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The Heart of the Matter

Michael Ceccon and Jermaine Simpsonheartofmatter.libsyn.com
The Heart of the Matter is a podcast that promotes self-care, healing and wellness through exploring internal well-being, relationships and connection to others, and social issues.

Episodes

#59 Mental Health Awareness Month

Michael and Jermaine honor Mental Health Awareness Month by answering questions such as: How is therapy helpful? What is most rewarding about being a therapist? Why it’s important that therapists attend to their own mental health?

May 23, 20212 hr 36 minEp. 59

#58 Life Of A Black Military Wife

For episode 58, we talked to Jamilah Stanfield, creator of blackmilitarywives.com and author of “When Daddy’s Gone”. Jamilah talked about the unique challenges faced by black women married to service members , raising her 3 daughters , her background as a mental health professional , and the people and experiences that have influenced her life. Jamilah is a real life superhero...someone who sees a need, takes action and steps up for others. We hope you enjoy our conversation....

Apr 25, 20211 hr 15 minEp. 58

#57 Parenting, Spirituality, and Decolonizing Education

Our guest on this episode of THOTM is Luisa Ortega . Luisa is a mother, counselor and doctoral student in Organizational Change and Leadership at USC. She is a passionate activist for Indigenous communities and fierce advocate for decolonialism . We talked about parenting in the current social climate , working with at-risk teen girls , spirituality and decolonizing education . It’s rare to meet someone as brilliant and sincere, so enjoy this conversation with Luisa Ortega!...

Apr 12, 20211 hr 10 minEp. 57

#56 Ernie McCray

We had the pleasure of talking with Ernie McCray, a man who has worn many hats and is loved and admired by many. He’s a former college basketball star, an educator for over 3 decades, writer, poet, actor and even dabbled in stand-up comedy. At 82 years old, Ernie McCray is one of the coolest and most inspiring people you’ll ever meet. Ernie described his upbringing and influences in Tucson Arizona, experiences with racism , and becoming college basketball star . He talked about his long career a...

Mar 28, 20212 hr 58 minEp. 56

#55 Healing Childhood Trauma & The Power of Relationships

Ansley Curtis is a licensed marriage and family therapist, who specializes in working with children, adolescents and families , and in the treatment of trauma . Ansley talked about her inspiration for becoming therapist, her approach to working with children who’ve experienced trauma, and the importance of relationships in healing from trauma .

Mar 16, 20211 hr 15 minEp. 55

#54 Immigration Law, Filmmaking and Activism

Alex Amar Kannan is an attorney and independent filmmaker. He operates a practice (Kannan Law Firm, Inc.) in Spring Valley, Ca that focuses on immigration, criminal and personal injury cases. However, we talked more about his passion for making documentaries and his advocacy for immigrant and transgender communities . Alex also shared his approach to personal wellness and managing job stress. For more info on Kannan Law Firm, Inc., visit the website: https://san-diego-abogado.com...

Feb 26, 20212 hr 41 minEp. 54

#53 Exploring Healing through Yoga with Ashton Szabo

For episode 53, we chat with Ashton Szabo, an authentic tantric yoga teacher and educator. We discuss the many applications of yoga for the healing journey. We explore topics such as the embodiment of our experience, transcendence, and connection. Join us as we discover how yoga can be used to bring us back to the body to get connected with ourselves and life. Connect with Ashton http://yogawithashton.com/

Feb 14, 20212 hr 32 minEp. 53

#52 Grief, Mental Health and Hip-Hop

For episode 52, we have returning guests, licensed psychologist, Dr. Ricky Pope and mental health counselor, Nathan Klein. We have an in-depth discussion about grief, how men deal with loss, and mental health awareness in hip-hop. Enjoy!

Jan 31, 20211 hr 26 minEp. 52

#51 Black Men In The Helping Professions

On episode 51, we are joined by Michael Love and Nathan Klein. Michael is a counselor at Irvine City College. Nathan is a counselor at San Diego City College and a private practice clinician. We discussed the need for more men and particularly black men in the helping professions, their experiences being black male counselors, and the value that men bring to the counseling and mental profession.

