258. The Truth About Karmic Relationships No One Tells You

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about karmic relationships. What are they? How do we move through them? Because who are they? Difficult? What is a karmaic relationship? Well, let me tell you it is one that is very intense and you're gonna feel an instant connection with this person. And I feel like it's really hard to talk about karmic relationships with people who don't use these terms and don't acknowledge past lifetimes because they're looking at you like Cci, this person treats you terribly,

why would you allow them into your reality? Or Brad, she is so mean to you, she disrespects you all the time, and you keep letting her into your reality. People have to acknowledge the cosmic truth that this ain't any of our first rodeos. Okay, we have had past lifetimes where we weren't always perfect and we racked up some karma. So your soul and their soul will agree to incarnate at around the same time once again, to work out some kinks, to work out some trauma, to

work out some karma. If you hurt someone in your past life, or they hurt you, they might come to you before you reincarnate and say, hey, let's get it right this time. The other day, I was in meditation, and I know everyone talks about planet Earth as being a school bitch. It's a battleground. That's what I saw. That's what Mother Mary showed me. It is a battleground. We come here not just for love, light rainbows. He

he ha ha ha. No, we come here to work shit out, to work on the karma, to evolve, to heal the wounds. This isn't easy, This is emotional, This is intense. A karma relationship therefore, is something you're going to feel immediately. It's an intense, instant connection, a feeling like you've known this person forever, and this is a sole agreement you have from a past lifetime. I just want to validate and acknowledge. If there is someone that you feel like, I just can't cut them out of

my life. This is so intense. I'm having ups and I don't even understand why I like them. That most likely is a karmic relationship. You're not crazy, but you are being initiated into your soul's mission and in order to ascend, in order to evolve, you can't keep taking around all the negativity from your past lifetimes. You can't keep taking all the negativity from your childhood. You can't keep taking all this negativity from your past encounters. You

have to release it. And what's the best way to release some emotion? To release some karma? Having a three D human trigger you bringing up all these negative emotions so you can let go of them. A lot of these karmic relationships are emotionally charged, and they can swing

from really euphoric feelings to really painful lows. The reason I'm even talking about this is because I recently had a connection that was with a karmic person and I just acknowledge the safe gridness of it, and it honestly was quite painful, but it also was really beautiful, and it is worth talking about because if I experienced this and I thought it was difficult, I'm sure there's a lot of us out there who are dealing with similar

connections or similar difficulties. It feels so intense and familiar because this soul is familiar. Even if this person is a stranger, on a soul level, you do recognize them, You do know them. You might be experiencing an immediate knowing or a feeling that this person is a mirror of unresolved aspects of yourself that is eventually going to

be a catalyst for your growth. A lot of these relationships resurrect old wounds or karmic debt, and we might feel that when we get into relation with this person there are old identities that come back up, old insecurities that come back up, old patterns that come back up. When I was in connection with this person, I felt myself revisiting older identities. I felt myself go back to that place where I was really anxious all of the time.

I felt myself going back into an energy that honestly I haven't felt in so long and really didn't recognize it's just not me anymore at this point, I've healed so much that I feel really free and surrendered and fun, loving and magnetic. But this connection really did trigger a lot of older stuff, and I know I triggered him as well, because we would talk about it. We would tell each other, we would acknowledge that we were triggering one another's shadows as much as we loved each other's lights.

It just there was things to work out, and yeah, I'm trying to talk about disrespectfully so and it's still a little like raw. So we're gonna get through this. You might feel like there's constant drama or repeated cycles addictive push pull energy, or maybe you feel like you can't live without them, all of this intensity when you actually don't even know this human. That is usually a

telltale sign that this is karmic. This is bringing up past patterns, and this is something to recognize, something to acknowledge. When I was getting into this connection, there were so many synchronicities, and I think a lot of us see synchronicity and we assume, oh, there's so much synchronicity around this person. They must be my husband, or they must be my great love story. But synchronicity is aren't really

about other people. They're about you. The closer you get to your soul mission, the more in alignment you are with yourself, the more synchronicity you're going to see because the universe is trying to confirm to you you're on the right path. The point of a karmat connection isn't about the other person. This is about your own inner growth.

