Trust Issues don’t start when we say I do, but they intensify because of our past. Now we have one person to look at and their tendencies look familiar. Now, not saying that they are, they just look.
Every now and again we have to have a soul searching before we can even begin to let people in. “Who are you” statements that must be answered to start the journey.
Often times we communicate in our marriages and relationships and we don’t understand a thing that was said. Oh yeah!! We heard.... but there was no understanding.
We create so many roles in life and we become that role for that area. We morph to fill the role of a mother wife, daughter friend, but the real question is...Who ARE you ???
Don’t be so quick to separate at the first sign of turbulence. In relationships stand still and wait on God for clearance. We as humans move too quickly sometimes. Stand and Wait. God will direct.
Remember you are always one decision away from a different life. The choice is yours. What kind of life do you want? Only you can answer that.
Trust is apart of thriving and growing relationship. You have to establish trust to ensure longevity. Marriage is Werk! And without trust it’s doggone impossible to maintain a happy one. Once trust is broken it’s hard to rebuild it but it is doable ❤️
You have the power to change and do what ever you want to do. Never give anybody control over your mood, dreams, goals, or aspirations! God has ordained covered and called you! Now go And be GREAT!!
Everyday we are learning something. So why should your marriage be any different. Learn your spouse. Know your spouse. Study your spouse
So often we focus on what’s not when we should focus on what is. Today be grateful for what is and watch you whole mood change.
Change is coming! And a GOOD CHANGE. We have to start expecting GOOD CHANGE. Speaking GOOD CHANGE. Looking for GOOD CHANGE
We all look for that happiness in our marriages. Here are a few things you can do to help promote happiness. Now please be advised this is not a FIX but a Suggestion ❤️
We all have went through somethings that seemed very scary. Only to see it was what you needed to get to the other side
With so many stressors that con influence our mental health and cause trouble in our marriage, therapy and counseling is a jewel. Have you considered either?
It’s time to fix your view love. Physical vision can only be trusted so far. We are in a season where we need to be looking from a spiritual view. God, our spiritual optometrist is Able!!
Marriage is Werk! Friends with different points of views, opinions, and beliefs are not healthy for your marriage. Be mindful of the type of friends you discuss,base, or allow to be influential to your marriage .
This is not the season or time to wait until someone or something comes to you. This is the time to start preparing. We prepare for a lot of things in our life, why should your dreams, goals, or aspirations be any different?
We all go into marriage with this image only to find out it is totally different than we expected. We learn to take the good with bad and trust God to lead and guide us in our marriage
Don’t wait until the new year to RESET your life. Start now. Every we encounter is necessary. They help us become better equipped individuals. Remember ITS NECESSARY
Friendship come and go but they always leave you with a little more wisdom. I encourage you NOT to dwell on ended friendship. Thank God for the Experience ❤️
All friendships have purpose but there are a select few that are lifelong. Be grateful if you are experiencing a friendship in this degree. It is truly a blessing
There is a lot we COULD complain about But there is way more things we SHOULD be Grateful for. Condition yourself to do a GRATEFUL RANT to start your day. SPEAK 10 Things you are GRATEFUL for at the start of your day and WATCH how brighter your outlook will be . Set the Atmosphere!
Be impeccable with your words. We manifest a lot of negative things in our lives with the empty words we speak . Be mindful of the words you speak into the atmosphere. You are creating your reality. Rather jokingly or seriously.
If you fail to plan. You plan to fail. When success is your goal you have to have an agenda. Write it down and execute. If you don’t have a target. You will it (NOTHING) every time. It’s time for a game plan
Leveling up requires putting off extra baggage that serves no purpose. No matter how hard it may be. Everybody can’t go with you and you have to be okay with that .
Replay if you missed. There is STILL time. You can start today. As long as you have breathe.. there is STILL TIME!
Everybody you have met this far has a purpose to your next level. Please understand, everyone is not meant to go with you. Some are here to teach you lessons and some are here to pour wisdom into you. Know when to cut loose and MOVE....
It’s never too late to start anything. Welcome to the 4th qrt. Where you start strong or finish strong. Let’s get it! There’s still time!
You must continue in your healing process. Setting boundaries will ensure that you are progressing instead of regressing in your process. When you put your need to heal first , you are then taking control of your well being.
A hurt heart is not always a bad thing. Sometimes we have to hurt before we heal. Ask yourself what are you dreading to feel that’s preventing you from healing completely? Let it go so you can heal your soul.
