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The Break Up Break Down

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When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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Episodes

Break Down Bonus: The impact of mental health on relationships + factitious disorder commentary w/ Dr. Puder

Abby and Coworker Justin are back at it again and comment on this week's episode! They talk about how mental health affects relationships and the beauty of walking with your partner when they're really going through it (obviously, when they're not deceiving you about their condition). Dr. David Puder joins Abby at the end to talk about the impact of factitious disorder and other mental health concerns in relationships and how you can be the best partner for someone when they're in the trenches. ...

Jan 05, 202338 min

When she said her wife lied about having cancer.... - S3E1

[SCROLL FOR CW] - This week we're bringing awareness to Safe Space in Miami, FL: https://www.safespacefoundation.org/donate/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode...

Jan 03, 20231 hr 12 minSeason 3Ep. 1

When the breakups went unsolved (again).... - Season 2 Finale

Sometimes people don't want to come on the podcast!!! Shocking, right?!?! Listen to a few of the submissions where Abby reached out and either got ignored, blocked, or politely declined. Then, coworker Justin helps her come up with some theories to what they think happened! - Follow the podcasts! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Subm...

Dec 13, 202231 min

Break Down Bonus: Breaking down our attachment styles w/ LCSW Kat Schneider

You already know Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are already a bit messed up...so we decided to make a whole episode talking about their attachment issues! LCSW Kat Schneider joins the podcast as well to give a professional take on attachment styles and even relates them to 'The Office' characters!-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdow...

Dec 08, 202230 min

When her best friend had feelings for her boyfriend.... - S2E18

This week we're raising awareness for The Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro -...

Dec 06, 202238 minSeason 2Ep. 18

Break Down Bonus: Should you go through your partner's phone? (S2E17 Reaction)

The Holy Trinity of people pretending to be relationship experts are BACK! Lexi, Coworker Justin, and Abby got together to discuss going through your partner's phone, the nuances of cheating, and COSTCO. - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit...

Dec 01, 202219 min

When there were videos of other women on the phone.... - S2E17

This week we're raising awareness for the Tennessee Coalition to End domestic violence in Nashville: https://tncoalition.org/join-us/donate/-More DV support/shelters in Middle Tennessee: https://tncoalition.org/get-help/help-in-your-area/-Is it okay to go through your partner's phone? Tell us here & get featured on this week's bonus ep!: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thea...

Nov 29, 202220 minSeason 2Ep. 17

When we talked about the relationships we're thankful for.... - Thanksgiving Ep. 2022

Want more BUBD? Check out last year's holiday episodes! - "Blackout Wednesday" Break Down: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/fksBHgns9ub - Surviving the Holidays with @SoMyMomsATherapist: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/CTkekKps9ub - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://...

Nov 22, 202225 min

Break Down Bonus: Grieving a relationship that ended abruptly w/ Coworker Justin (S2E16 Reaction)

Wanna be featured on our Thanksgiving special? Tell us what relationship lesson you're thankful for: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message - Abby and Justin chat about this weeks episode and talk about relationships ending out of nowhere, introducing your partner to your family, and why you should never share a dog with someone lol. - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on I...

Nov 17, 202226 min

When it was our first male interview.... - S2E16

This week we're raising awareness for Alliance in Charlotte, NC: https://www.safealliance.org/donations/make-a-donation/ - LAST CHANCE TO GET MERCH!!!: https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new - Want to be featured on next week's episode?: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakup...

Nov 15, 202225 minSeason 2Ep. 16

Break Down Bonus: Can you be compatible with ANYONE? (S2E15 Reaction)

PODCAST MERCH (OPEN UNTIL NOV 14): https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new-Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to react to S2E15. They talk about how upbringing may affect your relationship, the sliding scale of compatibility, and even the new Love is Blind season!-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-S...

Nov 10, 202216 min

When college sweethearts cancel their wedding.... - S2E15

This week we're raising awareness for SAFE Shelter in Savannah, GA: https://safeshelter.org/donate/ - Podcast Merch! (link closes Nov. 14): https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemu... - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbrea... - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: htt...

Nov 08, 202230 minSeason 2Ep. 15

Break Down Bonus: Should you tell someone they're getting cheated on?! (S2E14 Reaction)

PODCAST MERCH (OPEN UNTIL NOV 14): https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new - Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to react to S2E14. They talk about getting back together after breaking up, the rules of "going on a break", friends helping friends get over break ups...and....should she tell the husband about the affair?! - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Do...

Nov 03, 202220 min

When she kept quiet about something he was hiding.... - S2E14

This week we're raising awareness for The Bridge in Houston, TX: https://tbotw.org/support-us/ - PODCAST MERCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!: https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new - Submit a reaction for this week's Bonus Episode: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast...

Nov 01, 202236 minSeason 2Ep. 14

Break Down Bonus: Former 'cult' member explains why people join them + S2E13 Reaction!

[SCROLL FOR CW] - LCSW Kat Schneider joins Abby at the end of this episode to talk about what it was like being a part of a religious cult! Kat also explains the mental health side of why people join, choose to stay, and some of the complications of leaving. Lexi and Coworker Justin help open up the episode to talk about the merch that is scheduled to go live this Tuesday! - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theab...

