You Can Counsel (Without Being A Counselor) (STYBY 323)
You don’t need special training just to be there for a person. You just need some patience and the ability to really listen.

You don’t need special training just to be there for a person. You just need some patience and the ability to really listen.
It’s good to build resilience, but sometimes it isn’t your fault if something really gets to you.
No one can live forever, including you. So celebrate the joys of life whenever you can, and do what you can to not die.
Start with throwing one thing away, clearing one small space, or cleaning one small room. Declutter your physical space to help declutter your mind.
Call your parents when you think of them and make the time to tell your friends that you love them.
A noun, meaning, “sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others.” Now that you know what compassion is, I ask you to go out and show the world a lot more of it.
We often believe those who do wrong are acting in the interest of purpose causing turmoil; and strife. More likely, they are just misguided, misled, or plain stupid.
There is nothing wrong with you. You have all you can to get yourself to this place you are in now. But you can’t stay here, and that means looking to what you need to do to get to ‘there.’
A 90-second message to over-explain what you should understand in just three: done is better than perfect.
Many people have trouble thinking of themselves as smart, pretty, or kind unless told by someone else. You can help them out and it cost you just a small amount of time and effort.
It’s about time you got a little more comfortable with yourself to be more comfortable being yourself around others.
Some of your relationships lost during the pandemic separations may not be worth trying to put back together.
You’re not an old dog who can’t learn a new trick. You’re an older person unwilling to sacrifice time now you wish you sacrificed at a younger age.
Set up more stories of how you failed and what you learned about yourself than how you overcame with little effort to oversell a positive.
Survivorship bias is defined as “the logical error of concentrating on the people or things that ‘survived’ some process and inadvertently overlooking those that did not work because of their lack of visibility.” The purpose of this podcast episode is to take your focus off what those considered winners did to win but on the things the losers may or may not have done not to.
As you mature in knowing yourself, you’ll learn more about what you do and do not care for. It would be best to care more about how you feel about yourself than trying to hide away those unfortunate ‘quirks’ that people may use to hold you back.
Being a human being is complicated and extremely hard. Being a human being who can interact with other human beings, especially with you, can be complicated and extremely hard. Just because a person can fit neatly into your life doesn’t make that person a horrible person.
Don't kill yourself to get a good thing going but don’t just settle for a 'good run' when things get difficult.
Where I tell you there is still virtue in 'hanging in there,' even when you're pretty sure it’s not worth the effort.
Go to the gym. Or the yoga studio. Or run up and down the block. Whatever you want to do to get yourself in better physical shape now, go get started.
Preparation of meals at home can bring plenty of life benefits, beyond the obvious.
When buying things, work the time versus money trade-off against each other. If you’re low on money, take more time to find deals. If you’re low on time, stop looking for great deals and just buy the things you need quickly.
You don't have to be a hardcore diary writer to get benefits from seeing your thought in front of you on paper.
The sooner you start to put the trials and tribulations of what you hope will be a fruitful and historic journey, the better you will feel to have the full story documented when that time comes.
While it is true that the bulk of the work needed for your personal survival through a crisis must be done by you, you can never fully recover all on your own.
A quick lesson on the Greek hero Achilles and how you need to put in the work to identify and protect your own heel.
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Follow the advice of the Japanese sage of tidying up with your entire life. If it does not bring you joy (and there are no significant penalties), stop doing it.
Finding yourself stressed and over-stimulated? Create a sacred space you can retreat to and work yourself down.
What can you learn from taking a course or hiring a coach? What can you learn from taking another course or hiring another coach?