Jacob & Ava - Popcorn Bowl

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Jacob is on the phone today for our first Date follow up and he's getting ghosted by Avas. So in a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jacob, how long has it been since you heard from Ava?

Oh? Man, it's been at least a couple of weeks.

Okay. Have you tried to reach out to her during that time, because it's kind of.

A while, right, Yeah.

I tried to play it cool. In fact, I think last pack I Center, I was like, well, we met at a coffee shop, and the last thing I said her hey, i'll see you, I'll see it, I'll see you back in, you know, at our spot, and then she didn't respawn. So I'm pretty sure she's a ghost and me I haven't called because I felt like that was a step too far. But I'm running out of options.

So did y'all actually have a first first date?

Like, was it at the coffee shop or did y'all just like randomly meet at the coffee shop?

Yes?

So there's actually like this coffee shop kind of just in the neighborhood. It's not too far and I go there all the time. And that's actually the first place where I met her, because I ended up seeing her like three times in one week. So this one day we kind of started doing a little small talk and then we actually were like, well, hey, let's meet here on purpose one, you know, next time. So that was like maybe our first date, but it wasn't really like

Thing, okay, And then did you guys do something after that?

Yeah, we actually did. We really were enjoying the conversation with each other. So I invited her to like come to my house because we both like reality TV shows. So I was like, oh, well, I've never seen Love is Blind. She hadn't seen it either, so let's oh, let's go to my house to have some popcorn and some snacks and we can just binge the whole show together.

I was gonna say a bold move for her first date to invite some of your house Okay.

I like the confidence and how.

That goes normally. So it actually ended up going really well because when she came over, I had all her favorite snacks. I was ready to go, you know, I like, I know she loves platforms, so I had popcorn. She likes hershey, so I had Hershey. We just had a bunch of snacks you could sit and watch this show. And we ended up having a lot of fun, you know, clowning on people and group for the people that we

So did was there like a connection with the two of you?

I felt like it was a connection. I mean it was the best date I've ever had, hands down, and like, I'm really hoping that we can have more.

Okay, So what do you think could have gone wrong? Like, why would you be getting ghosted?

Oh man? Okay, So I think we would take a break in between the different episodes, and it was between I think maybe episode two and three. You know, we just kind of took a little time to get to know each other. Right, we just kind of talking and whatever. And halfway through that, I just.

I told her.

I was like, this is the best date I've ever been on, and I'm really glad that I didn't have to spend a lot of money.

Yeah.

See, I was the thing.

I was really glad that I didn't have to break the bank for us to have a good time. And then she started to get off digity and kind of wanted to leave. After that next episode, I was like, I was joking pretty much, but I'm hoping she doesn't think I'm cheap.

Okay, yeah, well we'll see. We can figure it out for you.

We'll play a song, come back, and then call her in Stifi's house why she's going, and maybe get to another date. Okay, thanks, Yeah, all right, plus, don't come back. Get your first day follow up next. Right in the middle of your first day follow up if you're just joining us, Jacob is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Ava. It's been a couple of weeks since he heard from her, and we're about to call her and ask her why she's ghosting him and see if

Okay?

So I met Ava at the coffee shop up the street. We both like reality TV, so she came over to my house so we could binge watch Love Is Blind. But I told her I was real happy we had a date that wasn't expensive. And now I think she might think I'm cheat.

I'm just trying to think about how that would go. Oh man, this is the best day ever. I'm so glad I didn't spend any money. Yeah special. Do you feel as the person that's on that date? No offense.

I'm just trying to like you might be onto something. Yeah, it might be the reason you're getting ghosted. Are you for us to call her?

All? Right? Here we go, Hello him, I speak to Ava. Please, this is her? Hi Ava, how are you?

My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jebil Show.

Hi Ava, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Oh wow, how are you?

Oh?

Hi, I'm doing good.

You ever listened to the show before?

Yeah?

Okay cool.

We do a segment on the show called the First Day follow Up, where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

Do you know who would email us?

