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The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Showwww.thehardorsoftshow.com
Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.
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Episodes

297a. My Marriage Is Over because of Secks Parties? (Reuploaded)

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!! This week the crew welcome Loons friend Aj to talk Courtneys chances at actually "getting some" before the summer is over, having secks with your friends in the house, Tahoes story about stalking his ex, some really cringy stories about bad past experiences, how long after women put they booty on you do you take to start the action up, somebody wants to be Trapped in Tahoes basement, and a young lady writes into the show about her husband wanting to lea...

Aug 12, 20252 hr 25 min

297. My Marriage Is Over because of Secks Parties?

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!! This week the crew welcome Loons friend Aj to talk Courtneys chances at actually "getting some" before the summer is over, having secks with your friends in the house, Tahoes story about stalking his ex, some really cringy stories about bad past experiences, how long after women put they booty on you do you take to start the action up, somebody wants to be Trapped in Tahoes basement, and a young lady writes into the show about her husband wanting to lea...

Aug 06, 20252 hr 25 min

296. I Let Her Ride Me Around The House

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLL!!!!!! This week Tahoe sits with Eli Daniels better known as The Naked Trumpeter to talk his experience at the latest play party, using his trumpet on his subjects, his use of electroplay, being fetishized as a black man from ppl of different cultures, why he describes himself as a ho and what being a ho means to him and his upcomibg involvement in the Sex Down South expo in Atlanta this coming fall, then we give a snippet of episode two of For The Love of Yesterday...

Jul 30, 20251 hr 27 min

295. Show Me What That Neck Do

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!! This week the crew celebrate hitting 100,000 Followers on Instagram as we talk getting/giving the best neck of your life, Courtneys summer going better than planned, waiting too long to actually set up a date after you meet someone, how to teach a man the stroke that you like, is there such a thing as too many bodies, how much of your person you really want to know, a person coming into Loons house with the wrong type of protection, different role play sc...

Jul 23, 20252 hr 23 min

294. Eat My A$$ Until I Collapse Feat @Stassy.Banks

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week the team wecomes the incomparable @Stassy.Banks to talk being with someone that reflected our parents habits, an anal jingle and how they feel about back door action, Stassy being kinda Bi but kinda not, being in a primary lesbian relationship that includes men and the positive and negative dynamics that come with it, dealing with crazy ppl and why the sex is so good, The mechanics of scissoring, body image and how it effects a persons sexua...

Jul 16, 20252 hr 32 min

293. The Best Of The Breasts Feat Barry Loves Boobs

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!! This week Tahoe, Loon and Yesssterday sit with Barry, Essence, Maya and Erica to talk mens love for the boobs, things men do to stop themselves from climaxing too quickly, when a woman was too freaky for them, Boob Play - the things women do with the boobs to turn men on, men who are way too freaky for the girls, how Barry created the Barry Loves Boobs movement, and so much more!! ENJOY!!! Socials Barry @TheBarryLovesShow on Instagram @BarryLovesBoobs on T...

Jul 08, 20252 hr 29 min

292. Threesum Etiquette Feat Madame Sè

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLL!!!! This week our trio welcome The Kinky Oracle Madame Sè back to the show to talk everything from her awful experience with the military to what men do that can mess up the vibes during a threesum. Sorry for the late post and short description but I'm late for work gotta go BYE!!! oh and ENJOY!! Socials: Madysha Aka Madame Se aka The Kinky Oracle @MrsBellamy.CallMeCoach on Instagram

Jul 03, 20251 hr 56 min

291. Dick Sold Separately Feat Fuzz Rico

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!! This week in continuance of our celebration of Pride Month we welcome creative artist Fuzz Rico to the show as we talk living her life as a self proclaimed Stud, why studs compare strap sizes, when she realized that she identified as a masc presenting person, competition between straight men and studs, men 30+ who dont have kids being a red flag vs being a green flag, the difference between fem lesbians, studs and super studs and MORE! ENJOY! Socials Fuzz ...

Jun 24, 20252 hr 5 min

290. The Gayng Bang Feat @_BayBey and @Billy.TheBadGuy

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! Omg...omg...OMGGG!!! Continuing our celebration of Pride Month, Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with Tahoes friends Bre'on and Billy The Bad Guy and lets just say this episode was EPICCCC!!!!! There's so much that happened I cant even begin to break it all down but lets just say that by the ending somehow Tahoe's underwear were wrapped around somebodies face. From Tahoe and Yesssterdays gay names, to the relationship between gay men and straight men and finally ...

Jun 17, 20252 hr 21 min

289a. Get Out My House Or Get In Me Feat Tori Easton (part two)

Welcome Back to part two of our amazing episode featuring Tori Easton! We continue the conversation speaking about the difference between the way the world views trans women now vs ten years ago, the relationship between straight men and trans women, the relationship between straight women and trans women and why do ppl in the LGBTQIA+ community out DL men? ENJOY! Socials: Tori @TheToriEaston on all socials www.ToriEaston.com Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram...

