Jason walks through everything you need to know to plan and host a lifestyle meetup, from choosing a venue and talking to managers to promotion, vetting, and managing the crowd. He covers public vs. private events, budgeting and ticketing, safety and discretion, dealing with problem attendees, and tips for welcoming newbies and building lasting events. This episode is a practical, honest, and inclusive how‑to for anyone who wants to start a meetup or make their next event better. My links: www.t...
Dec 11, 2025•50 min•Ep. 91
Host Jason sits down with Bella, a retired sex therapist, and her husband Prescott to share their origin story in the lifestyle, how they worked through jealousy, and the tools that strengthened their relationship. The episode covers practical advice for dating app profiles, privacy and validation tips, speed dates and travel strategies, and communication exercises like the “what if” game and jealousy workbooks. Listeners will get candid, adult-focused conversations about consent, building trust...
Dec 04, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 90
Host Jason returns from a spontaneous hiatus and shares a personal, candid journey through the lifestyle, using elevators and a stolen sailboat as metaphors for transitions, uncertainty, and self-discovery. The episode also serves as a primer on the lifestyle: foundational principles like consent, body positivity, and sexual freedom; practical advice on testing, communication, labels, and finding your tribe; and an invitation to explore the community on your own terms. My links: www.thatotherlif...
Nov 27, 2025•36 min•Ep. 89
Jason shares a candid, adult story from the lifestyle scene as he watches his wife shine at a rave, reflects on love, compersion, and growth in their relationship, and connects with a new friend. Between vivid moments of desire, vulnerability, and devotion, he announces a brief podcast break to recharge and promises to return with fresh stories and energy. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parti...
Oct 23, 2025•31 min•Ep. 88
Jason reflects on the transformative friendship with a woman he calls Lotus, sharing lessons about emotional space, setting boundaries, protecting your mental health, and navigating the complexities of the non-monogamous lifestyle. This episode blends personal confession, spiritual insight, and practical advice on asking for help, honoring feelings, and choosing where to invest your time and energy. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to...
Oct 16, 2025•47 min•Ep. 87
Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, this episode breaks down why your physical spot at lifestyle events matters and gives blunt, practical advice for meeting people: accept harsh truths (no one’s watching you), become memorable, use the Rule of Five, read groups, and—most importantly—change your spot to put yourself in the mix. Short, direct, and aimed at helping you feel less anxious and more effective in social settings. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://be...
Oct 09, 2025•34 min•Ep. 86
Jason recounts his weekend at the Pulsify takeover and shares the origin story of how he and his wife found the lifestyle, not for sex, but to build friendships and a social tribe after years of loneliness. He reflects on the emotional moment at the beach that started it all, the awkward early experiences, and lessons learned about communication and safety. This episode mixes candid vulnerability with humor, advice on navigating swinger culture (including testing and boundaries), and a reminder ...
Oct 02, 2025•35 min•Ep. 85
Host Jason reflects on late-night memories from the lifestyle, celebrating quiet, mundane moments—coffee, slow dances, shared jokes—that often mean more than the wild sexual adventures. Through personal stories, he explores how attention, friendship, and simple human connection deepen relationships in ethical non-monogamy and invites listeners to make new memories together. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risq...
Sep 18, 2025•33 min•Ep. 84
Jason celebrates his birthday by sharing playful, practical gift ideas for friends in the lifestyle, from discreet sex toys, robes, and squirt blankets to themed pineapple keepsakes and thoughtful non-sex gifts. He also stresses STI testing with a recommendation for discreet at-home kits and offers do's and don'ts for giving without pressure or expectations. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Par...
Sep 11, 2025•33 min•Ep. 83
In this raw, unfiltered episode, Jason shares a personal breakdown and recovery from mental health struggles within the lifestyle community. He explores themes of anxiety, disordered attachment, therapy, the challenges unique to the lifestyle, and the importance of honest communication and support. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com...
Sep 04, 2025•31 min•Ep. 82
(Reupload) Host Jason explores what happens when the swinger/lifestyle scene stops being fun — why couples consider breaks or endings, how to have honest conversations, and the toll of burnout, drama, and mental health. He shares practical steps for stepping back or leaving gracefully, what life can look like afterward, and reassurance that questioning or changing your participation is normal and okay. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide...
