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The Allender Center Podcast

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The Allender Center Podcast features Dr. Dan Allender and his team engaging topics on healing and restoration through the unique intersection of theology and psychology. Through questions submitted by listeners, stories, interviews, and conversations, we engage the deep places of heartache and hope that are rarely addressed so candidly in our culture today. Join us to gain refreshing insight into understanding your story, handling relational struggles, recovering from trauma and abuse, and more. The mission of The Allender Center is to help people tell their stories with awareness and integrity, and to train them to listen to the stories of others with care, artistry, and skill so that they may foster redemption and healing in their lives. The Allender Center is a pioneering organization committed to boldly engaging the impact of trauma and abuse, providing healing and teaching to individuals, couples, and communities, and training professionals to listen and enter into stories in a way that facilitates transformation and hope. For information on all our programs and live events, visit theallendercenter.org
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Episodes

Play, Part Two

This week, after opening with an excerpt from Diane Ackerman’s Deep Play , Dan discusses what is at stake. What is it that rich, meaningful play requires of us?

Aug 08, 201522 min

Play, Part One

Dan begins a two-week series discussing the nature of play and the importance of embracing play in our lives.

Aug 01, 201522 min

High School Reunion, Part 2

Dan shares his post-reunion reflections, marveling about how returning to specific faces, names, and places of our lives can offer a taste of restoration.

Jul 18, 201522 min

High School Reunion

Dan wrestles with that ambivalence as he and his wife, Becky, prepare to return to Ohio for their 45th high school reunion.

Jun 27, 201521 min

An Interview with Susan Cunningham

On this week’s podcast, Dan sits down for a conversation with Susan Cunningham, a therapist, poet, and facilitator with The Allender Center.

Jun 20, 201523 min

Questions of engaging my story.

Dan engages four remaining questions that he often hears from people interested in working with their own stories, particularly through one of our Story Workshops .

Jun 13, 201526 min

What if I fear my story?

This week, Dan discusses the fear that so many of us hold about confronting the stories of our past.

Jun 06, 201525 min

How do I trust my memory?

How do I trust my memory? What if the way I remember an event is not what really happened? It’s a legitimate question, even a kind and righteous question, says Dan, rooted in a desire to know and tell the truth.

May 30, 201521 min

No one's story is normal

On this week’s podcast, Dan begins a new series about the beauty and power of living, telling, and hearing meaningful stories.

May 23, 201521 min

When endings don't go well

This week, Dan continues his disussion on endings by examining something most of us are all too familiar with: endings that have gone terribly wrong.

May 16, 201521 min

Ending Well

Dan concludes this series on endings by inviting us beyond procrastination and sabotage in an effort to learn to end well. This is a process of acknowledging the sacrifices we have made and the work we have accomplished, as well as the grace and gifts that have allowed us to reach this point.

May 09, 201521 min

Sabotage - Endings

On this week’s podcast, Dan continues a series on endings by discussing the role of sabotage—the moment when celebration gives way to indulgence and we sabotage our ability to enjoy our endings, potentially undoing everything we have just accomplished.

May 02, 201522 min

Endings

Dan begins a new series about endings—how we handle them, avoid them, sabotage them, grieve them, and celebrate them.

Apr 25, 201523 min

Carrying Trauma - part 2

On this week’s podcast, Dan discusses how we are all invited to carry the burdens of others, even if we don’t feel like we have anything to offer.

Apr 11, 201521 min

Carrying Trauma - part 1

This week, Dan continues the series on trauma care in Galatians 6 by addressing how we can help carry those who are harmed by the sins of others.

Apr 04, 201522 min

Trauma Care in Galatians 6 - Restoring

On this week’s podcast, Dan begins a new series, based on Galatians 6, about trauma care and the effect that it has on you, the person engaging the trauma. For the next three weeks, Dan will address how to help restore those who are struggling with the effects of their own sin, how to help carry those affected by the sins of others, and how to own your own life in the process of helping other people.

Mar 28, 201522 min

Vicarious Trauma and the Church

This week’s podcast marks the conclusion of a series on trauma care in the local church. In Part One , Dan discussed the crucial idea that we all—not just trained professionals—need to be aware of the reality and effects of trauma for people in our communities. In Part Two , he reflected on the particular types of trauma that form in the context of marriage. This week, Dan talks about the reality of vicarious traumatization that comes as we engage the crises, stresses, and heartaches of the peop...

Mar 21, 201522 min

Trauma, marriage, and the church

This week, Dan addresses the particular types of trauma that form in the context of marriage, including trauma that comes after death, divorce, and the betrayal of domestic violence.

Mar 14, 201522 min

Trauma and the church

On this week’s podcast, Dan introduces a series on the role of trauma in the context of the local church. He offers three overall categories for trauma, arguing that it is far more widespread than many acknowledge, then discusses the body’s telltale responses to traumatic events. What would it look like for our churches to exist as communities of priests, prophets, kings, and queens who are aware of the pervasive, devastating nature of trauma and who offer hospitality, healing, and the possibili...

Mar 07, 201522 min

Naming and reflecting the beauty of God in our stories

Dan invites us to see and to name the beauty in our lives, the parts of our stories that reflect the light and goodness of God. Knowing and telling our stories means finding the beauty and inviting others to share it. And we cannot talk about this without talking about worship, which is our response—in awe and gratitude—to the beauty and goodness of God.

Feb 28, 201522 min

Naming our wounds

On this week’s podcast, we are continuing our preview of the material explored in our To Be Told conferences. Dan discusses the necessity of looking at the wounds in our lives—the places in which we have experienced shame, loneliness, and betrayal. Evil entices us and hardens our hearts, naming us as orphans, strangers, and widows. But we are called to so much more.

Feb 21, 201520 min

Learning to bless our stories

For the next three weeks on the podcast, while Dan is on the road, we are excited to offer a preview of the material explored in our To Be Told conferences. In this week’s audio, Dan discusses the idea that God is the author of your life’s story, and we are all called to enter our stories in a way that reflects the character of God and reveals the nature of the Gospel.

Feb 14, 201514 min

Sabbatical & Sabbath

Dr. Dan Allender talks about his hopes for his sabbatical and the imporatnace of Sabbath.

Jan 30, 201521 min
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