woman dresses up right after a fight, highlighting what her partner might.

Psychological war find a migrantitting, but I do find it incredibly mean well, acting right.

Once I'm in an argument and then come down the stairs. It's like dressed up, I'm going out for coffee.

Where are you going to dressed like that? After we decided an argument.

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She's like, what it might be worth it? That's funny. Well, happy holidays.

Whatever movie you watch, you can always catch more of The Jebel Show on the podcast at the jubilshow dot com.

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Andy is on the phone today for our first Day follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Serena. So in a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if she's tell us why she's a ghostinger, and maybe get him another day. But first, Andy, how long has it been since you heard from Serena?

It's been two weeks.

Have you been counting?

Yeah?

Yeah, okay, that's so frustrating. Have you reached out to her?

Yeah, I've reached out. I've I've sent her some texts and stuff, But yeah, I'm not I'm not. I haven't heard anything back.

Why don't you go back and tell us about the date. How did you meet her?

So we met on bumble and we spent a few weeks talking and facetiming before we actually met up the first time, so it's like I felt like we got to know each other a little bit. We eventually planned to meet at a cafe that we both are into, and we were going to do a bike ride and drink slater and stuff. And I was really excited to meet her in person. But yeah, she never ended up being able to.

Show up, not actually have the date.

No, actually because about twenty minutes before I was you know, I've been sending way to get the coffee shop, and she sent me a text that her dog was sick and something got picked so she.

Needed to take him to the vet and never ended up happening.

And I and I was really excited, Like I ended up wearing a T shirt, these plaid shorts and sneakers that you know, she's kind of like telling me to wear beforehand so that she could find me.

But you know, I was, I was happy, you.

Were happy, So she told you what to wear. You guys planned this whole date. And then so her dog got sick. Did she ever give you an update on her dog?

Like?

What happened with that after that?

Yeah?

I haven't. I honestly haven't really heard.

So that's where Yeah, I'm trying to figure it out.

So how did you respond to that text?

Oh?

Yeah, yeah, sorry, yeah, yeah.

No.

When she sent me that, I that's okay.

So I responded like I just kind of said bummer, and I said, I hope your dog is okay, because I was.

I was really sad at the time.

But I don't know.

I've looked back and I've read that text a million times, and I feel like, maybe I maybe I wasn't a little cold.

Would she have expected you to say more?

Maybe maybe maybe I should offer to go with her?

So has anything happened then between that text message and maybe all those face times? You know, like if you're talking from the past couple of weeks, you kind of start to build what is it about her that makes you want to see her again? Like if this girl just disappears, like, don't you kind of feel like screw you?

Then?

Yeah?

I mean I I think she's first of all beautiful, and I felt like our personalities kind of balance each other out and you know.

She seems like she does once and I'm happy to give that to her.

So okay, okay, And so she just ghosted you basically for the date, like she didn't show up and then hasn't responded to you since, saying that she couldn't make it because her dog was sick.

Right, and yeah again, like I don't know if I just.

Responded wrong at the time, it wasn't, you know, nice enough, But hopefully, hopefully we can get it worked out.

What if, like something really bad happened to her dog.

That's also a concern of mine too.

Yeah, would I be mad at a bummer? Like if somebody responds bummer if your dog sick? I mean maybe I would have been like, okay, maybe, yeah, maybe that's it. She's like, bummer is more than a bummer?

Yeah maybe? All right?

Andy, Well, which I figured out what'll play a song and then come back and call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.

Okay, all right, thank you?

All right, we'll get your first day follow up in the next right in the middle of today's first date follow up. If you're just joining us, Andy is on the phone, and he's getting ghosted by Serena. So in a second, we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another day. But first, Andy, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?

Yeah? So I met string on Bumble.

We've spent a few weeks talking facetiming before we finally met or plans to meet up in person. And then during that time, you know, I wore a T shirt, plaid shorts, white shoes that she told me to pick out.

I was waiting for her, and I got a text that said her dog was sick and that she ate taking the vet. So the day never happened and I haven't heard from her sex.

And it might be because he responded bummer. All right, Andy, are you ready to call her?

