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Sounds Fake But Okay

Sounds Fake But Okaywww.soundsfakepod.com
A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.

Episodes

Ep 245: Nudity in Art

Hey what's up hello! This week, we talk about nudity in art. When is it art, and when is it porn? Is porn art?? Where is the line???? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/nudity-in-art Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Jan 29, 202342 min

Ep 244: Amatonormativity in Small Talk

Hey what's up hello! This week, we have some small talk about small talk. We've noticed that all too often, small talk topics turn to dating and romance, so we're here to come up with some new aspec friendly small talk topics! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/amatonormativity-in-small-talk Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Jan 22, 202355 min

Ep 243: Signs We Were Aspec

Hey what's up hello! Today we look back on our lives and search for overlooked signs from our past that we were aspec. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/signs-we-were-aspec Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Jan 15, 202344 min

Ep 242: Catfishing

Hey what's up hello! We're back! And to kick off the new year we're talking about catfishing - What is it? Why does it happen? And also why does Nick Cannon have so many kids??? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/catfishing Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Jan 08, 202351 min

Ep 241: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Third Year)

Hey what's up hello! For the last episode of 2022, we're doing the third installment of same podcast one year apart where we answer the same questions every year! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/ame-podcast-one-year-apart-the-third-year Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Dec 11, 20221 hr 4 min

Ep 240: Kink, BDSM, and Asexuality feat. Evie Lupine

Hey what's up hello! Today we chat with kink educator Evie Lupine about kink, BDSM, and the intersection of her kinky and asexual identities. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/kink-bdsm-and-asexuality-feat-evie-lupine Follow Evie: @evielupine / https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHExB-d5s0zBcbsaHEUy91Q Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Dec 04, 20221 hr 17 min

Ep 239: Are We Soulmates???

Hey what's up hello! Today we seek to once and for all find an answer to the age-old question: are Kayla and Sarah soulmates? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/are-we-soulmates Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Support the show Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Nov 27, 202253 min

Ep 238: Aphrodisiacs

Hey what's up hello! Today we try to find out what aphrodisiacs are and if they even work in the first place. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aphrodisiacs Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Nov 20, 202248 min

Ep 237: Reading r/Confessions

Hey what's up hello! Today we return to Reddit to see what the wild people of r/Confessions need to get off their chests. TW: Discussion of sex and sexual content. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/r/confessions Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Nov 13, 202247 min

Ep 236: Aspec Microlabels Pt. 1

Hey what's up hello! This week we're doing the first episode of a new micro series on aspec microlabels! Today we discuss the labels -flux, abro-, -spike, aego-, apothi-, auto-, bellus-, and caed-. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aspec-microlabels-pt-1 Learn more about aspec microlabels: https://taaap.org/learn/spectrum-101/ https://www.asexuals.net/asexual-spectrum/ https://aceydesi.wordpress.com/2020/12/12/microlabels-in-the-ace-and-aro-spectrums/6 https://lgbtq...

Nov 06, 202251 min

Ep 235: The Split Attraction Model

Hey what's up hello! Today we're revisiting a topic we very briefly and poorly addressed all the way back in episode 9 (NINE!) of this silly little podcast: the Split Attraction Model (SAM). Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-split-attraction-model Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Support the show Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Oct 23, 202255 min

Ep 234: Aspec Culture Shock

Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking about the culture shock we have as aspecs from learning that Netflix and chill isn't just chilling and what Cake By The Ocean is really about. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aspec-culture-shock Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Oct 16, 202246 min

Ep 233: Writing Gay Porn feat. Dalton King

Content Warning: If you are sex-repulsed, this may not be the episode for you Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking to our friend Dalton King about his experience writing gay porn in the studio porn industry. Get ready for a wild ride. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/writing-gay-porn-feat-dalton-king Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Oct 09, 20222 hr 31 min

Ep 232: Relaxcast pt. 2

Hey... what's up... hello. Today marks the valiant return of the relaxcast: motivational edition. Will it actually be relaxing? Or motivational, for that matter? Only time will tell. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/relaxcast-pt-2 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Oct 02, 202247 min

Ep 231: Ace Voices feat. Eris Young

Hey what's up hello! Today we chat with Eris Young about their upcoming book Ace Voices: What It Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi Or Grey-Ace Eris Young. Out December 21, 2022. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/ace-voices-feat-eris-young Order Ace Vocies: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9781787756984 Follow Eris: @Young_E_H Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com...

