Hello Sunshine.
Hey fam Today on the bright Side, we're joined by author you Lean Kwang. She's the May pick for Reese's Book Club, and she's here to talk all about her debut novel, How To End a Love Story. It's so good. It's Thursday, May thirtieth. I'm Simone Boyce.
I'm Danielle Robe and this is the bright Side from Hello Sunshine. Simone. I came across this article on Cosmo that I need to get your opinion on. So this writer is endorsing getting drinks with an X, and I know we all have strong feelings about that. She says she thinks it's okay because of romantic nostalgia. I don't know.
I agree. I have so many questions. This is raising a lot of red flags for me.
So I don't actually think that it's helpful to go back in time very often.
No, I can't think of very many instances where it is helpful.
I've done this multiple times. Okay, you know I have multiple axes.
Well, you do. It also depends your current relationship status, So did you do this while you were single in a relationship?
Right? So I think if you're in a current relationship, it's a little spici or trickier, because is that really okay.
I'm not thinking it's.
Disrespectful if you don't if you're not upfront about it with your partner, oh yeah yeah.
But also you need a really good reason even if you're upfront. It's like, for why, exactly for why?
I'm trying to think if my husband was like, hey, I'm just going to meet up with my ex that I would be like why, why why are you doing that?
Like, yeah, I don't understand the reason. But I've met up with exes in the past when I wasn't in a current relationship, and I felt so icky after nothing happened. We just got a breakfast or a meal or a drink or whatever, and I felt like I had so outgrown them. It didn't take me back to a time and place of myself. It took me to a place where I was like, how could I have ever dated you?
So tell me about the why behind and your ex meetups.
It was usually at their request, and then I sort of just said like sure, but first of all, you have to go in looking amazing. You have to look fabulous, and the outfit really matters, Like you don't want to look like you tried too hard, but like you have to try a little bit. I love like a gene that makes your butt look really good with like a simple white or black tanker T shirt and then great simple makeup and some hoop earrings, so like a Calvin kleinad.
I mean, that's basically my wardrobe. But it's like a dry hard, not try hard outfit.
Doesn't that part feel a little thirsty though, like as you're getting ready, Yes, it feels thirsty, right, yes.
It feels And then you change your shoes multiple times because you're like, do I wear heels? Do I wear sneakers? No? I definitely should wear sneakers. Why do I care? And you start coming.
Through this is a case for not meeting up with them because I don't think they deserve that much of your time, your brain space. So when you met up with the X, did you get a chance to say something that you wish you had said? Did you get like one more barb in.
Error My most recent ex, who is the only one that I don't really talk to because he sucks. We met up right before COVID happened, at his request, and I still had really hurt feelings from the relationship in the breakup, and I was like, this is my time to communicate it and I got to get everything off my chest.
I cried.
He looked so uncomfortable, like that is not what he came here for.
I did not want this. I got way more than I bargained for.
I think he was looking to see if we would hook up again, and of course he was.
The only one reason why he's reaching out.
And I was like, this is a moment to have, like a closure therapy session. And so after that, I was like, I'm never doing this again.
You would a therapy session.
I was like, this is great. We get to like have all of these unexpressed feelings. No, he was not having it. I felt so dumb and I was like, I'm never doing this again. Oh no, Yeah, But lesson learned. Keep it for your journals, keep it for the book. If you're going to write a book about your life, do that.
Watch the movies that remind you of it. You can get your fill of romantic nostalgia in other places movies, music, TV. Speaking of TV, we got to get into a platonic or perhaps not so platonic situation. All right, So the internet is investigating whether The Bear castmates Ioadebris and Jeremy Allen White are a thing. Have you heard about this?
No?
Whoo?
I love this. I love this for them.
If you watch the show The Bear, they have this incredible chemistry and a really tight relationship on screen, so it would make a lot of sense if they did have that off screen. I mean, fans of the show have been rooting for these two for a minute. But we got some new evidence. Okay, So a video of Io and Jeremy at a Chicago Cubs game. Shout out, Chicago, shout out, thanks for that out shout out Brigley Field. This video, y'all, is adding more fuel to the fire.
I saw the clip. It is a video from above, so like they're sitting further down in the stadium seats. Someone captured it from.
Above, so creepy.
It's totally creepy. Jeremy has his hand on Io's back and he's like rubbing between her shoulder blades. Once you see this video, you realize it is not platonic at all.
Disagree, and I haven't seen the video.
You have to see it. Look up the video.
Okay.
