250. Unconscious Attraction: Why We Manifest Cheaters and Repeating Patterns (Wizard Liz, Aubrey Marcus & Sheera Seven Deep Dive)

did it purposely. I sure hell didn't do that, because we wouldn't consciously hurt ourselves, we wouldn't intend to be manipulated. But the thing is, we don't manifest only consciously. We don't manifest only what we want. We manifest the good and the bad, the pretty and the ugly, the fun and the not so fun, because we are not just conscious beings but operating from our subconscious mind ninety five percent of the time. Uh oh, you can bet your

ass that's also going to pull experiences in to your reality. Now, you can listen to this podcast and you can hate me, or you can learn. You can listen to these words and you can get mad, or you can learn. You can get triggered, or you can learn. And I get it. What I'm saying sounds sicky, It sounds a little prickly. Yeah, I get it. But in order to become a master manifestor, you have to override this temporary feeling of discomfort because

this is unfamiliar. It does not matter what you look like, what you have, what your career is, what you do for other people. What matters is your beliefs about yourself. If you can't handle the energetic truth, click off this video. But if there is any part of you that wants more from your reality, that wants a loyal divine union, that wants to feel loved, that wants more abundance, more pleasure, more fun, that wants a grandi yost reality, than keep listening.

This podcast is not about singling anyone out. It's about looking at the public sphere and understanding how we can reclaim our own soul's essence and attract manifest better, create a better reality. You have so much power, and when you realize it, you can then learn how to use that power. Because knowledge is not power, but action with knowledge that is power. Understanding our wounds and then healing them, unraveling them, integrating them. That's where the power is, not

just knowing about what wounds might look like. I keep seeing posts that say something along these lines. The fact that even the wizard Lays got cheated on shows no level of beauty, intelligence or confidence can stop a disloyal man. Actually, it has nothing to do with that. It has nothing to do with that. That is the most basic surface level perception I ever did here. Okay, what it shows us isn't about beauty or intelligence or what you have.

What it shows us is her belief system, her belief system about who she is, what she can have relationships to men. We're just exposed with this recent scandal, if you want to call it that, because the truth is, our subconscious beliefs are going to bleed into our physical three D reality and be mirrored back to us. So we look at them, learn from them, and heal them. The universe is not trying to bully us. It's not trying to be the mean girl to us, and it's

not trying to harass us. It's trying to show us, this is what you believe about yourself, and then it invites us through experience do you want to heal it? Do you want to look at yourself? Do you want to stop blaming your reality and start living at cause or do you want to be a victim of circumstance for the rest of your life. Listen, before we dive into this conversation, a couple of things I want to say. I want to make it crystal clear. I am not

blaming Liz for being cheated on. Okay again, in this three D realm, Landon is the one who betrayed the relationship. He made the choice with his free will. He broke the trust, he crossed the line, and there's simply no excuse for that. What I want to explore today isn't about fault. It's about energetic responsibility because a lot of us are attracting subconsciously and then getting really hurt by

the experience. There is obviously no conscious intempt by the Wizard, Liz or any of us to ever be hurt, betrayed, or manipulated. Of course we wouldn't want that. So it's not your fault. If you get cheated on or something negative in your three T the experience happens to you, it's not your fault. You didn't try for that, and

you didn't consciously want that. Unfortunately, as soon as we're born, it's like our subconscious mind is a recorder and will record every thought we have, every experience that we go through, and it creates meaning, It builds beliefs, and then those beliefs build our world. So we have a lot of unconscious energetic forms that are attracting for us. So it's not your fault if this happened to you, but it is your energetic responsibility to learn from it, understand it

so you can get better. I'm rooting for you, I'm rooting for Liz, I'm rooting for my damn self. And the only way for us to get better is for us to take responsibility. Read the writing on the wall. Understand that if we keep seeing a similar emotional outcome in our reality, we are the common denominator. I'm here to hold your hand and cake your ass, but together we're gonna heal this shit out. Let me tell you

that much. If we keep experiencing the same emotional outcomes, we need to be asking ourselves what beliefs, what patterns, what wounds are still broadcasting in my field? Again, what beliefs what patterns, what wounds are still broadcasting in my field. Manifestation does not turn off when life gets messy. We don't only manifest the good, We manifest the lessons, the heartbreak, the initiations too. This episode is not about shaming anyone.

