“But couldn’t the Surrogate change her mind and keep the baby?” If you’ve heard this before, or even if you haven’t, this Surrogacy Talk is for you. Frank, a surrogacy agency director and former Intended Parent, dives into why this myth and others like it are not only false but also harmful to the surrogacy community. He’ll explain how Surrogates have no biological or legal claim to the baby and how these misconceptions can influence everything from personal opinions to legislation.
Jan 06, 2025•5 min
Welcoming a child through surrogacy is an extraordinary experience, and for many, the journey doesn’t end with just one. But how does preparing for a second differ from the first? In this Surrogacy Talk, we’ll explore the emotional readiness it takes, the financial considerations involved, and how to prepare your first child for a sibling. Above all, Golden is here to help you navigate the decisions around growing your family with clarity and confidence.
Dec 02, 2024•8 min
Welcome to Surrogacy Talk! Or should I say Surrogacy 101? Nope, scratch that. This is Surrogacy Talk and we’re diving into some fundamental concepts you need to know as you begin planning your surrogacy journey. I’ll explore the key differences between gestational and traditional surrogacy, explain how the IVF process works, and clarify the legal rights involved. Plus, you’ll learn about the crucial role agencies like Golden play in matching Surrogates with Intended Parents. By the end, you’ll h...
Nov 04, 2024•9 min
What if I told you that one of the most important steps in your surrogacy journey happens even before you partner with a surrogacy agency? I know it might sound surprising coming from an agency director, but trust me, choosing an egg donor is a game changer when it comes to building the family of your dreams. From my own experience as an Intended Parent, I can’t stress enough how pivotal this choice is. In this Surrogacy Talk, I’ll share the three key things to consider when selecting an egg don...
Oct 07, 2024•7 min
Navigating Surrogate compensation can feel overwhelming, with hidden costs and confusing fees often leaving prospective Surrogates scratching their heads. In this Surrogacy Talk, we break down why enticing offers like "earn up to $80,000" can be misleading and reveal the fine print behind those numbers. We’ll discuss the importance of transparency in compensation packages, explain the difference between reimbursements and actual pay, and share questions to ask when choosing a Surrogacy...
Sep 23, 2024•5 min
Ever wondered why it's so tough to become a Surrogate? In this Surrogacy Talk, we dive into the stringent qualifications required to become a Surrogate with Golden. Despite the high demand for Surrogates, only about 2% of applicants meet our criteria. As the director of a surrogacy agency, I'll share the inside scoop on why our standards are so high and the surprising reasons behind them. We'll explore the reasons behind our selective process and discuss why it's essential fo...
Aug 05, 2024•7 min
If you ask any Intended Parent or Surrogate what part of the surrogacy journey they most look forward to, "the matching phase" will likely be one of the most common responses you hear. For all parties involved, matching is one of the most anticipated stages. However, depending on whether you are an Intended Parent or Surrogate, the answer to the question "how long does it take to be matched" will vary. Check out these Surrogacy Talks! The Surrogate Intake Process and Managing...
Jul 01, 2024•6 min
Ever wondered what buying your dream home and starting a surrogacy journey have in common? Surprisingly, it's not the start of a joke. There are more parallels between the two than you might think. Similarly to house hunting, understanding the financial aspects of a surrogacy journey is key. So, let’s dive deep into the expectations vs. reality of the financial aspects of your journey to parenthood. Check out this Surrogacy Talk! How Much Does Surrogacy Cost?...
May 30, 2024•5 min
It’s a scenario I encounter frequently: Intended Parents dive headfirst into their surrogacy journey, full of excitement and hope, only to hit a wall of unexpected financial burdens. Despite their best efforts to prepare, often there are overlooked expenses that catch them off guard. From agency fees to clinical costs, we're here to address it all in this Surrogacy Talk. Check out this Surrogacy Talk! How Much Money Is Needed?...
