Rules and routines are helpful, but what truly impacts your child’s growth and compliance is who you are and how you show up as a parent. In this week’s video, Shane dives into why your example carries more weight than any parenting system and how to focus on becoming a parent worth following. What you will discover Why focusing on your own growth is the most impactful thing you can do for your kids. Practical ways to align your daily actions with the values you want your children to learn. The ...
Jul 24, 2025•13 min•Ep. 70
Discover a bold approach to stop beating yourself up over mistakes. In this episode, Shane shares a relatable story of frustration, guilt, and eventual growth, showing how to turn moments of imperfection into powerful opportunities for progress. With a simple 3-step system, you’ll learn how to reframe your mindset, align with your core values, and take real, actionable steps toward a better version of yourself. · How to connect your mistakes to the core values that make you who you are. · Why un...
Jul 18, 2025•31 min•Ep. 69
In this episode, we dive into why life coaching is a game-changer for parents and teens. You’ll hear personal stories and learn how coaching helps you break cycles, build confidence, and find peace amidst the chaos of parenting. Whether you’re striving for excellence or dealing with a family crisis, this episode provides actionable insights to create positive change. What Awaits You in This Episode: How to break patterns from your own upbringing for healthier relationships Proven strategies for ...
Jul 11, 2025•26 min•Ep. 68
Why do so many of us downplay our successes, dim our light, and shy away from owning our worth? In this episode, Shane dives into the societal conditioning that keeps us small and shares powerful steps to break free. Learn how to embrace positive self-talk, redefine humility, and model confidence for your family and community. What you will discover : Why society conditions us to downplay our achievements. How minimizing yourself impacts your self-esteem and relationships. Practical steps to shi...
Jul 04, 2025•29 min•Ep. 67
Being a parent isn’t easy, but here’s the truth, you’re doing better than you realize. In this episode, Shane highlights the incredible efforts parents make every day, even when it doesn’t feel like enough. Learn how to recognize your strengths, build confidence, and create a positive environment by shifting your focus to what’s going right. What You’ll Discover: Tools to reinforce positive self-talk and boost confidence. How celebrating your wins creates stronger connections with your kids. Why...
Jun 26, 2025•25 min•Ep. 66
In this episode, Shane Jacob unpacks why kids act out and why it doesn't mean you're failing as a parent. Discover how to respond with confidence, understanding, and purpose, and why recognizing your own awesomeness is key to changing the cycle. What you will discover: How shame erodes connection and leads to negative cycles. Practical steps to move from reaction to intentional parenting. The impact of your self-talk on your child’s behavior....
Jun 19, 2025•24 min•Ep. 65
Overwhelm isn’t about your to-do list—it’s about your mindset. In this episode, Shane breaks down why parents of teens get stuck in overwhelm and how to stop feeling frozen. You’ll learn how indecision fuels stress, why confidence is the key to action, and what you can do today to move forward. What you will discover: The real reason we avoid making decisions Why buffering (like drinking, overeating, or scrolling) makes overwhelm worse A simple strategy to start making decisions quickly...
Jun 12, 2025•20 min•Ep. 64
Join Shane Jacob as he shares how he turned failure into fuel, and how you can do the same. Listen and learn how to stop letting the odds control your life and start living with true intention. What You Will Discover: How to unlock unstoppable self-belief and live boldly no matter the odds. That radical change is within reach. How to rebuild trust and relationships after personal setbacks or mistakes.
Jun 05, 2025•19 min•Ep. 63
Is your teen struggling to make friends or feeling left out? In this episode, learn expert-backed strategies to help them build confidence, navigate peer relationships, and form lasting friendships. Discover why parenting as leadership (not friendship) is the key to raising socially strong and resilient teens. What You Will Discover: The biggest mistake parents make when trying to help their teen build friendships How self-confidence directly impacts your teen’s social life (and how to strengthe...