It's about understanding the deeper codes beneath chaos and what it is really meant to teach us. I do want to take a moment to thank Liz for being in the public sphere on an energetic soul level. She is in front of millions of people to show us and reflect to us our deeper wounds. And also we will be talking about Aubrey, Marcus and Villana in this podcast as well, so just to thank you to them and their energies. What's up, positive bitches, How are we doing today?

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and I offer one on one sessions via zoom. You can DM me on Instagram for more. My courses and workbooks can be found below. So, yeah, the cats out of the bag. We manifest even getting cheated on yep, and uh, like I said, I've I've done it myself. I am so gung ho about this concept because it's simply quantum physics. Even the title of my book, it's titled Show Up as Her and the subtitle is ten Laws for Reclaiming Your Power, embodying magnetic energy and positive Manifestation.

What manifestation positive? Why would CC write positive manifestation to drive home the points we don't just manifest the good shit. We manifest the lessons, the shadows, the heartbreaks, because manifestation does not get turned off if you are alive. We're always pulling people experiences and opportunities towards us. I was in a three year relationship, but something was very off, and I felt something was off. I was not happy.

My mom dragged me to church and I was about nineteen twenty at the time, and I screamed at God and I said, you gotta change something, remove what needs to be removed. I need to find my purpose. I don't understand what I'm on this planet for. I feel

so lost, so confused. Within two days, I was outside making steak with my partner and the timer on his phone went off and I saw someone text him Alexis, and I thought to myself, who's Alexis or whatever the hell her name even was, And he grabbed the phone out of my hands, and I just knew that he did something. And it took me three hours of screaming, crying, I know you did something, I know you did something. He was deleting text messages in my face. I watched

him delete the text. It was just insane. And then he eventually did show me that he told her he was dog sitting awesome, yup, did you know him? A dog? Yeah? Hey, what's up? Not human, just the dog. And it really internally made me feel so sick. And at first he said that they just kissed, and then eventually, of course I felt my body telling me he's lying, and my intuition was right. He slept with her. With that, I was hysterically crying, and then I started laughing, which probably

looked insane, because I knew that was divine intervention. I knew that God was telling me, you got to remove this person. You need to focus on you and your journey. Now, why did I manifest this specific experience of having my then partners sleep with someone else? I had to do a lot of digging. Part of this is I did ask Divinity to be at work in my life. And when you ask, you will be answered. The physical realm is really our dominion. We have to call on angelic

support when we want it. We need to call on Divinity when we want divine intervention. That's one hundred percent part of it. But as I grew in my spiritual evolution and I learned more about myself, the thing that stuck out to me the most when my then acts cheated on me was he made so many decisions to sleep with this girl. He not only saw her out, got her number, he then got home and face timed me. He left his house after face timing with me, and she picked him up, so he gave her his address.

She picked him up. They went to a sandwich shop because that's normal, and then he went back to her house. He decided to take off his clothes. He decided to you know, you know, and then we don't need me to say anything else. We know what happens from there. He made so many key decisions that would affect me negatively. That was the biggest thing. It's not that he slept with someone that was so insane to me, It was a fact that he made so many decisions to do so.

And when I looked at that, I said, Okay, why is this bothering me so much? It's not even about the cheating. It's the fact that he made all of these decisions. It's because I looked at him, And when I looked at him, I thought, damn, this man is obsessed with me. He loves me so much. He gives me all the energy in the world and the positivity. How did he polarize to such the opposite spectrum and sleep with someone else? How is he so about me

and then so about someone else? How is he so about me but then when I'm not there, so about someone else? And it reminded me of the dynamic I had with my own mom. My mom is extremely adhd. She's all over me, overbearing, on top of me, and then it's like, hello, do I exist to you? Do you even know I'm here? She would give me so much love, so much attention, and then it's like gone in the next second. She would want to be the class mom on playground duty and then be late for

