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Strong Men Strong Marriages

Mike Frazier, MDstrongmenstrongmarriages.com

Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.

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Episodes

How To Avoid Being “Friend Zoned” By Your Wife

Do you feel like roommates with your wife? Do you walk on eggshells, worried that your wife might not like what you say or do? Are you constantly trying to make your wife happy? If so, you are likely to be put in the “friend zone.” A marriage with low physical intimacy, or a feeling of “I love you but I’m not in love with you.” Learn what to do to get OUT of the friend zone… And enjoy a marriage with PASSION and INTIMACY… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high ...

Jul 18, 202320 minEp. 185

Courage Doesn’t Feel Good

The price of an intimate marriage is the courage to make yourself known… Even and ESPECIALLY when your wife might not like it. Courage sounds good… but it doesn’t feel good. It’s facing down your fear. And you CAN do it. It’s a choice. Will you be courageous or a coward? Which one is stronger? Which is more attractive? Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and creat...

Jul 13, 20232 minEp. 184

The Price Of An Intimate Marriage

There’s a price to be paid if you want sexual, mental and emotional intimacy in your marriage. And it’s NOT sacrificing what you want for what she wants. It’s NOT putting her needs before your own. It’s definitely NOT happy wife, happy life. Learn what it is in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy...

Jul 11, 202319 minEp. 183

Happy Wife Happy Life Keeps You Trapped

Happy Wife Happy Life is a lie. And the sooner you learn that, the better. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me You’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next...

Jul 06, 20233 minEp. 182

How To Feel Free (Instead Of Trapped) In Your Marriage

You do “all the right things.” Make the money. Cook. Clean. But, your wife isn’t giving you attention, appreciation, affection or sex. You feel like other women would appreciate that, and so you think about divorce or maybe even having an affair. But, because of your Christian beliefs, you can’t do that. You want an intimate marriage. But the one person you can be intimate with… Won’t be intimate with you. This trapped feeling sent me to my car SCREAMING. Fortunately, there’s a way out. And you ...

Jul 04, 202317 minEp. 181

Saying “No” Builds Trust

Believe it or not, saying “no” to your wife and others builds trust. You can’t say “yes” to everything. Even “yes” to everything your wife says. It’s not realistic. And your wife knows this. So, if you say “yes” to everything, she’ll be constantly wondering… “does he really mean it?” She’ll remind you a bunch and feel let down when you don’t follow through. But, when you start saying “no…” You show strength. You feel less overwhelmed. You are reflecting reality. And you build trust. Dr. Mike P.S...

Jun 29, 20233 minEp. 180

How To Build Trust Without Feeling Overwhelmed

When you’re trying to rebuild trust after… -Infidelity -Loss of temper -The mosquito cycle -Manipulation Or other bad habits… You can feel like you have to do EVERYTHING right… or else trust will break. This can feel very OVERWHELMING and make you feel ANXIOUS. Fearful that one wrong move will break all trust. Luckily, this isn’t true. Learn how to build trust WITHOUT feeling anxious and overwhelmed in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professional...

Jun 27, 202312 minEp. 179

Bravery And Boldness Challenge

It’s time to step into bravery and boldness. Today, do the following. Identify something you want to change (I recommend avoiding asking about sex as that requires you to become more attractive first) Ask for the change with a clear plan Give a reason for wanting that change It takes bravery and boldness to ask for what you want. Step into it and let me know how it goes! Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, me...

Jun 22, 20233 minEp. 178

How To Be Brave And Bold In Your Marriage

There are things that you want to change in your marriage. But, you’re worried about bringing them up. You’re worried that it might make things worse than they already are. And so, you stay stuck in a marriage with low mental, emotional and sexual intimacy. This is giving into fear instead of being brave and bold. To get the relationship you want… you have to risk losing the relationship you have now. In fact, you HAVE TO lose the relationship you have now. Learn how to be brave and bold in toda...

Jun 20, 202317 minEp. 177

Your 3 Options When Your Wife Won’t Work On The Marriage

When your wife won’t work on the marriage, you have 3 options. Option 1 - Complain Option 2 - Act superior to her Option 3 - Become a great choice. Ask for what you want. Decide if you choose her. Really, it’s a decision between being a leader or a follower. An action taker or a whiner. If you’re ready for option 3… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attra...

