Strands of Pearls

Episode 43: Reciprocity and Expirations

Make sure that the people, who you are holding space for, are holding space for you in their lives! Also know when to take the trash out! That's it! That's the description!

Episode 42: The Purpose Driven Plan Pt.2

Hearts all over the world were recently pricked by the news of the passing of the talented and gifted powerhouse; Chadwick Boseman. As if the previous events that have occurred in 2020 weren't enough, his transition joined many of our lists of things that have us "in our feelings" and extremely reflective about how we are utilizing our time here on Earth. Digesting all of these thoughts can be really heavy and overwhelming so I decided to invite two of my great friends, Adavion Wayne and Stephen...

Episode 40: The Purpose Driven Plan Pt.1

Hearts all over the world were recently pricked by the news of the passing of the talented and gifted powerhouse; Chadwick Boseman. As if the previous events that have occurred in 2020 weren't enough, his transition joined many of our lists of things that have us "in our feelings" and extremely reflective about how we are utilizing our time here on Earth. Digesting all of these thoughts can be really heavy and overwhelming so I decided to invite two of my great friends, Adavion Wayne and Stephen...

Episode 39: Loyalty

It is so important for us to demonstrate loyalty toward the people in our lives, but it is even more imperative for us to be loyal to ourselves first. Listen in as we discuss the importance of practicing self-love and teaching others how to love and remain loyal to us by our own demonstration. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 38: Faith During A Pandemic (Part One)

This episode is the kickoff of our Faith Series! People across the nation are experiencing loss in abundance while still attempting to effectively exercise their faith and maintain a sense of hope. Listen in as I talk with Terrance Samuels, a well-respected faith and community leader, about faith and the application of it during these difficult times. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 37: The Help

Have you ever tried to help someone who battled addiction, and they seemed as though they didn't want your help? Listen in as we discuss some positive approaches in which you could offer your help, love, and support to someone who may feel hopeless. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 36: Single Parent Dating

Single parents definitely have their hands full; especially when trying to get back into the dating game. There are ways to balance your parental duties and your love life while still keeping your children as a priority. Listen in for great tips about easing yourself back into the dating experience! Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 35: I Apologize

What is the purpose of an apology? While some people treat apologies as a societal nicety, they can be powerful when effective and sincere. Listen in as we discuss the benefits, purpose, and power of apologies. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 34: Unconditional Love

What exactly is unconditional love? Does it exist in your relationship? Do you think that you possess what's necessary to love unconditionally? Listen in as we discuss the meaning of unconditional love, what it consist of, and what it requires! Come on in and get these pearls!

Episode 33: Black Is.......

Being black in America is quite the experience. Protests are happening all over the world and black people are tired. Join in for a heart felt conversation about inequality and our genuine efforts to rise above it all.

Episode 32: Homeopathy or Hell

As a person who actively seeks to research and practice homeopathy, I have encountered a great amount of judgement and scrutiny at times; specifically from fellow Christians. Why is that? Join in as we discuss what homeopathy is and how it can be safe applied in the lives of believers. Come on in and get these homeopathic pearls!

Episode 31: Holiday Triggers

It's the holidays! We all would like to imagine ourselves peacefully sitting by the fire and enjoying our families, but sometimes it doesn't happen that way. To say that the holidays can be tough is indeed an understatement! Listen in as we give advice and suggestions about coping with our triggers that often manifest during the holiday season. Come on in, and get these pearls!

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Episode 29: Got A Big Ego

What exactly is ego? What role does it play in our personalities and who we truly are? Listen in as Devondra discusses the role of our ego and how to avoid the becoming a slave to it. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 28: What In The Entire Health??!

On my quest to become a healthier me, I've discovered that I've been poisoning myself due to my lack of knowledge! Listen in as I discuss the importance of educating ourselves about what we should and shouldn't put in our bodies! Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 27: A Sticky Situation

Can you be friends with someone who is friends with your enemy? Listen in as we discuss how to assess a situation like this. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 26: Emotional Abuse

In this episode, Devondra sheds light on the gray areas of emotional abuse. There are many forms of abuse, but emotional or psychological abuse is sometimes overlooked because we don't know what to look for or how to identify it. Listen in as she discusses the characteristics of an emotional abuser, ways to deal with emotional abuse, and how to prevent the ongoing cycle of it. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 25: Soul Ties

What if I told you that sex is not limited to a physical act. Sex is a tridimensional exchange that involves the body, spirit, and soul. When we have sex with someone, we create soul ties, and sometimes they are not healthy. Listen in as we discuss the spiritual aspect of sex, how to identify if you have a soul tie, and how unhealthy soul ties manifest themselves. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 24: Comparison....The Thief of Joy!

