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Strong Men Strong Marriages

Mike Frazier, MDstrongmenstrongmarriages.com

Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.

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Episodes

Plug Into The Power! [Thursday Challenge]

Now we know that the easy way to feel more love for your wife, your kids, yourself and everyone… Is to PLUG INTO the Kingdom of God that is at hand… meaning AVAILABLE right now. Pray to plug in and feel it… Think of Jesus a few extra times today… Imagine Jesus with you… And let me know what kind of difference you feel. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. [Lorena new links here] https://youtube.com/shorts/EaYEZ3b_PyM [Lorena new links here] Dr. Mike P.S. If y...

Sep 19, 20242 minEp. 303

The Easy Way To Feel More Love For Your Wife And Kids

Do you feel like you’re trying SO HARD to be a good husband and father? Do you feel like you’re putting every effort you can in… but it just doesn’t seem like enough? Your wife doesn’t appreciate it, or you keep it up for a while… then fail? Well, there’s GOOD NEWS. You don’t have to try so hard! There’s a power you can start plugging into TODAY that will make it MUCH easier to be the kind, loving, strong husband and father you want to be. Learn what it is on today’s episode. Listen on the Stron...

Sep 17, 202417 minEp. 302

Do Something That’s Important To Your Wife That’s Not Important To You [Thursday Challenge]

When you tell your wife it’s dumb that something’s important to her that isn’t important to you… Like putting down the toilet seat, cleaning your glass, organizing the pencils, etc… You create distance and show your wife you don’t really care. That you can’t be inconvenienced for her sake. This makes her feel like you don’t really prioritize her… and she’s right. Today, find a way to do something that she cares about and do it… Even if it’s not important to you. Show that because she’s important...

Sep 12, 20242 minEp. 301

The Look Of Love From Your Wife - How To Get It Back

When was the last time your wife looked at you with the Look of Love? You know the one. The one where you just KNOW she adores you. If it’s been a while… Today’s episode will teach you how to get it back. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to fol...

Sep 10, 202419 minEp. 300

Identify And Apologize For 1 Invalidation Triple Threat [Thursday Challenge]

The invalidation triple threat is when you: Tell your wife she’s wrong to think that way Tell your wife she’s wrong/immature to feel that way Tell your wife she shouldn’t be hurt by you acting that way/justifying your actions Doing this over and over is what KILLS marriages. So, stop killing your marriage TODAY. Doing this could very well save your marriage. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successf...

Sep 05, 20242 minEp. 299

How You’re Unknowingly Destroying Your Marriage

This may be the MOST IMPORTANT podcast I have done. I will have already incorporated it into the Strong Men Strong Marriages program. The truth is… I was closer to the end of my marriage than I realized. RECENTLY! And now things are on a trajectory to MUCH more joy and happiness. It’s already happening. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexua...

Sep 03, 202426 minEp. 298

Leave When You’re Angry [Thursday Challenge]

This week, when you get angry… Leave and do some exercise. That’s it. Keep it simple. Let me know how it goes. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be...

Aug 29, 20242 minEp. 297

How To Stop Losing Your Temper

If you ever… Yell at your wife or kids… Make aggressive or threatening comments to them… Or get physical with them in any way… This episode is for you. If your wife has said she “doesn’t feel safe” with you… this episode is for you. High achieving men often have a temper. I’ve had issues and this episode is one for me for sure. You’ll learn simple steps to release your anger in a healthy way (without burying it), set a good example to your kids, and build more communication, safety and intimacy....

Aug 27, 202425 minEp. 296

Share The Hurt When You Ask Her To Apologize [Thursday Challenge]

If you’re asking your wife to apologize because you’re right and she’s wrong… You probably won’t get very far. She’ll probably dig in and tell you why YOU are wrong and SHE is right. Instead, share how what she did HURT you. And ask her to apologize so you can feel like she cares and you’re on the same team. This requires emotional STRENGTH to make yourself known in this way. And, it’s MUCH more likely to create more intimacy. Let me know how it goes by replying to this post! Watch on YouTube he...

Aug 22, 20244 minEp. 295

When Your Wife Blames You Instead Of Taking Ownership

If your wife blames you for her problematic behavior… Like infidelity, overspending, being mean or rude, not following through on her responsibilities… It can be VERY frustrating. Why can’t she just apologize? Why won’t she take ownership of her actions and change? Learn what will help her take ownership… And end your frustration… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, ...