Jun 15, 20235 minEp. 176

When You’re Working On The Marriage… But Your Wife Isn’t

If you feel like you’re putting more work into the marriage than your wife… You probably feel frustrated and resentful. You also feel superior to her. After all, you’re doing more than her. Unfortunately, all of these feelings are unattractive to her. And will make her LESS motivated to work on the marriage. Learn what to do instead in today’s episode. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional ...

Jun 13, 202316 minEp. 175

3 Steps To Ask Your Wife For What You Want

We know that we have to change our OWN thinking if we want to be happy. But, once we understand that, it’s good to know how to ask our wife for what we want. Use the 3 steps in today’s episode. Don’t criticize or complain Appreciate Give a reason why But again, even if your wife does what you want, you will NOT be happy until you learn to manage your own thinking expertly. Learn how to do that by joining Strong Men Strong Marriages. CLICK HERE to apply. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me Dr. ...

Jun 08, 20234 minEp. 174

When Your Wife Does What You Want And You’re Still Not Happy

I’ve seen it happen over and over. In myself and my clients. Your wife does what you’ve been hoping for. She has sex with you. She starts cooking more. She writes you nice notes or texts. But, you’re still not happy. And she feels like whatever she does, it’s not enough for you. Learn EXACTLY why this is happening… And how to fix it… In today’s episode. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional...

Jun 06, 202317 minEp. 173

Is Your Wife Actually Criticizing You?

Sometimes we’re overly sensitive with our wife. We can take a comment as criticism… That isn’t mean that way at all. She may just be giving you information. Or asking for something. Learn how to tell the difference in today’s quick episode. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to app...

Jun 01, 20233 minEp. 172

What To Do When Your Wife Criticizes You

When your wife points out what you’re doing wrong… It doesn’t feel good. Men tend to respond by getting defensive, pointing out her flaws, or desperately trying to earn her approval. None of these work to create a strong, intimate marriage. Instead, we need to: -Calm down -Find the request in the complaint -Decide if we’ll honor that request or not Learn how to do this in today’s episode: Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who...

May 30, 202317 minEp. 171

The Power Of Curiosity To Transform Your Marriage - Thursday Thoughts

High achieving Cristian men use their judgment often. They evaluate ideas and reject some as inferior to others. This can be very helpful in the workplace. But it can drive a wedge in your marriage. Learn what to do instead of judging your wife’s ideas or actions around money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and how she spends her free time (like being on her phone)... So you can create real connection, intimacy and attraction in your marriage. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achievi...

May 25, 20233 minEp. 170

What To Do When Your Wife Is On Her Phone

If your wife is on her phone in the evening or in bed… It can be frustrating. You wish she would spend more time talking with you instead of on her phone. Unfortunately, the things you’re doing now are probably making her MORE likely to stay on her phone instead of talking to you. Learn how to approach your wife when she’s on her phone in a way that will make her WANT to pay attention to you more than her phone. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally succ...

May 23, 202316 minEp. 169

Post Betrayal Trauma - Interview With Dr. Debi Silber

If you’ve been betrayed… Or if you’ve betrayed your wife… There are certain steps of healing that need to happen. So you can get back on the road to recovery… And create a great relationship again. Today’s interview with Dr. Debi Silber will explain those steps to you. You can learn more about Dr. Debi at her website here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and c...

May 19, 202331 minEp. 168

Changing The Dance - Thursday Thoughts

The interactions in your marriage could be considered a dance. Do you like the dance you’re doing? If not, then TAKE THE LEAD and CHANGE IT! And invite your wife to follow. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. http://mikefrazie...

May 18, 20233 minEp. 167

How To Be A Masculine Leader In Your Marriage

Feel like you’re getting run over in your marriage? Or, is your wife complaining that you never listen or don’t respect, appreciate or prioritize her enough? Or maybe both? Learn how to take the lead in an effective, masculine, attractive way in today’s episode. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TO...