Jan 10, 20212 hr 58 minEp. 51

#50 Living with Estrangement

On our 50th episode, we were joined by Seth Johnson to talk about estrangement and her organization Together Estranged. She shared about her story and difficult life events which resulted in her own personal experience of estrangement. She created Together Estranged to provide support and services to adults who have become estranged from their families. We talk about mental health, healing, and various circumstances related to estrangement. Connect with them: https://www.TogetherEstranged.org/ h...

Dec 14, 20201 hr 17 minEp. 50

#49 Dr. Ricky Pope - Reaching Back To Help Others

Dr. Ricky Pope is a psychologist at San Diego State University’s Counseling & Psychological Services. Dr. Pope is an engaging speaker, with a calming voice, and joined THOTM to share his journey from dropping out of high school to becoming a psychologist. He describes his early struggles in school, navigating higher education as an African American male, the positive impact of mentors, and his inspiration for wanting to help and heal others....

Nov 29, 20202 hr 43 min

#48 Grief is the Price We Pay for Loving

In this episode, we speak with returning guest LMFT Tracy Gilmour-Nimoy. We discuss her pregnancy and infant loss, her grieving and healing process, and how that is shaping her therapeutic work. We also discuss Women's health and other topics that are sure to move you emotionally as we explore these tough topics that impact so many people. Books and resources mentioned in this episode: Connect with Tracy at her website. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb (every therapist should re...

Nov 10, 20202 hr 44 minEp. 48

#47 - Rewind and Relax

For episode 47, we “rewind and relax” with some fun and introspective questions...also reflect on current events.

Sep 21, 20202 hr 54 minEp. 47

#46 Surviving Hurricane Katrina...15 Years Later

This August marked the 15 year anniversary since Hurricane Katrina struck the Gulf Coast, leaving New Orleans in devastation. For episode 46, we talked with Willie Harris, who survived hurricane Katrina after 6 days of fighting for his life after the storm hit. He describes how he survived the elements, dealing with racism and trauma, rebuilding his life, and how this experience has shaped his perspective on our current social climate.

Sep 06, 20201 hr 17 minEp. 46

#45 Healing With Food and Culinary Therapy

In this episode we speak with Merceds Tiggs and Otesha Bremond about the intersection of cooking and mental health. We explore their business model of integrating therapy and healing through food and cooking. We talk about mindful cooking, and eating, as well as other practices relating to how we connect with our food, the process of preparation, and how that contributes to our mental health. Visit Eight 16 website Connect with Eight 16 on Facebook Watch the episode in video...

Aug 22, 20201 hr 4 minEp. 45

#44 Healing Trauma...Mind, Body & Soul

Lisa McJunkin is a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in working with trauma. She’s also an adjunct professor at Point Loma Nazarene University and co-founder of Enlightened Vibrations , where she provides therapeutic services. Lisa explains the various ways that traumatic stress impacts individuals, in a way that’s concise and understandable. She also describes her holistic approach to healing trauma , integrating both eastern and western healing practices, that attend to th...

Aug 09, 20201 hr 27 minEp. 44

#43 Authentic Branding and Social Change

Dr. Mitch Hamilton is a business marketing professor at Loyola Marymount University and founder/CEO of Rethink Creative Agency. He talks about finding his niche in marketing, how companies can effectively engage in social change, working on projects with Nipsey Hussle and Snoop Dogg, and balancing work and family during this social climate. Rethink Creative Agency Episode #43 YouTube companion video...

Jul 26, 20202 hr 30 minEp. 43

#42 - Teaching Our Children To Survive

On this episode of THOTM, Jermaine Simpson and Michael Ceccon are joined by Laila Aziz...a community activist, law student and parent of twin boys. This conversation is about having “the talk” with our children. However, this is not the “where do babies come from?” talk. Instead, it’s the unfortunately talk that many black parents have with their sons about what to do when stopped by police. We also discuss mental health in Black communities and balancing community activism with parenting, caree...

Jul 12, 20201 hr 18 minEp. 42

#41 - What Is White Privilege?

