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Strong Men Strong Marriages

Mike Frazier, MDstrongmenstrongmarriages.com

Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.

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Episodes

Join The Email List! [Thursday Challenge]

If you haven't yet, it's time to join the email list! You'll only hear about our updated group program opening at the end of January through our email list. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike....

Jan 02, 20252 minEp. 333

How To Have A Better Marriage in 2025

Do you want a better marriage in 2025? One full of connection, laughter, fun and intimacy? You CAN do it. It starts with a strong connection with God. Then a great relationship with yourself. Then learning the trust, communication and intimacy skills to take your marriage to a connection that’s even beyond what it was when you were first married. Learn how in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCrDomF_oig Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training...

Dec 31, 202420 minEp. 332

Call For A Spiritual Spotter [Thursday Challenge]

Feel overwhelmed? Feel like you can’t act the way you want to act? Pray for a spiritual spotter to come help you! And let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. h...

Dec 26, 20242 minEp. 331

Using Spiritual Spotters

Responding in new, Christ-like ways to your wife and kids is hard work. In fact, sometimes it’s harder than we can currently handle. If your wife is critical, your son gets attitude with you, or you’re just feeling tired… Acting in a strong and loving way may be out of reach. That’s when you can use Spiritual Spotters to help you do more than you can do on your own. Learn more about how this works in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, ...

Dec 24, 202411 minEp. 330

Move 1 Thing From Your "To Do" List To Your Calendar

And then get it done! Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. And then let me know how it goes! Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765...

Dec 19, 20242 minEp. 329

How To Get Rid Of Your "To Do" List

Do you have a long “to do” list? Do you feel like you have too much to do with too little time? Does it feel like you’ll never get everything done that you need to? Today you’ll learn how to get rid of your “to do” list… And get more done in less time with less stress. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more inte...

Dec 17, 202412 minEp. 328

Release A Strong Negative Emotion

Follow the 4 steps to deal with a strong negative emotion, and let me know how it goes! Step 1 - Recognize it was from Satan Step 2 - Pray for help through it Step 3 - Identify the lie and correct it Step 4 - Release the anger physically Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Let me know how it goes! Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and w...

Dec 12, 20242 minEp. 327

The Secret To Dealing With Strong Negative Emotions

This week I had an attack of extreme anger. Thankfully, I was able to get through it without exploding by following a few simple steps. Step 1 - Recognize it was from Satan Step 2 - Pray for help through it Step 3 - Identify the lie and correct it Step 4 - Release the anger physically Learn more about how this works in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://s...

Dec 10, 202418 minEp. 326

Write 1 Rule For Your Marriage

What's 1 rule you could write and live that would change your marriage patterns for the better? Write it out today! Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230...

Dec 05, 20242 minEp. 325

Rules For Marriage

You have negative patterns that are hurting your marriage. Not listening. Invalidating. Pushing conversations when they don’t need to be pushed. Letting your wife walk all over you. The good news is, you can break those patterns. And setting a few simple rules can help you do that. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to w...

Dec 03, 202412 minEp. 324

Show Gratitude For Your Wife Today [Thursday Challenge]

On Thanksgiving, let’s be grateful for our wives. No matter how bad things are right now, there’s SOMETHING you can be grateful for. Find that gratitude (ask God for help)... And share it with your wife. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each ...

Nov 28, 20241 min

How To Enjoy Your Marriage More

If you find yourself unhappy in your marriage… Resentful.. Frustrated… Wondering if you married the right person… This episode is for you. You’ll learn how to start feeling better right away… And by doing that… Become more attractive to your wife. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike ...

Nov 26, 202414 minEp. 322

Partner With God In Being Generous [Thursday Challenge]

Ask yourself today: How can I partner with God to use the time and money He’s given me to bless others? Then go do it! Let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. ...

Nov 21, 20242 minEp. 321

How To Stop Worrying About What's Fair

If you’re like me, you’re very concerned about things being fair. You work hard for the money and respect you get… And you expect others to do the same. When they don’t work as hard as you… But still get money or respect… You can get upset. Jealous. Angry. Frustrated. Are those fruits of the Spirit? Are they part of the Abundant Life God wants for you? Learn how to stop worrying about what’s fair and join with God in His generosity… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube....

Nov 19, 202417 minEp. 320

Self-Check: Am I Trusting God Or Money More? [Thursday Challenge]

Ask yourself a few quick questions: -Do I spend more time thinking about money… or about God? -Do I feel more security from my money and investments… or from trusting God to provide for me? -If my assets were stolen, what would my reaction be? If you find that you are trusting money for your sense of safety and security more than God… There’s a quick fix. Shift your thinking to trust in Him more! Pray for that help, remind yourself of the scriptures that remind you of his care for you. And let m...

Nov 14, 20242 minEp. 319

Trusting God vs Trusting Money

I’ve had a personal shift that I wanted to share with you today. I realized that I was trusting money for my security vs trusting God. Since I’ve made the shift, I feel: -Much more peace -Much lighter -Much more grateful And, God is blessing me financially as well. Learn how to check if you’re trusting money too much… And what to do about it… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Day...