The only person that I've been on a day recently was this one guy.

But and what was his name?

Jacob?

Okay, Well guess what?

Guess what was.

Told us about your date says that you're ghosting him, and he has no idea why would you mind telling us?

Oh? Goodness, like, I have really bad luck when it comes to men. You know, our date was kind of cool. It was cute and stuff. Uh, I just have really bad luck when it comes to guys. So so you know, I started liking him a little bit, and uh we were watching some of the shows and you know, caught feelings a little bit, and you know, I just felt like it's probably easier for me to just stop talking to him.

What happened?

Everything was good.

We were watching uh I.

Think it was called Love is Blind and yeah, so you know it was nice and cute at first, but you know they go to start talking about what they do and don't like in certain people. Now now I'm looking at uh makeup, like, okay, well, qualities I don't like about him now, but then I like him, but I don't really know where it's going.

Okay, was there something specific that you didn't like about him?

There was like a situation to where where he did invite me over to his house. It was the first date which I went out on a limb to do. Everything was cute, everything was you know, fun and stuff like that. It just started playing around a little bit too much, and I think that he just tried too hard.

So it kind of a turn off.

How So, I'm not you know, I like touchy philly and stuff like that, but I don't really like someone to, you know, just jump your bone. I'm a fifty fifty kiss type of person.

That mean, did he tried to jump your bone?

Well?

I think that, uh, when we were eating popcorn, that he was trying to hide something from me with the bowl.

WHOA, yeah, good for you, Like, not in that way, but that he was very happy.

It's kind of power. Yeah, I had that power over men.

But you know, it was my first time over there and we were just supposed to be watching TV, yeah and stuff like that. So then it's like, oh, you're like that right now, and you're hiding it with the bowl of popcorn that I'm not taking my hand in.

That is weird. That's very weird. Okay, Like did he like it?

I mean I was some so is now I stood up? I don't know.

I mean just like you're trying to get into plotcorn and it's just like, okay.

I don't know what to say with with that situation.

So yeah, I don't know either, Like do you want like would you have wanted him to tell you?

Or is it?

Yeah? I mean that as a guy, I don't know what I would do either. Just try to hide it like you did. You can't always control it, right, Jubil No.

Sometimes as a mind of its own, you know.

Uh.

I don't think you hit it really well though, I don't know. It was a pretty big situation that could be that good.

So that's why you're not calling him back.

Oh my gosh, Well, thank you for being honest.

And Jacob is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

Jacob Jacob, oh man, I'm so sorry about that. I mean, I'm sorry. I was trying so hard.

That was the best word I can tell.

Yeah, I didn't want to make things weird or awkward. That's why I was trying to like maybe make it not as obvious. I probably made it way worse. I just I really really like you and I love having a conversation. Tell that.

I was asking you why the popcorn kept falling on the floor, and you were like, oh, I don't know.

Oh I didn't know.

What was going on down there.

You know, then you didn't.

You didn't tell me what was going on, so it kind of freaking out a little bit. So it was just like, Okay, is he getting like that because we're watching these.

Ladies on TV or.

Me?

No?

Really, it's definitely the beautiful lady I had in my house.

You know.

Look, I'm really sorry, and I hope that's not I hope that won't keep us from being able to go back back out. I just really like you. Maybe I'll I'll do something where we're not sitting down next time.

Can you give him some advice?

Table, because I understand that this is awkward, but I don't know how Jacob comes back from this clearly like it's like it's kind of a compliment to you, Ava, but it's also like what happened I don't know.

Yeah, tape, I'm not sure Abe would you like to go on another date with Jacob, we'll pay for it and give him another shot. He doesn't sound like he's creepy, and it sounds like he really likes you.

Yeah, is he?

If he's able to double tape it down, I might be willing to go on a tape with him again.

Gosh, well I'm heading the staples.

All right?

Well cool, congratulations, Shake, have you got another date?

Thank you, Haba, how fun? Thank you?

Thank you

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