Jun 12, 20251 hr 25 min

289. Get Out My House Or Get In Me.. Feat. Tori Easton (part one)

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week the crew welcomes Tori Easton to talk making ppl and not making ppl climax off of head, Tahoe wakes his girl up with a surprise, Tori's perfect form of foreplay, getting freaky with a cpap on, fkn thru your special circumstances, Loon being traumatized by Tahoe being too freaky at a play party, Tori's wildest moments at play parties and her experience as a cam girl, and (omg) the things ppl with penises do during p0rn shoots to keep their thing ...

Jun 10, 20251 hr 21 min

288. I Orgasmed In My Mind Feat @StephDomme

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAAAALLLLLLLL!!!! This week the crew welcome Mistress Steph to talk morning wood, Steph making men pass out from pegging them, anal training men, her growth as a domme over the last four years, Yesssterdays special talents, her experience with her service sub and teaching begiiner women how to become dommes, and being a Scat Queen who also ships sh-t to customers. Then we get into her videos doing anal training with her service sub, is rubbing another mans c-m on your nipple...

Jun 03, 20252 hr 7 min

287. Memphis Rizzley Feat @Cmrdaa

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week Loon, Courtney and Yesssterday welcome internet sensation Cmrdaa to the Nut Navy as they talk how she got her nickname, why Bronx girls love Brooklyn men, Rizzing men out their clothes, how she met her man, why she feels her biggest haters are other women and her alleged "pick me" content, and all of her favorite k!nks. This was one of our favorite guests!! Follow her on all her platforms and ENJOY!! Socials: Cmrdaa @Cmrdaa on Instagram, Twitch ...

May 28, 20251 hr 29 min

286. Game Day

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!! This week the episode starts off HOT as Tahoe takes Loon to Homie Court, Tahoe and Loon being attacked in the comments for saying NO, a man that leaves his fiancee because she wouldnt sign an prenup, what clause would you put in your prenup, why men dont like going to doctors, and a woman is ingenious with the way she cheats. Our next play party is JULY 26th!! Stay Tuned for the ticket link and..ENJOY!! Socials: Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Courtney ...

May 25, 20252 hr 2 min

285. Gimme Some Joseph! Feat. Ebony Mystique

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!! OH MY LAWDD LAWD LAWD! This week Tahoe and Loon sit with THEE Ebony Mystique and it was organically hilarious!! First we talk deep dish d*ck and the effects it has on a person, what Ebony might do if she ever finds some and has done in the past. Her start in the p0rn industry, the shocking truth about her family upbringing, her favorite scnes and one scene she did that she will NEVER forget. Then we talk D*ck names and one of our cohosts gave us a hilarious...

May 12, 20251 hr 46 min

284. Grind On Me

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!! This week the crew get back to it as we talk ...hold up brb

May 06, 20251 hr 47 min

283. Take This D*ck Seriously

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAAALLLLLLLLLL!!! Welcome Back Yall! This week we welcome Kassius Bricks to talk his expereince as the premier host of BBW events in the US, ppl who wanna perform oral and go number two at the same time, dealing with partners that are insecure, why men are attracted to bigger women, how soon you should tell a person you just met that you're into kink and more!! ENJOY! Socials: Kassius @Kassius_Brikkz Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and...

Apr 28, 20251 hr 52 min

282. Pu$$y Poetry Feat In Living Black

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!! This week Tahoe and Loon welcome Jd and Scoot of the In Living Black podcast to have a guys talk as we ask is belching or pooting in front of your partner sexy or frowned upon, naked gym etiquette, the secksiest things a person has told you about yalls bedroom interactions, subtly telling a person how to improve in the bedroom, spitting on the coochie, what men envy about women and secks, and so much more!! ENJOY!! Socials: JD @JDTheOpinionated on instagram @JD...

Apr 21, 20252 hr 8 min

281. Satisfaction Without Penetration Feat BK OverFiend

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! In this episode we welcome pleasure creator BK OverFiend and his sub India as we talk his propensity to be a vehicle of pleasure not only for himself but also to others. He shows us over 20 tools of pleasure that he procures from your average everyday stores and turns them into items that he uses on his subs to manipulate their senses. Then he gives us a demonstration on one of the hosts which..well..lets just say we took it ALL the way there. This episod...

Apr 14, 20251 hr 35 min

280. Playing Your Role Feat @DazLeone

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!! This week we welcome Dazleone of the Dirty Street Confessions show to talk role playing as a side n*gga and the differences in roles between sneaky links, side n*gga, boyfriend #2 and slide. Then we talk the difference between polyamory and just dating multiple people, a young disabled woman that attended a play party, the reasons men dont want to mess with a woman that is too freaky or too open about her secksuality, women using tit for tat methods when i...