Aug 21, 202421 minEp. 294

THANK YOU and Last Day For 99 Cent Book And Bonus

First off... THANK YOU to the many of you who have already purchased the book! We are... -The #1 New Release in Marriage and Long-Term Relationships -The #1 New Release in Christian Marriage -The #1 New Release in Men's Christian Living THANK YOU again for your support! If you haven't yet (of if you want to buy more copies to share)... CLICK HERE to get the Kindle version for 99 cents. https://amzn.to/46GPPYd The offer expires TONIGHT at midnight. And, if you buy the book and write a review... A...

Aug 20, 20243 min

Get The Book! [Thursday Challenge]

If you didn't catch it Tuesday... The book is FINALLY DONE and ready for you on Amazon! Strong Men Strong Marriages: The Christian Husband’s Guide to Sexual, Mental and Emotional Intimacy. For this week only, through August 20th, the eBook is just 99 cents, and if you get the book and write a review, you’ll get access to exclusive content as a big thank you from me. If you’ve enjoyed the podcast, or if you’re new, the book is a great way to help you get an organized summary of the close to 300 e...

Aug 15, 20242 minEp. 293

The Book Is Published!

Well, it’s been a couple years in the making, but it is available TODAY on Amazon! Strong Men Strong Marriages: The Christian Husband’s Guide to Sexual, Mental and Emotional Intimacy. This book has all the tools, tips and lessons I’ve learned from my own marriage and from coaching hundreds of high achieving Christian men. And, if you purchase it this week, you can get the eBook version for just 99 cents! CLICK HERE to purchase. https://amzn.to/46GPPYd My goal is for it to be an Amazon best selle...

Aug 13, 20244 minEp. 292

What Strength Or Skill Do You Most Need To Build? [Thursday Challenge]

To create a great marriage, you need to be a strong man. That includes: Spiritual strength (self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence, mission and purpose, making and keeping promises) Mental strength (ability to challenge and change your thoughts) Emotional strength (ability to feel and release emotions in healthy ways) Physical and financial strength Sexual strength (using your sexuality in ways you can be proud of) Communication skills (listening, expressing yourself, getting to win-win) Intim...

Aug 08, 20243 minEp. 291

When You’re Thinking Of Ending Your Marriage

There are days when you feel like you’ve had enough. You’re tired of the little to no sex… The lack of respect and appreciation… And feeling like you’re last on your wife’s priority list. You’re getting all the responsibilities of marriage… Making the money, helping with cooking, cleaning, and kids… But none of the benefits. It’s a tough place to be. But, before you call the attorney or file for divorce (or finalize your divorce)… Listen to this episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If y...

Aug 06, 202417 minEp. 290

Ask Your Wife To Do Something For You [Thursday Challenge]

If you want your wife to prioritize you… Don’t ask her to prioritize you. Figure out one thing that would help you feel like a priority. Maybe that’s making a meal, asking you about your day, or spending some time together. Unless you’re in a good place, I would wait on asking for physical touch, though that can also be a good request if you are. Then, ask her for that one thing with a reason why. And, reply to this email to let me know how it goes! Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podc...

Aug 01, 20242 minEp. 289

When Your Wife Doesn’t Prioritize You

Your wife spends time with her friends… but not with you. She hugs your kids… but not you. She gets excited for other people… but not you. She seems to prefer to be on her phone more than talking to you. This can be VERY frustrating. But, there are things you need to STOP doing… And START doing… If you want her to prioritize you. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready...

Jul 30, 202416 minEp. 288

Focus When Your Wife Speaks [Thursday Challenge]

It’s easy to be distracted these days. But, if we’re easily distracted from our wife… We’re missing the chance to show her she’s important to us… And losing out on the chance to build trust and mental and emotional intimacy. When she talks to you today… Put your phone down Look into her eyes And let me know how it goes by replying to this email! Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, menta...

Jul 25, 20242 minEp. 287

The Top 3 Marriage Communication Mistakes… And How To Fix Them

High achieving Christian men are used to being right and being listened to. And, this works well in work and church settings. But, it doesn’t work that well at home. Learn the communication mistakes that leave your wife feeling unheard, misunderstood… And therefore NOT attracted to you… In today’s episode. And… Learn how to fix them so you can become MORE attractive to her. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to cr...

Jul 23, 202417 minEp. 286

Find And Apologize For 1 One-Up Behavior [Thursday Challenge]

Find And Apologize For 1 One-Up Behavior [Thursday Challenge] As a high achieving Christian man, I’m sure there’s at least ONE way that you’ve behaved in a one up, superior way towards your wife. Some of the most common are: money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and time. Find one of those and apologize to your wife for it. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and em...