Chrissy Hunter is a licensed professional clinical counselor in Beaumont, Texas. She is also a return guest to THOTM (episode 7). Chrissy joined us for a discussion on white privilege, answering questions such as “what does it mean?”, “why does it matter?” and “what to do about it?”

Jun 28, 20202 hr 36 min

#40 - Racist Policing in Black Communities

Khalid Alexander is an English professor at San Diego City College, activist and co-founder of Pillars of the Community in Southeast San Diego. Khalid talks about racist policing of Black communities, the murder of George Floyd, local protests, and “defunding the police”. He is a return guest to THOTM, so check out episode #14 Post Election Reflections Check out this article on the topic of police training and abuse of power: Confessions of a Former Bastard Cop...

Jun 14, 20202 hr 35 minEp. 40

#39 Violence Against Blacks, Racial Trauma, and Activism

On episode #39, our guests are Dr. Ngonzi Truth Chrushshon and Dr. Mychal Odom. Dr. Truth is a PhD candidate in clinical psychology, with a private practice in Atlanta, Georgia. Dr. Odom, is a history and black studies professor for the San Diego Community College District and a community activists. We discussed police violence against black people, mental health implications, and ways to take action. Resources: Tapping Technique to Neutralize Trauna https://www.healthline.com/health/eft-tapping...

May 31, 20202 hr 45 minEp. 39

#38 Maintaining Wellness During The Pandemic

Episode 38 is a continuation of our last conversation, which we addressed self-care and social distancing. This week we touch on the COVID-19 impact on mental health, parenting, and creating new habits for maintaining wellness.

May 14, 20202 hr 45 minEp. 38

#37 Self-Care and Social Distancing

Self-care has become one of those pop culture terms that’s used so often and loosely, that it can easily lose it’s value. So...what is self care? Why is it important? How do we apply it while in self-quarantine? For episode #37, we provide meaning and context to the term and talk about our own ways of maintaining our wellness.

May 03, 20202 hr 51 minEp. 37

#36 - When Life Puts You On Pause

Welcome back to THOTM! This is our recording since taking a two month hiatus. In this episode, Michael describes the near death experience that put life and the podcast on pause. We also share our reactions to the COVID-19 pandemic.

Apr 19, 20201 hr 28 minEp. 36

#35 Nobody’s Free Until Everybody’s Free

In honor of the MLK holiday, THOTM is highlighting Dr. Kyra Greene, Executive Director of the Center on Policy Initiatives. She was selected as a civil rights speaker for the San Diego Women’s March 2020. THOTM has been documenting the organizing of SDWM, and had the honor of talking with Dr. Greene in the weeks leading up to the march. In this interview, she talks about her deep roots in activism, workers rights, and the role of Black women in civil rights for everyone....

Jan 20, 202042 minEp. 35

#34 The Power of Not Knowing

Gabrielle Gosselin is a counselor, instructor, and program coordinator of the CalWORKS program at Grossmont Community College in San Diego. Gabrielle talked with us about her unique upbringing, which inspired her sense of cultural awareness and passion for social justice. She also spoke candidly about her experience as a volunteer relief worker in Rwanda, and lessons on humility. Thank you Gabrielle for sharing your story with THOTM community!

Jan 06, 20202 hrEp. 34

#33 Year-In-Review (Part 2)

Episode #33 is part 2 of our year-in-review, where we listen to clips from previous episodes and reflect on how we were impacted and inspired by some of our guests. We truly appreciate the love we’ve received from our family, friends and listening community. Your support and feedback is so important for our growth and to continue producing quality content. If there’s anything that you like or don’t like...guests and topics you’d like to hear, let us know. Please like, share, and follow! Subscrib...

Dec 22, 20191 hr 17 minEp. 33

#32 Year-In-Review (part 1)

Year-In-Review (part 1) The Heart of the Matter podcast launched on November 19, 2018. However, our journey creating this podcast started over 3 years ago. Episode #32 is a part 1 of 2, year-in-review, where we reflect on highlights, challenges, and lessons from our first year in the podcast world. We truly appreciate the love we’ve received from our family, friends and listening community. Your support and feedback is so important for our growth and to continue producing quality content. If the...

Dec 09, 20191 hr 10 min