Once you see it, there's no way that they're just friends. Oh yeah, that's not friendly. I don't you friendly. This is on par with a thigh caresses. This is on par with a forehead kiss in my opinion.
Oh not quite a forehead.
Okay, maybe it's one degree back from a forehead kiss. But I mean this is all but confirmed in the school of school of thought of Simone boys.
I wish I could say that they were doing this because I think the new season is coming out and it's like the great publicity that they're dating. But I don't think they're tricking us.
I mean, I think it could really be real after seeing this. Okay, right side, bessies, you have to go watch the video. Let us know if we are de Lulu or if this relationship is the Sululu After the break, we're talking about another kind of love story. Yuleen Kwang is here. She's the author of the May Pick for Reese's Book Club. Her book is How to End a Love Story, and we're getting into it.
Stay with us. We are here with the May Pick for Reese's Book Club author Yuleen Kwang. Her debut novel, How to End a Love Story, hit the shelves last month and it is already becoming a fan favorite, and.
I'm one of those fans. Danielle. How To End a Love Story follows Helen Zang, a best selling author whose Ya novel is getting adapted to a TV show. So Helen walks into the writer's room on day one, and who does she see? Of course it's Grant Shepherd, the one person she hoped she'd never see after high school and the one person who will always remind her of her family's tragedy. I could not put this book down, y'all.
I swear.
I blew through it in like a day.
It took me too, but it was so good. And in addition to her work as a novelist, Yuleene is a screenwriter and director whose credits include TV shows like Dollface and I Ship It. She's currently directing a film adaptation of romance author Emily Henry's best selling novel bet Read. Everyone's excited for that one, Euleene, Welcome to the bright Side.
Hi, thank you so much for having me. Can I just say I was listening to your Michelle Kwan episode coming in today because I figure skate, but I only started as an adult.
Oh that's cool.
Yeah, I woke up this morning because I had a lesson with my coach and I saw Michelle Kwan's face and the bright side, and I was like, oh my gosh, perfect listening.
We all got you starting.
I had been so obsessed with skating when I was a kid, but my parents were like, oh no, honey, like, we don't have the money for that, And so I had disposable income for the first time in my life. So I googled and I found a rink and then I started skating as an adult.
That is so cool. Good for you. Isn't it so freeing to be on the ice?
Oh my gosh, I love it so much. It feels like the closest thing the flying.
I think, yes, that's how I felt.
That is so cool.
You should probably reach out to Michelle Kwan.
I would love to, Okay, listen if you can connect us, because I took a lesson with her former coach, Frank Carroll, because I had this like actress friend who she was doing something called rejection immersion therapy where every single day she had to ask for something where she thought the answer was no. I guess the idea is you'll get you steering now, or maybe sometimes you'll hear it.
Yes, So I put in a request for.
Frank Carroll to coach me, thinking he would just like do me the honor of projecting me, and he said yes, And so I still remember like our first lesson together where he was like, you have as much right to be here as anyone else.
Show me your forward stroke.
That's good. Oh so I like rejection therapy, have been practicing it my whole life.
It's so good.
So you've wanted to be a storyteller, I hear, ever since you were a kid. What was the first story that you wrote and shared. I would always.
Watch movies and kind of like rewrite them in my head when I was going to bed. I wanted the characters to kiss more, like I remember watching a few Good Men and then wanting Tom Cruise and to me more to kiss. So I would just go to bed replaying that scenes and then just being like, what would I have to adjust? I wrote a lot of like hand scrawled things. Do you remember those Dear America books?
I don't know.
Tell me more about that.
They were like diary entry type things where it was the narrative of some historic event was in a diary and so I wanted to do that with Pearl Harbor, and so I wrote like a diary entree style novel that was like my first one, and you know famously, Pearl Harbor happens December seventh, nineteen forty one. And I started my story in like nineteen thirty eight because I thought we needed a lot of backstory. And then I had a friend who told me, you know, this is
kind of boring. I think you should you should cut to the chase. So I abandoned that effort, and then I started putting together my next book. At this point in time, I'm like in fifth grade. But then I discovered fan fiction and that kind of altered my brain chemistry, and that was where I really got started writing things and sharing them with people.
I love hearing that historical fiction peaked your literary interest. That's how I got into books. I loved like you could learn about something that you didn't know about and read about these characters that you love. There was always like a romance element, which.
I know you really read with.
You started your career with adaptations, and you're currently adapting Emily Henry's novel People we Meet on Vacation and the forthcoming beach Read into feature films. How did you approach writing and adaptation. I look at.
