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Superfreak

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Superfreak shares tiny insights to level up your performance, results, energy and experiences in every area of life. This is where we become immune to fear, failure and feeble thinking. With 9X world champion Martial artist & life-coach, Hayley Carr.
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Are you the most difficult client? How to tell if you or a client are uncoachable.

You know that client who seems stuck no matter what you try? Who says they want change, but resists every invitation to actually do the thing? Sometimes… that client is us. This one’s a little spicy, a little sobering, and a whole lot clarifying. Because if you’re in the business of helping others grow, you need to be honest about your own coachability too. And if you’re holding space for someone who’s starting to feel impossible to coach, you’ll want to hear this. This episode is a compassionat...

Jun 19, 202532 minSeason 1Ep. 91

Clarity doesn't come from thinking harder - it comes from this.

G'day my loves – I'm recording this one from a very rainy, very cozy lounge room, with a fire crackling, some soothing music in the background, and the river quite literally creeping up to my window. So today's episode has big cozy, calm, candle-lit vibes. But we’re talking about something so many of us grapple with, clarity, especially when we’re trying to make big decisions or navigate uncertainty. Here’s the truth: Clarity doesn’t come from thinking harder or trying harder. It comes when we s...

May 22, 202514 minSeason 1Ep. 90

14 ways high performers get stuck (and the cost of staying there)

You don’t have to be burned out to be stuck. Sometimes “stuck” looks like being wildly capable… but quietly dissatisfied. You’re busy. Booked. On paper, things are working. But underneath? Something’s off. This episode is a loving call-out for creatives, high performers, leaders and business owners who feel like they’re doing all the things, and still not getting what they came for. We're unpacking the sneaky, subtle ways high-functioning people stay stuck, the real cost of staying there, and wh...

May 15, 202537 minSeason 1Ep. 89

Think you need more discipline, motivation or organisation? Think again.

You don’t need another planner. Or a better routine. Or more motivation. What you might need is to rethink how you define discipline and why your strategies keep falling apart. This episode unpacks the real reason so many smart, ambitious people fall off track. And no, it’s not because you’re lazy, disorganised or uncommitted. We cover: Why motivation is unreliable and what to rely on instead How structure can feel supportive rather than restrictive The identity shift that makes habits stick Wha...

May 08, 202522 minSeason 1Ep. 88

What no-one tells you about becoming exceptional (and the skill you need to get there)

If you’ve been doing all the “right” things but it still feels sticky, off, or oddly lonely, this one’s for you. You’re not broken. You’re not behind. You’re not missing anything. You’re just crossing a threshold most people don’t talk about. You're on your way to becoming exceptional. And yes, it can feel weird. In this episode, we take a breath and a good honest look at: Why the road to mastery often feels quieter (and wobblier) than you’d expect The invisible gap between being high-functionin...

May 01, 202534 minSeason 1Ep. 87

You Don't Need to Shout. You Need to Be Trusted.

If 2025 feels like a full-blown shitstorm of noise, fear, and "WTF is even happening right now?" this episode is for you. Whether you're running a business, leading a team, raising kids, or just trying to be a decent human in a very loud world... this is your reminder: you don’t need to shout to be remembered. You need to be trusted. Right now, people are more cautious than ever. Not just with money, but with energy, attention, and trust. We’re tired. And in a world where AI is automating everyt...

Apr 23, 202518 minSeason 1Ep. 86

Self-Coaching as Your Anchor

It’s been a while. I’m tucked up in my snuggliest clothes, recording this late at night - heart full, energy soft, and if I’m honest… a little bit nervous to be back behind the mic. But here we are! This episode is tender. It’s about the messy middle. The quiet. The moments when things wobble, and no one’s watching, and it’s just you with you. I’m sharing what brought me back, and what’s carried me through. The quiet, powerful work of self-coaching. Not the performative kind. Not the “push throu...

Apr 17, 202533 minSeason 1Ep. 85

10 Ways I (happily) leave money on the table enrolling clients

G’day, friends! In this episode, I’m sharing a new approach to sales and enrollment for coaches and service providers—one rooted in trust, transparency, and integrity. Inspired by a sales training I couldn’t even finish, I reflect on the outdated, high-pressure tactics we’re so often taught and how they clash with the personal, transformative work we do. Instead, I explore how to create meaningful connections with potential clients, from empowering them to make their own decisions to being hones...

Nov 18, 202422 minSeason 1Ep. 84

What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do

If you've ever had a huge dream but felt completely stuck because you have no idea how to get there—this episode is for you. I’ve been there too, and today we’re talking about how to get unstuck and move forward, even when the next step feels totally unclear. One of the biggest things I’ve learned is that it's not about having the perfect plan. It’s about trusting the process, even when the path feels foggy. Sometimes, you’re not meant to know all the steps ahead. You just need to focus on one s...

Oct 03, 202427 minSeason 1Ep. 83

Overcoming Toxic Girlboss Mode.

