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What's up? Positive bitches? How are we doing today? If you're hearing this episode, then you are meant to be here, So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, baby Girl, we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self. That is Babe in true connection with herself. On this podcast, we unbecome who we are not so we can fully step into exactly who we came here to be. Can I get a name? I'm feeling good today.
I hope you are too. We recently had the lions Gate Portal on eight eight, which I felt was a huge shift in energy for me. Those energies were kicking my butt. Lions Gate Portal is really for manifestation. For me, it was for releasing and it literally took my body days to recover from all the energy shifts that I
was engaging with over this past weekend. I am saying all this just to say there is a new Earth here, Okay, there are new energies, and just make sure you're listening to your body and you take rest when you need to. I know sometimes I want to go, go go. Just be sure you're listening to that body. But that being said, today I'm going to give you five secret techniques that I have used to completely upgrade my reality. Now. These can be used for spiritual protection, these can be used
for manifestation, speeding those up to be more efficient. And also they're just super simple and easy. You can do them in under thirty seconds some of these. So we are bringing more mindfulness to how we're creating our reality in today's podcast. As conscious co creators, we are in union with God, we are in union with our higher self, and we're here to learn, develop and grow, and most of all, we are here to create to see what
our consciousness can do in physical form. Now, a lot of us are creating unconsciously because we're all manifesting all of the time. The real question is am I manifesting from a space of consciousness conscious awareness? Or am I manifesting from a bunch of autopilot bs that I've learned in fifth grade and now my fifth grade teacher is still running my life. We got to rein it in. We got to rein it in. How do you know
you're not consciously manifesting. Well, look around. If you don't like your reality, it's because there's some shadow, there's some inner child, there's some wounding that is being reflected back to you, inviting you to heal. Your triggers are teaching you what is still torturing you. Your triggers are sent to you to alleviate you. If we look at these triggers and just get triggered and get mad, well we're
not doing anything. That is onlye of time. What we want to do is look at our three D reality and understand how is this actually reflecting something that is already within me. Your greatest life's work is yourself, specifically your internal world. And if you can get that under wraps,
oh baby girl, you can really have anything. But we have to look not at who we hate out there, the parts of ourselves that we actually hate within, because that person out there is just a reflection of some part of you that you're rejecting, you refuse to look at, or you're in denial of. And I know, since i'm us single lady now and I hear a lot of stories from you, beautiful positive bitches, that dating can be
somewhat difficult. And I think that we are, and I feel it's like a feral need to want to blame all men. I get it, I understand, I get it. There are so many years and years and centuries of pent up feminine rage in the collective consciousness. I understand. But we are not going to meet our husband, We're not going to get better dates, we're not going to get better friends, better job opportunities if we keep blaming our three D reality because that is us literally ignoring
that we're the creators of it. How are we supposed to get better results if we don't shift the root cause of those results, and the root cause of our external results is our self. So we need to start taking respect onsibility over the energy we're bringing to the table. Instead of disclaming Brad, Harry and Barbara. We have to start looking within instead of becoming obsessed with the external and not everything's always going to be perfect, and everything's
always teaching us and all that and more. Okay, fine, but we can still get a better gauge over our reality. We can take back a lot of our power. I truly think our biggest miss happen in humanity is a fact that we don't realize how much power. We actually have the first key to shifting your reality to quantsam Leaping is done done undone. You use them every single day, but maybe not consciously. It's your words. Our words hold vibration, and every single time you speak something, you are speaking
it into existence. You're putting momentum towards that idea. Imagine that every time you speak on something, you are watering that seed to grow into your reality. Are you using your words to water seeds you actually want to experience? Or are you saying he's never gonna call me back, No one ever likes me? All men are this? All my friends are that, all these job applications aren't gonna work out. What are you actually saying to your self?