Adaptation as kind of like a puzzle and a love letter at the same time, because I personally can't adapt anything that I don't love. So I'm looking at what is it about it that deeply resonates with me, What is the part of it that I'm kind of identifying,
and then I construct a love letter to that. And that's when I go back to my roots when I was a fan fiction writer, because that was where I first discovered that people would play in these spaces that were other people's worlds, but they were finding the parts that they gravitated to most. And once I kind of unlocked that part of my brain in the ways that I approached adaptation, my career went a lot better.
Now there's something about your story that Simone and I are both obsessed with. When we learned this about you, we thought this should be on every social media handle you have. You were once fired from a Hallmark movie for being to quote unquote hip. What happened and how did you learn from that experience?
Yeah, So, my co writer Liz Scudlow and I we were writing a Hallmark movie called Love on Iceland, where these two characters fall in love on Iceland. And I think we were writing a lot of jokes that the Hallmark Channel just felt like we're off brand, Like we had go Thomas Kinkaid joke, and they were like, no, no, no, we don't want to touch with Thomas Kinkai joke.
That might be too controversial.
So I was like, okay, wait, I'm sorry Thomas Kinkaid as in the guy who paints those moody pictures of cottages nestled in the forest.
Yes, yes, that would be too controversial potentially. And then I think we had maybe like a Georgiana and Maal Clooney joke in there that they were like, this is too much of a pop culture reference for our audience. And so I think after one too many of those types of notes where they kept telling us these jokes are too hip for Hallmark, they called us onto a conference call and then they told us we're.
Going in a different direction.
You know, they hired other writers who got the job done, and they went to Iceland and they shot that movie and they still fall in Love on Iceland. So we are still credited on that project.
You mean this has to be at the top of every bias, so when you walk out on a panel stage, everybody knows this.
You know.
At the time, I didn't feel great about it because it's to feel like professional failure. They're like very well known hallmark in the space of romance, and as somebody who loves kissing stories, I was kind of.
Like, is my career over? Yeah? Will I ever get another chance?
You definitely are just at the beginning of your career, and I want to get into the reason why we're all here, which is how to end a love story? Which came first for you these characters or the storyline?
I think probably the characters, because I always knew it was going to be a novelist and a screenwriter. I always knew I kind of wanted to explore an East coast West coast dichotomy there, and I knew I wanted to kind of give them that tension, and so I really started there, and then I knew I wanted to force them into a writer's room together because I love a forced proximity trope.
If someone were to ask you what this book is about, I'm curious how you would describe it?
How would I describe it?
I mean, I would say it's the story of a screenwriter and a novelist who find themselves in the same TV writer's room thirteen years after this very tragic accident that kind of binds them together forever.
And then they're in this room trying to.
Work through the work of adaptation, and then they go on a healing journey together as well.
I read that you use the Anagram personality test to help you develop these characters. Why do you find that to be so useful? That's so interesting?
Oh, I love it so much.
So for anybody who doesn't know the Aneagram personality test, there's like nine different personality types. It kind of centers around what people's wounds are and how maybe the things that they encountered and youth shaped them into a person who has very specific fears, very specific once, and a very specific drive. On some level, I think all personality tests are kind of bullshit.
Can I curse on here?
You can curse? And also what aneagram are you?
So?
I think they're all a little bit bullshit, But I think that the anagram one is my favorite because it tells you what a person is like when they're trending towards health versus their most unhealthy. So I am an Aneagram three, which is the achiever, and that is the type that I gave to Helen, and I gave Grant my husband's Enneagram type, which is number two, the helper.
And I really like the enneagram for mapping what a character is like in Act one when they're kind of in their normal world, and then you take them to an unhealthier place in the conflict section, and then you bring them back to a healthier place, hopefully at the end.
So now that we know that there's a bit of you in Helen and a bit of your husband and Grant, what is the most Helen thing about you? And what's the most Grant thing about your husband? Oh, my gosh, the most Helen thing about me.
I think I resonated with that character so much because I gave her all of my insecurities. And it's a hard thing for Helen because I feel like she's so prickly and uncomfortable all the time, and that's because I just gave her all my baggage.
I was like, do you want to just take this all from me? Like that'll be a lighter weight for me then.
And then for Grant, I gave him like my husband's ability to be very, very selfless, I would say, in the ways that he wants to help others, and I can see also how that can sometimes get him into trouble where he's not prioritizing himself enough. So I really liked how the partnership of Helen and Grant allowed me to kind of examine what those dynamics are like.
