Hey what's up hello! This week we take a dive into the Am I The Asshole (AITA) Subreddit and give our aromantic and asexual perspective on relationship and sexuality situations. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/am-i-the-asshole Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! Happy pride month everyone! To celebrate we did a pride Q&A. This week we answer your questions about pride celebrations, our own orientations, the podcast, worms, and more! Episdoe Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/pride-month-q-a Watch Sarah's Jubilee video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iy18iDthH8&t=375s Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsf...
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss a topic that comes up every year: is there a place for kink at pride? Is there any conflict between aspec issues and kink in such a forum? And the biggest question of all: what does "kink at pride" even MEAN? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/kink-at-pride Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss mental health / mental illness and how it impacts our orientations. Is it harder to figure out your sexuality when you're neurodivergent? Does it make you question more? We discuss all this and more. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/mental-health-and-sexuality Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we're playing the asexual/aromantic version of the class classic game "fuck, marry, kill" - stuck in elevator, QPR, kill. Listen along for a chaotic ride. Episdoe Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/fuck-marry-kill Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! Today we chat with Liam O'Dell, an amazing activist focused on deafness and disability, about accessibility and how the aspec community can be more welcoming to disabled people. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/accessibility-and-asexuality Follow Liam: @LiamODellUK / www.liamodell.com Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we're rating the asexual and aromantic vibes that different classic game characters give off! Get ready for some board and video game headcanons. Character Pictures: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1qlzuv2GM9OgVx4rDCB_JVeUALei_05J0?usp=sharing Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aspec-headcanons-for-game-characters Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy o...
Hey what's up hello! Recently Colton Underwood of the Bachelor fame came out as gay. We're not huge bachelor fans, but we wanted to discuss the story behind his coming out and what his story shows about the societal pressure to conform. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-first-gay-bachelor Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we chat with the lovely Venus Envy, an incredible asexual drag queen! We discuss how her asexuality interacts with her drag and her experience as a female drag queen. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/asexuality-and-drag Follow Venus: @venusenvydrag Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss International Asexuality Day which is on April 6th! We share some of the exciting events happening and discuss why asexuality is so Western/English-speaking focused and what we can do to truly make the community more international. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/international-asexuality-day Learn more about International Asexuality Day and the events happening this week: https://internationalasexualityday.org/ Donate: patreon....
Hey what's up hello! It's date night with Kayla and Sarah. This week, we answer some ~deep~ questions that couples use to get to know each other better! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/answering-questions-for-couples Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss incels, incel culture, and the vast difference between people who are aspec and people who identify as incels. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/incel-culture Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! Today we chat with Chantel Houston, an amazing director, content creator, and former member of Buzzfeed Ladylike about her demisexual journey. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/discovering-demisexuality-feat-chantel-houston Follow Chantel: @chantelhouston / www.chantelhouston.com Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! Recently we read an NPR Life Kit Article about dating advice, and it suggested having "pre-date rituals!" So today, we discuss dating tips as well as our own rituals. Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/pre-date-rituals Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we spoke to the lovely Barefoot Backpacker about their experience as an older member of the aspec community. We talk about queer history and what the aspec community can do to serve its older members. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/being-an-older-asexual-aromantic Check out Barefoot Backpacker: @RTWBarefoot / www.barefoot-backpacker.com Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfa...
Hey what's up hello! This week, we're giving you a full rundown on what aromanticism and the aro spectrum is. If you are aromantic and struggle to give the long talk that explains aromanticism to loved ones, you can use this to do the talking for you. If you’ve just learned what aromanticism is or if you were sent here by a loved one, hopefully, this episode begins to help you to learn and understand. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/what-is-aromanticism Check out ...
Hey what's up hello! This Valentine's Day season we're discussing traditionally romantic couples activities and why they actually might be better done alone. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/romantic-activities-to-do-alone Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! As we all know, you can choose your sexuality! So this week, we tell you why you should choose to convert to asexuality and/or aromanticism. **This is all sarcastic pls don't come for us** Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-perks-of-asexuality-and-aromanticism Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we chat with David Jay (and a second mystery guest) about having a child and parenting as an asexual person. We also discuss David's three parent household and the Equality Act. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/asexual-parenting Ace discrimination video submission: https://bit.ly/acediscrimination Tavi's favorite Mongolian metal band: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jM8dCGIm6yc Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfak...
Hey what's up hello! This week we list out just a few things that people on the asexual and aromantic spectrums DON'T OWE YOU! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/things-that-aspecs-dont-owe-you Our new P.O. Boxes: Kayla Kaszyca P.O. Box 2303 Baton Rouge, LA 70821 Sarah Costello P.O. Box 16453 North Hollywood, CA 91615 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/boo...
Hey what's up hello! This week we take a dive into the long history of bi/ace solidarity. We explore how our communities interacted in the past and what they are doing to support each other in the present. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/bi-ace-solidarity Bi/Ace Solidarity Tumblr Masterpost: https://autismserenity.tumblr.com/post/142035894961/the-acesaros-were-part-of-the-bi-community-until Slate Care and Feeding Article: https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/01/capito...
Hey what's up hello! This week, Sarah takes the ultimate test. Does she know Kayla better than her boyfriend Dean does? Listen to find out. Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/boyfriend-vs-best-friend Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about how asexuality is viewed in both the medical and mental health world. We take a look at the DSM-5 and discuss hypoactive sexual desire disorder. Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/medicalization-of-asexuality Articles/posts mentioned in this episode: - http://www.asexualityarchive.com/asexuality-in-the-dsm-5/ - https://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/206722-re-my-mom-pushed-me-to-bring-up-my-asexuality-at-a-doctor-appointment-late-...
Hey what's up hello! For our last episode of 2020, we will be naming someone the Allo of the Year. Listen as we read this year's weirdest stories about sex and romance and try to figure out if the allos are actually okay. Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/allo-of-the-year Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we are excited to have our amazing friend Perry on as a guest. We chat with Perry about Dungeons and Dragons and the potential it has to let you explore your identity. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/dungeons-and-dragons Listen to Into the Gridge: https://anchor.fm/intothegridge Follow Perry: @perryfier0 Check out Perry's Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/swamswimswum Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https:/...
Hey what's up hello! As we've always said, there are just too many songs about romance and sex. So today, we take it upon ourselves to rewrite popular romance songs to be about anything else. Episode Transcript: soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/rewriting-songs-about-romance-and-sex Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we take a page from Billie Eilish's book and we begin the journey of recording the same podcast episode and answering the same questions every year. Buckle in, it gets emo. Responding to Asexual Hate Comments: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LHho-Sz02h4 Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/same-podcast-one-year-apart-the-first-year Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod....
Hey what's up hello! As November comes to an end, we reflect on the ever-present No Nut November. What's the point of this challenge? Who participates? And what does it tell us about how the world views sex? Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/no-nut-november Register for Dream Glow Magazine's free "Glow Up: BTS Fandom and Professional Development" event: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdI-W6PVRtJnJ0tHbBeOZneT5j5-79jaLB9cTfhb1bpVUy3Rg/viewform...
Hey what's up hello! This week we rated the aspec vibes of the pictures and memes YOU submitted. Will bats pass the test? What about our man Plum? Listen to find out! Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/rating-your-aspec-vibes Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Hey what's up hello! This week we chat with Marshall aka Gentle Giant Ace about how he became an ace activist. Episode transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aspec-activism-feat-gentle-giant-ace Check out Marshall's work: Twitter: @AceGentle YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsw6zzoKlskACsfRs0sZ20g acesandaros.org Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/boo...