Aug 25, 2025•29 min•Ep. 81
Host Jason shares laughable and cringe-worthy stories of bad dates from the lifestyle scene, from awkward dinner conversations and red flags to dealing with flaky or arrogant couples. He offers practical tips on what to watch for, how to exit a bad date, and why these misadventures can become campfire stories. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com...
Aug 21, 2025•30 min•Ep. 80
Welcome to the Other Lifestyle Podcast, hosted by Jason, where we venture beyond the vanilla world into the vibrant sphere of ethical non-monogamy. This episode dives deep into the exciting Splash Houston event, detailing the allure of lifestyle parties and the liberating feeling of self-expression among like-minded individuals. Jason reflects on the transformative experiences within this unique community, shedding light on the freedom and joy that comes from connecting with others and exploring...
Aug 08, 2025•28 min•Ep. 79
Welcome to That Other Lifestyle Podcast, where Jason delves into the world of one-night stands. This adult-only episode is not just about the thrills of no-strings-attached encounters but also a guide to navigating these experiences responsibly. Whether you're a part of the lifestyle community or simply curious, Jason offers insights on how to approach one-night stands with honesty, communication, and safety in mind. From choosing the right setting to clear conversations with partners, dive into...
Jul 24, 2025•30 min•Ep. 78
Join Jason, host of That Other Lifestyle Podcast, for an adventurous dive into 'Naughty in New Orleans,' the granddaddy of swinger lifestyle events. This episode isn't just about recounting personal escapades at this legendary event but focuses on exploring various lifestyle events that cater to adult and sexual topics. Jason shares his experiences navigating through different vibes and styles of swinging culture while offering insights into making the most out of such events. Discover the impor...
Jul 17, 2025•36 min•Ep. 77
Welcome to the Other Lifestyle Podcast, hosted by the ever-curious Jason. In this episode, we explore the realms of ethical non-monogamy, where the essence of connection extends beyond mere physical intimacy. Jason dives deep into the intrinsic emotions and complex realities that the lifestyle entails, sharing profound insights gained from his own journey and the myriad of voices he's encountered along the way. From the unexpected challenges of erectile dysfunction and the whimsical intensity of...
Jul 03, 2025•31 min•Ep. 76
Join us for a wild ride through a night at a swinger convention, where chaos meets charisma and boundaries blur in a swirl of lights and music. The episode takes you on a vivid journey, exploring the intersection of morality and freedom, the allure of the unknown, and the eternal question of what it means to truly let go. Between candid humor and surreal experiences, uncover the essence of a lifestyle party and the human condition, all wrapped in an unapologetic narrative. My links: www.thatothe...
Jun 26, 2025•38 min•Ep. 75
In this episode of "That Other Lifestyle Podcast," host Jason takes listeners on a deep dive into the complex yet crucial topic of consent within the realm of ethical non-monogamy. Aimed at adults, this episode centers around the acronym FRIES, which stands for Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific — essential components in practicing safe and respectful interactions. Jason candidly shares personal stories and scenarios to highlight what consent looks and feels like in t...
Jun 20, 2025•36 min•Ep. 74
Welcome to this candid episode of That Other Lifestyle Podcast, where your host Jason delves into the dynamic world of ethical non-monogamy. Filled with raw and unedited musings, this episode takes a deep dive into the experiences of both newbies and seasoned veterans in the lifestyle community. Jason sheds light on awkward encounters and the pressures newcomers face, advocating for a more inclusive approach from veteran members. Join Jason as he emphasizes the importance of community, patience,...
Jun 12, 2025•35 min•Ep. 73
Welcome to another episode of That Other Lifestyle Podcast. Today's guest is Lucas, a seasoned single guy in the lifestyle for over a decade. He shares his intriguing journey and unique perspective as a single man navigating couples' dynamics within the community. Discover how Lucas stands out in the lifestyle, builds respectful relationships, and what makes him successful. We discuss the nuances of interaction, the importance of understanding couple dynamics, and the misconceptions surrounding ...
May 29, 2025•48 min•Ep. 72
Welcome to "That Other Lifestyle Podcast," where host Jason invites you to leave behind the conventional and explore the dynamic world of lifestyle businesses. This episode delves into adult themes and ethical non-monogamy, making it suitable for an adult audience ready to engage with colorful language and open discussions. Dive deep into the complex, often chaotic industry of lifestyle events, compared to the frenzied orchestration of a sailboat ride, where calm exteriors mask the frantic energ...