As someone who loves kissing in films in stories. What is the secret to an epic love story to you, I would say romantic tension.
I think that we need tension in order to really feel the narrative thrust of a story, Like we kind of need to know why a couple can't be together right now. And so if there're just two nice people who could just be together.
Then I'm like, then I don't really want to watch that.
I think they'd be lovely people to befriend and like go to brunch with, But that's not necessarily the story I want to go for Shakespearean.
It's also my toxic love life anyway. I learned that actually through the West Wing, because Josh and Donna were never Oh my gosh, and Aaron Sorkin made that happen right like for three seasons, and then he left the show and the new showrunner and writer's room had them kiss, and the show was kind of over.
I was so obsessed with them. I remember there was like a fan site where you could read every single interaction that they had. It just like cataloged them all and you could just read the transcript of each scene. And I would just go to that like twenty times a day.
Can you bring that show back, please? You'd be so good writing it.
I would love to ilimans my like forever crush.
Okay, I know he's like, you're hearing me.
Out, not even he's not even to hear me out.
He is a straightforward yes.
Yeah, we get it.
Yeah, you don't have to hear her out.
You're right.
He's hot. He's hot and smart. It's a win when. Yeah, your book is called How to End a Love Story, but there's more than one love story in the book. There's romantic love and family love. Why did you juxtapose the love stories that exist within families with romantic love.
I think because they often go hand in hand, you know, I think your your family, those are often the people that first teach you what you know about love. They kind of define it for you through their daily actions, and you spend all of this time in your childhood and you're like just a person who's trying to make your way through and find love and give love. And then it becomes this thing where sometimes sometimes you'll stumble and you'll be like, oh, why am I so activated?
Why are all these things happening that I don't understand? And then you look back and you're like, Oh, it's because of like this thing that happened in my life at one point.
I think those two for me are.
Very, very connected because of how love is kind of taught to us.
Okay, I want to ask you about the other horny books you read, because I have a few in my library and I want to cross reference.
What did you call them?
Mud?
It's mutt, Yeah, smut smutty books.
YEA Simone taught me that I'd never heard that term. I prefer money books to like spice. There's something about spice that to me sometimes feels like we're like whitewashing it again, and I'm like, no, just called it smutt. There is not a derogatory connotation to smut. To me.
Yeah, yeah, like it's okay for us giving ourselves permission to love these books and all their yeazziness and raunchiness.
Yeah.
For for a long time, I used to keep all of my romance novels under a tab in my Kindle called Trashy Romance Novels. And it was like a big moment for me when I deleted the trashy and I was like.
No, no, no, this is literature. Yeah.
Well, there are a lot of women around the world right now who are fighting back against that stigma and saying no, we are going to be unabashed in our embrace of these stories and like let us live, like.
Let's exactly life, you know, truly.
I have to ask you about something that I read in the back acknowledgments of the book. You tell your parents not to tell you if they've read certain chaps. Why did you say that and what did you mean by that?
I mean they are all the chapters with any reference to sex, Like one of them is like pretty tame, even it's the one where she goes to his house and I think he has the brief thought a couple hours ago she came on my tongue, So I was just like, yeah, no, that's that's too much for them. I would say like sex was a very taboo subject in my household growing up. It was like not a safe space for those conversations. And I don't know, maybe
I had my sexual awakening too early. I feel like I watched like Anastasia in a theater and I saw Dimitri with his Adam's apple, and I was just like, what's happening to me? So I was just like baseline, pretty horny. And I remember watching porn really young. I was maybe like fourteen fifteen. Actually that might not even be that young. That might be about the age when
people discover it. And I was kind of curious about sex because it was such a taboo topic that I was like, where am I going to learn about this? So I started going to porn sites just to you know, educate myself. I was always a good student. And then I accidentally downloaded a virus to the family computer and so I came home one day and my parents are sitting They're like, Uleen, we need to talk to you.
And they're sitting stone faced in front of the computer and there is on the monitor I can only describe as like a snake of pop ups that are all just each one more graphic than the last, and my Dad's.
Like, we have to talk to you about something.
My mom looks and she just bursts into tears and leaves the room, and then my dad goes, you know what, never mind, you can go. And that was about the sex talk that I received. So I think with that key memory in mind, I was just like, I'm not going to subject them to this book.
I can so relate to not having a safe space to talk about sex. Growing up, we did not talk about it.
I had to figure it out on my own.
My sexual awakening was watching Patrick Swayze gyrate his hips in Dirty Dancing and a Sleepover. That was the first time I got the tingles.