Yeah?

Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man speak to Serena please. Uh yeah, Hi Serena. My name is Jewbel, a host to Rato show is called the Jewbel Show.

Hi, Serena, I'm Nina. The whole show's here. Hi, and I'm Victoria. How are you.

Hi?

I'm good.

We're calling you today because we got an email.

About you from somebody who listens to the show, and they wanted us to call you. Okay, so we do a segment on the show. It's called the first Date follow Up. What that is is if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, they can ask us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So a dude named Andy emailed us. He told us about your date, well the date that didn't happen, and then asked if we could call you and ask why are you ghosted him?

Wow, that's you know, he's'm that far to what happens.

So you think it's cute? Is your dog? Okay?

No, No, I didn't. He's just not what I thought he would be.

And uh it's a dog?

No? Andie, Annie, do you have a dog?

Even?

Whoa? I mean, we chatted for a while in a bumble. It was nice getting to know but yeah, and he also like, I actually don't have a dog.

I figured that's where it was going.

Yeah, So when I walked up to go to the date, they wouldn't go on. I just saw him sitting there like a puppy dog. He had like a rose and some dirty white sneakers, and I'm just like, I'm not busy, but holenake set.

The sneakers just kind of shays a lot of how you know, So it's the dirty shoes.

Yeah, Like I.

Don't know, just it wasn't she didn't look like you did any pictures.

But he had a rose there.

Yeah, but he just like I was just sitting there like a like a bad puffy dog.

Like it just like, I don't know, you felt like you could bull doze him. I mean sometimes sometimes that's sometimes that's the thing. I mean, it sounds a little shallow, but sometimes you know, if you're gonna like be too much for somebody.

Yeah, and if I did have a dog and.

He replied, bummer or your dog, just like come.

On, Okay, So it was because he was sitting like a puppy dog and he had dirty sneakers. Oh so what did dirty sneakers say about him?

Man?

To you, I mean, come on, it's the first day. If you can't like see in your shoes and like wear some like come on.

Like was it a nice like fancy restaurant that you were going to.

I mean, it wasn't a fancy restaurant. It was just like a cafe. But so come on, like, come on, just at least wash your shoes or buying a new pair on a first.

Bat, I get presenting yourself nicely. I would, and you don't have to go as far as buy new shoes, but I mean keeping them. You know, do you think about that?

I do.

I try not to wear dirty shoes if I go places. But also yeah, but I'm one of those people that always wants, you know, tries to clean my shoes and stuff too, right, some people don't care though.

I mean, well I cared, and I was just sitting there with like a rose, like not even like a bookcase of like a rose.

Now it's really blimsy, you know.

Okay, well, thank you for telling us.

And now, Serena, I'll let you know that Andy is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

What say, I'm a whimp because I have dirty shoes and a rose.

You lied about having a sick dog.

Well, I mean.

I was weird when you told me to wear I didn't tell you to wear dirty shoes.

And you know, come on, first impressions or kind of big.

Well, I went out and bought a new shirt and plaid shorts because I didn't have any.

I wasn't thinking about my shoes. I'm sorry.

Well that's a bummer.

So you just so you saw me sitting there, and instead of coming up to me and saying anything like an adult, you just walked away and hid lied about.

Having a dog that was sick, and.

You're saying that I'm away.

Yeah, I mean a little bit.

And you don't even look like your pictures.

So you know what, you didn't look like your pictures either.

You didn't look evil.

Well, I think that was the appropriate time to ask Serena, would you like to go on another date with Andy?

We'll pay for it.

Uh no, thank you, No, it's good luck.

Though.

I wish you the best.

Andy. Somebody's gonna appreciate your rose.

Thank you. I think I'm dodging a bullet.

You know.

Well, I'll pay attention to if you ever do end up getting a dog, and I'm gonna call ASPC on you, because yeah, you shouldn't be owing any animalists.

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Is almost time for America's a favorite trivia game, You versus Victoria.

Yeah, and it's no joke because.

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It's an intense competition where you have to be the last player standing on Friday and you could win one thousand dollars gift.