May 22, 2025•34 min•Ep. 71
Join host Jason as he invites listeners to explore the thrilling world of lifestyle events through the eyes of a "vanilla" couple, Rob and Diane. In this episode, Jason recounts the duo's enlightening experience attending a Risqué Lifestyle Glow Party, highlighting the openness and inclusivity of the lifestyle community. With humor and candor, Jason narrates how this eye-opening weekend redefined expectations and revealed the liberating essence of lifestyle gatherings. He shares valuable insight...
May 15, 2025•35 min•Ep. 70
Welcome to a bold exploration of the lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy, where host Jason dives into the art and science of connecting physically with new partners. This adults-only episode tackles the unique challenge of having good sex with new people, providing actionable guidance for understanding and enhancing pleasure in the lifestyle. Jason discusses the importance of communication, listening to bodily feedback, and the nuances of providing and receiving consent. Explore the dynamics of f...
May 08, 2025•33 min•Ep. 69
Join host Jason on an exciting journey into the world of ethical non-monogamy and lifestyle parties. In this episode, we delve into the art of organization, sexual spontaneity, and gearing up for epic lifestyle events. Discover tips and tricks for packing efficiently, maintaining pleasure without interruptions, and exploring the benefits of planning ahead for adult-themed parties. Be prepared to embark on fun and adventurous adult activities with expert packing advice, from the importance of hav...
May 01, 2025•32 min•Ep. 68
Welcome to another episode of 'That Other Lifestyle Podcast,' where host Jason dives into an important topic—safety and security in the lifestyle. This episode is designed for adults engaging in ethical non-monogamy, focusing on personal, relationship, and mental safety. Jason shares valuable insights and advice, breaking down essential safety measures, both physical and mental, for newcomers and seasoned lifestylers alike. Whether you are exploring adult relationships for the first time or an e...
Apr 24, 2025•36 min•Ep. 66
Welcome to our latest episode of that other lifestyle podcast! In this episode, Jason passionately debunks common myths and assumptions that society often holds about swingers and those in open relationships. Whether you're curious, a part of the lifestyle, or identifying as vanilla, there's something for everyone. Jason tackles what it truly means to be part of this inclusive community, discussing everything from ethical non-monogamy to the mistaken identity of swingers. Expect humorous anecdot...
Apr 17, 2025•34 min•Ep. 65
Welcome to That Other Lifestyle Podcast, hosted by Jason. In this episode, we delve into the captivating concept of compersion, a unique emotion resonating joy when your partner finds happiness. Journey with Jason as he explores how this intriguing emotion can be fostered and put into action within the lifestyle community. Discover the essence of compersion through relatable stories, thoughtful insights, and practical advice, designed to enhance connection and understanding among partners. Wheth...
Apr 10, 2025•38 min•Ep. 64
Join Jason as he takes a deep dive into the nuances of entering the swinger lifestyle, offering invaluable insights for newcomers. With audio from a live stream on SDC.com, Jason addresses common questions and concerns newbies might have, providing honest and candid advice that he wishes he had when starting out. From the importance of STI testing and consent to tackling jealousy and communication in relationships, this episode is packed with essential advice for anyone curious about or new to e...
Mar 27, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 63
Join Jason, the host of That Other Lifestyle Podcast, as he delves into the vibrant world of ethical non-monogamy. Featuring a compelling conversation with erotic novel author Jay Mohas, this episode offers insights into the lifestyle community, highlighting its core values of body positivity, sex positivity, and consent. Discover the inclusivity of the lifestyle, catering to diverse groups and backgrounds, and the challenges posed by those who don't share the community's ethical standards. Lear...
Mar 20, 2025•53 min•Ep. 62
In this episode of That Other Lifestyle, host Jason delves into the often overlooked topic of preferences within the lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. While some might find the subject awkward, Jason brings a blend of humor and realness to exploring why preferences are a natural part of human connection. From discussing the allure of physical attraction to the importance of personality in sexual encounters, this episode provides listeners with an enlightening and honest look at how preferences...
Mar 13, 2025•34 min•Ep. 61