me every single day. I had this seesaw effect with my mother, so much attention and then none at all, totally with me and then so far gone. And that's what I manifested in this relationship. And it wasn't just the cheating, but the pattern got stronger and stronger and

stronger until we got to that. She prior to that, he would be so obsessed with me, and then he would be like, yeah, I could go a month without seeing you and I would be fine, And I was like, what it was the same seesaw effect being so about me, but then feeling like he didn't care about me at all. It's a rejection wound. It's feeling like I'm not being chosen, and it literally stems from my mom's own inconsistency with

her ADHD. It created this sort of anxious attachment within me where I was always scanning when am I going to be abandoned? When am I going to be threatened? When am I going to be left? I had specific circumstances with my mom where I was constantly scanning for when she was going to leave. She would sometimes say that she was going to leave, not anything to do

with me, but because of my own father. And when she would do this, she just meant she was going to my grandma's house because she was mad, but I felt like she was leaving me, and I would subconsciously think, as a child, well, what I need to do to be good enough to make my mom stay? What do I need to do in my own life that I'm finally going to be seen as being chosen and worthy of my mom staying with me, And the same thing

happened in my relationship. We have to realize that there are so many subconscious programs and conditions that we create when we're four, five, six, seven that then run the rest of our lives. We will consistently copy and paste the dynamic we had with the caregiver we craved love from the most, and replay that dynamic in our adult intimate relationships, trying to prove to our inner child that we're finally worthy enough. But all we do is repeatedly,

repeatedly traumatize ourselves. Let's go back to Liz. Liz her father cheated on her mother. Liz called her father a tyrant. Her friend said or her sister said that she literally saw Liz getting dragged by her hair. How do you think this shaped Lizz's experience? What do you think at five, six, seven years old, a little girl's gonna think about men when she's seeing a grown man cheat on her mother be abusive to her. What is she gonna start to think?

Men aren't safe, Men can't control their lust, Men are bad, Men are gonna hurt me, Men can't be trusted, Men are no good. A child living in an adult world can only make such a mature belief or conclusion about reality. If you are a child seeing abusive circumstance over and over and over and over again. I don't care how much work you do on yourself. I don't care how many books you read, how many seminars you go to. You have to do the integration if you actually want

to change your nervous system. And I know it's a lot of work, totally possible, totally doable. We're all trying for it. But Liz has a lot of knowledge, and I actually genuinely enjoy her energy. I think she's a cool girl or woman. But when I listen to her videos sometimes I do WinCE a little bit because I can hear the wound in her that feels unsafe. I can hear the wound in her that's still a little girl that wants to be chosen and want someone to

create safety for her. If you have beliefs that men aren't safe, that men can't be trusted, that men can't control their lust, baby girl, that's what you're gonna have in your reality. That's what you're gonna see in your reality. I find it really interesting her dynamic with this guy. She definitely has an obvious father wound, and she said that she really was looking for someone to make her inner child feel safe, and she said that Landon did

this for her. I question this, and I'm just someone, okay, who is an onlooker. And what I see is someone who, on the surface level, is just a feminine man who she thinks can make her feel safe. When I watched her video with him, because I tried to do research, I don't watch her content regularly. I was just doing research. I couldn't even watch her whole entire vlog or whatever Q and A with him because he I got the god I don't. I am just a human too. I

have my own beliefs. I'm gonna fully say that right now. But a man who wants to be famous just x me out. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. It's so feminine to want attention like that. If a man wants to have a great accomplishment, he wants to be the number one race car driver, doctor, painter, artists, Okay, that's different. You want to have an impact on the world, that's one thing. But this man, he said that he was on YouTube at one time too, and he's just a little bit

too happy to be in this blog. There's something off there. He is a feminine man, and there's nothing wrong with that. If that's what you want, fine have it. I think Liz got confused. I think she saw a feminine man who was opposite of her father, who was masculine but wounded masculine, and she confused a feminine man for safety. A feminine man is one of the most unsafe things that you can attract because they crave attention. They have no inner compass. They are people pleaser, so they want