I feel like maybe the reason I love historical romance so much is because I was so repressed that now there is something on like an id level that really appeals to me about the fact that it's like we mustn't like a single touch is too much, Yeah, and we have to go recover.
Yeah, something something got hard coded into me.
There's something there, for sure.
But I think that's why you're so good at inserting romantic tension into the stories, because you know what it feels like to suppress.
Oh yeah, but we mustn't quality I'm very familiar.
With you're the master, we mustn't.
It's yeah, thank you for that. Yeah, well, thank you to my parents for that.
So I don't want to give anything away, but I'm dying to know about writing a sex scene because people are using into to see coordinators on screen these days. How do you coordinate these scenes within yourself?
It honestly would have been much easier for me to write like a fade to Black romance, because I think that's what I've would have been much more comfortable with. And I think that's why I did decide to write sex on the page, because I wanted to push myself a little bit, and so I was chasing what was appealing to me. It was kind of like a self
discovery exercise. I feel like a sex therapist should probably tell people to write a scene that feels horny to them, because I learned so much about myself and what turns me on in the process of writing this, and then, you know, it was fun because then I would hand it to my husband at the end of every night of drafting and I'd be.
Like read this, you'd be like, oh, interesting, this is.
Feeling a little instructional, and so I think it was good for us honestly.
So we both are big fans of you and this book, and we want to give our listeners a little window into your words. Will you do us the huge honor of reading us a passage from the book?
Yes, of course.
Okay, Bessie's let's get to my favorite part of our author interviews. Here on the bright side, Julien Kwang is going to read us a passage from her book this month's Reese's Book Club pick, How to End a Love Story.
She pulls up her call log and her thumb hovers over his name. He'd pick up, She's sure of it. She'd call and he'd pick up, and she'd tell him she's moved back into her old apartment in New York that doesn't feel like home anymore, and she misses him so much that her heart hurts all the time, and she loves him so much she sometimes can't fathom a
world where she's ever truly happy again. He'd come back, and she'd blow off her plans for a reconciliation dinner with her parents tomorrow and she'd be able to touch him again, and and she would make it impossible for either of them to move on. Let him go, she reminds herself sharply. He deserves a happy, normal life with a happy, extraordinary someone. The kind of woman who deserves Grant would have found him on the right coast, the
one he calls home. He would have opened his arms and she would have fallen into them for the first time and known it was her favorite place in the world right away. She wouldn't have had to fight a terrible, confusing mixture of compulsions to flee and burrow at the
same time, choosing ultimately to flee. The kind of woman who deserves Grant would have known what she had when she had it, and wouldn't have waited until weeks later to weep and wallow over the loss of him in a bathtub for so long she now knows what her toes would look like if she drowned. The kind of woman who deserves Grant would be capable of the kind of love that keeps little sisters alive. Grant Shepherd deserves a Hollywood movie ending with swelling music and sweeping camera
movements and kissing in the rain. This movie would have an epilogue with warm lighting and dad jokes and family dinners in the summer garden over the end credits, and Helen Sang has never been built for that kind of uncomplicated happily.
Ever after.
You lean it closed my eyes and just let it wash over me, and that was so great. I love all the details that you add. It feels so real to me.
I like that section all lot. I kind of wanted to say to readers, I am not trying to be Emily Henry because I love Emily's work and I love her writing so much, and I know exactly from the adaptation work I do what kind of movie I want to watch when I'm watching an Emily Henry book to screen adaptation.
And I think that passage was a little bit.
Of my ode to that where I'm like, I know where this would go if if I were doing that, But that's not what I am as an author, and that's not who this character is either.
Yuleen, we're having a blast with you, but we got to take a quick break. When we come back, we're going to learn more about who you are as an author. With a little help from our bright Side Besties.
We're back with Yuleen Kwang talking all about her debut book, How To End a Love Story. We have readers with questions, so let's get in it. Hi. This is Larissa from Toronto.
I really loved this book, especially how generous you were with writing what I like to call micro moments like Grant playing with Helen's hair or caressing her jaw, or Helen kissing Grant's fingertips. You were very visual in your descriptions and it gifted the reader these tender, sensual snapshots that practically suspended time.
So I have two parts to my question.
First, do you feel like your skills as a screenwriter allowed you to get more visual when writing these scenes? And secondly, how did you balance writing these beautifully steamy moments while also managing to leave space for the grief that Helen and Grant were grappling with.
