Demystifying a Natural Pregnancy, Healing Through Miscarriage and Birth Trauma w/Eyla Cuenca | Ep #73
Episode description
“A conscious birth, builds a conscious world” - Eyla Cuenca
In this episode, Dr. Jamal connects with Eyla Cuenca, a holistic birth guide and mentor to doulas who is internationally recognized for her training and skill set. Her work is dedicated to offering guidance that supports women and men in the process that is a return to their deepest knowing about birth, individual sovereignty, and the body’s innate intelligence. They dive into conversation about the whole birthing process of self and energetics that go into prepping the mind and body beforehand.
02:00 | Why utilize a doula? A requirement to surrender is important to access surrender*
60% of women who had a doula were able to have a natural birth without pain management or especially pitocin
06:00 | Story on autonomy. Patient disagreed with her doctor and what they thought was best, because it compromised her beliefs
Theres a need to support autonomy. The ability to choose self
09:00 | You have another option
11:00 | What's the work necessary to prep the mind and body to bring in a new soul to the world?
Dismantling the collective belief system that the body is automatically going to fail you*
Lifestyle
14:00 | Its a mutual responsibility; physically for the their healing process and regeneration
Connecting inability to conceive to these losses. Theres a trauma to the heart, to the womb and intense amount of grief. Bypassing grief*
There's still something there that has to get resolved. Integration, belief system, core belief wasn’t present!!
17:30 | Have they resolved a former perception of themselves?
19:00 | We’re in a disarray as a society what is biologically natural to us
20:30 | “ I need to know that you got me.” Worthiness and wholeness through connecting to self
24:00 | What is the responsibility of the man when it comes to helping bring a baby forward in the world?
Being able to master self-regulation and embody safety in your own body!! ***
You cant problem solve when you're in a stressed space. Safety is the soil*
30:40 | Stop trying to reorganize your man. Praise, one of the greatest allies to inspiration
It can a default to dark mother energy who reaches for control due to lack of image of balanced relationship and inability to express needs
Men want to be accepted and received
33:00 | Expressing from the heart. Its so important.
35:00 | A breech of non-negotiables, could be time to part ways with your partner!!*
See and accept them or walk away
Waiting for the caregiver…where is their expansion happening?
36:40 | The talking of value systems, waiting to be chosen, being in the potential of someone*
39:00 | Soul ties created THEN unwinding them after disconnection of values*
Feigning connection is a survival strategy**
42:00 | An imprint of what we’re worthy of based upon what we’ve witnessed*
“I know how to navigate that burning house”
43:00 | Set the energetic environment before you set the physical environment
45:30 | Metacognition x Epienergetics
48:30 | Know that there is always an opportunity, babies have the same intelligence that we have
They were potent ingredients for your cauldron still
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Eyla’s info!Site: www.eylacuenca.com
Classes & Trainings: UncoveringBirth.com
IG: @eyla_cuenca_birth
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