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If you missed yesterday, Scott called up and be care in And that means Scott is back today to see if he can hold on for another day in his quest to get that thousand dollars gift card to Macy's.

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Can beat Scott, call us right now eight eight eight three four three one o six one eight eight eight three four three one oh six one. You can also dms at the Jewel show or go to the jewbelshow dot com and if you can beat Scott, you might be the player who goes oh Way and wins that thousand dollars Macy's gift card. Also check out the gift Guide the Macy's Gift guid at Macy's dot com. They literally it's a one stop shop for anything you would ever want holiday gift wise.

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Time for America's favorite trivia game you versus Victoria. And it's getting serious because it's one thousand dollars Macy's Holiday Battle Royale, the most insane, intense extreme trivia tournament in the universe. We're in order to win a thousand dollars gift card to Macy's, you have to be the last player standing and go ah way. Speaking of going all the way, Scott's on the phone, Why Scot, scatty.

I think you can go all the way?

Night Browler wasn't working. But Scott, do you think you have what it takes to go all the way?

I think it might.

All right, Scott won yesterday and so now he's gonna go up again somebody else. And Scott, Lisa is on the phone, and Lisa heard that you want to go all the way, and Lisa was like, hell no, right Lisa, No, all right. So now remember, Scott, you have to beat Lisa outright if you want to go on to the big game tomorrow where you could win that thousand dollars Macy's gift card. Lisa, you can stop Scott writing his sexy little tracks. All right, Okay, We're gonna put Lisa

Okay, I thanks Victoria. You want to tell Scott want to go? Yes, go for it?

And which holiday is celebrated by lighting the lighting of the minora?

What Christmas Carol includes the lyrics falla la la.

La, l la la la.

How long is the Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade route in New York City? What fruit is traditionally placed in Christmas stockings?

What fruit?

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What holiday is celebrated on the first Monday of September in the.

Usmord alright, got that in a hard yep, Scott, how are you feeling about things?

You feel good with your answers?

Oh, man, I feel I'm a little shaky.

I love a little shaky. Yeah right, well we'll see Lisa, I'm here. Okay, thirty seconds. Answer as many questions as possible. If you don't know one, just say pass and Scott has to beat you outright to win. And if you beat Scott, then you're on to tomorrow to see if you can win that thousand dollars gift card to Macy's.

Here we go, Victoria, you can tell Lisa when to go?

Yes, okay, Man, which holiday is celebrating by the lighting of the Menora Mona? What Christmas Carol includes the lyrics fallow la la la, la.

La la la. Did you say? Okay?

I heard it?

How long is the Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade route in New York City?

I can't hear you, can't hear you Lisa's phone? Oh?

What fruit is traditionally placed in Christmas stockings?

Okay? Got that in, Lisa.

I'm sorry you struggled adversity in this game because your phone was messing up. You might want to call your phone company and ask them for one thousand dollars.

You don't win.

We don't know over it yet though, because we haven't sent it over to the scoreboard. And now let's send it over to the scoreboard and see which one of you will be moving on at a chance for that thousand dollars gift card to Macy's.

Yeah, producer bred as your score.

Scott got too correct? Okay, Lisa got three?

Oh wow, Lisa, congrats.

Can you hear me?

Yes?

Yeah, you played with like a sprained ankle and everything. Yeah, because your phone was messing up, but you still were able to beat Scott, and that means you have a chance now at the thousand dollars gift guard to Macy's and Scott.

You get one hundred dollars.

Just for playing.

Thank God, Thank your holidays.

Let's get the answers now with Nina. I always feel like I need to say that.

But the holiday that's celebrated by the lighting of the Manora is Hanukkah. The Christmas carol that includes lyrics follow la La La La la la is deck the halls. Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade is about two and a half miles.

Wow.

The fruit that's traditionally placed in Christmas stockings is an orange. Labor Day is the holiday celebrated on the first Monday of September in the US.

All right, Lisa, congratulations, you get to make it another day and see if you can win that thousand dollars gift card to Macy's and Scott. Thank you very much for playing and participating in the most intense tournament you've ever heard of, or ever.