Because most of us we just ramble, ramble, ramble, autopilot. We have no idea what we're saying. Pay attention when you meet up with your friends. How do you speak about your life? When you're talking to your mom? How do you speak about your life? Most of us are so concerned we're gonna curse by someone else. Baby girl, you're cursing yourself. You're speaking terribly about yourself. You are cursing your life. You're speaking death over your life. The first thing I want us to really look at is
in my book Show Up as Her Again. You can get this book in the show notes. Chapter eight says positive bitches speak life over their life, not death, and it's all about taking your power back from your words. The conscious question is are my words building me or breaking me? Words are powerful. We've all been on the other side of someone's hurtful words and felt the sting that only words can provide. In that moment, we knew words have power. If someone's ever insulted you, bullied you,
have been unkind to you. You know words are more than just this weird concept. You know they have power because of the way they make you feel. You've been on the other side of someone insulting you, and you know words have power because they have elicited within you some sort of emotional reaction. We've also been on the other side of words that have made us feel like world's top of the world, when our caregivers have said,
I'm so proud of you. We've been deeply moved by monologues in our favorite romantic movies, felt empowered by speeches, felt heard from poems, and gotten to experience other worlds through the words in books. Words have power, They have vibration, and they, for better or worse, will affect us deeply. In the Bible Proverbs twelve eighteen to nineteen, the words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. We cannot be reckless with the
sword that is within our face. We cannot be reckless with what we're speaking, because you're not just saying something. You are emanating vibration. You are pushing out, you are broadcasting into this energetic universe. Humans have the to communicate with others through our complex language systems. Yet we use these systems to talk negatively about ourselves, spew hatred on
the internet, and cause harm to others. Words have power, But are we using this power to break ourselves and others down rather than using words to build each other up? How are we using it? This is the biggest misuse of our power. If we knew how powerful our words were, we would cease to use them in such low vibrational ways. The power of words, it's not a new concept. This is something we've all heard before. This is me reminding
you of your power. This is me reminding you of the vibration that you might be bringing into your circumstances situations. In Proverbs eighteen twenty one, the tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit. Positive bitch tip. There's a reason they call it spell. When we are speaking about ourselves, regardless of whether it's positive or negative, we are speaking that circumstance into existence. We are casting spells when we speak.
Every single word we say holds a vibration, and it affects us as well as those around us. Your words their things, and they take on a life of their own, especially if said enough times. The more you speak something, the more energy you are feeding that circumstance. If you are speaking positively over your life, you are speaking into existence positive circumstance. Whether or not you call it a spell. Whether or not you understand how words affect you, whether
or not you believe this does not matter. Your words will come to fruition. If we are speaking negatively over ourselves or others, we are practicing dark magic. We're using our power, but in a way that harms ourself or another. This literally is what dark magic. Speaking your worries your problems. Gossiping and harping on what you do not like is a negative prayer. The more you focus on what you do not like in your life, the more you are
casting the spell for that circumstance. Positive bitch tip, say what you wish to see. If you do not want to experience a certain circumstance, do not speak about that circumstance. We cannot solve problems from the same vibration the problem was created from. If you keep speaking about the problem, you will attract more momentum in relation to it. The more you say I cannot do this, the more you will feel like you cannot do what it is you are trying to accomplish. A little tip is to change
your words too. I am trying my best, and I can do whatever I put my mind to. I am doing my best and I can do whatever I put my mind to. I am going to figure out the solution. I am attracting the solution. Focus on fine the solution, attracting the solution rather than what your problem may be. And I put a quote in here by Confucius, and it says the man who says he can, and the man who says he cannot are both right because our words they affect how we feel, they affect what we broadcast,
they affect what we manifest. And I don't want you to think that you can never speak about something that's bothering you. If you're in a therapy session, you're in a life coaching session, you're talking to a reiki practitioner, whatever it may be, express yourself, journal it out, cry it out, feel to heal, Yes, but don't harp on it forever. Once you've allowed yourself to have the emotional experience,
it's time to now refocus, reset on the solution. I've been reading this book called The Game of Life, and something that the author put into this book and I really like this affirmation, so I want to get it to you. Montra. Moment is I am under grace and not under law. When you feel like I have no idea how a solution is going to come about this, I have no idea how I'm going to fix this. I really don't know what's going on. I want you to say to yourself, it doesn't matter because I am
under grace. I want to add divine. I am under divine grace and not under law. I'm under divine grace and not under law. So the first secret to manifesting better to just literally feeling better, to not cursing yourself, to protecting your life because you got to be an active participant here. You have to show up for you. And if you're like, well, ceezy, I'm doing all the work and I don't understand what's wrong? Okay? What are
you saying on a daily basis? The voice we hear the most is our own, and your words are literally coding your life. I don't know how many other people have to tell us this. I really don't know. I don't don't know how many people have to shove this in our face for us to understand. You do not say negative things about yourself or a situation if you don't know how it's going to unfold. Say I'm leaving it up to divine circumstance, law, whatever you want to say,
Let go and let God. But you do not curse yourself. Okay. Energetic key number two another secrets. If you will, we cannot. Okay, this is gonna be one where I really need you to. I need you to be strong for this one, okay, because I know you're not gonna like it, but you know, gotta try our best here. I want you to understand that whatever you wish on to another, you're also wishing on to yourself. Whatever you wish on to another, you're sending out and what happens, Oh, I don't know, karma.