Sep 25, 20221 hr 1 min

Ep 230: Rating Bad Pickup Lines

Hey what's up hello! On this week's ~late night~ episode, two aspecs rank the worst and best(?) pickup lines. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/rating-bad-pickup-lines Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Sep 18, 202247 min

Ep 229: Refusing Compulsory Sexuality by Sherronda J. Brown

Hey what's up hello! In honor of Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown coming out on September 13th, we're having a little book club! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/refusing-compulsory-sexuality-by-sherronda-j-brown Order Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9781623177102 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepo...

Sep 11, 202248 min

Ep 228: r/AreTheStraightsOK?

Hey what's up hello! You've read the title and you know what that means - we're diving back into Reddit! This week we answer the age old question, are the straights ok??? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/r/arethestraightsok Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Sep 04, 202249 min

Ep 227: Are Soulmates Real?

Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about soulmates, starting with the chilling story of a woman who left her husband after meeting her soulmate in a love-at-first sight fiasco. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/are-soulmates-real Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Aug 28, 202249 min

Ep 226: Allonormativity and Amatanormativity

Hey what's up hello! On this week's episode, we define allonormativity and amatanormativity and share how we've experienced these in our own lives. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/allonormativity-and-amatanormativity Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Aug 21, 202241 min

Ep 225: Libras Are Obsessed with Romance

Hey what's up hello! Sarah's an aro. Sarah's a libra. Libras are apparently romance-obsessed. Sarah doesn't like this. Let's discuss. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/libras-are-obsessed-with-romance Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Support the show Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Aug 14, 202246 min

Ep 224: Ghosting

Hey what's up hello! Ghosting. What is it, why is it a thing, and why is Sarah an apologist? There's only one way to find out, besties. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/ghosting Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Aug 07, 202250 min

Ep 223: Pet Names for Partners

Hey what's up hello! We are back, and we are talking about pet names. Why are they a thing, and why are they like THAT? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/pet-names-for-partners Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Jul 31, 202242 min

Ep 222: 2022 Corporate Pride Roundup

Hey what's up hello! As pride comes to an end, we're taking a look back at the best and worst (but mostly worst) corporate pride and rainbow washing activities of 2022. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/2022-corporate-pride-roundup Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Jun 26, 202257 min

Ep 221: Femcels

Hey what's up hello! It's femcel summer (apparently?) and we're here to discuss what that means from an aspec perspective. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/femcels Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Jun 19, 202247 min

Ep 220: Aspecs Describe the Difference Between Hot, Sexy, Pretty, and Cute

Hey what's up hello! On today's episode, two aspecs try to explain the difference between a person being hot, sexy, pretty, or cute. What a wild ride! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aspecs-describe-the-difference-between-hot-sexy-pretty-and-cute Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Jun 12, 202249 min

Ep 219: Breath and Sexual Arousal??

Hey what's up hello! The internet tells us that our breath can tell us about sexual arousal. We know everything we read on the internet is true, so this week your local aspec podcasters discuss. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/breath-and-sexual-arousal Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

Jun 05, 202244 min

Ep 218: Reacting to r/ShowerThoughts

Hey what's up hello! This week we needed something silly, so we took to Reddit and reacted to the world wide web's shower thoughts about sex and dating. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reacting-to-r/showerthoughts Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

May 29, 202244 min

Ep 217: Weddings

Hey what's up hello! Kayla was in her sister's wedding last week and you know what that means! Time to talk about weddings and all their traditions from an aspec perspective. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/weddings Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

May 22, 202257 min

Ep 216: Aspecs Explain Romantic Tropes

Hey what's up hello! This week, Sarah and Kayla try to sell you on all the best romantic fanfiction tropes. Why? Because we love them. P.S. - PLS DO NOT TELL KAYLA WHAT I GOT HER FOR HER BIRTHDAY SHE WON'T KNOW FOR ANOTHER FEW DAYS Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aspecs-explain-romantic-tropes Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...

May 15, 202245 min