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The Break Up Break Down

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When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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Episodes

Break Down Bonus: The Trashy Divorces Podcast Reacts to S2E5

Stacie and Alicia from the Trashy Divorces podcast join Abby to talk about ethical polyamory, healthy relationship dynamics, and expecting more from your love life. Check out their podcast below and tune in to hear them break down this week's break up!-Follow the podcasts!-Trashy Divorces: https://pca.st/16pD-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/...

Sep 01, 202218 min

When it was the "throuple" from hell.... - S2E5

This week we're raising awareness for Children & Families of Iowa: https://cfiowa.ejoinme.org/MyPages/DonationPage/tabid/441383/Default.aspx - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps...

Aug 30, 202232 minSeason 2Ep. 5

Break Down Bonus: Ex-Mormon therapist Jenny Morrow talks relationships & sexuality in the church

[SCROLL FOR CW] - Ex-Mormon therapist Jenny Morrow reacts to S2E4 and let's us in on what people leaving the LDS church struggle with after leaving. She talks about rules for dating, complications when one spouse wants to leave the church, divorce, and sexuality. Check out more from her at www.JennyMorrow.com.-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/bre...

Aug 25, 202218 min

When she married her high school sweetheart(s).... - S2E4

This week we're raising awareness for The Nest in Lexington, KY: https://www.thenestlexington.org/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00-03:55): Episode Intro - (03:55-06:3...

Aug 23, 202239 minSeason 1Ep. 4

Break Down Bonus: The Bachelor's Jacqueline Trumbull talks about her cancelled wedding & S2E3

[SCROLL FOR TIMESTAMPS] Jacqueline Trumbull from Ari's season of 'The Bachelor' reacts to this week's episode. She recently cancelled her wedding 2 weeks before the big day, so she came on to talk about her own experience and how she related/didn't relate to S2E3's interview. - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Sub...

Aug 18, 202236 min

When the relationship ended at the engagement party.... - S2E3

This week we're raising awareness for Someplace Safe: https://www.someplacesafe.info/donate.html - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00-04:26): Episode Intro - (04:26-05:55)...

Aug 16, 202228 minSeason 2Ep. 3

Break Down Bonus: Dating coach Lily Womble reacts to S2E2 + the importance of self-trust in relationships

Lily Womble from Date Brazen joins us to break down some of S2E2's key points and empower you to become "your own matchmaker" in this episode! - Learn more about Lily: https://www.datebrazen.com/about-lily - Follow Lily on IG: https://www.instagram.com/datebrazen/?hl=en - Follow Lily on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebrazen?lang=en - Check out the Date Brazen Podcast!: https://pod.link/1498856353 - Support the Haven House in Buffalo, NY: https://cfsbny.org/support-our-work/donate/ - Follow ...

Aug 11, 202236 min

When she was blindsided on vacation.... - S2E2

This week we're raising awareness for the Haven House in Buffalo, NY: https://cfsbny.org/support-our-work/donate/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00-03:47): Episode Intr...

Aug 09, 202228 minSeason 2Ep. 2

When she was driving the getaway car.... - S2E1

This week we're raising awareness for the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Timestamps: (00:00) - (01:01): Intro - (01:01) ...

Aug 02, 202235 minSeason 2Ep. 1

The darker side of dating professional athletes.... - Mini Ep. 20

(SCROLL FOR TIMESTAMPS): What's it like to date multiple pro athletes and have it go TERRIBLY wrong? Abby's friend from this week's main episode hopped on a Zoom call to talk about an unfortunate break up that ended up with both of her exes on the same team (literally).FEEDBACK FORM: https://forms.gle/U9ANq5P9S58Ug2PHABREAK UP STORY FORM: https://forms.gle/b1xoCZMFLrJBcoVf6Timestamps(00:50) - Interview Begins(02:10) - How she met "Troy"(03:35) - Getting interrogated about her intentions(05:04) -...

Apr 14, 202228 min

When they broke up the night before the wedding.... - Ep. 19

(SCROLL FOR CW/TIMESTAMPS): This week's episode is about the destination wedding from hell. We're taking you through a break up from a couple that was together twelve years and called things off the night before the wedding....but the relationship didn't end there. Tune in to hear about both weddings, the double phone deception, and all the trauma in between! - SUBMIT A COUPLE/YOUR OWN BREAK UP STORY: https://forms.gle/8jqNpMXKMyKJeDZc8 - Timestamps - (01:00) - Abby and Coworker Justin read the ...

Apr 05, 202243 minSeason 1Ep. 19

When she felt like she had to marry him... - Ep. 18

(SCROLL FOR CW/TIMESTAMPS) - Do you remember 'that couple' that got hitched right after high school? Everyone knows at lease one- maybe three or four if you're in the south. This episode looks into High School sweethearts with a divorce from hell. This episode covers purity culture, domestic violence, and evennnn a little witchcraft. - Submission form: https://forms.gle/hR4Q44tHb7LSH3CA6Timestamps(00:55) - Abby and Coworker Justin read the submission(06:15) - Interview begins/how they met(08:12)...