to please everyone. And women don't want a people pleaser. They like to be pleased. But if we don't know who you're gonna please in the next room, we can't trust you. Feminine men are living outside of their selves, and they are the ones who have lust issues. They are the ones who are posing on Instagram. They are the ones who you're gonna find issue with. I think she looked at Land and saw that he was a more feminine energy and thought that would be safety, but

she mislabeled him. He's just feminine. That doesn't mean safe. Her father was wounded masculine, so she associated masculine energy with unsafe and feminine energy with safety. That's a problem because she thought this but still had beliefs about men in general that they are lustful and can't control themselves, and they are going to hurt her. The circumstance manifested anyway, because he's still a man, even if he's feminine. Feminine men will lead with their emotions and how they feel.

She and his ex both said that they thought he was very emotionally intelligent. That's exactly what a feminine man will do. They what I call peacocking. They will give you a false sense of safety by talking about their quote unquote traumas. They're gonna talk about how they feel. They're gonna try to create a safe space for you. That is, creating a false sense of emotional connection so that you will be let into their bedroom. Okay, clock

that one. When they lead with their emotions, that's them trying to lead you to the bedroom, not down the aisle. They're trying to put on a facade, because realistically, you really shouldn't be talking about traumas right off the bat. It shouldn't be this huge emotional thing right off the bat. Give yourself time space to actually get to know just who this person is and let those things come out over time. Liz attracted a different sort of man on

the surface, but that's what we do. We attract different people, places, opportunities, but what is the same. It's the same emotional outcome. She attracted a different type of man on the surface to her, but she still got the same emotional outcome of men can't be trusted, they can't control their lust, they are going to hurt me, they are abusive, whether

it's emotional or physical. She still got the same emotional outcome because while she's read the books and she gets manifestation to some degree, she did not actually integrate those lessons and do the somatic healing, do the releasing to fundamentally change her true beliefs about who she is, what she deserves, and men in general. If you want divine union, you can't have all these beliefs about men and expect to attract someone who is other than what you believe

they are capable of being. Let's talk about Villona and Aubrey Marcus. Vilaana said that when she was born, she felt rejected and boyfriend after boyfriend would choose another woman or impregnant other women. And now once again she thought she got emotional safety with Aubrey, who seems to be this spiritual guru. But even the spiritual guru is going to make her feel unchosen, rejected, and unsafe. Yeah, because

she hasn't learned the lesson to choose herself. I really believe if Villana chose herself in any one of these past experiences prior or right now with him and left the relationship, she would then attract a man who would choose her too. But she's still living in accordance with her core belief that men can't be trusted, that men are going to choose someone else, And so that's the result that she's getting. Just because something happens in childhood

doesn't mean it just goes away. No, once we create that narrative as a child, it becomes our elevator of music and it's non stop playing in the back of our head all day. It's subconscious, so we don't really hear it, but it's there. There's such a difference between knowing I have an abandonment wound versus actually healing it, and that's where I see people are getting it wrong. I don't see Vallana healing it. I don't see Liz healing it. And again, love to both of these women.

They're great people, but there needs to be that deeper work. In both Malana's story end with Liz, they said that they got married very quickly. To me, I don't like that because it's not enough time to see who someone is. Can you get married relatively quickly and it works out? Find sure, there's always exceptions to the rule, but the fact there are exceptions also proves that there is a rule. What is the rush? Give yourself time to see who

this person is in different scenarios. My mom always says you need at least each season with that person to see who they are over time, because the truth can be hid initially, but over time it will always come out. And it confuses me with Liz because if she's all about you know, be protecting of yourself and do this and do that. If you're protecting of yourself, why didn't you give yourself time? Why didn't you let yourself see who this person is? Then? To me, that also shows

a contradicting belief. Well, you must have some belief that you just had to rush into things. You have to do this now because you didn't believe that maybe you are worthy of allowing this person to pursue you rather than just jumping into things. I understand Liz obviously being hurt, and oh my god, she's not in an easy situation. This is tough, man, this is tough. My heart hurts for her and Villana. These are tough situations. I think

