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Liz is on the phone today for our first Date follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Elliot. So the second we're going to call him and see if he tells us why he's ghosting here. But first, Liz, how long has it been since you heard from Elliott?

It's been four days?

Are you sure you're getting ghosted?

Yeah? Why? Well, because we had such an amazing date and it was really long and intricate and wonderful. So yeah, I mean we went on Hinge and we were like talking for a month, so there was a big lead up. Oh wow, Yeah, we're just we're busy. And so when we finally had a Saturday where we could actually see each other, we did it and we decided it was going to be a whole day, like a day date, and so we started.

With a coffee and a walk, and then we went to the aquarium, and then we had a late lunch and drinks. It keeps going, and then we were like, what are we do about?

Okay, and then we like looked to some antique shops that were like in the area and then he took me to his favorite bar and we had some more drinks and some apps, and then we played pool and we were having such a good time that he invited me back to his place and I went and that was great too, and I slept over.

Okay, I mean that sounds like an amazing date. That's like five dates in one and there was never.

An awkward moment. Like everything was wonderful. We were just playful. We seem to have the same sense of humor. We kept making each other laugh. We're like both kind of adventurous. We kept wanting to like do new things. So that's what I'm saying, Like, it just felt amazing.

Well, how did it end?

Well, I slept over and just saying that part was good too awkward, just nice and easy. We had coffee in the morning and then we're like, I guess you've been together for like almost twenty four hours, so I'll give you some space. But like we kissed, and the next day we were like texting a lot, just saying how are you? And then after that I tried to text them like four more times and nothing.

What was your texting?

Like?

Well, the first you.

Know day was like, oh that was so much fun. We talked about like some chokes the aquarium.

But then I was just like.

How's your day going? Or I sent him a picture like saw this and thought of you because it it made sense at the bar we were in like stuff like that.

Okay, So there wasn't anything like awkward that you said on text that could be the.

Reasons you no, although I'm now thinking there is one thing. But it didn't seem like you know, it didn't seem like a big deal. But now, but I just keep thinking about it. When we were in bed together, I kind of made this joke because he said something about kids or babies, and then I'm like, oh, yeah, what would our babies look like?

Oh okay, but he.

Kind of went with it, and one was an awkward at the time, so I think he knew I was joking. But now I'm wondering, Oh, maybe he thought, I like want.

Babies once you're here serious, some people are just into that, like some for some people to get there that fast, they I don't even think that they understand what they're talking about, like it's part of like the thing thing like tell me what my baby would look like?

Gotcha?

And then this is more fun for me now, So maybe that maybe he thought that was your thing, or maybe he thought you really wanted Maybe I don't know.

I hope what is that?

But that's the only thing, all right?

Would not freaking out? Juble?

What if somebody was in bed with you and they're like, tell me what you think our baby would look like?

No?

I don't so okay. But also I've trusted the wrong people.

Okay, all right, we'll play the song come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why is ghosting you? And maybe get you another day if you still want one?

Okay, okay's good, all right, I'll do it next.

If you're just joining us for today's first date. Follow up.

Liz is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Elliott. We're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why is ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Liz, why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation?

Okay? I mean, so I met this guy Elliott after like, we texted for a month and we had this amazing state where it lasted about twenty four hours, and we did so many things, and everything was fun by acquiring him a pool and bar and drink and we hooked up and we laughed and texted the next day. And now I haven't heard from him.

And what's the one reason you think that he might be ghosting you?

Well? I did mention that, like what would our babies look like when we were in bed together? But it was just really fast. It was gorgeous curls and I have gorgeous eye.

That's a beautiful. All right, are you ready for us to call him?

Yeah, let's do this.

Here we go. Hello him, I speaking to Elliott. Please?

Oh yeah, this is him.

Hey Elliott, how are you?

My name is Jubbel and the house the radio show it's called the Jewbel Show.

Hi, Elliott, the show's here. My name is Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria. How are you?

Yeah? Good, Hey guys, what's going on?

