Should We Be Bothered?

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On SWBB, we're not scared to address controversial topics, trendy topics and we waste no time in spilling premium, exquisite tea!

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Episodes

We're Back!!!

Picture this, me in my room at 4am, lights out, on my laptop with nothing but my microphone and the zeal to record and release new episodes just for you - my babies. It feels amazing to be recording again and on this episode, I discussed what it took to finally get here, a life update or two and more importantly, the vision I have for the podcast moving forward. I know you have heard this from me one too many times, but guys???! Sit back, fasten your seatbelts, and enjoy the ride because what? W...

Mar 23, 2025•15 min•Season 2Ep. 1

Body/Oral hygiene

This episode is one I take seriously because it does not only affect us personally as individuals but also other people. We sometime downplay the importance of personal hygiene for reasons best known to us but I'm here to tell you, that shouldn't be the case. So on this episode, I talked about how to take our hygiene seriously, some implications of not taking our hygiene seriously and some myths/misconceptions about personal hygiene. I felt so invested in this episode because I long for a world ...

Sep 18, 2022•26 min•Season 1Ep. 6

My 6 reasons why...

I'm back from my hiatus but unlike Adele, my return is nothing spectacular. I'm not back with a hit single but at least please, go easy on me. I'm here instead with 6 (excuses) reasons why I have not been able to bring myself to record or release an episode, my sincerest apologies for that. Going on a break and losing my consistency has affected me in several ways, one of which is me losing my mojo and not knowing what topic to talk about and how to talk about it. So, this episode is nothing clo...

Sep 11, 2022•12 min•Season 1Ep. 5

The Birthday Blues

This episode addresses birthday depression or "The birthday blues". Birthdays can be overwhelming and for some people can cause them to be uninterested in their birthday, make them have anxiety and even depression. This is known as The birthday blues. This episode addresses that in details talking about the causes of depression, people who might experience birthday depression and the ways to handle birthday depression. Listen and enjoy 😉

Jun 19, 2022•26 min•Season 1Ep. 4

Bonus: Birthday blues

This is a bonus episode introducing to us birthday blues. Birthday blues refers to feeling sad, apathetic, or disinterested in celebrating or thinking about your birthday. And on the next episode birthday blues will be addressed and we'll have people share their opinions on birthday blues and also me filling you all in on how my birthday week went. Stay tuned 🤗.

Jun 12, 2022•4 min

Should we be bothered about: talking stages?

We should all know that stage that usually comes before a relationship, the talking stage. If some of you don't already know what that stage is all about, don't worry, you're in luck because on this episode, we talked about talking stages, shared some of the experexperiences we've had, what we think the pros and cons are and also, if we think talking stages are really necessary (including how long they should last). On this episode with me is my best friend Oke Wunmi and I promised to share her ...

Jun 05, 2022•33 min•Season 1Ep. 3

Bonus Episode: Talking Stages.

It was taking more time than I thought to publish the full episode of the topic "Talking stages" which was why I decided to release a bonus episode to let you all know what to expect on the full episode. I basically introduced the topic and expressed my dissatisfaction with the number of failed talking stages that I've had 😭😭.

May 29, 2022•7 min•Season 1Ep. 3

Should we be bothered about: my first job experience?

First jobs can be thrilling and they can be quite an experience. For first jobs, most people might not know what they really want which could lead to them getting jobs they might not be satisfied with, I happen to be most people 😂😭. On this episode I talked about why I got my first job, how I got it, how it went and why I quit. Heads up, I worked for only three days 😂. If your first job was amazing, lucky you but pleaseee, I did not know better hence why I accepted the job but I know better n...

May 22, 2022•25 min•Season 1Ep. 2

Should we be bothered about: unsolicited opinions?

People sometimes feel the need to tell us things that they think about us and honestly, you can try as much as possible to avoid it but people will always have UNSOLICITED OPINIONS about you and a number of them will even have the audacity to approach you. So on this episode, I basically talked about how to identify unsolicited opinions, some of the reasons I think people have unsolicited opinions and the implications of such opinions. It was really fun recording this episode after like a millio...

May 14, 2022•20 min•Season 1Ep. 1

Should we be bothered?

Unsolicited opinions come whether you want them or not, that's why they're unsolicited but do we have to deal with them or just accept them? You don't have to worry, I'll answer the questions for you so you don't have to go through the struggle(s). All you have to do is stay tuned for the first episode of SWBB and your host Tobias is going to make it worthwhile 🤭😊🤗.

May 09, 2022•58 sec

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