it's important that we remind ourselves. Okay, maybe I got myself here, but I can also get myself out of here. Maybe I've had these beliefs, but I don't have to have them for the rest of my life. I was a little disheartened when I saw Liz go on social media and say men can't control their lust, because that's

blaming three D circumstance instead of taking energetic responsibility. I kept attracting men who were feminine and had narcissistic mothers, where the men were like a surrogate husband, and the men were in their feminine energy in an energetic relationship with their mother who was embodying masculine energy. And I would get so upset. I would get so mad, and I was thinking to myself, why do I keep attracting these feminine men who are in a psychic immeshment with

their masculine mothers. And then I had to say, Cecy, you gotta look in the mirror girl. Stop getting mad and start getting everything you want. You're the common denominator. And you know what I found. I was in my masculine energy trying to be the surrogate husband for my own mother, who was in her feminine energy. I literally said to my mom, I was like, I just have this want to save you. And this has been since I was a little girl. I've been trying to save

her protector so she wouldn't leave me. And because of that, I was so much in my masculine energy. I have to make a lot of money so I can save my mom. I have to do all these things so I can save my mom. And I had to realize, wait a second, I need to decenter my mother, and I need to save myself. I need to build a life that I'm happy and that I feel good in. I can't keep living for my mother with her at the center, because then I'm gonna keep attracting feminine men.

And I stopped living at effect. I stopped blaming my three D circumstance, and I started to recognize that I have to live at cause. This is a law of cause and effect. What you broadcast, what you are is then going to cause an effect in your three D reality. Stop blaming the men you meet, the opportunities you get, and start realizing that you are broadcasting energy that is calling this into your experience to teach you, to invite you to go high, or to teach you to evolve. Yes,

it's not to hurt you. It's to help you evolve. But you have to look into the mirror. And if you need help, that is what I'm here for. I will one on one coach you through this. But you have to take the initiative. You have to say, I'm gonna stop blaming these other people and I'm gonna start choosing myself. People might hurt you, they might betray you, but you know what, it's not about them. You have to trust yourself that no matter what, you'll get yourself

out of it. You will pick yourself back up and you will get yourself out of it. This is why alchemy is so important. I have two courses on this. One is shadow alchemy, which will help you stop attracting feminine manner, whatever type of men you are attracting, and the other one is the art of alchemy. And this

is all about transmuting your pain into power. If there's something negative that happens to you, you get cheated on, something crazy happens at work, you can use that energy as fuel to not get madocate everything you want at the end of the day. If it's positive energy or negative energy, it doesn't matter. Energy is energy. You can use it as fuel to stay longer at work, to do the workout, to learn more, to become hotter, if you want whatever it is you want. Liz was so

concerned are you gonna hurt me? Are you gonna hurt me? She was always looking for threats in the relationship, which they both said. She needed to instead tell herself, regardless of what happens, I'm strong enough to heal out of this. I'm strong enough to do what it is that I need to do to be okay on my own. That is what being an alchemist is. You have the power to manipulate energy however you want. If they're bullying, you

use that energy to run an extra mile. If they're being mean to you at work, use that energy to do even better and surpass them all. I truly believe we are gifted negative circumstances, so we can use that energy as momentum. As that pain and transmit it into power. I'm telling you join shadow alchemy, Join the art of alchemy. It will change your life. If you go to page one sixteen in my book, I literally give you a whole entire list of all different types of people that

we attract. I'm not going to read all of them. If you want to know all of them, get the book. I want to really talk about, though, those you have beliefs about. Our mind will magnify whatever we think about. This is in part due to our reticular activating system in our brainstem, or the RS for short. This acts as a filtration center based on our own beliefs so we can process the external world. If we try to take in all the information we see every day, our

bodies would be an overdrive. We have the RS to help us filter information in from the external world so we can process it. The caveat to this is that the RS filter's information based on our own biases. If I think all bosses suck, RAS will constantly be scanning to see when my boss will do something that may irritate me. My boss might not actually suck, But because I already have this assumption, I am more likely to pick up on when they do something wrong and magnify it.

On top of this, my belief that all bosses suck will attract bosses that are less likely to be good. If you keep attracting a type of person you do not like, ask yourself, do I have a belief about this person that is causing me to repeatedly attract them into my life. On top of this, there's also another part of this, which is those who fit into our story.