May 29, 2025•30 min•Ep. 62
Breakups can hit teens hard, leaving them feeling lost and vulnerable. In this episode, we’ll discuss 16 ways to help your teen navigate heartbreak with self-respect and grace. From understanding emotions to building confidence, you’ll learn actionable steps to guide them through one of life’s toughest challenges. What You Will Discover Why first love or first sexual experiences don’t define them—or their worth. Why it’s okay for your teen to feel bad sometimes—and how to help them through it. T...
May 22, 2025•22 min•Ep. 61
Parenting isn’t easy, especially when discipline feels like a constant battle. In this episode, Shane Jacob reveals the Ask, Tell, Promise, Enforce System , a proven 4-step framework inspired by horse training techniques and adapted for parenting. Learn how this approach transforms discipline into an opportunity for connection, trust, and growth. If you’ve struggled to find a method that works, this episode will give you the tools you need to lead your family with confidence. Podcast - What You ...
May 15, 2025•26 min•Ep. 60
Learn how to help teens shift from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset, and open the doors to possibility. What to expect in this episode: The lessons a "finished" horse teaches us about human potential. How parents can model growth and inspire their teens to follow suit. Practical tips for connecting teens with mentors and meaningful goals.
May 08, 2025•17 min•Ep. 59
In this episode special guest Charles Marshall dives into his book, The Good Dad Guide. Charles is a great storyteller and author. This is an episode you won't want to miss. What awaits you in this video: Why it's not about you, it's about them Sometimes you have to be the bad guy The importance of participation
May 01, 2025•51 min•Ep. 58
In this episode, Shane unpacks why humility isn’t weakness—it’s strength. You’ll hear how embracing humility can build confidence, improve relationships, and create space for personal growth. What awaits you in this episode: How humility and confidence go hand in hand Why arrogance is weakness The power of seeing yourself—and others—as valuable works in progress
Apr 24, 2025•16 min•Ep. 57
In this episode, Shane breaks down the principle of "don’t judge" and how it applies to real-life situations. Discover the truth about judging actions versus judging people and why this distinction can transform your relationships, values, and peace of mind. What You Will Discover: 🤔The meaning of "judge not" and how to apply it without losing your values. 💥How condemnation often hides personal insecurities. 💡How clarity and compassion lead to a better world....
Apr 17, 2025•23 min•Ep. 56
In this episode, we explore the power of self-acceptance. Learn how embracing yourself fully, flaws and all, can unlock your potential for growth, happiness, and success. Discover why self-love isn't settling—it’s the first step toward the life you truly want. What You’ll Discover: Why self-acceptance and self-improvement go hand-in-hand. How society's obsession with perfection keeps us stuck. The science-backed benefits of self-compassion and acceptance....
Apr 10, 2025•19 min•Ep. 55
Discover how inconsistent parenting leads to chaos and why creating a unified approach can bring clarity, confidence, and calm to your family life. Learn practical steps for parenting in sync to create a peaceful home. What awaits you: Research-backed benefits of a stable, predictable environment for kids. How inconsistency disrupts peace—for both horses and kids. Real-life examples of how misaligned rules create frustration
Apr 03, 2025•17 min•Ep. 54
In this episode Rhonda Britten shares how Fearless Living is really not about jumping out of a plane, which most people automatically think, but it's really just jumping into your life and occupying your own skin, being in charge of your own destiny, and having the courage and the fortitude to go for it. What awaits you in this episode: How fear only cares about keeping you physically safe The impact fear has on our self-worth The importance of recognizing and overcoming our fears...
Mar 27, 2025•48 min•Ep. 53
Is your teen shutting you out? It’s tough, but you’re not alone. In this episode, we’ll unpack the reasons behind their distancing behaviors and share strategies to rebuild trust and connection. Plus, a surprising lesson from wild horses that every parent needs to hear. What Awaits You in This Episode: Signs that behavior is normal versus when it’s a red flag Eye-opening lessons from wild horses on guiding independence Mistakes to avoid when your teen acts distant or defiant...
Mar 20, 2025•16 min•Ep. 52
Why do teens turn to substances? Shane dives into this tough question using lessons from horses to offer fresh solutions. You’ll hear how horses navigate discomfort and how parents can apply these lessons to guide their teens. How the brain's natural response to discomfort influences choices—and what to do about it. What horses can teach us about staying present and working through challenges in the moment. Practical advice for helping your teen process tough emotions and resist unhealthy coping...
