Hey what's up hello! To celebrate Ace Week, we hosted a livesteam and read some of your submissions. Submissions included poems, questions, and ace realization stories. This episode is the amazing theatrical cut of that livestream. Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/ace-week-celebration-feat-you Get the Snyder cut by watching the livestream here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7YrRXH2qyA&t=1s Read all of the submissions, especially the ones we didn't have time ...
Nov 01, 2020•1 hr 18 min
Hey what's up hello! Today, we answer the age-old, time-weary question - what is Victoria's Secret? Episode transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/revealing-victorias-secret Catch our livestream on October 31st at 11am PDT/2pm EDT/6pm UTC: https://tinyurl.com/SFBOAAW Submit to the livestream: https://tinyurl.com/SFBOAAWSUBMIT Vote for us for Best LGBTQ Culture podcast of 2020: awards.discoverpods.com/vote/ Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: ht...
Oct 25, 2020•51 min
Hey what's up hello! This week, we talk to Rebecca Burgess about their new graphic novel "How To Be Ace." We discuss comics, mental health, and struggling with your sexuality. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/how-to-be-ace-feat-rebecca-burgess How To Be Ace comes out on October 21st! Order here or wherever fine books are sold: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9781787752153 Follow: @theorah Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://dis...
Oct 18, 2020•54 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk broadly about being confident in your sexuality and navigating the questioning phase. We also discuss how to answer the annoying question "How do you know you just haven't found the right person yet?" Episode Transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/having-confidence-in-your-sexuality Submit to our Ace Week episode: https://forms.gle/DyisMC9yH7c6nCrs6 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://dis...
Oct 11, 2020•56 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we fulfill a wonderful patron's request! We chat with our friend Ina about what it's like being non-binary. Episode transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/being-non-binary-feat-a-friend Non-binary photo project: https://instagram.com/nonbinaryportraits QVC for the Used and Hopeless: https://anchor.fm/qvcpod Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www....
Oct 04, 2020•56 min
Hey what's up hello! We've known for a long time that gender reveal parties are stupid, but this year they reached an all-time level of ridiculousness and destruction. So today, we give you some ideas for anti-gender reveal parties! Episode transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/anti-gender-reveal-parties Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Sep 27, 2020•59 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the difference between being sex-repulsed and sex-averse and explore the importance of the words we use. Episode transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/sex-repulsed-vs-sex-averse Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Sep 20, 2020•57 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we are joined by Angela Chen to discuss her new book ACE: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex. Episode Transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/ace-feat-angela-chen Order ACE now: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9780807014738 Follow Angela Chen: @chengela Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Sep 13, 2020•1 hr 9 min
Hey what's up hello! For some reason, everyone thinks of the bed as a super sexy place. But what if you don't want to be sexy in bed? What if you want to do something else? Well, here are 46 unsexy things that you can do in a bed. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/unsexy-things-to-do-in-bed Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Sep 06, 2020•51 min
Hey what's up hello! Have you heard of the UK Asexuality Conference? Well, we're paneling for it and you should definitely attend. Episode Transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/2020/9/2/announcement-sounds-fake-but-okay-goes-to-uk-ace-con Learn more about the conference and register for free here: https://sites.google.com/view/uk-asexuality-conference-2020 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy...
Sep 02, 2020•4 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the importance of having asexual representation in the media. We are joined by special guest Zaine from the amazing Repl(Ace) the Media campaign! Episode Transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/asexual-representation-with-replace-the-media Follow Repl(Ace) the Media on Twitter and Instagram: @acethemedia Follow Repl(Ace) the Media on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/replacethemedia/ Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfa...
Aug 30, 2020•1 hr 5 min
Hey what's up hello! Have you ever wondered where babies come from? Usually when you ask people say "sex," but we aren't too sure about that. In this week's episode, we tell you where babies actually come from. Episode Transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/how-babies-are-made Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Aug 23, 2020•50 min
Hey what's up hello! Our second guest of Auguest is Courtney Lang from our sister podcast A OK! Listen in to hear a couple of podcasters talking about podcasting and identifying as aroace. Episode Transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/sounds-fake-but-a-ok Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Aug 16, 2020•57 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Sarah is writing the description and she's bad at it. We talked about how there are definitely only two genders and how gender is not at all a construct and how everything is a binary and absolutely not a spectrum. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-two-genders Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Aug 09, 2020•48 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we are honored and excited to chat with Alice Oseman about her new book Loveless! Loveless follows the coming out story of a teen aroace girl and is absolutely amazing. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/loveless-feat-alice-oseman Buy Loveless: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9781338751932 Follow Alice @aliceoseman Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www....
