Ever feel like your attraction to someone might be more pain than passion? In this Q&A episode, I’m answering listener-submitted questions that get to the heart of what so many of us struggle with in relationships. We’re diving into the difference between anxious attachment and intuition (spoiler alert: your intuition doesn’t panic-text six times in a row), unpacking what activating and deactivating strategies really look like, and taking a hard look at trauma bonds. I also talk about what t...
Jul 02, 2025•17 min•Ep. 74
Ever felt like you should be over your ex by now, but you can’t stop thinking about them? Wondered why you keep checking their stories, or worse, found yourself spiraling into a breakup rabbit hole of “what ifs” and “maybes”? In this honest and raw conversation, I sit down with breakup recovery coach Lucy Price to pull back the curtain on what really happens when we’re stuck in the heartbreak loop. We talk about the sneaky ways grief shows up after a breakup, why trying to win your ex back might...
Jun 25, 2025•38 min•Ep. 73
What if exploring your identity wasn’t just allowed, it was celebrated? In this episode, I’m opening up about my own pride story, not as a coach, but as a mom. I share what it’s been like raising my trans son, from his first coming out moment at nine years old to the joy of watching him grow into who he is today. You’ll hear how learning about pronouns rewired my brain, why phases aren’t something to be feared, and how creating space for identity exploration is one of the greatest gifts we can g...
Jun 18, 2025•16 min•Ep. 72
Ever felt like you can’t tell if you’re ready to leave or just desperate for something to change? In this raw and revealing conversation, I sit down with Dr. Becky Whetstone, also known as the “Marriage Crisis Manager,” to talk about what really happens when a relationship hits the point of "I think I want out." Whether you're in the middle of a marriage meltdown or quietly questioning everything, this episode is packed with insight, validation, and surprising hope. We talk about the nervous sys...
Jun 11, 2025•37 min•Ep. 71
Can a panic attack at the dentist actually teach you how far you've come in your healing journey? In this raw and deeply honest episode, I share the unexpected emotional storm that hit me during a routine dental appointment and why it left me feeling more empowered, not less. From childhood dental trauma to adult self-advocacy, this story isn't just about cavities... it's about how healing can show up messy, loud, and inconvenient and still be proof of growth. If you've ever felt like you're doi...
Jun 04, 2025•15 min•Ep. 70
Ever feel like you’re always the one being blamed? Whether it’s your partner, a friend, or even your family, you keep ending up in situations where you’re walking on eggshells, questioning your every move, and wondering, “Am I the problem?” In this raw and emotional coaching call with my client Lisa, we dig into the sneaky patterns that keep women stuck in blame cycles. You’ll hear how childhood wounds shape the way we show up in adult relationships, why breaking free feels so hard (but so worth...
May 28, 2025•20 min
Ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “How did that go so wrong so fast?” In this episode, I’m breaking down my go-to tool for untangling communication breakdowns before they blow up into full-on fights. It’s called the SHIT Method—Said, Heard, Intention, Try Again—and no, it’s not just a cheeky name. This is the exact process I teach my clients to slow down the spiral, make sense of what actually happened in the conversation, and get to the root of the disconnect without blame or shame...
May 21, 2025•16 min•Ep. 68
***SIGN UP FOR THE PEOPLE PLEASING SUMMIT*** Have you ever wondered why you say yes when you mean no or why setting boundaries feels downright terrifying, even with people you love? In this deeply honest and powerful episode, I sit down with Cora Rennie, a craniosacral therapist and recovering people pleaser, to unpack the fawning trauma response and how it shows up in our relationships. Cora opens up about her personal healing journey, including a terrifying stalking experience that led her to ...
May 14, 2025•37 min
Ever feel like you’ve outgrown the pain but it still haunts you? In this unexpected (and totally unfiltered) breakdown of Marvel’s Thunderbolts , I explore how this action-packed antihero movie became a mirror for real-life healing. From scenes that had me sobbing in my seat to powerful metaphors about shame, shadow work, and inner child healing — this episode shows how even fictional superheroes can teach us something about our very real wounds. And trust me, the emotional insights are just as ...
May 07, 2025•19 min•Ep. 66
**VOTE FOR SPEAK HONEST** Ever had a dream that felt way too big… and way too scary? In this episode, I sit down with Jennifer Henczel, the founder of the Women Podcasters Network and the Women Podcasters Awards, to talk about what it really means to take the leap... even when you're terrified. We talk about the accident that changed her life, how she built a global movement of women’s voices, and why showing up scared is still showing up. Plus, I spill the news about Speak Honest being nominate...