If you’re empathic, introverted, intuitive, or highly sensitive, you might feel like the typical business advice just doesn’t fit. Hustle culture glorifies burnout, always being "on," and chasing metrics, but that constant push can be toxic—especially for us. Here’s the truth: You don’t need to hustle harder to succeed. You can thrive in business without sacrificing your well-being. Signs You’re “Girlbossing” Too Hard: Burnout masked as productivity – You’re getting things done, but it’s drainin...

Sep 26, 202442 minSeason 1Ep. 82

How to completely transform your life in 90 days

Hey, Superfreaks! Today's episode is all about the incredible power of a 90-day transformation. Whether you're stuck in a rut or just feeling like life is happening to you rather than for you, this episode is for you. We’ll be diving deep into how you can create meaningful, lasting changes in your life by focusing on just 90 days. 90 days is long enough to see real transformation, but short enough to stay committed without losing momentum. Whether you're looking to level up your business, improv...

Sep 20, 20241 hrSeason 1Ep. 81

Are mastermind groups worth it? How to know for yourself.

Mastermind groups and coaching programs are a growing trend in the business world, but are they truly worth the investment of your time, energy, and money? This article unpacks how to decide if a mastermind group is the right fit for you, the unique benefits these groups offer, and the red flags to watch out for when evaluating one. Hayley Carr, with over 14 years in the coaching industry and 9 years running mastermind groups, breaks down the essentials. She shares her own experiences—both posit...

Sep 13, 202444 minSeason 1Ep. 80

7 slow-living business practises to increase your profits & productivity

In this episode of the Superfreak Podcast, we explore the surprisingly powerful practice of slow living in business. I know this might sound counter-intuitive—how could slowing down possibly lead to more productivity and higher profits? But after years of integrating these principles into my own work, I’ve found that aligning with a more natural pace not only prevents burnout but actually leads to better results. Throughout the episode, I’ll be sharing how I’ve applied these slow living strategi...

Sep 05, 20241 hr 1 minSeason 1Ep. 79

10 signs it's time to go from good to great

In today’s episode, we delve into the critical signs that indicate it's time to elevate from good to great. Feeling stuck, stagnated, or frustrated isn’t a signal to give up; instead, it’s a powerful indication that you’re ready to level up. By recognising these signs, you can transition from merely good to outstanding in various aspects of your life, whether it's your career, personal growth, or any other area where you seek improvement. Here’s a breakdown of what we discussed: Part 1: Recognis...

Aug 02, 202455 minSeason 1Ep. 78

What happens to business when life happens?

Life inevitably throws unexpected curveballs, like grief, illness and family emergencies. So how do you keep your business afloat while honouring what matters most—taking time to grieve, heal and be with loved ones? This episode comes from a place close to my heart as I share with you my personal experiences and provide practical advice for how to keep your head above water. Recognising Life's Impact The first thing is we need to recognise the impact of life events. So often we set goals with th...

Jun 25, 202437 minSeason 1Ep. 77

How to be more carefree: both in general + when going for huge goals

When you’re going for big dreams, it can be hard to not feel completely crushed when things don’t go according to plan. How can you be more carefree when things shift and change, instead of it feeling like the end of the world? This idea of being more carefree is something that I’ve been speaking about with a number of my clients recently and it just so happens to be a listener question as well. Before launching into any tips and strategies, I feel like an important aspect of this discussion is ...

Jun 18, 202439 minSeason 1Ep. 76

How to align your subconscious with your next goals

On the road to pursuing big goals, there will be times when you feel ready to go to the next level but for some reason, you meet resistance. Even though you’re doing everything you know you should be doing, something is holding you back. The reason for this resistance often lies deep within our subconscious. There's this thing called secondary gain, which is essentially an unnoticed benefit of staying right where you are. While logically, we want to grow and achieve more, our subconscious wants ...

Jun 13, 202431 minSeason 1Ep. 75

How to know when it’s time to quit

Last week I talked about getting good at failure and how real failure is only when you give up entirely. But I don’t think that conversation would be complete without talking about the fact that sometimes it is necessary and even beneficial to quit. Knowing whether it’s time to let go of something is a topic that comes up quite regularly in my coaching, especially for people who are pursuing seemingly impossible or drawn-out goals. It’s not uncommon to arrive at the question: "Is it worth contin...

Jun 04, 202432 minSeason 1Ep. 74

How to overcome the fear of failure - even when the stakes are high

The fear of failure is the underlying topic beneath every conversation I have with my clients. No matter who you are, what you’ve achieved and what success you’re striving for, nobody is immune to the fear of failure. We all face it. The solution then isn’t so much about ridding yourself of the fear. It’s about getting comfortable with being uncomfortable because the fear will never not be there. A fear of failure can come up at any stage of the performance spectrum. Maybe you even fear admittin...

May 28, 202423 minSeason 1Ep. 73

How to feel rested + calm while achieving more than ever

I’m no stranger to burnout. Starting in 2008, chronic fatigue had me pretty much housebound for years, and as weird as it sounds, I count that experience as a privilege. I was forced to set boundaries that I know I wouldn't have set had I not been forced to. That experience changed the way I approached achieving success because I could no longer work myself to the ground. The consequences were too great. Instead, I had to find smart and unconventional ways of working so that I could prioritise m...