This category is most seen in our intimate relationships. If I grew up with an alcoholic mother, absent father, and two little siblings, I might have stepped up into the role of the caregiver to get connection from my mother. As we move through our lives, we forget that we create roles to be seen, heard, and loved. If I need it to be a caregiver as a child, I'm most likely will align with someone who also needs me

to be their caregiver as an adult. This potential partner might not be an alcoholic themselves, but a hypochondriac, helpless, or generally chaotic. Either way, this partner will reconfirm my narrative that I am, in fact a caregiver. We will align with others who reconfirm who we think we are. Positive bitch tip. I frequently hear my clients tell me they feel like they're addicted to their acts. They aren't actually addicted to their ex dude, but rather to the

dynamic they had with that dude. We are addicted to reconfirming our old, faulty roles instead of deciding who we wish to be in the present. If someone who is fulfilling a role in our life leaves, not only does it hit upon the hurt from our original caregiver, but the wound becomes deeper as this person hurts us in the present moment. This is why love can hurt like hell. We are hurting both presently and in our past, as an adult and as a child. So no, it's not

that we can't trust men. It's not that all men are lustful. It's that we attract experiences that reconfirm who we are, who others are, and what we're allowed to have. I am concerned for people and their belief system because I'm seeing influencers like sheer Us seven seven seven. I believe her name is, who is hysterical by the way, really funny, so witty, quick, I think she's beautiful, I think she's intelligent, but I feel that a lot of her statements are out of her own wounds. They're all

out of You gotta be in this masculine energy. You gotta protect yourself. She says to be feminine, but what she tells you to do is masculine. Same thing with Liz. She tells you to be feminine, but how she's telling you to live is masculine. And yeah, of course you should be putting yourself on a pedestal and really making sure that you're enjoying your own incarnation because you came here to incarnate as yourself. But I hear a lot of be the black cat, manipulate them, use them as

your ATM. I'm sorry, but I want divine union. I want real love, depth connection. I want to protect your and a provider and someone who can satisfy me emotionally, intellectually. You're gonna get very lonely if all you want is an ATM. I've seen those relationships. I know what they look like. They do exist, Yes, where women will just settle with someone because they have a lot of money. Those women have many many pill bottles in their bathrooms, Okay,

those women are wine drunk Monday through Sunday. Those women are not happy. Okay, they drive a g wagon and have Cardier. They're not happy. You know what? I want a g Wagon, Cardier and the divine union, because why choose? Why choose? If you want to play stupid games, expect to win stupid prizes. The circus is that way, have at it. Our relationships are mirrors and they require us to be vulnerable, surrender. But I see game playing. I

see I'm gonna be more masculine than you. I'm gonna out masculinize you in a way, and then you end up attracting a feminine man and wondering why you're so miserable. You can't have your wounds running the show and a lot of this black cat, this black cat? That? What are we talking about here? How about be whoever you are? I always say I'm not a black cat. I'm something much more angelic, much stranger. I don't even know what I am. I send whole novels on ancient Egypt. If

that scares someone, syah, goodbye, I don't care. I lost my voice in Nashville. Just let it be. I see power struggles going on, I don't see divine union, and that's worrisome to me as someone who wants to literally help people get into divine union. We can't have our wounds running the show. And if you're going to say use them for their money, then you're going to attract someone who also wants to use you, maybe for your looks,

maybe for your body, maybe for your time. You can lie all you want, you can try to be the man, but the energetic universe does not lie. If you embody masculine energy, but say that you're so feminine, doesn't matter what you say, it matters what you broadcast, and that's masculine, you're gonna attract a feminine man. These types of videos going viral shows me where the majority of humanity is on a wound level. We're hurting right now, and it's okay,

but we're hurting and we're blaming the opposite sex. Women are selfish. All men suck, that's what we're doing. That's not gonna help you get into divine union. When you see someone of the opposite sex or whoever you're into, doing something that you don't like, you're not gonna say all men are this? All men are that you're gonna say, Okay, my husband would never do that. Maybe they're doing that, but my husband would never, my spouse would never. Because