It's been said that comparison is the thief of joy, yet we constantly find ourselves in a position of identifying our weaknesses and comparing them to what we think are other's strengths. Listen in as we discuss the detriment that comparing your life, relationship, and career to ideas of perfection can cause. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 23: Know Your Worth!

In this episode, we will discuss the importance of knowing your worth as an entrepreneur. When starting or managing a business, there are many things to consider when analyzing what your rates should be for the services that you provide. It is imperative to remember that your time and energy are part of your product. Listen in as we talk about knowing your worth, charging your worth, and collecting your worth! Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 22: Caught 'Em Slipping? What Next?!

Have you ever caught your friend's spouse or significant other in the act of cheating on your friend? If so, did you tell your friend? If you did tell your friend, how did they respond? Often times, when friends who intend to do the right thing, tell their friends about their spouse's infidelity, they tend to distance themselves from their friend whose sole intention was to look out for them. Listen in as we discuss the pros and cons of sharing this information with your friends, how to tell the...

Episode 21: What's The Tea?

We all are guilty of gossiping! It's in our nature to want to spill the latest "tea" about a situation that we've been dealing with or maybe dish the dirt about someone who has made us angry or upset. What happens when you have a habitual gossiper in your friend circle? What happens when you discover that your gossiping friend is telling your business. We all love to spill tea until our tea is in the cup! Listen as we discuss ways to effectively handle habitual gossipers. Come on in, and get the...

Episode 20: Heart To Heart

Listen in as I, your host, take a dive into my personal life and share some intimate details with my audience. Why? Because I want everyone to know exactly who they're listening to each week. My goal on Strands of Pearls is to be transparent so that I can use my experiences as a guiding light for others. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 19: Maybe I Deserve

There seems to be a theory permeating through the minds of the ignorant which is based upon the belief that the respect that is due to women is contingent upon what they're wearing. Listen in as we discuss and dissect these beliefs and theories!

Episode 18: Coping With Anxiety: Affirmations

Living with anxiety can be frustrating and overwhelming. There are many resources available to help us stay afloat when we feel as though we are sinking in a pool of thoughts and panic. Affirmations have been scientifically proven to soothe anxiety and calm a mind that has been consumed with racing thoughts and brain chatter. Listen in as we discuss some affirmations that can help you cope with the struggles of anxiety and keep you grounded; even when you're overwhelmed. Come on in, and get thes...

Episode 17: Speak My Love Language

Everyone has a primary love language! It's the vehicle that is used to deliver evidence that we are loved and appreciated. What is YOUR love language?! Tune in to hear about the five love languages, how to teach your partner to speak your language, and how to learn your lover's language! Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 16: Drawing the Lines in the Sand

Boundaries are important in any type of relationship! It is imperative that we communicate our boundaries, as well as respect the boundaries of others. Listen in as we dig deep into setting boundaries and teaching others how to treat us! Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 15: Grieving the Loss of A Parent

Losing a parent is never easy, and grief can be a difficult mountain to climb. It is important to know that grief has stages, and they are all normal! Listen in as our special guest, Kaci Timmons, disscuses her personal experience with losing a parent, and how to learn to cope with the affects of their absence. Come on in and get these pearls!

Episode 14: Standards vs Expectations

We often use the words standards and expectations interchangeably, but they are not the same! Listen in as we discuss the differences between the two and how we should distribute validity in each one. Come on in, and get these pearls!

Episode 13: Overcoming Insecurity

All of us could easily pick something about ourselves that we aren't 100% happy or confident with. Perhaps we're a little insecure! Insecurities are normal, but be careful not to allow them to consume you or interrupt the norms of your life. Listen in as we discuss ways to combat insecurity. Come on in, and get these pearls!