So if you're thinking about xes or men who have done you wrong, or an ex best friend who gave you the worst of the worst betrayal, and you're sending out all this negativity to them, you're also sending that to yourself. Because it acts like a boomerang. You're not only broadcasting, you're attracting. And if you're broadcasting, I hope they fail. I hope they get terrible grades. I hope their life gets messed up. I hope nothing ever works
out for them. You're also putting that energy onto yourself. So let's break this down a little bit. Number one law of one. We're all connected. So really, I am you, you are me, I'm that tree, that tree is me. We're all made up of the same ingredients. We're just having different recipes. Consciousness is experiencing itself through different vessels. But when you are sending something to someone else, because that person technically is also you vibrationally energetically, you're just
sending it to yourself. It doesn't make you feel good, it doesn't help them, and actually just comes back to bite you in the butt. Only wish others well. And I know you're thinking, c Z, noah, noah, no, I can't. You don't know what he did to me. You don't know what she said to me. You don't know what Barbara did at last week's what is that called happy hour? The thing is that it doesn't matter. It does not matter, It doesn't matter. Okay. God is a god of justice,
we have the law of karma. You are going to be still and you're gonna pray for them. I know, I know recently it's been on my heart lately. I keep hearing God say pray for your ex and I'm like, oh my God, like why I don't want to? I don't want to. And then I was reminded, whatever we wish out just comes back to us. Our flesh is not always gonna wanna do what's actually gonna help us
the most spiritually and energetically. But it doesn't matter. You have to put your ego aside and remember this is an energetic universe, and there are laws that you must abide by if you want to get what it is you want. If you're not ready to say, you know what, I send them white light. Whatever happens happens. If you're not there, at least try not to send them negativity. Law of substitution. At least try to refocus on something else.
So if you can't stop thinking about them and then you're getting mad and wanting to send them hate, think about toes I don't know, think about water bottles, think about yoga, think about our creation, whatever it is. Transmit the energy, but do not get stuck on sending them negative energy, because you're gonna technically be asking for that back. How do I pray for my quote unquote enemies or exes or whatever. And I truly do pray for every man I've ever dated, I really do. I just say, God,
I send them white light. And if I know there's a specific thing like oh, he can't see beyond his ego, he doesn't even know what he wants this one over, there's low key addicted behavior, vibes, whatever, maybe I just pray. I just pray for them because I don't know all, but God does and I'm going to send out positivity to them. I'm going to you know, oh my god, I told this person I spoke to for like a
blimp of time and space. It was barely a second that I was going to pray for them, and they got so mad they did, And then the next day I sent them this like prayer thing on Instagram and they just read it and I was like, period, But that's that's my truth, Like I really I'm not trying to be rude that. Oh my god, No, I don't want to do that. I am not on this planet to hurt people, and I'm not on this planet to spread negativity. I'm here as a light worker and I
want to lead with love. So for me, it's really something I feel heavy in my chest, like I don't want to hurt hurt people. I don't want to be on this continuum of everyone's just making each other worse. I know better than that. And I'm not going to be like everybody else who hates all of their access, who's negative about everything. There's no point for me to hate anyone, and I don't. So I'm gonna leave but love.