Mar 13, 2025•19 min•Ep. 51
In this episode with Shane Jacob, you’ll discover how a horses behavior mirrors the actions and emotions of the rider and how the same is true with how teens mirror their parents. What Awaits You in this Video: * The surprising connection between your emotions and your teen’s reactions—and how to use it to create harmony. * Why focusing on “fixing” your horse or teen often backfires—and what to do instead. * Real-life examples of common parenting mistakes—and how small adjustments can make a big...
Mar 06, 2025•20 min•Ep. 50
Robert B. Foster shares his journey and how the Shut Up and GRIND philosophy applies to overcoming life’s toughest obstacles. What Awaits You: * Three things you need to accomplish anything * How pain can be your greatest power if you let it * Why prioritizing yourself is so important
Feb 27, 2025•28 min•Ep. 49
Helping Teens Overcome Isolation Shane explores the profound lessons we can learn from wild horses about connection and shares practical steps for helping teens overcome isolation. Whether your teen struggles with fear, anxiety, or feeling lost, this episode provides the tools to guide them back to connection and joy. What Awaits You in This Episode: * The surprising similarities between herd life and healthy family relationships * The hidden reasons teens isolate and how to recognize the signs ...
Feb 20, 2025•22 min•Ep. 48
How Cowboy Values Build Strong, Confident Teens In this episode of The Horsemanship Journey Podcast, Shane Jacob explores timeless cowboy values that help teens develop grit and courage. Discover how living with bravery and keeping promises can shape character and prepare teens to face life’s toughest challenges. What Awaits You in This Episode: * Why courage feels difficult—and four simple steps to help your teen build it * The connection between keeping promises and creating lasting self-confi...
Feb 13, 2025•21 min•Ep. 47
How Faith and Mindset Helped Braxten Nielsen Defy the Odds Braxten Nielsen shares his powerful story of the power of faith, and the mindset that helped him overcome a devastating bronc riding accident and create a meaningful future. What Awaits You: A Story of Resilience & Faith: * The Split-Second Bronc Riding Accident That Changed Braxten Nielsen’s Life * How Self-Belief and Faith Can Turn Challenges into Miracles * The Key to Success: How Belief and Action Create Life-Changing Results...
Feb 06, 2025•37 min•Ep. 46
Rejection hurts, but it doesn’t have to hold you back. In this episode, Shane dives into the sting of rejection, why it feels so personal, and how to respond in ways that strengthen your self-beliefs. What Awaits You in This Episode: The science behind why rejection hurts so deeply How to prevent rejection from damaging your self-image Tips for making rejection easier when you’re the one saying “no”
Jan 30, 2025•27 min•Ep. 45
In this episode with Shane Jacob you will learn how your example shapes your child’s confidence and why it’s the best defense against bullying. This isn't just advice—it’s a game-changer for your family. What you will discover: How a bully's power fades when confidence grows That self-talk shapes your kid’s ability to stand tall The surprising way beliefs can turn a bully into a leader
Jan 23, 2025•18 min•Ep. 44
In this episode, Shane dives into a proven process for boosting learning and memory, offering powerful tools to help you and your family hold onto what truly matters. What You Will Discover: The connection between repetition and retention, both for horses and humans Why teaching what you’ve learned boosts retention to over 70% The importance of preparing learners to teach from the start of the process
Jan 16, 2025•13 min•Ep. 43
Motivation isn't all it's cracked up to be. Find out what really makes the difference in this episode with guest Steve Hochman. What you will discover: Why motivation is like a bad weather forecast—totally unreliable The secret to doing what matters even when you don’t feel like it How to tap into something deeper than just willpower
Jan 09, 2025•33 min•Ep. 42
Host Shane Jacob dives into the negative consequences of worrying and reveals a simple process to help you stop worrying and start moving forward. What you will discover: What worrying is and how to recognize it The devastating consequences of excessive worrying · A 3-Step Process to Stop Worrying
Jan 02, 2025•17 min•Ep. 41