Apr 30, 2025•33 min•Ep. 65
Ever lay in bed replaying a moment that made you cringe… and suddenly you’re spiraling into shame? In this episode, we’re doing some serious spring cleaning — not of your closet, but of your emotional clutter. I’m walking you through the three key questions that help clear out all those small-but-heavy moments that keep piling up in your nervous system. You’ll hear a story from my own life (yes, it’s peak awkward), and I’ll show you how to meet yourself with curiosity instead of criticism. This ...
Apr 23, 2025•16 min
Do you keep falling for the same emotionally unavailable men — and calling it a “spark”? In this honest and empowering episode of Speak Honest , I sit down with relationship expert and bestselling author Bob Grant to unpack one of the most common traps women fall into: mistaking intensity for intimacy. We talk about why real love often feels unfamiliar, how to stop hiding your emotions to seem “low maintenance,” and what men actually find irresistible. If you’ve ever sabotaged a healthy relation...
Apr 16, 2025•37 min
Ever caught yourself thinking, “Why doesn’t this feel better yet... even though we said we’re moving forward?” In this episode of Speak Honest , we’re diving deep into what it really takes to rebuild trust after a rupture and why it’s not as simple as saying “I forgive you.” I share the story of my client Maya, whose partner broke her trust financially, and how she moved from confusion and resentment to clarity and connection. We’ll talk about why self-trust is the real foundation of healing, ho...
Apr 09, 2025•15 min•Ep. 62
Are you ready to shatter generational parenting patterns and build unbreakable bonds with your kids? In this raw, honest conversation, Lara Pitocchi reveals her proven strategies for breaking toxic cycles and creating connection-based parenting that heals both parent and child. You might want to listen if: You're repeating your own childhood trauma with your kids Communication with your children feels impossible You're drowning in parenting guilt and shame You want to learn emotional intelligenc...
Apr 02, 2025•36 min•Ep. 61
Why does he seem so into you one moment… and distant the next? If you’ve ever felt like you’re walking on eggshells in a relationship—afraid that asking for more will push him away—you’re not imagining things. You might be dealing with avoidant attachment. In this episode, I’m breaking down the sneaky ways avoidants pull away, why it’s not your fault, and how to stop chasing connection that leaves you feeling exhausted. You might want to listen if: You feel like you have to “earn” love to keep s...
Mar 26, 2025•14 min•Ep. 60
Ever feel like no matter what you say, it’s always wrong in his head? You’re not alone. In this coaching call, Ann opens up about the struggles of feeling unheard, walking on eggshells, and dealing with a partner who flips at the slightest misstep. We dive deep into why this happens, the cycle of control and avoidance, and the hard truth about setting boundaries when someone refuses to take accountability. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship where love exists but respect doesn’t, this ep...
Mar 19, 2025•37 min•Ep. 59
Do you feel emotionally drained after every conversation with your partner? You’re not imagining it. When your boundaries are too permeable, you absorb stress, moods, and emotions that aren’t even yours. Leaving you exhausted and disconnected from yourself. In this episode, I’m breaking down why this happens, how it’s keeping you stuck, and how to start setting boundaries that protect your energy without shutting down or feeling guilty. Plus, I’ll give you practical scripts and tools so you can ...
Mar 12, 2025•13 min•Ep. 58
Do you struggle to say “I’m sorry” without feeling like you’re admitting defeat? Have you ever avoided apologizing—even when you knew you should—because it felt too vulnerable? In today’s coaching call, Gigi opens up about her challenges with emotional regulation, self-blame, and the fear of being truly seen. Together, we unpack the deep-rooted shame that makes vulnerability feel so uncomfortable and explore how to shift from self-judgment to self-compassion. You might want to listen if: You fin...
Mar 05, 2025•36 min•Ep. 57
Why do we chase the people who pull away? Ever find yourself obsessing over someone the second they become unavailable? Or maybe you're in a relationship where you and your partner keep swinging between anxious and avoidant behaviors, never quite landing on solid ground? In this episode, I’m answering listener questions about disorganized attachment, why we crave unavailable people, and what it really takes to build a secure, fulfilling relationship. Get ready for some tough love, eye-opening in...
Feb 26, 2025•17 min
Ever put in the effort to feel sexy for your partner, only to feel totally unseen? That’s exactly what happened to Jenna. She got all dressed up, expecting a reaction that never came. Instead, she got a casual “You look cute.” And just like that... BAM—hurt feelings, a major argument, and a downward spiral of insecurity. But here’s the twist—Jenna and her boyfriend actually started working through it before our session. And in this coaching call, we go even deeper. We unpack covert expectations ...