Yeah, thank you for that question. I think my work as a screenwriter definitely did help me in that way, because I wanted to create a visual and I think I was thinking almost about like giable moments, maybe not like deliberately, but I just knew that as somebody who consumes media very obsessively, there are certain moments that I obsess over in movies and TV shows that I then end up replaying over and over again. So when the technology was invented that I could reblog that to Tumblr,
I was thrilled. And so I think when I was writing, I was chasing those types of moments when you talk about the caressing of the jaw and those types of things, And then in terms of balancing those kind of steamier moments with the more serious topics like grief and things like that, I think that is how I experience life. I think I am both horny and sad and happy and hopeful and depressed, and so I wanted to write a book that kind of reflected that experience.
Eileene, I can hear our producers giggling in the other room. That's how hard they're laughing with you.
Perfect.
Yeah, all right, I'm excited for this next one. This question is a bit controversial.
Hi.
I'm Rachel from Connecticut.
I absolutely we love the interactions between Helen and Grant. They're so heartbreaking and raw. It's so so beautiful. My question is about adaptation. You've said that this book is a love letter to adaptation, but whenever people watch an adaptation, they say that the book is always better. As a screenwriter, what does that mean to you now that you've written your book, And how does this question make you feel as an adapt to yourself.
What a tricky mindfield of question. No, I love it.
I will challenge the idea that the book is always better when you come to the movie, you have all of these preconceived notions about it.
But there are also a lot of books that get adapted that are kind of flawed.
But with a good screenwriter and a great premise, the adaptation, I think can sometimes really really sing. I won't say the adaptation is better necessarily, but the adaptation becomes the thing that introduces people back to the book. Legally Blonde, I think, is a really great example of that. Not a lot of people know that is an adaptation, but it is if you watch the opening credits as often as I did as a child, because I was obsessed
with that movie and I liked the book. But I think the movie is still what I think of definitively when I think of Legally Blonde. When I approach adaptation, I am always thinking about what will service this story best in its new medium, Because that is my goal. I'm not really chasing a strictly faithful adaptation of the book, because the book will always exist. I don't want to be compared to the thing and be found lacking every single time because I was trying to be so faithful
that I betrayed the screen audience. So I think ultimately the purpose of successful adaptation is to bring new audiences back to the source material, rather than to please only the book fans.
So one of the goals of Reese's Book Club is to uplift and empower female authors. You've posted that you have been training for this moment your entire life. What has it meant to you to be an RBC pick?
Oh my god, It's like.
It is hard for me to describe that other than through that one screenshot of Ellwood's walking up to the bulletin board to see her name on the list of people that Victor Garber has selected to be in his summer internship, and she's just likeing to he Yes. I watched that movie so many times that I memorized it. I remember writing in the back of an old Lisa Frank diary my memorized transcript of the movie.
You're kidding me.
Yeah, No, I was just kind of wanting to experience the movie again in my mind before bed.
You Transcrip drived legally Blonde in your journal.
Yes, as much as I could remember it, and so it was like perfect day by Hoku is playing blonde hair. We followed down, yeah, and so there was that. I love you literally so much.
Meant to be here right now. It is so cute, e Lean.
So your wildest dreams have come true. Ellwoods picked your book for her book club, and you're making your debut as a director with an adaptation of one of the most popular romance writers out right. Now, what are you most proud of? With all the success?
I feel like I am a little superstitious about calling it success because we don't know, guys.
I mean, let's call it. Let's call it like it is an absolutely success.
I listened to your Michelle Kwan episode and somebody said something about I didn't come this far, yeah, just to come this far, and that is kind of how I feel. I'm like, I don't know that I would define this as success, and this all feels like part of the journey. What am I proud of?
Though?
I have been working on.
Feeling my feelings more because I grew up in an immigrant household. And I don't blame my parents for this at all, because they came from like such a totally different world than me. But I don't think there was a culture of sitting with our feelings. It was always let's focus on what needs to be done, and emotions often were seen as something that would get in the way of being effective. For a very long time, I feel like I was very removed from my body, from
my emotions. I didn't really know how I felt about anything. So I think maybe the thing I am proudest of is I am sitting with those emotions a lot more throughout this process. Right now, for instance, I feel anxious in their books and also joy.
Well, we are both so excited to see the success of this and also all that is to come for you. So thank you so much for joining us on the bright side. Brought a lot of sunshine to us today.
Sunshine and laughter and legally blonde references.
Ah, I love that. Thank you so much for having me.
Yuline Kwang is the author of the may Reese's book Club pick How to End a Love Story. Check it out wherever you get your books.
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