The synchronicities are not about them. They're about you, About you stepping into the next evolution of yourself, about you stepping into this next portal of self, about you clearing old wounds, old patterns, old repetitive cycles. In these sort of relationships, it does feel like one big giant test, But I really like to see it as you're being trained to break out of who you've been and you're being trained to stay in your power. This recent relationship

constantly was testing me. Can I stand up for myself? Can I use my voice? Can I speak my boundary? Can I choose myself? Or am I going to go back to the old version of me that had anxious attachment, codependency and abandonment problems? Who am I going to show up as? What am I going to do? And every single time we got into an argument. Something was wrong, whatever it may be. I was so proud of myself because I was literally shaking, crying sometimes, but I was

still speaking up for myself. I was still saying, no, this is not okay. You can't speak to me like that. You can't do that to me. This is not going to work. And ultimately this person apologized to me a bunch of times, but in apology without changed behavior is

just manipulation and that doesn't work for me. And I have to say, this is such a learning experience for me because I would hear stories, whether it be from my clients or my friends or my family, and they would tell me about things that would happen to them in relationship, and I would think, how did it get so bad? How did it get so far where you

are so controlled? I get it now, because there are certain connections or humans on this planet that will microdose control and you will be in your own head and you will be q yourself. You will end up gaslighting yourself. I get it now. So I really value this experience and what it has taught me. And I don't blame anyone because I know this is just two people who are clearing out karma, and that is all that I'm

going to ascribe there. You have to be so grounded and so aware of how you're being treated, because I have seen relationships go from oh, he's just protecting me to actually, I am his possession. And there is a huge difference between someone protecting you versus someone wanting to possess you. And as women, we have this cosmic womb,

we have this divine, feminine energy. And we've talked about energy harvesters, and we know about energy harvesters, and one way someone can harvest your energy is by possessing you. It starts out with you know, it would really mean a lot to me if you could not wear that, and then eventually it's I'm telling you what to wear, I'm picking it out for you. Eventually it's you can't go out with that friend. You're not allowed to do this,

You're not allowed to do that. It starts out small, and what happens is those microdoses get bigger and bigger and bigger, and then you're in love with that person and you do think they want the best for you, and you're gaslighting yourself. And I've seen this happen over

and over and over again. And thank God I'm grounded in myself and have amazing women around me, and have teachers and coaches and healers that I go to myself and that I have God to pray too to give me clarity and discernment, because I can see how these Karmax cycles will get you there. If you feel like you're constantly being tested, take a seat, take a breath. Ask yourself. What am I being invited to show up as? Is this in alignment with me? Does this feel right

to me? I was breaking out in hives, and as soon as that happens, I know something's wrong. This person is triggering my sympathetic nervous system. There is no way that I feel safe in this. There's no way I feel comfortable. There is no way that I feel good right now. If my body's breaking out in hives and I'm not feeling like I'm being seen and heard, something is fundamentally wrong. And as divine feminine energies, we need to feel safety, and masculine energies are supposed to be

when they're healed. The creator of a safe space for you to show up in, not the thing that's triggering you. Constantly telling you that you're bad and wrong. Remember, no manage your friend, no manage your enemy. Every single manager portal we have to be telling ourselves while we're on the path to divine union, because there will be karmic people that come in, there will be counterfeit energies that

come in. We have to consistently remind ourselves if it's them great and if it's not great, because ultimately I know what's mine will be mine. I know ultimately what's meant to be will be. I know God is not going to pull the rug from out underneath me. I know God is not gonna hurt me. No, Divinity has my back. So if it's them great, then it's meant to be, and if it's not great, it will be someone more in alignment with me. Do not get attached and trust me. I know I'm such a lover girl.