Aug 02, 2020•52 min
Hey what's up hello! A couple of episodes ago, we talked about all of the reasons people choose to have sex. This week, we give you some excuses to use if you want to say no to sex. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reasons-not-to-have-sex Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Jul 26, 2020•56 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk all about the ace ring: its history, what it is, why people wear it, and if we have ever worn one! Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Jul 19, 2020•51 min
Hey what's up hello! Last week, when we mentioned that there are a lot of reasons to have sex besides being sexually attracted to someone. Today, we list off just a few of those reasons! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reasons-to-have-sex Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Jul 12, 2020•54 min
Hey what's up hello! Did you know that the sexual acts you partake in don't define your sexual orientation at all? Well if you didn't then this episode is for you! And if you did know this already then this is also for you as a nice reminder. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/sexual-acts-do-not-equal-sexuality Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Jul 05, 2020•45 min
Hey what's up hello! Since we had the honor of being on Bacon and Eggs: A Movie Lover's Podcast this week, we wanted to keep with the movie theme! For some reason, Hollywood feels the need to stick romantic B plots into every movie even when they don't make sense. Today we come up with some alternate B plots that writers can stick into every movie. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/things-to-put-in-movies-other-than-romance Check out our episode of Bacon and Eg...
Jun 28, 2020•55 min
Hey what's up hello! In the past week, we've seen quite a bit of aphobia which of course included people saying asexuality isn't actually a sexuality. It seems that some people just assume we're straight and "repressed" somehow. Pretty heteronormative if you ask us! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/asexuality-does-not-equal-heterosexuality Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod...
Jun 21, 2020•54 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the weird phrases that people use to say sex without really using the word. To be honest, most of them are much worse than just saying sex. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/weird-sexual-innuendos Black lives STILL MATTER. This isn't a trend. Please donate, sign petitions, march, do whatever you can: https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/ Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBH...
Jun 14, 2020•50 min
This week's episode is going to be a little different. It's hard right now to talk about anything that isn't the racial injustice that's so prevalent in America. We don't feel like we can just sit here and talk about something else right now. So we won't. In the spirit of Blackout Tuesday, we are using the time on the podcast this week to amplify the Black voices that we have been listening to, and those we urge you to listen to. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepo...
Jun 07, 2020•33 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss pride month and what it might look like in the time of Coronavirus. Sarah also gives two (2) manifestos! You don't wanna miss it. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/navigating-virtual-pride Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
May 31, 2020•47 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we're back playing the Wikipedia game! How many clicks will it take for us to get to the asexuality page and how many clicks will it take to get to OUR page? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/wikipedia-rabbit-hole-pt-2 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
May 24, 2020•54 min
Hey what's up hello! This week we interview Daniel from the YouTube channel Slice of Ace! We discuss dating as a homoromantic asexual, Animal Crossing, and our new best friendship. Subscribe to Slice of Ace (and hit the notification bell!): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3vDNqa_MMGI43NAO2C-JJw Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/an-interview-with-daniel-from-slice-of-ace Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.sounds...
May 17, 2020•1 hr 5 min
*DISCLAIMER: If you are sex repulsed or are uncomfortable with discussions of genitals this may not be the episode for you. Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss how being on the aromantic and asexual spectrums influences the relationships we have with our bodies. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/our-relationship-with-our-bodies Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfak...
May 10, 2020•48 min
Hey what's up hello! This week, we talk about classic romantic/sexual songs like My Heart Will Go On and Careless Whisper. Can these songs be reclaimed as aromantic and asexual anthems? Honestly, who knows. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reclaiming-romantic-songs Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
May 03, 2020•44 min
Hey what's up hello! This week, we discuss how aromantic and/or asexual would fare on different reality TV shows. From The Bachelor to The Amazing Race to America's Got Talent, is being aroace an advantage? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/being-aroace-is-a-talent 6 Feet of SpACE: An AroAce COVID-19 Relief Fundraiser is open now! Donate here: tinyurl.com/DONATE6feet Watch here on May 2nd @ 11am PDT / 2pm EDT / 7pm BST: tinyurl.com/WATCH6feet Donate: patreon.com/sou...
Apr 26, 2020•53 min
Hey what's up hello! This week, we discuss things that the world has deemed as traditionally sexy and romantic. From chocolate syrup to underwear, we give a definitive* aroace review of what's hot and what's not. *This review is not definitive. It is, in fact, very subjective. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/an-aroace-review-of-sexy-and-romantic-things Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod....
Apr 19, 2020•1 hr 1 min
