Canst, canst. It's not sorry. Can you feel that that place, that space where we're at right now, where time itself feels suspended. It's not a stillness of peace, but a point of potential waiting to be activated. The kind of silence that's inviting you to go deeper into yourself, into your internal world, into the dreams you've been carrying around with you since you've made it to this planet. It's the stillness before the storm, the quietness before you transcend
to the next level, waiting at that threshold. It's in this stillness that change actually begins to take place. It's through a whisper, It's through a tiny decision to show up differently, speak differently, act differently, feel differently. If you're listening to this podcast right now, it's because you are aligned with the in between. You are standing at the door of your next reality, and it can feel like you're in the fog. It can feel like you're in
a mystical place of unknowing, suspended. But this is not to hurt you. It is to prepare you. We've all been in this space before and we're going to be in it again. And this is a space between who we were in who we are becoming in the moments before we know, before we understand that there's a transformation about to take place, a new manifestation about to come in, a new reality waiting to flood our lives. We stand in this stillness. The unknown lies before us, and all
we can do is lean into it. You want to try to control it, well, good luck, because our ceiling is God's floor, and there are certain seasons where we do not have total control over what's going on, but we can control the direction in which we shift. When the unknown lies before us. The best thing we can do is go a little bit slower, is listen. Listen instead of talk, lean in instead of run, Open up to the whispers our higher self is trying to download
within our vessels. Listen to the pulse of the energetic universe, that quiet tension that just fills the air. You can feel a storm coming, you can feel when something's about to change. You can feel when you're on the brink of transformation. That space, it's energy that's waiting to be activated. This is liminal space, the edge of change, and this is a silence before your new reality. Congratulations, we are
all manifesting twenty four to seven. But we don't realize it because we end up manifesting the same reality over and over and over and over again. If you now manifested the liminal space, the space in between, it means you actually already shifted something that got you these new results. You're already halfway there. Just keep going. Commit to this sacred practice of remembrance. Commit to the sacred practice of stepping into your power. This is a revolution. Every act,
you are fighting the matrix. Instead of doing your life like everyone else, You're saying, no, I'm going to remember my sacred divine path instead of just falling into the flow that everyone else seems to be flowing within. There's no reason to have fomo, baby. You just have different values, you want different things. You're not meant to be a part of the pact when you're simply meant to lead the pact. Your life is going to look at it till different lean into it, whether it's the loneliness or
the unknown. There's medicine in every season, there is gifts in every season at every level. What's up, positive bitches, how are we doing today? If you're hearing this episode, then you are meant to be here. So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, Baby, we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self that is a babe and true connection with herself himself human self. You know,
I don't care what you are. I just care that you are taking your best energy forward every single day and giving your attention to that which you wish to see more of in your reality. Because on this podcast, we unbecome who we are so we can fully step into exactly who we came here to be. In order to step into who we came here to be, there's going to be moments where you're in eliminal space. I always think about eliminal space as an empty school during
the summer. You can feel something usually happens here. Usually there's a ton of energy in this school, but it's summer. The halls are empty, but it feels a little eerie, that eerie feeling of uh, something about to happen. That is what you feel when you're in the in between, when you're in liminal space, when you are done existing as who you decided to be, out of your wounds and ready to step into who you actually are when you are empowered. Liminal states, liminal spaces are of the
utmost importance. Most people, when they get to the space of the unknown, freak out and go running back to the life that they knew, the people they knew, the town that they knew. That only delays your blessings. And I just saw five five five on the timer. Change is here, positive change to heal you, to help you, to guide you. Most people are gonna run back to the life that they knew, to the identity that they knew.
But that is not you. That is not you. And that's why you're sitting here, or maybe you're walking, but you're listening. You're listening to these words because you're one of the ones who's gonna make it. You're one of the ones who's meant to transcend. You're one of the ones who came here for big impact and big impact you will make. You're one of the ones that are actually going to do what you set out to do. And you know this, you know this in your body.