May 03, 2024•6 min
Over 10 years ago, the birth of Frank and Adam’s daughter lit a spark that ignited the inspiration for what Golden Surrogacy is today. It has been 10 years and in this Surrogacy Talk, Frank reflects on that day and how one thought he had while holding his daughter became Golden’s slogan.
Jul 28, 2023•8 min
No one likes to hear that their expectations are unrealistic. This is especially true for Intended Parents embarking on a surrogacy journey. But the truth of the matter is that no two surrogacy journeys are the same, and if Intended Parents are unwilling to budge on certain expectations, they are setting themselves up for disappointment. Whether it be regarding costs, timelines, chances of success, or even levels of involvement, it is important to manage expectations to get the most from a surro...
Jul 21, 2023•9 min
The question, “How much does surrogacy cost” can be intimidating. If you are an Intended Parent looking for a surrogacy agency to work with, you have probably seen a wide range of numbers from different agencies. In this Surrogacy Talk, you will get an overview of the numbers you can expect if you partner with Golden Surrogacy. Frank will also discuss the dangers of working with an agency that advertises inaccurate costs. At the end of the day, whether you choose to partner with Golden or anothe...
Jul 14, 2023•9 min
You want to become a Surrogate and you are living in Florida. Where should your surrogacy agency be located? Are you limited to only working with agencies that are also in Florida? In this Surrogacy Talk Frank will let you in on a little secret: your surrogacy agency does not need to be in the state you reside in. Believe it or not, whether you are an Intended Parent or a Surrogate, you will never have to visit your agency in person.
Jul 07, 2023•5 min
For Intended Parents and Surrogates, it is important to be open to developing a relationship with each other during your surrogacy journey. But what about once your journey is complete? Are you expected to remain friends? In this Surrogacy Talk, Frank answers a question submitted by Mary, a two-time Golden Surrogate. He opens up about his relationship with both of his Surrogates and how he navigated those relationships during and after his children were born.
Jun 30, 2023•11 min
“Women only become Surrogates for the money.” Have you ever heard someone say this? Even if you haven’t, this Surrogacy Talk is for you! Frank will address and break down three common myths about surrogacy. He will discuss why not only are they false but also how they are harmful to the surrogacy community. Buckle up because this Surrogacy Talk will provide you with the vocabulary to respond the next time Karen leaves a negative comment on a video.
Jun 23, 2023•10 min
What if I told you that applying to become a Surrogate isn’t the first step on your surrogacy journey. It’s true! There are seven steps you need to take before your journey even begins. In this Surrogacy Talk, Frank will walk you through what those steps are and the ways they will set you up for success on your surrogacy journey. Above all, Golden wants every woman who chooses to become a Surrogate, to start their journey with as much information as possible.
Jun 16, 2023•8 min
What are good attributes of a surrogacy agency? What should I look out for to avoid? These questions get asked a lot in consultations with Intended Parents and Surrogates. If you are preparing to embark on a surrogacy journey, you want to make sure you are partnered with an agency that is looking out for your best interest to help you achieve the most successful outcome. In this Surrogacy Talk, Frank will discuss three green flags and three red flags to look out for when looking for a surrogacy ...
Jun 09, 2023•11 min
“Where do I begin?” This is a question Frank often gets asked during consultations with Intended Parents. It is a very important question and, depending on who you ask, will come with a variety of answers. Let’s discuss what Frank recommends for Intended Parents and break down what your surrogacy journey with Golden will look like, step by step. Because while creating a family can be a long journey, it is a journey that no one should do alone, and an experience that everyone deserves.
Mar 15, 2023•10 min
Being a parent is hard work. Becoming a parent is also hard work. And for parents looking to create a family through gestational surrogacy, it is even more work. Just like there are requirements to becoming a Surrogate, there are requirements to becoming Intended Parents. In this Surrogacy Talk, Frank Golden discusses six requirements to become an Intended Parent and what they mean for couples hoping to become parents with the help of a Gestational Surrogate.