Just chilling? Have you ever listened to the show before?

Ah?

Yeah, yeah do it? You guys do a good job.

Thank you. I appreciate that. Thank you. Yeah. Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?

Yeah?

I have?

I have?

Great that's cool.

Well, guess what, Elliott, did somebody put you off to this?

Yes?

We got an email about you and somebody that you're ghosting. They want to know why you're ghosting them. You have any idea who could be?

Yeah, I have an idea.

Yeah, take a shot. I'll tell you if you're right.

All right, is it Liz?

Yes?

Elliott, congratulations, you know who you're ghosting. So Liz wants to know why you're not calling her back. She said, you guys had an awesome time.

Oh my god, I can't believe it. I mean, of course she would call you guys, because just what should do? Okay, So yeah, first let me say that. Look, I really liked Liz, but I mean even this is a bit extreme right now, Like wow, I just have to say, like she's a bit cleaning and and uh, she like was constantly texting me like it was just sweating me. Wouldn't even give me like some breathing room. I mean it was a great data and everything. And yeah, we

Us about that she said that might have scared you off.

I mean I was a little bit freaked out, Like I'm like, whoa, Like what are you talking about? What our baby would look like and what his name would be. I just met you, like came, you know, like pumped a break and then you know, she leaves, and then she just constantly starts pinging my phone and texting me over and over. Like I had to like basically turn my phone on silently because my buddies were like, dude, like, what's going on, Like is it work? And I'm like, no,

So it's just too much for.

You, Yeah, way too much. Like she's got to pump the brakes, like I know, you know, it was all good. She's good looking, I'm good looking. You know, the physical part of it was perfect, you know, it's all good, but my goodness, you know, give a guy some space. Man.

Oh okay, it sounds like so much.

Well this might not be good then, but she's actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.

Ash, Hey, Hey, Liz, how's it going.

I that was a lot. I feel like you're kind of exaggerating a bit. Like we spent twenty four hours together. We obviously like each other. I obviously like you. That's why I would want.

To text you, especially after we husked up, and it seems like you really liked me. I did not text you like twenty times to text you like four times. Yes, every day, but like once. So I don't know, like, do you like me? Do you want to get to know me?

I mean, look, I do like you live and I think you're a great girl and everything, but like you know, I just really need my space. I mean, especially in the beginning. You know, I told you I just got out of this relationship and like she was super you know, jealous and super clingy, and it was it didn't end very well and I just need my space. Okay.

But I'm not like that. I'm not like codependent or want to control you. I'm not going to ask you what you're doing every minute. I'm not going to like want your opinion about stuff. I just want to get to know you better and see you more or like flirty talk and text like what makes you feel comfortable if you want to just like talk in the evening so you can tell me.

I'm a big girl, I think, you know, yeah, if we could just do it, you know, like at the end of the day when things are winding down, you know, not do it during the day because there's a lot going on. You know, it's work probably for both of us, and then and then just see where it goes, you know. And sure, I'm I'm down to joke and everything like that, but you know, I think you know.

Just yeah, no joking on business.

Well no, no, seriously, Like I'm the real though, Like my boss, like they check that stuff. You guys, Like they're like, oh, oh you yeah, They're like, oh are you guys on your phone? Like or if they see you on your phone, you know, they'll ask like, oh, talking to somebody or oh you know, your kids or whatever I mean. And it's not like they make it obvious, but you know, people are watching. I don't want to lose my job either.

Well, Elliott, would you like another date with Liz? We'll pay for it.

Well, Liz, yeah, I can definitely do another one if you want.

I don't worry. Yeah, I guess another one, only if you want. Elliott.

No ill No is a great girl, and I was. You know, I'm flattered that she's just that head over heels and uh, Liz, it'd be great to see you again. You know, hopefully I can we can just talk to each other and I can be honest with you and and we can, you know, come to some sort of compromise.

Okay, like scheduling our sex life. Okay, we'll keep You're just cute. You're like, you're a little serious, but you're cute. Juble's first Date follow up