May 21, 202432 minSeason 1Ep. 72

Business Housekeeping: Good for your mental health

I don’t believe in junk drawers. In fact, I’m a big believer that things should be as beautiful behind the scenes as they are front of house. So, it’s somewhat embarrassing to admit that a few years ago, I realised the organisation I’d been so proud of in my home did not translate to my business! Things were super chaotic and none of the basics had their proper place. I know I’m not alone in this. I’ve seen far too many people become dismayed and overwhelmed in their businesses due to a lack of ...

May 14, 202425 minSeason 1Ep. 71

How to Extract Your unique Strategy for creating epic results

Do you want to know the secret to figuring out how to do something you’ve never done before and do it successfully? Today I’m talking about how big thinkers and dreamers navigate unchartered waters, create amazing things and achieve epic results. The truth is, there’s no one size fits all approach. It’s about uncovering your unique strategy and allowing that to shape every aspect of your decision making across all areas of your life. What is your unique meta strategy? After coaching for over 16 ...

May 07, 202431 minSeason 1Ep. 70

My Coaching Philosophies You Can Steal for Leadership

At its heart, coaching is an art form. Whether you’re a manager, leader, parent, counsellor, therapist, or coach in any capacity, the paradox lies in walking with someone through their journey, prioritising their autonomy and best interests, without dictating the outcome based on your opinions. As a coach and mentor, I've discovered that holding solid, personal coaching philosophies not only sharpens my ability to make quick, impactful decisions but also enables me to truly listen and place my c...

Apr 30, 202451 minSeason 1Ep. 69

Trying harder is futile. Don't be the fly!

I want to share a life-changing story with you today which is the foundation of everything I do. It’s a story from my favourite book, "You Squared" by Price Pritchett, about the futility of trying harder and why sometimes, we just need to look at things from a different perspective. We can all relate to those times in life and business when things just aren’t working. No matter how much we push ourselves to work harder, be better and grind our way through, we just keep banging our heads against ...

Apr 23, 202419 minSeason 1Ep. 68

Which client are you? 2 types of resistance

Along every path toward creating or achieving something, there will at some point be invisible hurdles that keep us from moving forward. These moments of stagnation aren’t just random misfortunes but the manifestations of resistance. So today I’m sharing with you one of the greatest secrets that I use in my coaching every single day to unblock resistance, struggle and the endless wheel spinning that can happen on our way to reaching goals and creating amazing things. There are two types of uncon...

Apr 16, 202435 minSeason 1Ep. 67

The story of how my business started + 3 tips for sustainability

When you’re at the beginning of your business journey, it can feel disheartening when you hear other entrepreneurs share their instant success stories. The truth is that the path to a sustainable business looks different for everyone. For me, it was slow and winding and I met some unexpected challenges along the way. But along the journey, I also experienced some profound personal growth and learned a lot about sustainability. My journey into coaching began in 2007 when I had an inspiring experi...

Apr 09, 202453 minSeason 1Ep. 66

I took a year off podcasting: Here's what happened

If you didn’t notice, it's been nearly an entire year since my last episode… but I'm back! The irony is not lost on me that when I last shared on the podcast, I talked about staying consistent - and then stopped releasing podcast episodes for an entire year. But, business has been running along as usual this whole time and I’ve been consistent in other areas. So today I’m back to re-launch the podcast and update you on everything that’s been happening behind the scenes. Social Media Hiatus In ad...

Apr 02, 202419 minSeason 1Ep. 65

4 secrets to running a business when you have inconsistent energy

Do you often find yourself feeling drained and lacking motivation to work on your business, while other times you're full of energy and ready to conquer the world? We’re often told that running a business requires consistent effort, but what do you do when your energy levels are all over the place? In this episode, I’m sharing 4 of my secrets to running a business when you have inconsistent energy. You don't need to force yourself and keep pushing through. Unavoidable things will happen and you’...

Apr 18, 202325 minSeason 1Ep. 64

How to have a winner's mindset - even when you're not feeling it.

Are you trying to grow your winner’s mindset? Is it even worth your time and energy? In this episode, I’m going to challenge you to consider developing a winner’s consciousness instead of a winner’s mindset because it will keep you on the path of winning, even when you’re not feeling it. A winner's consciousness is a way of thinking that focuses on growth, abundance, and possibility. This means embracing personal growth and focusing on the learning that happens as a result of failures and mistak...

Apr 04, 202318 minSeason 1Ep. 63

The secret behind how my clients create the impossible - I'm spilling the tea

Today I’m spilling the tea on a really big part of my coaching philosophy and the secret behind the scenes of what I'm doing with all of my clients inside of my coaching program. This secret allows my clients to make seemingly impossible results within a very short space of time. For instance, if you want to x5 your turnover while keeping the same cash profit margin or buy that unbelievably amazing dream house that was only ever a pipe dream. I’ve seen my clients inside The Fierce Salon achieve ...

Mar 28, 202331 minSeason 1Ep. 62
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