I love to be attached to everyone and anything. But do not get attach to these people that you're just dating because you don't know yet if their karma at their counterfeit. You don't know. You have to give yourself time to see. And that's why taking it slow is such a gift to yourself and them. The truth will always float to the top, it will always come out in the end, but you need to give yourself time to see is this karmic? Is this counterfeit? And a

karmic connection is a type of soulmate. They are coming into your life to trigger you. They are coming into your life to show you your own wounds. They are coming into your life to show you where you still need to grow. So it's not that we hate their human self, it's not that we blame them. Let's acknowledge these connections for what they are. Because I see people going absolutely insane because they feel so intensely, but no one's validating them. I hear you, I I see you.

I'm validating you. I believe you. I believe you feel so intensely. I believe you have past lives with this person. I believe that they are triggering you, that you're confused. I believe it. But you know what else, I know just because someone is a karma connection with you, just because you've had past lives with them, it doesn't mean anything. It doesn't mean they're meant to stay. They might have been meant to arrive, but it does not mean that they are meant to stay in your life. They are

your catalyst, they are your activator. They are meant to come in show you where you're still hurting. You're meant to take those lessons, and then you're meant to move on. Period. If you end up realigning later down the line because you both heal, then you want to do that, Go do it, but acknowledge people for what they are. When we feel an intense connection with someone, we get so excited. We're like, I don't feel it's with that every day Joe Schmoe. So we just want to jump in. We

just want to marry them. We just want to get into this and we want it to be fast. No, you're allowed to feel intensely for someone. It might be karmic, it might be a catalyst, it might be whatever they are, maybe a soulmate, but it doesn't mean they're meant to stay forever. It doesn't mean they're meant to stay forever. And I know, I know it's hard. I know it's hard. I feel it. I feel it with you. I can cry right now, I really do feel it. This is

not easy. It's not easy to see who someone could be, but then they're showing up in ways that are hurting you consistently, repeatedly. It's not easy to hear them say I'm so sorry, I won't do that anymore, and then they do it again. It's not easy to get into a disagreement and then they're blaming you for something that you didn't even do. It's not easy. But we did not come here just for easy, No, we didn't. We came here to evolve, but we came here to grow.

We came here to build the life that we want. We came here to learn how to manipulate energy, to recognize ourselves as being one with God and being a creator. And I I'm so thankful. I am so thankful for every single person who has broke my heart and suspithered reads, who has disappointed me, who has stabbed me in the back,

who has left my life. I am so thankful because they have every single time gifted me remembrance of my own divinity, remembrance of my connection with God, and remembrance of my mission that I came onto this planet to do. And I'm so thankful that even if they want to blame me for whatever reality they've constructed in their own mind, if they want to hate me. If they want me to be the villain, that's okay with me. Excuse my snifflings.

I'm having ascension symptoms. I'm like going through it right now. I knew not to wear ascaret today. I knew it. I refuse. I refuse to be anything other than what I am, which is someone who just leads with love. I refuse to become a black cat. I refuse to be a cold, chill girl. I refuse to change now. It's not easy to have this connection. To see the synchronicity is to have love for someone who just can't treat you well or meet your needs. It's not easy,

but we didn't come here for that. You didn't come here for mediocrity. You didn't come here for average. You didn't come here to beg someone to see you, to get you, to treat you how you needed to be treated. And if you stay in these connections, and I'm here with you, I acknowledge this shit is not easy. But if you stay in these connections, they're gonna eat you from the inside out. I think it's important that we

acknowledge that this does feel intense. I think it's important we acknowledge you have love for them, even if you don't like how they treat you. There is that familiarity. If you try to lie to yourself, you're gonna go crazy. Acknowledge what your truth is, the good, the bad, and the ugly. You can't acknowledge. This is hard, this is overwhelming. I'm feeling a lot of different things, but I know I have to choose myself. I know I can't be devalued.