Nov 12, 202417 minEp. 318

31 Days To Become A Better Man with Joel Gandara

Joel has become a good friend of mine over the past few months. Today you’ll learn about his story… And his program, 31 Days To Become A Better Man… That has helped men apply business, financial, physical and relationship principles… To create BIG transformations in just 31 days. Hear some of the inspiring stories in today’s episode… Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to join the group with me for the November 20th 31 day challenge, visit this link and when you use the code “stro...

Nov 07, 202422 minEp. 317

How To Respond To Negativity

I had a big failure as a husband and father a few days ago. I met negativity with negativity… and damaged relationships badly in the process. I spent the day with God yesterday and He helped show me a better way… And how to accomplish it… Learn how in today’s episode… Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more inten...

Nov 05, 202421 minEp. 316

Reverse The Hurt [Thursday Challenge]

Today, find a way to reverse the invalidation triple threat. Let your wife know you did something wrong (invalidated her)... That you can understand how she would feel (unheard, unseen, unsafe)... And that you can understand how she could think a certain way (that she’s not important to you, that you think you’re better than her, etc.)... And let me know how it goes! Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io...

Oct 31, 20242 min

How To Reverse The Hurt In Your Marriage

A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat. That’s when you tell your wife: -She’s wrong for what she’s thinking -She’s wrong for what she’s feeling -You’re right This causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you. We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps: -Tell her how you were wrong for responding the way you did -Understand how she could feel that way -Understand how she could think that way This helps her feel safe and op...

Oct 29, 202411 min

Stop A Marriage Fight This Week [Thursday Challenge]

Tuesday you learned how to stop a marriage fight by… Step 1 - Notice the anger Step 2 - Release the anger Step 3 - Listen or walk away Now, try it and see how it goes! Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call wit...

Oct 24, 20241 minEp. 313

3 Steps To Stop A Marriage Fight... And Create More Intimacy

My wife and I got in a fight last night… And it reminded me of 3 steps I can take in the future to step out of the “who’s right” pattern… Creating less safety and closed hearts… And step into a pattern that allows more connection and intimacy…. Step 1 - Notice the anger Step 2 - Release the anger Step 3 - Listen or walk away Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjjxlpDd52A Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next...

Oct 22, 202419 minEp. 312

Respond To Your Wife's Anger In A New Way [Thursday Challenge]

So you learned that getting mad back, the invalidation triple threat and trying to make your wife happy won’t work. Instead, try… Responding with kindness… Serving her because you want to (going the extra mile)... Or just saying “no.” And let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his...

Oct 17, 20242 minEp. 311

How To Respond To Your Wife's Anger

When your wife gets mad at you for something, most men either… Get mad back… Tell their wife she’s wrong and justify themselves (invalidation triple threat)... Or tuck tail and just try to make her happy. Unfortunately, all of these lead to disconnection and lack of intimacy. Learn what to do instead… in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4DTUrjjLco Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 D...

Oct 15, 202414 minEp. 310

Build Your Relationship With Jesus

Relationships are built by… Talking to people Spending time together Doing things together To build a relationship with Jesus, you need to do the same things. Choose 1 to do this week. And let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few...

Oct 10, 20243 minEp. 309

The Recipe To Be Blessed In Your Life And Marriage

Do you feel like you’re doing what God wants you to do in your marriage… Putting your wife first, serving her, losing so she can win… But you don’t feel blessed by God for those efforts? In fact, you just feel resentful? Learn today what Jesus was REALLY saying in his Beatitudes (according to The Divine Conspiracy by Dallas Willard) So you can find joy, healing and love NOW in your life and marriage. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More At...

Oct 08, 202421 minEp. 308

Acknowledge The Hurt… And Stop Hurting Her [Thursday Challenge]

Your wife’s heart has closed to you because it’s been hurt. By you. Today, recognize a way you have hurt her heart. Apologize. And stop doing it. As a bonus, do the opposite to help her start healing and opening her heart. Let me know how it goes. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/ Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena new links here) https://youtube.com/shorts/U3zdkBBU-JU (Lorena new links here) Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, ...

Oct 03, 20242 minEp. 307

How To Get Your Wife’s Heart To Open To You

How To Get Your Wife’s Heart To Open To You If you feel like roommates in your marriage… If you’re getting one-word answers from your wife… If you feel disconnected emotionally and sexually… Your wife has closed her heart to you. How do you get it to open back up, so you have the connection, looks of love and physical intimacy you want? Learn in today’s episode. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally succ...

Oct 01, 202413 minEp. 306

Serve Your Wife In Her Language [Thursday Challenge]

There’s something important to your wife that isn’t important to you. Maybe it’s the way towels are folded. The way counters are wiped. Leaving the toilet seat up. Instead of dismissing this as stupid… See this as a chance to serve her in her language. Put the toilet seat down. Not as a way of “caving in,” but as a way to speak love to her in her language. Let me know how it goes! Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here . Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving,...

Sep 26, 20242 minEp. 305

Why Being Right Causes Problems In Marriage

As high achieving Christian men, we like to be right. And, it’s important to be right in some things, particularly in our work. But, when we focus on being right in our marriage… And our wife being wrong… We create disconnection, lack of trust, and low intimacy. Learn what to do instead… To create deep connection, intimacy and the look of love in your marriage… In today’s episode. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, ...

Sep 24, 202417 minEp. 304
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