Mar 15, 2023•4 min
So you know you want to become a parent with the help of a Gestational Surrogate, now what? No two surrogacy journeys are the same and knowing what to do next depends on which type of Intended Parent you are. In this Surrogacy Talk, Frank will help you identify which type Intended Parent you are and what that means for your journey moving forward. The surrogacy journey is a complex process with many different phases that all have the potential to slow down your journey and get you off course. Wi...
Mar 15, 2023•5 min
Whether you are someone interested in becoming a Surrogate or my mom checking in on how I’m doing, this Surrogacy Talk will help guide you through what the Surrogate intake process looks like here at Golden. Frank will walk you through every step of the process and offer a detailed explanation of why we take our time onboarding Surrogates. Spoiler alert: it is for your benefit!
Mar 15, 2023•5 min
You would be shocked at how many surrogacy agencies use dishonest marketing strategies to deceive innocent women into receiving less than they deserve. “Make $80,000 as a Surrogate” sounds too good to be true, right? Well, depending on the surrogacy agency there is a chance it is. This Surrogacy Talk will be a deep dive into the dishonest marketing practices used by some agencies. Here at Golden, our goal is to ensure that all parties who embark on a surrogacy journey do so in an informed manner...
Mar 15, 2023•4 min
The differences between Golden and other surrogacy agencies are vast. In this Surrogacy Talk, Frank discusses six of the differences that make Golden stand out. These are the differences that matter most because when it comes to building the family of your dreams, you deserve better than the best. You deserve Golden.
Mar 15, 2023•7 min
Ten years ago, Frank and Adam Golden set out on their own surrogacy journey to build the family of their dreams. Fast forward to today and they run one of the leading surrogacy agencies in the nation. But it did not happen overnight. This Surrogacy Talk will give you a better idea of the face behind Golden Surrogacy and help you see why Golden is the best choice for your family-building endeavors.
Mar 15, 2023•5 min
Welcome to Surrogacy Talk! I am Frank Golden, the founder and agency director of Golden Surrogacy, one of the nation’s leading surrogacy agencies. I will discuss all things surrogacy, IVF, family building, and making babies!
Mar 15, 2023•2 min
Egg donation can be a complex process for first-time Intended Parents. In this episode, Frank goes into detail about the egg donation process. He discusses egg donor requirements, types of egg donation arrangements, and shares personal stories of his egg donation experience.
Mar 05, 2019•26 min
Second journeys, the process of adding to your family, is exciting. There is nothing better than giving your child a sibling to love. In this episode, Frank discusses second journeys in detail. He shares information about managing expectations, journey timelines, and expresses the importance of showing second-time Intended Parents the same quality care as their first journey.
Feb 05, 2019•27 min
CampOut is an overnight camp for LGBT families, hosted by the Lake of the Woods & Greenwoods Camp located in Decatur, Michigan. CampOut experienced its third year of family fun August 17th-20th. Frank and Adam Golden, founders of Golden Surrogacy, took their children to CampOut for a their second year and came back with plenty of stories to share! In this episode, Frank and Adam discuss camp activities, meeting other gay families, and their children’s perspectives of this amazing family buil...
Oct 10, 2018•23 min
Surrogates take on a huge responsibility when entering a Surrogacy Journey. In this episode, Frank discusses Surrogates role in the process and how they can include their Intended Parents throughout the entire journey. He shares ideas that Surrogates can use to help reassure their Intended Parents and also shares personal stories about his own surrogates.
Aug 13, 2018•22 min
Pregnancy is complex, and it can be stressful for Intended Parents to process it all. In this episode, Frank discusses pregnancy and what to expect when a surrogate is expecting. He uses his own experience as a surrogacy agency own to address each trimester, possible complications, and important milestones throughout a typical pregnancy.
Jul 12, 2018•27 min