You fear it, but you know it. You fear it, but you know it. You know you came here to leave this world better than you found it and you want that you desire that. That desire is not random. Your desires are your blueprint for your destiny. You wouldn't desire it if it was not part of your destiny. If you're unsure, if something is part of your destiny, If you're unsure, if something's really for you, ask dividity God. Mold my heart's desires so that I want what's for
my highest good. Mold my heart's desire so I want what is best for me, just in case my limited mind doesn't understand what's best for me. Mold my heart's desire so that I walk in step with the energetic universe, so I can have that impact that I want to have. Call on assistance when you feel like you're not sure what's step to take. You're never meant to be here and doing this journey alone. That's why you have friends,
That's why you have family. But if those friends and family happen to suck, Okay, you signed up for a big, big impact. You're gonna call on divine beings to help you through your guardian angels, your loving anset, the ascended masters, Jesus. Hello. Before we get further into this episode, I do want to remind you I've opened up my Magnetic Mastery program.
It's a twelve week program to guide you into your most magnetic timeline, where you stop playing small and instead stand in your power to attract everything that which you truly desire. If you're interested in learning more about this Magnetic Mastery program, that is one on one via zoom DM me on Instagram, at vibe and with CC. My
link for my Instagram is in the show notes. If you are looking to really shed your old reality learn how to make quantum leaps, you can get my book Show Up as Her, which is now available in hardcover. That link will also be in the show notes. If you are looking for maybe some guidance but you're not ready for one on one, I have a ton of different courses to help you not only regulate your own mindset, but also attract better, whether it comes to dating circumstance
or even healing through a breakup. And of course I also have workbooks that can help you decode angel numbers, call your power back, and anchor into your divine feminine energy. Let's continue on because we have a lot to talk about. This moment in time can feel unsettling because the rules don't apply the way you knew how to exist as your older identity. Well, you just decided that identity doesn't work for you anymore. So what are you really supposed
to do? How are you supposed to show up when you realize, Wait a damn minute, this identity is one that I created in order to survive, and I don't want to just survive anymore. I want to thrive. This moment rushes in, but it speaks no words. It's a moment of hush, of room to grow into who you actually want to be, really into who you came here to be, because we spent so much of our life just unbecoming all the lessons and identities we learned to
grow into who we actually are. That wind that rushes into your life and feels your being feels unsettling because you don't know how to be this new person because you've never been them, or have you? Or have you? Because really, when I think about becoming a new person, I really think it is more unbecoming who you are not and remembering your true soul essence. Now, maybe you haven't existed as your true soul essence, but you're not really becoming someone new, You're taking off all the layers
that aren't you. You're remembering the divine codes that you incarnated with. Maybe it doesn't have to be as hard as we think it is. Maybe it can actually be Dare I say it? Maybe it can actually be easy. Maybe we can slow down and say, maybe I already have the answers, I just have to locate them within. How do we locate answers within? More space? Leaning into the unsettling feeling, leaning into the loneliness, leaning into the I don't really know who I am, but I'm gonna
discover it. I'm gonna find out. So many people we see go through a transformation, they're not really becoming someone they're not. They're finally stepping into who they've always been but didn't know. This process doesn't have to be hard. What if you start telling yourself this can be easy. This is your sacred quest back to yourself. It's initiation
to go back home to who you've always been. Let me tell you, there have been so many moments after a breakup where I freak out and I think, oh no, I'm not getting that text anymore, I'm not getting that call anymore. What am I gonna do with myself? What am I gonna do with all this time? M m the way I love my solitude Now, old me wouldn't even recognize current me. Casolitude. Time alone used to be
my worst nightmare. It wasn't until I started leaning into the space, the silence, the loneliness, that I started to realize, Wait a damn minute, I think I've been lied to. I think I've been lied to. I've been told to get in a relationship, get in a relationship. But I kind of am loving existing within my own energy. What It's almost as if we incarnated to experience our own energy.
Go with me on the journey. If Divinity fragmented into you to experience life through your perception, don't you think you should try to exist within that perception? Don't you think you should try to find out? Well, if Divinity thought it was important enough for me to fragment into this being, shouldn't I find out who the hell I am? And the only way to do that is by dating yourself, by spending time with yourself. And I know right now your toes and your fingers might be getting all clammed up.