I am gonna send them that Bible Verse I am gonna say, I'm gonna pray for you, and if they don't like that, that's fine, that's nothing on me. But I am responsible for how I show up, how I respond, how I react, and I wanna think pray for you a guide what the I don't understand. Yeah, anyway, it
does not matter. It's really not about that guy. But my point is send them love, send them light, send them prayers, because you don't want to be them, and you don't want to get the negativity that you're gonna send them, because then you're just collecting karma. If you want to clear car, if you want to speed up manifestation, send them love and light. Okay. Third energetic key in Matthew five thirty eight to thirty nine, Jesus basically says, you have heard that it was said an eye for
an eye and a tooth for a tooth. But I tell you not to resist evil or not to resist an evil person. But whoever slapped you on your right cheek turned the other to him also. So basically what this is saying is, instead of fighting fire with fire, let's bring water to the situation. Let's quell this, let's hydrate ourselves. Let's take a step back. Let's take a breather. Something. I yeah, I this past weekend or two weekends ago, I saw something while I was out, and I wasted
no time. I took out my phone sent a voice message to this person like wow, so happy. I had to say that, thank you so much. And I needed to remember my own technique, which is yellow light, which is take a breather, Take ten minutes at least, go wash your face, go to the bathroom, jump around if you need to. Yellow light means slow down, collect yourself, collect your thoughts, collect your emotions. That's what that means.
At the end of the day, I'm just a girl, okay, please anyway, So instead of fighting reacting in that moment, how can we respond with our heart in alignment with who we actually are and in a way that makes us feel good instead of like, damn, I wish I took five minutes to think about what I actually I gotta be honest, I have no regrets, but moving forward, I'm not gonna repeat that action. But I actually have
zero regrets about that anyway. So, in the book Game of Life, the author basically states that there is no evil. Now I don't believe that. I gotta be honest. Uh, there's definitely something. There's definitely something. Her point was, resist no evil because there is none. I don't think that's what Jesus was saying personally. I think he was saying, just don't become the disease. If someone has an illness, don't become the illness. You know, if someone has negativity,
don't become the negativity. Turn your other cheek. That's what I think it was saying. But anyway, so the author goes, are you just resisting the good in your life? Are you seeing two powers or are you recognizing that there's really only one? Her point is that there's only God that is the highest power. What I think would be truer in my body, what resonates with me more, And you take this and see what resonates with you, is
that it's not that there's no evil. I think, you know, there's some things out there, but I think what's more powerful God? Every time God, the good, the light, the harmony, the peace, the love. I think that's always more powerful in the end. So her point is, resist no evil because it doesn't exist. You're just making up that in your own mind space. I think what the actual truth would be for me is, Yeah, there are some people who are dealing with demons. Yeah, there are people dealing
with negativity. Yeah, there is evilness in this world because the law of polarity. However, are you pedestaling the evilness? Are you thinking that this evil is more powerful than God? Are you thinking that the dark forces of this universe are gonna win over the light? Are you acknowledging that this evil force is somehow more powerful than God or as powerful as God? And that is when we know we made a mistake, because at the end of the day, God, the Light, the love is the most powerful force on
this planet. And when I think of the Book of Job, I think about how the devil met up with God and was like, I want to test one of your thoughts. And God, let the devil intercede and test job. God let that happen. So it's not that the devil is more powerful than God. It's not that the dark forces are more powerful than the light of the world. It's that sometimes God allows in my belief, circumstance to unfold for a lesson, a blessing I don't know, for us
to grow. I don't have all the answers. I really don't, but that is what I'm perceiving at this point in time. Are we seeing two powers equally as powerful? Because that is a mistake and it's it's not true. It's not true. So the author goes on to say, we can baptize any situation for success, and how we do this is
by transmuting the energy of the situation. The author was talking about how this woman was dealing with some guys she didn't like, whatever it may be, and she told the woman, you have to acknowledge God as most powerful and it will baptize the situation for success. And the exact words I'm going to give it to you is, as there is only one power God, This man is here from my good and my prosperity. Let's say that
you're trying to find a career. You would say, as there is only one power God, my perfect job opportunity is brought to me immediately. You can replace the back end of this sentence with anything you're going through. As there is only one power God, I am stronger than whatever my three D circumstance shows me. As there is only one power God, I'm going to overcome everything as there is only one power, God, I am aligning with
my destiny. You can use anything on the back end, but you're acknowledging there's only one power here, and even though there might be negative forces, the true power is from God. The fourth energetic key is pay attention to the pictures you create in your mind. If I say pink elephant, you're thinking of a pink elephant. We not just think. We see in our internal world, our mind. We picture things all of the time, and then that
internal screen becomes an external one really quickly. We want to pay attention to what we're playing in our internal movie. A rich man pictures wealth, he can see it in his mind. A poor man pictures poverty, he can see it in his mind. What are you picturing? What's going on there? If you've ever gone to a scary movie, you know, realistically there's nothing to be afraid of. It's a movie playing on a screen. But yet we still are like, whoa jump scare? You know, same thing with
our mental movies. Our body believes our mental movies. So if we're picturing all the things we don't want to happen, not only are you putting your body in a fight, or flight state. Not only are you releasing cortisol, not only is it gonna lead to weight gain or weight loss, or acne or illness. You are just wasting your own mental movies. There's no points, there's no point to continuously picture what you don't want, and in fact it hurts you because then you start to see it in the
external movie, the matrix that we reside within. Pay attention to the pictures you are creating. I want you to, literally, this week, every single day, ask yourself, what picture am I creating in my mind? What am I envisioning my day to look like? Break it down into daily intervals. What am I picturing my day to unfold as today? How do I see myself walking in the world? Do I see myself as being confident? Okay, well, then I'm gonna be confident. Do I see myself as this meek
little mouse who's gonna get stepped all over? All? Right? Well, then I'm gonna be a meek little mouse that gets stepped on. How are you picturing yourself in relation to the external world? How are you picturing what's unfolding in your day? How are you picturing literally everything the things that you want the people that you want, the circumstances that you want, are are you picturing them at all?