Seen, or ever been a part of.

Thank God.

Yeah, one thousand dollars Macy's Holiday Battle Royale. Do you have what it takes to meet Lisa and go all the way? Well, if you do, then tune in tomorrow, same time for you versus Victoria and the Thousand Dollars Macy's Holiday Battle Royale.

It's time to Catch a Cheater Only on.

The Jubile Show. Maddie is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been dating her boyfriend Connor for three years, but now she thinks that something might be going on, so we'll see if we can help her out. Maddie, Sorry, you have to come on the show this way, but what's up? Why do you think Connor's cheating?

Well, Connor and I have been together for three years, and we moved in together after a year, and it's kind of been a little bit of a struggle financially because we were both fresh out of college, you know, trying to make ends meet. But I feel like we really have a very close relationship, even in the hard times, and you know, even when we find ourselves in a fight, Connor will just say something dumb or silly and it just kind of goes away. I feel like is our

Fit's a lot.

And I hope that that's not like making me nervous because I'm still guarded, you know, with all of that. And Connor knows my past, like he knows. He's really been cool with making me feel at ease whenever I feel like something might be happening, you know. But lately, like the last three weeks specifically, it feels like he's been hiding something for me and he won't talk about it.

What kind of things is he hiding from me or what kind of thing is he hiding from you?

Well, I don't know. He's just been getting home late, like he has this weird schedule. He's been like, I have these weird hours at work and it's either way early or super late. And then when I asked, he says, oh, yeah, it's just a weird schedules. But never been like that. But then one day I was like, oh, yeah, I'm going to come up to your job and have lunch and he said that he's not there, and I was like, where are you? And he said he had some meeting

Can't let it go.

And so then I saw the text, obviously from Isabella, and I asked, okay, who is that? And he got really short about it, which he never does things like that, and he said, oh, it's just a work thing, because and I was like, well, where is she from because she's not from your office. He said, oh, she's just a wreck from another district. And that sounds like it could be legit, but it's just the way that he said it. It just sounded like he was making crap up,

I just feel like he should know that your brain is wired to go there at this point. I mean, at some point you're going to have to just trust and all of that. But good for you to ask him about the text message. I don't like how he responded to you, though.

Yeah, thanks, I don't like it either.

Well, let's see if we can figure it out.

You already told us what grocery store he's a rewards card member at, So we'll play a song come back, and then call him and pretend to be from the grocery store and say that every single month, we choose one lucky customer who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department, and we'll see if he sends them to you or somebody else.

Okay, okay, thank you so much.

Play song, come back and get your to ketch theater next if you're just joining us for today's to ketch acheater. Maddie is on the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend three years Connor, might be messing around. So we're about to call him and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards card member and say that every single month, we choose one random person who gets flowers delivered from our floral department absolutely free, and see if he sends them to his girlfriend, Maddie or

Why you are suspicious that he might be cheating?

Sure? You know he been working really weird hours or before it was normal hours, like he had a really routine schedule. And I caught him texting this girl Isabelle, who I don't know, and he says that she's from work, but I've never heard of her before and I don't know. Just think I'm adding up.

You ready for us to call him?

Yeah, I'm ready.

Okay, here we go.

Well, this is Gorble calling from I was looking for our rewards card member named Connor.

Oh yeah, see hey.

Connor, Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to tell you congratulations. Here this month's big winner.

Okay, what do I win?

Every single month we choose one rewards card member, totally random who gets free flowers delivered from our flooral department. You've just won thirty six long stem red Rods, a box of chocolates or candy, and a card to be delivered to anybody that you want within the fifty United States of America, absolutely free. It's a three hundred and sixteen dollars values. So thank you very much, and congratulations.

Thank you.

I actually I don't know how well time that is?

Oh?

Really great? Sounds great, that's wonderful.

The first thing I will need will be a first and last name of the lucky recipient.

That's for Maddie.

M Addie, And would you like a card included with it?

Yes? Yes?

What would you like to say on the card?

How about I love you? Things are going to get better, promen.