It's okay, it's all right, it's okay. If it's new, it's okay if it's the unknown. What are you so afraid to discover about you? What are you so afraid to look at? If you are afraid to look at something, oh my god, you better sit that ass down and look at it. You cannot run for the rest of your life if you run from whatever it is that you happen to be running from. Maybe it's your inner child's wounds, your shat parts of you you don't want
to accept. You're gonna run into the wrong relationships. You're gonna run into codependency. You're gonna run into staying at jobs that are not for you. But you're too afraid to spend any time with yourself, so you can't actually figure out what is for you. If you keep running, prepare to be haunted. Prepare, prepare yourself to be haunted for the rest of your life. You can't outrun yourself, baby, because you incarnated in your own vessel. Sure get an addictive,
maladapted coping mechanism. See how that turns out for you. Hah yeah, see how that works out for you. That's not a journey that you want. That is not a journey you want. You cannot outrun the wounds that you're afraid to look at, because they will find a way to manifest in your physical reality. If you don't face them within here, prepare to face them out there in your relationships, at the workplace, at the supermarket, on social media.
You can't outrun those wounds, those fears, because they'll have a funny way of subconsciously bleeding out into your physical reality. Take this time, honestly, my last relationship. I've been reflecting on it a lot, and I'm very thankful for it
because I've learned a ton. And one of the things that I've really learned is once again realizing I really miss my own energy because when you're in a relationship, instead of you spending that time maybe meditating or journaling as much as you would have, or even just kind of planting yourself and going on TikTok or twenty minutes, those times are sacred. I don't care what they are. They're sacred because it's time you're just unbecoming. It's time
you're just resting into the present moment. It's time you're just being with yourself. When you get into a relationship, there's less of that and more you're now spending time in someone else's energy. And I really coming back home to myself once again, realize I missed my energy. I can do whatever I want almost whenever I want. Of course, if I have responsibility for a client or my job, I go do that social media things or a podcast. But I really can do what I want when I want.
That's liberation, that's sovereignty. That is freedom. Oh yeah, it's freedom, regardless if you're in a relationship or not. You should always have non negotiables time that you're just spending with you, going to the workout class, doing the meditation, doing the journaling, meeting up with your girlfriends. That should never stop because
someone else now enters your life. But it would be a lie to say that your timetable doesn't shift when you're in a relationship, because of course you want to and you just end up spending more time with this other person. And that's a beautiful thing when it's in alignment. Just don't lose yourself for someone else. Coming out of that, I was in this liminal space again of Okay, things
feel weird. I no longer have that person to text or call, I wanted to run back, but I said, no, no, I'm not going to run back to things that I already know are not in alignment with me anymore. They were in alignment at one time, and I knew that. And when you know, you know, and then I also knew when it was time to release myself from that energetic relationship and move into my own vessel a little bit more and really nurture me. And I will just
say it. If you're surrounded by people who you feel are depleting you every single day, get away from them. Your codependency is gonna flare up when you leave, Your anxious attachment is gonna flare up when you leave. But you know what, you will heal through that. If you stay around people who you know are not in alignment with you, prepare to get ugly. I don't know how else to say that. Prepared to get ugly because your
cortisol is going to be up every single day. What happens when that happens you either there's too much weight, gain weight, your hair starts falling out, your skin's a mess, digestion forget about it, bloating out to the next continent. Yeah, it's not a fun experience. There are some people in my life who are like, well, what are you doing? Do you want a relationship? What do you want? I'm like, uh, I'm enjoying my life, That's what I'm doing. Those people
don't understand liminal space. They don't understand how to maneuver their energetic universe, and that's why not to throw shade. But when I look at their reality factually, and I look at how they feel about their reality, they're less happy than me. I know in my body one day I will have a family. I'm going to do that whole shebang. But the fact I don't have it right now kind of feels liberating. Cause one day I might not be able to do what I want when I want.