Mar 29, 202246 minSeason 1Ep. 18

When the break up inspired a book.... - Ep. 16

(SCROLL FOR TIMESTAMPS) When your perfect boyfriend turns into your perfect fiancé, you expect him to turn into the perfect husband. Well, if you're reading this, you'll know somethings going to go wrong here. This woman's husband was involved in a deception that didn't just pull out the rug from under her, it pulled out the whole damn floor. Tune in to hear about a break up that kicked off a wild healing journey and inspired an entire book!SUBMIT A BREAK UP STORY (YOURS, SOMEONE ELSES, OR ONE Y...

Mar 15, 202242 min

When he didn't practice what he preached.... - Ep. 15

(Scroll for timestamps) - When the 'seemingly perfect Christian couple' breaks up out of nowhere...you gotta wonder what went wrong. I mean, one week you're picking out engagement rings and celebrating three years together...the next...you're breaking up. This episode unpacks how faith impacts relationships, religious manipulation...and do you need to be attracted to your significant other?!?! Timestamps(00:47) - Abby reads the submission(02:33) - Interview Begins(03:18) - How they met(04:59) - ...

Mar 08, 202227 min

When her friends didn't side with her.... - Ep. 14

(SCROLL FOR TIMESTAMPS) - Your friends are going to take sides if your relationship doesn't end well- but what if your story isn't the one they believe? Next week we're talking about what happens when you become the villain in someone else's story. Our interviewee got kicked out of her friend group after her friend's got half the story from her ex. Now they (and the rest of the internet) are going to hear her side. Timestamps - (01:08) - Abby and CoWorker Justin read the submission - (02:58) - I...

Mar 01, 202223 min

When things went wrong the second they got married.... - Ep. 13

When you've been with someone for nearly a decade, you'd assume you'd know them pretty well. The last thing you expect to feel on your honeymoon is: "I've married a complete stranger." Tune in to find out why things went wrong immediately after signing their marriage certificate.-Timestamps-(01:04) - Abby and Lexi read the submission-(03:54) - Interview begins/how they met-(04:36) - When things started going wrong....-(05:57) - Why the relationship started getting rocky-(06:45) - When his behavi...

Feb 22, 202231 minSeason 1Ep. 13

When she finally left her 'secret' fiancé.... - Ep. 12

(SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS/TIMESTAMPS) - Being in a "secret" engagement should probably be the first sign you're in a toxic relationship, but when you're crazy in love...crazy just seems like love. Next week's episode has something everyone can relate to. Whether you were in a toxic relationship or just had to hear about one from a friend, we dive into the reasons why people stay in relationships that just aren't good for them.I'm verified on Spotify!!! - Check out my Break Up Playlists Here: ...

Feb 15, 202229 min

When it just kept. getting. WORSE... - Ep. 9

SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS - Sex, drugs, and EDM. That about sums up this week's break up. Abby probably said "How can it get WORSE?!" about 1000 times during the recording of this episode. It's like 5 break up stories in one. When our interviewee met her (now ex) BF of six years at an EDM concert...it was love at first insert electronic dance sound here. When he asks her to pack up and move away from all her friends and family, his red flags start waving like it's the freakin Fourth of July.Ep...

Jan 25, 202239 minSeason 1Ep. 9

When Gossip Girl (and social media) solves your sudden break up... - Ep. 8

Hey Upper East Siders- I mean...Break Up Break Down listeners. This is an episode that puts the new Gossip Girl reboot to shame (not that that was hard to do...). When an anonymous number tells her everything her ex-boyfriend did towards the end of the relationship...it only makes things messier. Find out what had her ex crying in the car with her after those cryptic texts got sent.TIME STAMPS-01:01 - Abby and Lexi read this week's submission-03:28 - Start of the Interview-04:27 - When she knew ...

Jan 25, 202225 minSeason 1Ep. 8

When her break up is someone else's love story.... - Ep. 7

There's two sides to every story - and this is the side exposes the harsh truth. When an influencer popped on social media to share how she met her boyfriend, she didn't share the other half of the story. Yeah, The cheating half. Find out how our interviewee discovered her boyfriend was cheating on her from his new girlfriend's social media videos. - 01:14 - Abby and Co-Worker Justin Read the Submission - 03:57- How she and her ex got together.05:27 - The actual break up 07:08 - When social medi...

Jan 18, 202229 min

Surviving the Holidays w/ @SoMyMomsATherapist - Mini Ep. 5

TikTok’s So My Moms A Therapist Joins Abby for this week’s “mini” episode! Look, I love this time of year as much as the next person, but you're lying if you don't think that the holidays bring out the worst in us sometimes. Lisa, @SoMyMomsATherapist from TikTok, came on to answer questions sent in by you!Listen to:The most common problems people face during the holidays (00:58)How do I handle the holidays as an introvert? (02:09)My family keeps joking about my singleness. I keep telling them to...

Dec 23, 202126 min

When they break up 10 days after the wedding.... - Ep. 2

Imagine scrolling through Facebook and seeing your friend post her elopement photos. Then, barely a week has passed, and they announce their separation. UHH what went wrong? - Hear from the person who submitted the story (01:48), listen in on Abby and Lexi's speculation (02:13), tune in to the full break up break down with 1/2 of the couple (03:28), and hear about upcoming episodes (21:25).Follow Abby on TikTok (@theabbymurphy) and on IG (@abbymariemurphy) for updates! Hosted on Acast. See acast...

Nov 30, 202123 min

The Break Up Break Down (Trailer)

When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story….Abby Murphy is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it’s even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing…especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We’ll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along ...

Nov 25, 202145 sec
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