I know I can't accept treatment that is manipulative. I know I can't sit here and not be met emotionally and just do emotional labor for someone else. I know I know that I can't be sitting here having hives every day. I know it's hard, but you can do this. You're capable of hard. I really encourage that you have a list on your phone or a pen and paper, and you're jotting down the red flags the things that

you're seeing, because you need to hold yourself accountable. It's so easy to get lost in the sauce, put the romance goggles on and be like they're great. We have past life connections. And I don't feel this with just everyone, but I'm feeling it with them. It doesn't matter if you have a past life connection, that doesn't mean they're treating your right. It doesn't mean they're meant to be yours. It just means you have a past life connection. Don't

make it something it's not. You can acknowledge this is something more than just another Joe Schmoe, but don't make it into something it's not. Watch the meaning that you're ascribing that you are labeling to connections to people, Because if you tell yourself, well, it's so familiar, this must mean that we're meant to be together forever, then you're gonna have a really hard time protecting yourself. For me, I know, as a lover girl, I I have to

really protect myself. I have to really protect that like very precious, like innocent thing that I have within me because I know myself, and if you don't know yourself, I mean, good fuck out there. I know myself. I am sensitive. I want to lead with love. When someone's hurting, I don't want them to hurt. I want to help them. But there comes a time where you have to realize if someone's not really showing up for you, you can't

sacrifice yourself. You're not the sacrifice, you're the altar. You're not the gas station, You're not meant to be used by everyone. You're the gateway. I think we don't want to hear this. But sometimes the lesson is to walk away. Sometimes the lesson is to choose yourself. Sometimes the lesson is, damn, I really need to recognize my own value because what am I doing? What am I doing in these places? And you know, in this relationship, I have to be honest.

Like I got scared, not even for myself maybe for a second, but I.

for you. There are other people that are here for you. You can find coaches, you can find healers and helpers, and you're not alone. And if you think there's something wrong, there's probably something wrong. Do not ignore your intuition. Do not ignore your body. Your body's wisdom is everything. It knows things before you can consciously unpack it. It knows things before you can consciously understand and connect all the dots.

You have to listen to your body. And I know I'm crying so much, but I'm crying for so many different reasons. I'm crying because a part of me is ub leveling and cleansing past behavior and patterns. And I'm crying because there's some past life energies that are falling

off of me right now. And I'm crying because I feel I want to protect other women or men who could fall into these traps, because it is truly like a honeytrap, connections that feel so sweet like honey, but these people sting you like a bee, and you have to be so careful. And I think in today's age, with hookup culture and data apps, we aren't careful. I don't think we are valuing ourselves anymore. And it makes

me upset. I am upset about it. And I know there's so many healers and coaches and they're all so neutral about everything. I'm not neutral, Okay, I am not neutral. I have a lot of opinions and a lot of thoughts, and I'm feeling a lot of things right now. My wish might hold my desire in like my heart. Oh my god, I need to calm down a little, though cheesus. Okay, lord, My desire is that you walk away from today with valuing yourself one percent more. Please, for the love of God,

do this. You have to value yourself because there will be carbon connections, counterfeits, there will just be straight demonic entities. You have to protect yourself. And I'm so thankful because I had the support and I know what, I know that I was able to protect myself in ways that I needed to and remove myself from the situation and take a step back and take a breather. And by the way, I just want to say, I have no hatred towards this person. I love this person. I'm gonna

love them forever and ever and ever. You know why, because they came into my life and they're gifting me lessons because they came into my life and this was so divinely orchestrated. Thank you God, thank you Jesus, thank you to myself, thank you to them, thank you to everyone. I love everyone. I don't even care. I don't care. This is for me to grow and that's the meat here, because the energy we're in right now is crunchy, and it's difficult, and it's a lot, it's intense, but it's

for our growth. It's for us to evolve, and that's what we have to go back to. Because if you keep saying, but they were the best I ever had, yad, have fun hating your life. If you keep saying, well, they're the only person I ever felt connected with, have fun hated your life. If you keep saying, but it was so intense, have fun hated your life? You have to be real with yourself. It might have been intense, it might be karmic, they might be a soul may

it doesn't mean they're meant to stay forever. And that is what you have to remember. You know that I use my own personal experiences to shed light on things that need to be talked about and need to be discussed and shared. And I am willing to expose myself on the internet. And when my next book comes, don't worry, this will be a definite chapter where I really go into all the lessons and all of the subtle energies

and how to move through this. But we are just really getting started, because if I've attracted you to this podcast, I know you're meant for divine union. I know you're meant for sacred love. You know when something doesn't feel right. You know when you're questioning. You know when your body is giving you stomach aches or the high or the constant headaches. You're constantly in drama. You're not understanding why you're being blamed for something when you didn't do anything.