Oct 27, 202225 min

When her BF was in a cult.... - S2E13

[SCROLL FOR CW] - This week we're raising awareness for WEAVE in Sacramento, CA: https://interland3.donorperfect.net/weblink/WebLink.aspx?name=weave&id=265 - BREAK DOWN BONUS AUDIO REACTION: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms....

Oct 25, 202224 minSeason 2Ep. 13

Break Down Bonus: S2E12 Reaction + Midnights Mayhem with Us!!

Coworker Justin hops on another episode to talk about this week's episode! We'll react to the episode, talk about the significance of engagement/marriage, and share the craziest thing we've done to get over an ex! Also!!!! In honor of Midnights coming out tonight, the Heartbreakers & Abby/Justin share what TSwift song describes a breakup they went through the best!! - Follow the podcasts! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabby...

Oct 20, 202226 min

When she dated her step-brother.... - S2E12

This week we're raising awareness for the Help Now Shelter in Orlando, FL: https://www.helpnowshelter.org/donate-Support Help Now from your Amazon!: https://smile.amazon.com/charity?orig=%2Fref%3Dsmi_se_saas_lsmi_smi-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submi...

Oct 18, 202235 minSeason 2Ep. 12

Break Down Bonus: Coworker Justin stole his friend's GF! (Complicated friendships + S2E11 reaction)

Who knew Coworker Justin was such a casanova!! We're talking about the grey areas in friendships, how different situations change friendship dynamics, and why we tend to prioritize love interests over our friends.-Follow the podcasts!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit ...

Oct 13, 202218 min

When it was our first friendship breakup episode.... - S2E11

Support Family Rescue in Chicago, IL: https://familyrescueinc.org/donate/ - TELL ME WHAT TAYLOR SWIFT SONG RELATES TO YOUR BREAK UP AND WHY (AUDIO SUBMISSION): https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feed...

Oct 11, 202233 minSeason 2Ep. 11

When she didn't realize she was in an abusive relationship.... - S2E10

[SCROLL FOR CW] - This week we're raising awareness for the ACT Emergency Shelter in Ft. Myers, FL: https://actabuse.com/giving/ - Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 OR Text START to 88788 - Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/ Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/coupl...

Oct 04, 202225 minSeason 2Ep. 10

Break Down Bonus: Coworker Justin gives his best 'moving on' advice, talks when NOT to get closure, & reacts to S2E9

Do you need help moving on from an ex? Do you feel like you still need closure? Abby and Justin talk about why it's so hard to get over them (and tell you what to do about it). Plus they react to this week's main episode and share stories about families/friends ruining their relationships! AND there's a fun little announcement right in the beginning of the episode as well. - Follow the podcasts! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thea...

Sep 29, 202216 min

When her ex messaged her right before his engagement.... - S2E9

This week we're raising awareness for the Jenesse Center in LA: https://jenesse.org/how-you-can-help/donate/one-time-donation-form-2/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00-...

Sep 27, 202224 minSeason 2Ep. 9

Break Down Bonus: 'Good for Her' stories with @the.marchie + S2E8 Reaction

TikTok's @the.marchie joins Abby to talk about becoming women's rights and wrongs activists following this week's episode!!! They talk about the grey areas of getting even after a break up and making dating safer as a woman. Tune in for lots of laughs and to hear about Abby's "crazy switch" theory...and why every woman should use theirs. - Follow the podcasts! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down...

Sep 22, 202212 min

When all his ex's got in one group chat.... - S2E8

This week we're raising awareness for Palomar in Oklahoma City: https://palomarokc.org/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-03:29): Episode Intro-(03:29-05:53): How they got toget...

Sep 20, 202225 minSeason 2Ep. 8

Break Down Bonus: Lexi & Coworker Justin React to Your Petty Break Up Responses

What's the PETTIEST thing you've done post-break up? We asked, you answered on IG and Spotify. Lexi & Coworker Justin join Abby to talk about their own petty break ups and read through some responses from the Spotify and IG questionnaire. Oh, and Abby vents about her bad date from this weekend too lol. - Follow the podcasts! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.co...

Sep 15, 202228 min

When her break up got 7 million views on TikTok.... - S2E7

This week we're raising awareness for The Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-04:00): Episode Intro-(04:00-04:37): How they ...

Sep 13, 202228 minSeason 2Ep. 7

Break Down Bonus: Coworker Justin breaks down S2E6's workplace romance gone wrong

Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to talk about getting along with your significant other's families, bringing your "baggage" into a new relationship, and debate on whether or not the BF's mom posted that FB photo on purpose!!!-Follow the podcasts!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFw...

Sep 08, 202223 min

When his mom posted a photo of him kissing....who? - S2E6

[CHECK CW] - This week we're raising awareness for Mosaic Family Services in Dallas, TX: https://mosaicservices.org/donate/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00-02:03): Ep...

Sep 06, 202227 minSeason 2Ep. 6
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