Okay, it never gets easier, tell you that much. You get in trouble being a wandering eye or something.

I think that's a little personal.

Just get the flowers.

Sorry about that.

Well, you can't get the f actually, because this is actually Jubil from the Jubil Show.

It's a radio show. Yeah, we're all here.

I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria, and we do a segment called to Catch a Cheater where if you think you think your significant other might be sleeping around you try to see who they send flowers too.

And your girlfriend Maddie is actually on the phone.

Okay, Hi, what's this about?

Stay cheating on me?

Straight to the point.

No, yep, no, no, god no, it being really.

Weird and why haven't you been at work? Like what what with your weird schedule? And you're just I'm of freaking out.

Oh god, God God, no, no, no, no, no, no, I'm I'm so sorry. I know you have a history here and I'm a last thing I would ever want to do is bring that up for you.

Who's this Abelle?

What?

No, Connor? I saw the text messages from somebody named Isabelle.

Who is she? I'm I'm I'm not seeing her, but I I have been. I've been kind of hiding things. The truth is I got laid off about a month ago, and I really, yeah, I really didn't want to, Like, I don't stress you out anymore. I mean, we have so much, really can't keep up with as is, and I really just wanted to keep making sure he thought abized everything was we find. So I've been out the last couple of weeks just trying to hit the ground running looking for a new job. I've been on more

So you're not cheating, No, no, no, no, not at all. Gosh, Okay, they've been.

Well.

Actually that that's a big part of the reason why things are going to get better. She was gonna, I was open to tell you soon starting well, I mean, technically as did yesterday. Isabelle's my new boss. Not only that, I mean she the position that I've got now it's it's it pays a lot more, uh that The texts were for a final interview for that position, and I've got it.

Connor, why wouldn't you feel comfortable talking to me about this?

Honestly, I don't know, I thought you'd be mad at me.

I'm sorry, Connor, I'm not your ex me, and I need you to feel comfortable talking to me about things. That's a big for you to hide that from me. That's a really big deal. And I'm not even upset that you lost your job. I'm just I'm kind of pissed that you hide it from me because now we're in this big mess and I've been stressing out.

You know.

Yeah, they didn't want you to worry. I'm not your ex. I really didn't want you to think I was cheating on you.

Hey, that's cool. You're both not each other's excess. And it sounds like you doat each other nicely.

Well, sometimes you need to reminder, you know.

I just want you to know that you can come to me with these things. You know. I know you want to protect me, but you don't need to go through this stuff alone. The word team.

I know.

I'll do my best. I think at this point I know you more than just flowers.

It's okay, Well, you are.

Getting a new job that pays a lot, so maybe some jewelry. Okay, Well, congratulations, Matti. At least you know he's not cheating god.

And I knew he's just such a squire.

I knew something was going on. You got to trust yourself.

I am really fired.

The jewel shows to catch a cheater.

Sometimes your downstairs mix up can say a lot about you as a person. Wait, it's a jewel show, and if you're a lady, dealing with dudes sometimes can be very confusing. Well, thanks to the Internet, there's a trend going viral of men sharing the things that are normal for guys to.

Do but not for women.

Oh it's funny and also kind of mind blowing when you hear the responses. So we'll go over it next so you can see just how tough life is when you're a dude.

You have is it this? It's the Jewel Show.

My best friend proposed to his girlfriend and my girlfriend asked how to go, and I was like, I don't know. I just assume he got down on a knee. And then she asked when the wedding was and said, I don't know. I guess we'll get an invitation at some point. I said, text, we just got in at four one oh six one.

Do you not pas?

Because trend is going viral of guys pointing out the things that are normal for them but not for one thing, and.

Stuff like that. The follow ups are just not there. They really aren't.

You're there, No, it's like, oh cool, man, that's great, she said, Yeah, all right, great, that's pretty much the conversation when you're dude.

Most of my friends that have gotten engaged, I didn't find out until I got the wedding invitation waiting seriously, yeah, because I don't really care about social or anything, and like, yeah, man, I'm getting married. Oh cool, cool. Yeah.

I've had a lot of those conversations as well. That's cool, all right.

