Caller Tami's Question: "A couple of mths ago I'd responded to a podcast where you'd role played, mentioning that I felt the "betrayer" seemed they were portraying avoidant behavior likely to cause a betrayed to feel there's more secrecy. I am a huge proponent of the betrayed asking anything they want. It has helped me immensely (anxious type- I'll make up and fill holes if I don't know - which is usually worse than the truth!). Anyway, you'd asked about coming on - I'm completely open to it rea...
Jun 13, 2022•6 min
Katy is a certified Breathwork Facilitator, NLP Practitioner, Hypnotherapist and trauma informed coach. She specializes in helping you transmute your pain into your greatest teacher so you can live alive and connected to your passions. Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who w...
Jun 08, 2022•47 min
The Patrick brothers discuss answers to the question: What Are Some Seemingly Good Beliefs That Actually Harm Your Recovery? Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong ( lovestrong.com ), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at connect@lovestrong.com or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com . We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class startin...
Jun 06, 2022•7 min
Cameron Browne is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor with 10+ years of experience practicing therapy. He has a passion for helping people recover from trauma and believes that unresolved trauma is at the root of many mental health issues. This passion for treating trauma has led him to become trained in several trauma-focused therapies. He is trained in Neurofeedback, EMDR, and has advanced training in Accelerated Resolution Therapy. Cameron currently has a private practice in Lindon, U...
Jun 01, 2022•41 min
Caller Beth's Question: "How do I process, heal, and trust my husband again after there has been a betrayal that has devastated our family and our lives? The betrayal is a camera that was found in our downstairs bathroom that is used by my daughter and her friends. We separated when the camera was discovered but are currently living together. He seemed remorseful for a while but now he is refusing to go to counseling with me and he is not taking action towards recovery." Tyler Patrick, "The Wand...
May 30, 2022•4 min
Caller Kathryn's Question: "Married 41 years. Separated 3.5. On New Year’s Day, he said he wanted to show me sobriety ( from fantasy and masturbation) and he was going to begin with a new CSAT and he wanted us to get together twice a week and start marriage counseling too. None of this has happened. I asked him in a text two weeks ago how his sobriety was going. He said he couldn’t say it was going well. His excuses for not moving back home are his resentment and his lack of sobriety. He has nev...
May 23, 2022•7 min
Rebecca Burd is from Stuart, FL. Wife and Mom to 3 amazing (not so little) sons. She's a 30 year chronic Nero illness survivor. In 2001, she & her husband launched an anti bullying non-profit. They co-wrote Speak Life End Bullying the Musical, a contemporary musical featured in secondary schools across the country impacting 375,000 student. In 2021, they turned the live production into an on-demand film. Now the fight against bullying can happen in any school, anywhere, at any time. This mon...
May 18, 2022•43 min
Caller Rachel's Question: "I’ve been in Alanon since 2006, Sanon since 10/26/21. My husband has been sober for almost 4 years. We have been together off and on over 18 years. I’ve heard that addictions can come in three and I was warned early on that I had a long road with my husband. We’ve both grown independently but not together- it’s been really tragic- two people that are supposed to be professing christians and working programs? If God is in center, why arent we coming together? He told ou...
May 16, 2022•14 min
Caller LuAnn's Question: "I am having difficulty in letting go. My husband of 7 years was “found out”. He has hooked up with men, online, and met 4 different people that have been admitted to me. I’ve forgiven; he acts like he doesn’t think he needs forgiveness. What is wrong with me that I can’t let go!?" Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong ( lovestrong.com ), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice. If you'd like to work with Love St...
May 09, 2022•11 min
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a...
May 04, 2022•15 min
Becca is a mom of four little girls. She also works part time as an ICU nurse. She is passionate about women's health, and working to be healthy and thrive no matter what stage of life you're in. Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure &am...
May 04, 2022•39 min
Caller Dave's Question: "I attempted to have an affair and was caught. My spouse and I have been working through my addiction recovery and her betrayal trauma recovery. At times she is triggered and talks to me about it to keep communication open and transparent. How do I keep from shaming myself for what I have done to her when she needs me to just listen." Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong ( lovestrong.com ), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living...
May 02, 2022•5 min
My guest today is my former therapist, Amy Andrus. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist since 2000 & CSAT since 2013. She’s taught courses at BYU & counseled many students at the Women’s Services and Resources Center, where her eyes were opened to the world of sexual addiction and trauma. Amy's life has been affected by sex addiction in a personal way. She knows the struggle, shame, and guilt the addict experiences. She has found it rewarding to facilitate individual change an...
Apr 27, 2022•56 min
Caller Adriene's Question: "This question is for your last podcast regarding what works and doesn’t work in betrayal trauma recovery. I do agree with everything that was said in there. However, as someone who has been through betrayal trauma, addiction with her spouse, and abuse with her spouse I just wish the abuse part could be validated a little bit more. I agree that the abuse model can keep us stuck so we need to change up the model a little bit. However, once I learned about abuse and put ...
Apr 25, 2022•6 min
Monica lives in Jackson, WY with her husband and golden retriever, Lox. Her career began as a professional skier and action sports film producer. Prior to launching Marea she was a Marketing Director in the DTC ecommerce space and has worked with tens of ecommerce brands to help them grow through organic marketing channels. She launched Marea in 2020 after being a victim of her period for 17 years and experiencing the life changing benefits of nutrition. Monica is now on a mission to share this ...