Jul 18, 20243 minEp. 285

The Top 5 Reasons High Achieving Christian Men Struggle In Marriage

The Top 5 Reasons High Achieving Christian Men Struggle In Marriage You’ve succeeded in big areas in your life. Financially, in your career, in your church and in your community. But, your marriage isn’t where you want it to be. You lack intimacy. You’re recovering from infidelity (hers or yours). You’re facing separation or divorce. Why can you succeed everywhere but in the most important relationship? Learn the 5 most common reasons… and what to do about them… in today’s episode. Watch on YouT...

Jul 16, 202416 minEp. 284

Will You Invest 90 Hours To Get 90 Years Of Happy Relationships? [Thursday Challenge]

Strong Men Strong Marriages is 90 hours of focused work. You could spend YEARS trying to learn the skills to have great relationships with God, yourself, your wife and your kids. And you might never even find the skills that you need! Plus, in all your searching, you won’t be practicing the few skills you need to create great relationships. If you’re ready to put 90 hours of work into creating great relationships… Not just for your life, but for your children, your grandchildren, and future gene...

Jul 11, 20242 minEp. 283

Is Marriage Coaching Worth Your Time?

If you’re reading this email, you’re ALREADY spending time trying to improve your marriage. And that’s great. AND, if you want to improve your marriage in the most efficient and effective way for high achieving Christian men… You may want to consider marriage coaching, and Strong Men Strong Marriages in particular. You’re a smart, successful guy and a hard worker. We’ll just help you put that hard work and brain power in the most efficient direction to create the strong, intimate, fun marriage t...

Jul 09, 202415 minEp. 282

Decide If You’ll Invest In Marriage Coaching [Thursday Challenge]

On Tuesday we talked about how to decide if marriage coaching was a good investment for you. Today, decide if you’re going to invest time and money into learning how to have a better marriage and better relationships for the rest of your life. It’s a skill, and you’ll learn it a lot faster with coaching. And, if you’re ready to invest… Apply here and let’s see if Strong Men Strong Marriages is the right program for you. Dr. Mike Watch on YouTube here. P.S. Join our email list and get the trainin...

Jul 04, 20244 minEp. 281

Is Marriage Coaching A Good Investment?

As a high achieving man, you like to invest. What’s the point of investing? To get a good return. Certainly return of money is important. But what are you going to use that money for? At the end of the day, what matters most to you? If you can get a return of a more intimate marriage and a better example for generations to follow… And learn how to love God and others well… Does it make sense to invest time and money into creating great relationships? Learn about how to decide whether marriage co...

Jul 02, 202418 minEp. 280

Do Something Fun Today [Thursday Challenge]

Want more fun in your marriage? Do something fun today! The easiest thing is to send your wife a funny video or meme. If you’re struggling, search “funniest memes,” find one that you would both laugh at, and send it to your wife. See? You’re having more fun already! Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this email with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to invest time and money to create incredible sexual...

Jun 27, 20243 minEp. 279

How To Bring The Fun Back To Your Marriage

Many of the men I talk to say that they want to bring the fun back to their marriage. But, they spend most of their time trying to talk about “the hard things” and solve problems in their marriage. The truth is, you don’t have to wait to bring the fun back. You can take the lead and start having more fun TODAY. Learn how in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to invest time and money to create incr...

Jun 25, 202415 minEp. 278

Acknowledge One Way You Have Hurt Your Wife (Thursday Challenge)

Tuesday we talked about how to help your wife feel safe. Acknowledge that you’ve hurt her… And make the appropriate changes. Today you’ll acknowledge 1 way you’ve hurt your wife, which will help start the healing process. (If you want help on knowing what to do after that to make your changes last, book a call to see if our program is the right fit for you). Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this post with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professional...

Jun 20, 20243 minEp. 277

How To Help Your Wife Feel Safe In Your Christian Marriage

How To Help Your Wife Feel Safe In Your Christian Marriage If your wife is saying she doesn’t feel safe… Either with her words… Or by distancing herself from you emotionally or physically… It’s time to increase the safety in your marriage. How do you do that? Not by telling her you are safe… But by SHOWING her. By getting into her pain and making the changes you need to make. Learn how in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready ...

Jun 18, 202423 minEp. 276

Connect With Your Child Today [Thursday Challenge]

Today’s challenge is to find a way to connect with your child. If you have more than one child, choose the child that it’s most difficult to connect with. And, find a way to “meet them where they are.” A great way is to join them in something that they already enjoy. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this post with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to invest time and money to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional inti...

Jun 13, 20243 minEp. 275
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