I might not be able to do the face mask. I might not be able to do the TikTok on my time or be with this client on my time, because I might have other responsibilities to a partner, to a child. I want to bask in this liminal space. I want to bask in this present moment because I'm never getting this moment again. I'm never getting this moment again. And when the matrix or other people try to rush me, I literally think to myself, Holy hell, I don't want
what you have. Your normal is my effing nightmare. Your normal is my never, Your normal is my no, thank you. I want more for myself. I want to enjoy my incarnation. I don't want to feel like a chicken running without a head. I don't want to feel tied down to relationships that I don't want to be in. So if that means more time being with me, if that means more liminal space, okay, tune it the hell up. I'll be in the liminal space fine with me now. A theme that I see come up for me and other
people that I'm meat is this sense of loneliness. I gotta be honest, though, every night, when I'm in my bed and I'm just snuggled up with my little CaCO and my pillow and my blankets, I have so much peace in my heart. I have so much peace in my body. I don't have a partner that I'm worried about. Are they doing what they said they're gonna do? Are they staying in alignment with me? Are they slacking? Are they going to be able to keep up with me?
I don't have any of those stressors anymore. I just have peace. And sometimes I think it's really holidays for me that I'm like, damn, it'd be nice to have a partner when I see everyone else with their partners and families. But then I think I don't know what it is actually like to be in that family or be with that person. I have so much peace being where I am. I recently was talking to a friend. She was talking to me about her relationship and WHOA,
I had no idea. How anxiety provoking and not great. I'm not gonna spill someone else's tea on this podcast, but it was not a good relationship. Okay, I had no idea, and I think we can get sucked into. Oh, they look like they have so much happiness. They look like they have so much joy, they look like they have so much fun. I really want this. I really want this. When the right thing is prepped, prepared and
primed for you, it will come in. But she really reminded me when she would talk about her relationship like a year ago, it sounded like the most perfect relationship. I envied it. I wanted that. I was like, yes, I'm gonna manifest that. But now getting a closer look into what it was actually like, I thought, holy shit, holy shit, here I was idolizing this relationship that sounded
really great. But now that she's telling me all the tea, all the details, the gag is I'd rather be single and have peace than have to be dealing with someone or something like that. Now, when the right person comes in at the right time, I will be so happy. I love love, I love seeing people in relationships. But do not rush because this place, I know it's not the most comfortable. But when do you grow the most. It's when you're uncomfortable. It's when you don't know what
the hell is going on. It's when you're confused, when you're not sure what's step to take. It's actually when you have the most options available to you. When you go to school to become an accountant, and you become an accountant, that's it that your path is laid out for you. But let's say you think, well, I don't really know what I want to do. Suddenly there's nine thousand doors that are just waiting for you to walk
through them. When you are in the unknown, not only do you have the most options present, but you have the most space to lean in to the person you really want to grow into. The space, the silence, that's what creatives use to actually channel information. Ninety percent of the time, when I'm getting downloads, it's not when I'm surrounded by fifteen people having a pow wow. It's when I'm walking alone on the beach. It's when I'm journaling, it's when I'm meditating, it's at the end of yoga.
It's more comforting to distract yourself with friend groups, with relationships, with a job you don't like. But it's comfortable, but it doesn't allow for the life that you actually want, or else it would have gifted you that already. In liminal space, that's where you channel the insights. That's where you get to see who you truly are. I went through a friendship breakup years ago where I was in a friend group and then all them pretty much decided
to not be friends with me anymore. And at first this sucked because those were my girls for years and years and years and years, and it really was hurtful to me. But in that liminal space, instead of me worrying, well, I don't want to post because what are they going to think of me? I started posting on TikTok on YouTube, and that started my whole entire career. When I went through a breakup. Instead of me worrying is he going to be able to keep up with me? What's going
to happen? I now had all this freed up time, energy space. I had enough availability to feed my dreams. And once again that caused a quantum shift because instead of me giving my focus to someone who maybe didn't want to give me a high return on investment, I was giving that focus back onto myself. I was growing something that I actually had more control over. I was growing something that was going to allow me to step into who I try truly wanted to be. We need
to have patience and trust me. I am a Capricorn who is in my masculine energy most of my life. Ah yet it patience has not always been my strong suit either. But we need to start valuing our smaller steps. We need to start remembering that, how do you build a house, Oh yeah, it's brick by brick. You don't berth out a whole entire house and it's already done.
It's brick by brick. Start valuing the little shifts. I was literally talking to someone Gabrielle shout out if you hear this, But she recognized me in my workout class and came up to me, and she's so sweet and we're talking today, and I said to her, so many people think quantum shifting is this huge expansive change in
your life. It's really not. It's a baby decision. If I wake up and decide to text my ex, that's going to put me in a completely different mood and set me on a different timeline than if I wake up, go do my workout and have my smoothie and feel somewhere I want to go. Little decisions create big shifts.