I'm getting divine union. What you're seeing is not feminine. It's masculine. It's a power struggle, and it is just you trying to win a battle that baby you don't even want to fight. Get off the battleground, Get off the battleground, have a macha, take a breath. I thought it was interesting also, and this is a little bit more esoteric, where Liz was saying that she kept having

dreams that he was cheating on her. I do wonder was it a precognitive dream where she saw it before it happened, or was it just her fears spilling over into her dream world. Because we have many different types of dreams. If you do want a dream journal, I have one called that Bitch's Dreaming. You can get the link in my bio or in the show notes rather. But dreams can be intuitive or they can be our fears. I feel that what she was experiencing was her fears.

When you are really scared of something, it doesn't have enough time to be processed during your everyday life. So your fears will start to play in your dream world, so your body can process the emotion tied to that fear. If you're afraid someone's gonna cheat on you, you're gonna keep dreaming that they are because your body's trying to process the emotion. After I got cheated on, I kept having a dream every night that my partner then was cheating on me, And it was my body trying to

process the emotion. Because during the day I was at work, I was going to work out, I was seeing friends. I didn't have enough time to process it. So in my dream state, my body was doing it for me. It totally could have been precognitive. It totally could have been her intuition. This is just something I was thinking about, and I think it's something important for me to say.

Another thing she mentioned in that god awful video with that I don't want to hate on anyone, but like, yikes, yoicks, I also want to say they were saying how Liz was out of his leak. That can be true, and you can still manifest getting cheated on because your own beliefs. You can be better, prettier, hotter, more successful than your person and still get cheated on based on your own because it's not about the three D stuff. That's what

I was trying to say. Prior she said that when they met in the airport, it felt like everything stopped, immediate soul recognition. And I do want to say, I don't doubt that Landon is one of her soulmates, but we have to be really careful about what a soulmate actually means. This actually happened to me. I was on vacation and this group of guys walked into this bar and we were in like a little little town. Okay, no one was coming into this bar. I felt this

man walk in. I didn't even see his face because he was wearing a hat, and I just knew he was going to be an important part of my life. And he was. He wasn't my husband, even though my cousin was like, that's your husband. My mom thought, that's your husband. He didn't end up being my husband, but he was a great teacher to me. That's why I always say, no man is your friend, no man is your enemy, but every single man is your portal to the next evolution of yourself. Every single man is gonna

teach you something, going to guide you somewhere else. I think that Liz felt this soul recognition and thought, oh, this means they're my husband, when maybe it wasn't meant to be that. Maybe he's your catalyst to step more into your power. Maybe he's initiating you into a deeper healing, which I would love to see her have. I think she's beautiful, talented and intelligent. I would love to see that. I don't know that he was meant to be her husband.

There's a really interesting theory though, that they say when a soul wants to come through to planet Earth, that soul will choose the two parents that's going to come through. And maybe it was that this soul child that she was going to have chose Landon and Liz as its parents and magnetize them towards one another and came through the vessel. And now that soul contract is done, so they don't need a beat together anymore. It's very esoteric,

very outlandish, but could it be a possibility. Sure, I'm just trying to look at all the possibilities here, energetic, subconscious, quantum field spirituality. At the end of the day, Liz is powerful. If you're going through this You're powerful. You're gonna get through this. See this as your initiation into choosing yourself. See this as initiation into becoming stronger. After that happened to me with my ex I found my purpose. I started TikTok and look now I have a book deal.

Now I have a following, I have mugs, I have courses. I've been on TV time and time again. That was all my initiation into myself. And I'm still learning and I'm still growing, and I don't know it all, but I do know that if you're hearing this, you are so strong. You have the power to alchemize anything that comes your way. You don't need that other person to give you safety, because at the end of the day, you're going to give it to yourself. You're going to

choose yourself. And when you do that, you can't help but attract people who give you the same. I love you so much, and I will see you in the next one. I can see Panna, I'm sorry, has got set energy cancer, Shange, I got how got that? Joengy got cancer? Speech cancer spect cancer spect