Apr 07, 20252 hr 11 min

279. The Kinky Oracle Feat Madame Se

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week on Hard Or Soft we welcome The Nut Navys own Madame Se to talk kinks that deserved to be shamed, who is more horny men or women, the proper way to play with the poosay, the proper way to correct a guy from doing the wrong thing in the bedroom, transparency in polyamory, women who hijack a conversation when men are expressing themselves, the difference between a great life partner and a great sexual partner and is your partner believing in Go...

Mar 28, 20252 hr 9 min

238. Talk Her Through It

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week the crew is back together as Tahoe Loon and Courtney talk talking her thru it, why men dont push their secksual boundaries, Yesssterday jerk shaming Tahoe, Men needing to get slutted out, different things that effect the male libido, stopping the argument before it starts, Out of pocket lyrics in songs, and More!! Great to be back with the team! ENJOY!! Join our Patreon to watch all visuals, listen to the show AD Free, become part of the Nut Nav...

Mar 20, 20251 hr 50 min

237. Healing On The Boo-ooty

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week Courtney and Tahoe welcome intimacy coach Celeste Hirschman of the Somatica Institute to talk the relationship between peoples traumas and their intimacy styles, being in a relationship thats mono/poly, the art of seduction, how a change in body type can change your intimacy style and how you feel about yourself, re-establishing trust when it's been broken and so much more!! ENJOY!!! Socials: Celeste To become a relationship coach go to ...

Mar 13, 20251 hr 47 min

236. Professor Sexxx

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week Loon and Courtney welcome Nikki (more details soon)..but Listen NOW! Socials Nikki @NikkiTony51 Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram also check out her @TheSpicyStudios page Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Loon @KingLoonThe1st on Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolat...

Mar 06, 20252 hr 6 min

235: Step Into My Green Room

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!! This week Tahoe is back with Glady and Fuzz from the Grxxn Room podcast as they ask each other what they think womens preferences are with respect to secks on the first date, when they started to be comfortable being with their sexuality, what "freaky" is to them, being older in age and the differences having secks when they were younger vs having secks as an older man, ( TRIGGER WARNING) Fuzz shares a story about his first introduction to seck...

Feb 27, 20252 hr 3 min

234. Regina Hall?????

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!! This week Loon and Courtney welcome BruhMan to talk their Valentines day experience, men being scared to admit they love their person, things that would make you raise an eyebrow about a new partners kink stash, why men police women so much, getiing horny at the wrong time, and more! ENJOY! Socials BruhMan @BruhMAnFromThe5thFloor on Instagram @BruhManDaeDae on Twitter Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram also check out her @TheSpicyStudios page Tahoe @Taho...

Feb 20, 20252 hr 4 min

233. I Want A Horny Maternal Kinda Woman

NUT NAVY ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week we welcome Jazz and Aeon from the Code Name Coochie podcast to talk men waxing their buttholes, the difference between fetish, preference and kink, fetishes we could see oursleves being into that we arent actually into, talking men through their nuts, hiding your kinks from your partner, getting your person to leave work to come have secks with you and having an elder woman that knows how to cater to her man. Such a FUN episode!!! ENJOY!! Are you...

Feb 10, 20252 hr 14 min

232. My First Cream Pie

NUT NAVY ROLLLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week we introduce our new game show format where Loon and Courtney go head to head in a series of games revolving around mens health and sexuality to see who is going to get creampied. We talk washing hands when we go to the bathroom, Tahoes Xmas gifts and his issue with them, Loons realization when paying for his ladies gas and how socieities stigmas with male sexuality affects the way they present themselves in life and specifically their relationsh...

Jan 30, 20251 hr 31 min

231. No Jerk January

NUT NAVY ROOOLLLLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLLL!!! This week the gangs all here as Courtney takes the league and asks what the guys are planning for Valentines day and why some men get weird around that time of year. Tahoes No Jerk January experiment, and have you ever found yourself fapping a little too much? Would you have a secks robot and if so what would it look like? How many times do you really wanna have secks a week? Being attracted to an "aggressive girl" and why men seem to be taking on that c...

Jan 23, 20252 hr 5 min

230. I Cant Jerk To This?

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLL!!! This week its just the guys in the studio as we ask do you have more secks in a relationship or when you were single, Loon and his winter d!ck, is there such a thing as masturbating too much, a young lady who had a foursome in front of her man, trying to find ew d!ck while pregnant, liking a girl who likes your friend, does what your friends and family think of your person matter to you, going out with your friends and they're doing too much to stand out from ...

Jan 14, 20251 hr 50 min
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