Baby steps build big steps. If you are getting down on yourself because you're not creating as much momentum as you want, bend and snap out of it, because it's truly in the baby steps that you are going to build this huge brand, that huge company. Even if you told me Cci, all I want is to get married and have children, Okay, how do you build baby steps
to that? First? Got to make sure that you are healing, that you're feeling good in your own skin, that you're working either with someone like me or you're reading the books, you're doing the courses to make sure that you're priming your energy to attract someone great. Step two, where's your confidence? How are we feeling about ourselves? Because if you have low confidence and you go out dating good lock, you will be destroyed. I'm just gonna tell you the truth.
You need to have your standard so high and your availability for bullshit quite low. It's what I call the Harvard principle because Harvard these ivy leads, they have a really low acceptance rate for what they're willing to allow into their school and a very high standard. You need to apply that to your life in all aspects, but especially if you're dating. By the way, I'll just tell you I tried settling nine thousand times. It does not work.
Don't even do it because your inner being is going to start fighting you and then the physical symptoms come cortisol race. Just don't do it, okay, but start making little shifts to prime and prepare yourself for what it is you want. Then maybe you start going out to different places, set yourself up for success. Maybe you get on a dating app. Go where you want to be, whether that's a drum circle or a museum opening. Go where you think like minded people are going to be
Maybe it's a workout class. Just put yourself out there. Have confidence if you see someone you find really attractive. I don't love divine feminine going up to to buy masculine, but there's really nothing wrong with it. We are the choosers. You're allowed to use your free will and say hello, Hi, how are you? Your reality might feel unstable, your identity might be unstable. Good good, because how are you supposed to change anything? If everything's just going to remain the same.
You can't keep doing the same thing, being the same person and expect different results. It's just not how life works. But in this moment of transition, value the baby steps. Value Oh, I chose a healthier choice. I decided to do A instead of B. Value those baby decisions because those baby decisions holds energy and they build and it builds momentum, and that is what creates the biggest shifts out there. You're not alone in this liminal space. You're
not alone feeling like you're in transition. There's so many souls who are on a similar journey trajectory that you're on. When you feel like you're alone, when you feel scared, tap into collective consciousness. Tap into the other souls who are also going through the same thing as you lean into the loneliness. What are you trying to run away from? Because if you don't deal with it now, it will bleed out later and you're gonna have to deal with it anyway. So your mind as well. Look at it now.
I'm inviting you on this initiation, I'm inviting you to not even really become, but remember your true essence, to step into your power rather than repeatedly manifesting from your past, We've already manifested a different reality. Hence why you're feeling a little off guilter. But keep going. You're not meant to stay here. This is temporary. This is the bridge. This is the yellow brick road. Okay, Wicked coming in. Maybe Wicked is a sign for someone. Dorothy's a sign
for someone. The ten man yellow brick road. It is your pass, it is your permission, slip. It is your bridge. It is your yellow brick road to Emerald City, to where you're truly meant to be. So keep going. Make the tiny shifts because ultimately it creates big ones. Value them, value yourself. Take a second here to appreciate all the work that you've done. Do you know how proud your guides are, how proud your angels are. Take a moment
here to appreciate all that you have been shedding. Take a moment here to appreciate all that you have let go. Take a moment here to really appreciate your soul. Let's go, Let's go. Most people are not willing to do the work. Most people are not going to congratulate you because they don't even understand what you're doing. They're thinking, what is that human doing? They are making a mistake when really you're manifesting your dream life. Oh so funny. Sometimes I
love you so much. I hope this podcast episode brought you comfort, joy peace. If you do want to have a chance at joining my Magnetic Mastery program, dm me on Instagram at Vibe with CC, the Sparkle in Me honors as always, the Sparkle in You. If you've not yet gotten your copy of Show Up with Her, be sure to do that and follow me along on Instagram at Vibe with CC or on TikTok at Vibe with CC so you can keep up to date with all things on the daily. Okay, love you cancer Cancel. That's me