Sweet dude.

Planning must be tough, huh. I. I don't know her name. I don't know when this happened. I don't know if they're doing it because they had a kid or not. I don't know any of this.

So it's really just because you don't care.

No, it's not that I don't care. If he wants to tell me, you'll tell me.

We're going over a trend going viral of men sharing the things that are normal for guys but not for women walking around outside topless.

Definitely, it depends on where you are.

True.

Well, I always feel like it should be equal with that.

Unfair.

It is unfair honestly that women can't do that too if they want to.

If we try to, wee get in trouble.

Yes you will.

In New York, it's legal. It is really well, at least in parts of New York, I believe. I remember somebody told me that. So I had had a few drinks and I started doing it while I was in Brooklyn on the roof. But it was just on the roof, so it wasn't like I was out on the street so people could see me if they looked up.

Another thing that guys say is completely normal for dus, but not for women being friends with someone and knowing absolutely nothing about them.

How do you not know anything about your friends?

Confused by that?

You know, like what you do together when you hang out, play video games? Yeah, like you know what video games they're good at and stuff, but you might not know about their personal life earlier, what they've been through in life.

Do you like meet their parents and like their family?

No, I know all of your What do you mean?

I know all of my best friend's parents and like they're.

Like second, I've got a couple friends where I know their family. But that's because I was at their house all the time. I had no choice.

Do you know anything about them?

Though?

Their family know about your friend, Like, what's your friend's favorite color? I've never thought to ask that. Yeah, did you ask you?

There's a lot of black shirts.

You need to ask that if you're playing their birthday party one year, you.

Know what exactly? Yeah, it's just another thing that gods don't do. I don't think I've ever planned a birthday party for a friend.

No, no, do it for ourselves.

Yeah, let's talk about.

You know, the one thing dudes want when there romancing out silence?

Yeah, kind of sit there and have a drink and how's work? Good? Cool?

Not born another thing that it says that is completely normal for guys, but not for women, having no decorations whatsoever.

Yeah.

I don't subscribe to that either.

I love decorating my house. Yeah, so yeah, you see a lot of dudes don't.

Honestly, though the dudes that don't is a little bit red flaggy. It just kind of makes me feel like you're empty inside.

I will say, is I feel like decorated an apartment or like a home is very like challenging because you ever know, like what to do?

What do you want to put on it?

Like I just recently started doing mine, so I have to give the guys a little bit of.

Credit because it's hard. Okay, So Susan put an age limit on that. Then men over thirty that have un are empty inside.

Okay.

Another thing that they say is completely normal for dus but not for women accidentally walking behind a woman at night and then quickly going to the other side of the road or slowing down to create enough distance so you don't seem like a creep.

Oh yeah, that's a real problem.

Yeah about that, Yes, absolutely, single time.

If I'm in the parking garage and there's a female in there walking near me, I will try to make sure that there's distance, or I'll like wait till that she gets on.

The elevator by herself.

I just feel like they're gonna feel threaded all the time, because there are a lot of creepy dudes out there, you know. Yeah, And if I smile at them and then they don't smile back or anything, I'm like, oh great, Yeah, she thinks I'm going to attack her.

Yeah, like I'm not gonna.

I'm not.

Yeah, you want to say that, but if you say that, then that's even worse. He don't worry about a thing. I'm one of the good ones. Take a left up there.

Yeah, I know a secret staircase if you want to go.

Why are you running? It's really sweet that you think about that though, too. Yeah, definitely all the time.

I will feel bad if like there's a guy behind me, I feel bad if I will speed up, but I feel back.

I'm like, what if he's not a creepy dude? He's like, oh, she's just speaking up.

You can't take a chance, so I know.

I'm like, it's better than any of dead. What's worse is when they look back at you and you're like, I was just walking. I'm okay, I'll pull over.

Yeah.

Sometimes you do.

Get to look like get away from me, creep and you're like, I promise, I was just walking on the same street.

I get it though, and then you spiral and you're like, guess I'm not hot.

Enough to be creepy, or you're like, am I creepy being creepy?