Feb 19, 2025•35 min•Ep. 55
Tired of Valentine’s Day feeling like a relationship report card? Whether you're single, coupled up, or somewhere in between, this day has a way of making everything feel extra - extra lonely, extra disappointing, or just extra pressure. But here’s the truth: Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to suck. In this episode, we’re ditching the unrealistic expectations and making February 14th actually work for you. You might want to listen if: ✔️ You’re single and over feeling like this day is a giant neon ...
Feb 12, 2025•12 min•Ep. 54
Why does emotional regulation feel so hard, and how can it transform your relationships? In this episode, I’m chatting with the brilliant Tannaz Hosseinpour from Minutes on Growth about one of the most overlooked keys to healthy relationships: nervous system regulation. We dive into why grounding yourself can change the way you connect with your partner, how to navigate tough conversations, and what it really looks like to build resilience through rupture and repair. Plus, Tannaz shares her pers...
Feb 05, 2025•33 min•Ep. 53
Ever notice how those "magical butterflies" always seem to lead us down the same rocky relationship path? In this episode, we're busting myths about attraction and chemistry that might be keeping us stuck. We're diving deep into the science of connection and why everything we've been taught about attraction might actually be holding us back from finding real, lasting love. You might want to listen if: We keep feeling those intense "sparks" with people who aren't good for us We're worried somethi...
Jan 29, 2025•17 min•Ep. 52
>>> Apply For Your FREE Podcast Coaching Call with Jenn <<< Do you feel like your emotions take over when things get tough in your relationships? Whether it's blowing up over small things or shutting down completely, emotional regulation can be the key to turning things around. In this episode, I dive deep into why emotional regulation is essential and how to master it to communicate more effectively and connect deeper with your partner. You might want to listen if: You often f...
Jan 22, 2025•13 min•Ep. 51
>>> Apply For Your FREE Podcast Coaching Call with Jenn <<< Do you know what you really want, or are you stuck in a cycle of doing what you think you should ? In this episode of Speak Honest , I coach Steph, who feels overwhelmed by her need to be productive and struggles to identify what she truly needs, wants, and desires. Together, we explore how to shift from “should” to “want,” break free from societal expectations, and reconnect with the joy of choosing for yourself. You ...
Jan 15, 2025•42 min•Ep. 50
Are you tired of setting resolutions every January, only to feel like a failure by February? In this episode, I’m sharing why resolutions are so last year and how setting meaningful intentions can help you align with your values and embrace growth. From exploring the eight areas of life to uncovering your "why" and leaning into resistance, this episode will help you kickstart your 2025 with purpose and clarity. You might want to listen if: You’re frustrated by resolutions that feel impossible to...
Jan 08, 2025•14 min•Ep. 49
What do you do when you’ve got a great husband and a solid support system, but something still feels off? Amanda had all the love and support she could ask for, but she struggled to express herself in a way that felt true to who she really is. She joined my Relationship Reboot Program looking for clarity, and wow… did she find it! In this episode, Amanda opens up about her journey to becoming more confident and authentic in her communication. From learning how to honor her needs to creating even...
Jan 01, 2025•45 min•Ep. 48
What if the key to transforming your relationship lies in healing yourself first? In this inspiring episode of Speak Honest, I chat with Carol, a member of the Relationship Reboot Program, about her incredible journey to rebuild her marriage and rediscover herself. From confronting limiting beliefs to embracing somatic tools and building a supportive community, Carol shares her candid experiences, triumphs, and lessons learned. Whether you’re navigating communication struggles or searching for d...
Dec 25, 2024•43 min
How do you draw the line with your loved ones without feeling like the bad guy? In this episode, we dive into one of the toughest parts of family dynamics, setting boundaries. Let’s be real... boundaries with family can feel impossible. From guilt and conflict to emotional attachment, family makes it tricky. But guess what? Boundaries aren’t about shutting people out—they’re about building healthier, stronger relationships. You might want to listen if: You dread family gatherings because you alw...
Dec 18, 2024•19 min•Ep. 46
Have you ever felt like letting go of someone meant losing a piece of yourself? In this raw and deeply heartfelt episode, I reconnect with Jissell as she bravely opens up about her journey to let go of a long-term relationship that no longer served her. Together, we explore the emotional knots tied to past wounds, the struggle to set boundaries without guilt, and how to embrace self-worth without needing external validation. It’s a vulnerable and inspiring conversation that offers practical tool...
Dec 11, 2024•45 min•Ep. 45