May 16, 202318 minEp. 166

How To Stop Being Passive Aggressive In Marriage

Do you find yourself feeling frustrated and resentful in your marriage? About things like money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time? Has your wife accused you of being passive aggressive? Learn the symptoms… and how to stop being passive aggressive for good… in today’s episode. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy...

May 09, 202322 minEp. 165

What You Can Control - And What You Can't - Thursday Thoughts

Nikola Jokic won the NBA’s MVP award two years in a row. How? By not caring about it. You see, winning that award was not in his control. So he spent no time thinking about it. Instead, he focused on practicing and becoming a better player. Things within his control. Which, in turn, made it more likely for him to win the award. What your wife does or doesn’t do is out of your control. And if you spend your time trying to change her mind, win her back, or make her happy… You’ll find yourself anxi...

May 04, 20239 minEp. 164

What To Do When Your Wife Isn't Changing - The Law Of The Harvest In Marriage

Your wife told you “out of the blue” that she wants more space, separation or divorce. Or, you’re making positive changes… But your marriage isn’t changing yet. These can be very distressing… if you don’t understand The Law Of The Harvest in marriage. Once you understand it, it will all make sense. Learn this law on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible se...

May 02, 202319 minEp. 163

FAQs About The Program [Strong Men Strong Marriages]

If you’re thinking of joining Strong Men Strong Marriages before the deadline (TOMORROW, April 27th at midnight pacific)... You might have a few questions. I answer some of the most common ones in this episode. However, here are the main questions you need to ask yourself to decide to join: Do I want to become a stronger, more attractive man, while living true to Christian principles? Do I want to rewire my brain to eliminate my unattractive habits and replace them with positive, attractive habi...

Apr 26, 202315 minEp. 162

An Inside Look At The Strong Men Strong Marriages Program

Strong Men Strong Marriages is open until this Thursday, April 27th at midnight. If you’ve wanted a sneak peek into how the program works… And is helping men like you become stronger, more attractive, more Christ-like men… And create sexual, mental and emotional intimacy in their marriages… While becoming the example for generations to follow… This is your chance. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. (YouTube will let you actually see inside the program, so I...

Apr 25, 202338 minEp. 161

Strong Men Strong Marriages Program OPEN NOW Until April 27th

If you've been wanting to become a stronger, more attractive man... So you can create sexual, mental, and emotional intimacy in your marriage... And set the example for generations to follow... Now is your chance! The Strong Men Strong Marriages program is open NOW through next Thursday, April 27th. CLICK HERE to see the presentation and learn more. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S....

Apr 21, 20233 min

How My Friend's Death Is Making Me A Better Husband And Father - Thursday Thoughts

A good friend of mine died in a car accident early Easter morning. None of us know how long we have left. How do you want to be remembered? Here are a few good questions to ask yourself: -What do I want my wife and kids to say at my funeral? -What do I need to stop doing and start doing for them to say that? -If today were my last day with my family, are these the memories I would want them to have? Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you wo...

Apr 20, 20236 minEp. 160

How To Stop Being Frustrated In Your Marriage

You’re making good changes. You’re putting in a lot of effort. But, your wife isn’t changing. She’s still bringing up the past. She’s still interested in another guy. She’s still talking about separation or divorce. And that’s frustrating. Because she should be acting differently. Right? Maybe she should. But thinking that way will only cause you frustration. And make you less attractive. And make her less likely to change and more likely to point out your mistakes. Learn how to get rid of frust...

Apr 18, 202323 minEp. 159

Why You're Frustrated In Your Marriage - Thursday Thoughts

Frustration comes from thinking things should be different from what they are. Your wife should appreciate your changes. Your kids should listen. And maybe they should. But, you're arguing with reality. Instead of whining that "things should be different..." Accept reality and choose your response. Like a strong man. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental...

Apr 13, 20236 min

How To Stop Having The Same Fights Over And Over

Can’t get to agreements about money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time? Feel like you just have the same fights over and over, but don’t get anywhere? Learn how to break out of this cycle once and for all in today’s episode. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/JE2hmr1JCZ0 Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional int...

Apr 11, 202321 minEp. 159
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