You don't understand the ups and the downs. You're constantly checking your phone or anxious. They say you know when you know, And I think that we know when we're meant to be with someone, and I also think we know when we're not meant to be with someone. I also think we know when we're meant to be in a relationship with someone and then walk away when they're not able to meet us where we're at and look. Relationships can take many different forms. Sometimes you come together

to grow apart to come back together later. Sometimes you connect in this lifetime and you stay together forever. Sometimes your friends for fifteen years and then you decide to be together. So many different forms and functions may appear, so many different ways of unraveling and moral of the

story surrender. Surrender to the love story that God wants to write for you, because I promise you, even after I've ended this, I have seen so many synchronicities and so many beautiful ways that God is telling me I'm right here with you. And it's so nice to know that even when I feel physically alone, I'm never alone, and You're never alone. Divine support is so needed because you're dealing with divine orchestration, You're dealing with divine connections.

You need to be calling on divine support. Call on Jesus. I'm telling you ask him. You know what I'll do it for you. Jesus, I asked that you intercede in the heart of every single person who is listening to this right now, and I ask that you remove this sting from their heart. I ask that you wash their heart with loving white light energy, and you remove their past hurt, their core, wounds, their past life carbon connections. You release them from the stronghold of karmic debt, and

you give them the strength to walk forward. You give them the strength to walk away from things that are no longer serving them. That you give them the strength to realize their value. That you give them the eyes to see their worth. That you give them the heart of discernment. That you give them ears to hear when someone is not speaking to them correctly. God, give my listeners eyes to see, ears to hear in a heart full of discernment. Give them the courage and the strength

to walk away. Give them the foresight to realize, to recognize, to know so much better is coming their way. When you feel overwhelmed by a connection or someone, don't forget to call your power back. I lovingly and peacefully call all my power back to me now from every timeline, person, place, dimension. It's an important practice to do daily. I want to validate you. It feels intense, because this is intense. The

human resonance is going off the charts every day. We have multiple planets in retrograde and a lot of karmic people, A lot of exes are coming back around to free us of our old wounds. There's growth here, but only if you're conscious of patterns, only if you're willing to bite the bullet, only if you're willing to choose yourself, if you're willing to have eyes to see. Don't let this be a tragedy. Choose yourself. Choose to see, Choose to feel, Choose to heal. Someone might be familiar, but

it doesn't mean they're meant to stay. And no, you're not crazy, confirmation, but you are being called to reclaim your power. And healing is messy, It is non linear, it is divine, It is just crazy. So let yourself feel crazy, let yourself cry, self feel let yourself be confused, but ultimately, choose yourself. Choose yourself. If people are meant to come back into your life, they will. If they are meant to show up for you, they will. If they are meant to create a safe space for you,

they'll learn how, and they will. And even though karmic relationships feel overwhelming, they do lead you to healing, clarity and lessons that open you up to greater self love, joy, and your soul mission. You are stronger than any storm that is activated in your life. I love you so much.

If you're dealing with this, I know I'm crying my way through this, but there is no better person to help you through this then Law, because I have gone through it multiple times myself, and every time the karma lessons get deeper and more crunchy and more beautiful and more sacred. I'm sending you so much love. Call on Jesus to help remove that stain from your heart. Call on the Blessed Mother to give you nurturing. You're gonna get through this. You were made to get through this.

You're smart enough, you're strong enough, and you're not alone. You have five d help and you got me, so there's nothing you cannot do. I will see you in the next one.