Can I do something creepy?

Do I give off creepy vibes?

Oh? No?

I Meanwhile, I'm like, why are you vorking me gets wrong with this cycle.

His trend is going viral of men sharing things that are normal for them but not for women. It says, me and my bros have been friends for like fifteen years, and I think we have a total of three pictures together.

Oh yeah, if somebody else didn't take the picture, it's not getting taken.

I've never had a friend of mine go will you take a picture of me next to this? And then you take it, and then they look at the picture and go, can you take like five more?

I never had a friend get those at birthday parties.

You're to throw them from us.

Do you know how many times I've taken pictures of Brad because he asks for a retake.

Yeah, double's good about it. But Brad likes You've never had to throw the angles. Dude, right this way? Time for Nina's what's trending.

I'm so excited to tell you the story because I can't even believe it's real. But a Catholic nun has been arrested in a mob what. Yeah, for some reason, this reminds you of the movie Sister Act. Did you guys ever see Sister Act movie?

Yeah?

Goldberry Gap, No, she basically was running from crime and because she was being sought out, and so she was hiding in an entry and yeah, they're called that's definitely not all they're called.

Wait, hold on, I need to be clear about what you did. You say non factory. Yeah, okay, yeah, that's not it.

That's not right. I don't know why I can't think of the accurate name right now.

But anyway, so this particular nun actually is sister Anna from Milan, Italy. She had a job where she was

Yeah, who's going to play the nun in this movie? Robert de Niro, DiCaprio is going to play the mob boss?

Yeah, but like, who does that nun answer to the big boss?

Right?

The pope exactly what. Yeah, no, the pope's ever been busted. No, you can't bust the pope. But he is the head mom boss.

And okay, well yep, the Godfather, Yeah he is the Godfather.

Wow, Victory, he's like right under the.

Godfather, Victoria is trying to figure out what you're saying is true direct contact contacted the Godfather religious?

Is the Godfather's Yeah he is.

He's the consultant, you know.

The Godfather's like, Hey, I'm thinking about blowing up a mountain.

What do you think?

Wait?

I don't think you should do it, boss. Okay, fine, I won't let that vulcano go off things like that.

I see what you're doing. There's actually a TV show Church my mom is really funny to me.

I'm actually not going to get into the show. But yeah, okay, well that's what we're gonna do there. I'm sure that they're celebrating the holidays beautifully over at.

The bat again, they are my bosses. Know how to decorated the.

Jewbles. Dirty little secret. Hello, Hey I'm here.

Hey, what's up? You have a dirty little secret?

I do.

So.

My god dad growing up was a total jerk and he always demanded me or my friends to make him lunch or make him a sweet tea. And so one day he was being a total app to me, and so I decided because he wanted a sweet tea.

And a ham sandwich.

So me and my friends cut together.

And remember in the movie It's Ill, he would like, do a lootie but suck it back up.

Yeah, okay, So I both of us actually did a little bit of that and his sweet tea.

And then I had a pet catfish, and so I would feed it worms.

So we had a fridge full of worms.

And so I cut it up into really really tiny pieces and I put it in a sandwich and he ate it.

And I've never told hell why, Well, thank you for telling us.

Welcome.

I didn't eat it. Yeah. I probably won't ever have sweet tea again after that. Bye guy, Bye, Hello, Hello? Hey was up? You have a dirty little secret?

Yes?

I do?

Sweet What is it?

So?

I used to rent a room from my friends and they had two dogs and they always put them to sleep on my side of the house because they didn't like letting them out at night so.

They could go to the bathroom. So they would force me to do it and so I got tired of doing that, so eventually I started opening the kitchen door, like in the middle of the night, so the dogs would go inside the house. And like three or four times the dogs took it in the kitchen.

Did you clean it up or leave it for them to have a surprise?

No way, I left them for there for their morning surprise.

Yeah, you're like, I don't know how the dogs learned open the door.

Yeah, that's exactly what they would say.

Thank you for telling us your dirty little secret.

No worries, man, I'll be shown.

Yeah you see.

Man, Bye, thank you. What's your dirty little secret.