Apr 20, 2022•50 min
Pam's Question: Why does it feel like when I got better my partner got worse? We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (1 per week on BAE feed). You can find those bonus episodes and subscribe to our Real Talk Recovery channel here Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-recovery/id1500794877 Spotify Podcasts (Video + Audio): https://open.spotify.com/show/6SDuQFy88qSD2ytuRP5oEB?si=b1082398a1bc4834 We would love to help answer your question...
Apr 18, 2022•8 min
Matthew is a serial entrepreneur who works with influencers and businesses who want to create professional online educational resources. He has been fascinated with developing healthy wholeness in life by studying the roles human psychology, neuro-science, quantum physics, and personal development principles play in finding happiness. He owns several businesses focused on expanding emotional intelligence in corporations and helping entreprenuers attract the success they desire more naturally whi...
Apr 13, 2022•1 hr
With the recent ridiculous scene from the Oscars, Tyler and Brannon break down the absurdity and talk about where toxic masculinity was showcased instead of real masculinity. We're publishing 2 episodes a week on our Real Talk Recovery Podcast Feed (1 per week on BAE feed). You can find those bonus episodes and subscribe to our Real Talk Recovery channel here Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-recovery/id1500794877 Spotify Podcasts (Video + Audio): https://open.spoti...
Apr 11, 2022•8 min
Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton, an award-winning researcher, a relationship coach at luvbites.co, and a podcast host at Luvbites by Dr. Tara podcast. She recently gave a TEDx Talk titled Become Sexually Powerful that highlights her 5,000-participant study examining variables that predict sexual satisfaction, and her journey from a sexually anxious girl from Thailand to a sexually confident woman. https://www.luvbite...
Apr 06, 2022•44 min
Caller Emily's Question: "I’ve been through most of the models over the past 15 years. I agree that the model needs constant growth… are you familiar with Vicki Tidwell Palmer? Her moving being betrayal book and courses are some of the best I’ve seen. It is so refreshing to have a therapist who understands and validates betrayal and whose goal is to MOVE you BEYOND it. We are still married, 21 years and still trying to gain connection and closeness in marriage. One piece that I feel you may be m...
Apr 04, 2022•5 min
Molly is a homeschooling mom of 10 years. She is a lover of all things Harry Potter. She enjoys moving her body through running, lifting, hiking and roller skating. She enjoys traveling, adventuring and reading but what she loves most is being with her people. Matthew is a serial entrepreneur who works with influencers and businesses who want to create professional online educational resources. He has been fascinated with developing healthy wholeness in life by studying the roles human psycholog...
Mar 30, 2022•48 min
Caller Chelsea: "My husband has used some porn as a form of escapism, but never really an addiction. His real addiction has been alcohol. He is currently 3 months sober, but it seems like his goal in this is to show me that the alcohol was never really the problem in our marriage, but that the real problem was/is me. He makes zero effort to move toward the relationship, giving me the silent treatment. When I force him to talk, or at minimum listen to what I have to say, he refutes most everythin...
Mar 28, 2022•7 min
Erin is a wife, mother of 2 boys & a certified coach & coaches some amazing powerhouse women who love to make money. Her belief is that you are so much more capable than you think to get out of default mode & start designing the life you want. You can find her HERE Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from th...
Mar 23, 2022•44 min
The 2 Brothers meet this week to talk about "safe" marriages where there is no real fulfillment or growth within the relationship. Our Radiant Dawn Women's Conference is coming up soon. This conference is focused on the process of healing from trauma and positive growth through symbolic experiences coupled with proven therapy principles and most critically, God. t's going to be incredible and completely unique. All Food and lodging for the 3 days are covered in the expense. There will be Art, Li...
Mar 21, 2022•7 min
Always fun to have Brannon back podcasting with me as the expert as we worked together for 4 years as a team. Find Brannon on his podcast HERE Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she...
Mar 16, 2022•28 min
Our Radiant Dawn Women's Conference is coming up soon. This conference is focused on the process of healing from trauma and positive growth through symbolic experiences coupled with proven therapy principles and most critically, God. t's going to be incredible and completely unique. All Food and lodging for the 3 days are covered in the expense. There will be Art, Live Music, Nature, Stories, Sisterhood, Connection, and Life-Changing Breakthroughs. You can learn more and purchase your pass here:...
Mar 16, 2022•4 min
Caller Claire's Question: "My husband and I have been listening to your podcast for a couple of weeks now and appreciate your insight into this difficult subject. We are at the beginning of recovery but find ourselves in the position of having our roles swapped. I, the wife have the sex addiction and my husband is working through the betrayal trauma. My question is whether you have any insight into female sex addiction or any resources that would be helpful for us. I am finding it difficult to f...
Mar 14, 2022•11 min
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a...
Mar 09, 2022•23 min
This episode is focused on sharing some of the unspoken thoughts, feelings, and perspective held by Brannon ("The Expert") about the dissolution of the BAE podcast and the unhealthy elements that permeated that process. Brannon shares this knowing it's a challenging episode to listen to but he does so with the intention of serving the people who have followed the journey. He hopes this will bring some resolution for those who recognized a sudden lack of transparency near the end of the original ...
Mar 07, 2022•7 min
Mike joins Coby to discuss the situational #trigger that caused him to #disconnect with his #wife. The situational #triggers lead to #stress which leads to #coping or dealing #behaviors for better or worse. These #behaviors start early in life but it is so possible to learn how to face the #stress and #cope in a #healthy way. Coby walks Mike through a formula to face life's situational #triggers in a way that can lead him to be #vulnerable with his #wife and to connect with her. When #vulnerabil...
Mar 07, 2022•52 min