Or are you just picturing the worst case scenario. So we want to attune ourselves to not just saying right vibrational words, but having right vibrational thoughts mental images, because just like words are things, so our thoughts, so are these images. The fifth energetic key is to be unmoved by your three D reality. Our three D circumstance is delayed. It's from our past thoughts and emotions and vibration that we were exuding prior. Our spirit manifests quicker than our
three D reality. Our energy transforms quicker than our three D reality. Our broadcast can change faster than our three D reality. So the three D is delayed. What you're experiencing in the present moment is actually from your past energy broadcast. If you're still experiencing things that you don't like, before you freak out and allow it to drag you down emotionally, remember wait, this is still old stuff. This
is still old stuff. If I just transformed my energy this past weekend, I'm probably gonna see it next week. It's gonna take a little time for the dust to settle. I want you to really think about that. Let time and space work for you, and remember how they work. Let the time and the space and the frequency and the circumstance and the people and the places. Let it settle. Gotta give it time to transform, because it's slower than
how we're transforming and feeling on the inside. And an amazing affirmation again from the book Game of Life, is I am unmoved by external things things, and we can change this up. I'm undisturbed by my three D. I am unmoved by the three D circumstances around me. We don't want our three D circumstance to become another bully in our life. We don't want our three D circumstance
dictating how we're feeling all the time. Because if you let what's out there dictate how you feel, you are a slave to so many things outside of yourself, to Brad and Harry and Barbara. Yep, you're a slave to all of them. Did you come here to just allow other people to force you to feel certain things? Or did you come here to be a conscious, autonomous, participating individual. Which one is it? We and I know, I know it's not always so easy to and I'm not saying
to ignore your three D circumstance. Acknowledge it, Oh, this is what it is, this is from my past energy. I'm not saying blah blah blah blah, hands in my ears. I'm not gonna look at anything. No, acknowledge it, understand it, use it to understand where your vibration is, is and was, and then reset, refocus on what you want to feel and tell yourself I'm unmoved by this because i know it's past stuff and I'm shifting. I'm shifting into higher
states of consciousness. I'm shifting how I'm feeling on a daily basis. I'm choosing to feel better, do better, see better, Look for what it is you want. I know so many people say, oh, it comes when you least expect it, blah blah blah. That makes I don't know. It doesn't make sense to me not to look for what you want. Hello what I don't look for things I don't want to know, Like if I don't want to know what's going on on your phone, I'm not gonna look because
I don't want to know. However, I look for things that I want to find, and I don't understand when manifestation coach people are like, don't look for it because it comes when you least expected. What are you talking about? That makes no sense. Look for what it is you want to see in your reality. If you want to attract love, look for all the people and love. Oh my god, they have love. That's amazing. They have love.
Oh my god, that's amazing. I feel love for myself, I feel love for my siblings, I feel love for my community. Look for what it is you want okay in your reality, and celebrate when it's there. But do not let your reality if it's not what you want disturb you. Acknowledge it, honor it, understand it, refine your focus and your vibration, and that will move you in the right direction. I love you so so so much, and as a ways, the sparkle in the Honor is
the sparkling you girl. Don't forget to grab your copy of Show Up as Her so you can stay tuned in with all of the energy teachings. Energy Cancer
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