This episode delves into the challenges and benefits of effective delegation, particularly for those who struggle with letting go of control and the fear of entrusting tasks to others. Somer and Michelle share their personal experiences and discuss what changed their perspectives on "sharing the load." They also have a big announcement for our podcast community and an invitation to the Summer Challenge—something they never had on their radar for SWHW... but God. This is an episode that will leav...
May 20, 2024•31 min•Season 2Ep. 128
In this episode Somer welcomes SWHW teammate and friend, Callie Holland, as they talk about what it feels like to wonder if you're "too much." They both share personal experiences and lessons learned, eventually getting to the root of the issue with scripture. 02:28 Navigating the Complexities of Ambition and Identity 05:43 The Challenge of Leadership 07:58 Embracing Our True Identity in Christ 11:05 Exploring the Power and Presence of the Holy Spirit 19:11 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Overcom...
May 13, 2024•34 min•Season 2Ep. 127
Melissa Kruger has journeyed with me [Michelle] through motherhood, and right on time -- just two weeks after my oldest became a teenager -- she released a new book on raising teens for Christ. In this episode, we dive deep into God's heart for parenting our teens, including: the risks of defaulting to parent out of motivations other than hope laying the foundation for the teen years in childhood years biggest challenges + opportunities in raising teens today the reminder that it's never too lat...
May 06, 2024•34 min•Season 2Ep. 126
This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if it's time to walk away from something. In part 2 of How To Know If It's Time To Quit, Somer and Michelle talk through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was the Lord leading them to quit, rather than their own wants or desires. This episode puts the 'explanation point' on the entire conversation and we hope leaves you with clear indicators ...
Apr 29, 2024•31 min•Season 2Ep. 125
124. This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if we need to quit something. Somer and Michelle give you part 1 this week which talks through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was their flesh that was pushing them towards quitting. This conversation serves as a bit of a guide in helping you recognize when your impulse to quit is a selfish reflex versus a God-led command. 01:25 Explor...
Apr 22, 2024•26 min•Season 2Ep. 124
In this episode, Somer and Michelle share some of their most valuable lessons learned from experiences working in corporate America and the marketplace before transitioning to ministry work. Coming from a variety of industries, including banking, retail, scientific research, fitness, network marketing, and pharmaceutical sales, they are sharing how each of their assignments have shaped them and prepared them for their current roles and reminding you how your current assignment is probably doing ...
Apr 15, 2024•38 min•Season 2Ep. 123
Yep, we're talking about the good ole' social media... again. But don't worry, Somer and Michelle are keeping it fresh with a nuanced approach to a spiritually healthy relationship with your internet friends and follows. Whether you're a content consumer, a content creator, or somewhere in between, we promise you'll be inspired, not beat up, by this conversation. 00:41 Diving Into the Social Media Dilemma 02:27 The Impact of Social Media on Spiritual Life 05:43 Evaluating Time Spent on Social Me...
Apr 08, 2024•31 min•Season 2Ep. 122
In this episode, Somer talks to her friend, Linda Lotich from Seedtime. Linda shares a little of her own story which has led her to a deep desire to see women not only feel permission to rest, but to understand that stepping away with the Lord, even from their own families, is vital to their soul and ministry. 00:00 Welcome and Introduction of Linda 01:46 The Importance of Taking Breaks for Moms 03:14 Linda's Personal Journey and Insights on Rest 08:31 Implementing Rest and Its Impact 16:31 Expl...
Apr 01, 2024•45 min•Season 2Ep. 121
In this episode Somer and Michelle address the issues of gossip and drama, particularly at the workplace, emphasizing why it can be a huge concern for everyone, but especially Christian women. They are breaking it all down and giving you some practical and realistic tools to help you avoid it. 00:48 Navigating Workplace Drama 02:08 The Spiritual and Moral Effects Of Gossip 12:37 Cultivating a No Gossip Zone 18:44 A Real Life Story 20:11 The Ripple Effect 20:12 Challenging Gossip: Strategies and ...
Mar 25, 2024•35 min•Season 2Ep. 120
In this episode, Somer welcomes her and Michelle's good friend, Lauren Diggs to discuss what it's like and what it takes to be confident when your parenting style and boundaries look different than the rest of the worlds. Lauren is a mother of 5 ranging in ages 9 to 32 and even a new grandma so she is speaking from a place of both experience and being in the trenches with you. Lean in! This is a good one. 00:35 Discussing the Challenges of Being a 'Strict' Mom 01:27 Meet Lauren 04:19 Reflecting ...
Mar 18, 2024•55 min•Season 2Ep. 119
This is a FUN one. Michelle and Somer do their best to encourage you to find and build in hobbies... and they do a pretty convincing job. Need your affections stirred for the Lord? This conversation might be just the one you need! 02:40 A Case For Hobbies 02:52 Our Favorites 06:13 The Intersection of Hobbies and Work 07:35 The Spiritual Significance of Hobbies 09:33 Hobbies as a Means of Connection 13:37 The Role of Hobbies in Evangelism 17:41 Building Hobbies into Daily Life 23:24 Letting the G...
Mar 11, 2024•41 min•Season 2Ep. 118
This week Somer and Michelle talk through a conversation they were able to have when they spoke together at a conference a few weeks back. They were addressing a group of female ministry leaders and reminding them that they are needed, they need others, and all of us need boundaries. Find out which one is harder for you, needing others or being needed, and listen in as we remind you what the gospel definition of boundaries is! 02:55 The Importance of Community 03:41 I Need You You Need Me We Nee...
Mar 04, 2024•43 min
Somer and Michelle have a little book club meet-up to chat through a book that they both, YES WE SAID BOTH, really enjoyed. Tyler Staton's book, 'Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools' is one of the most powerful books on prayer that they have ever read! And good news for you... on this episode they're going to give you a synopsis + a few of their big takeaways with the hopes that you will go pick it up and let it change your prayer life too. 00:51 Overview of the Book 03:07 The Impact of the Bo...
Feb 26, 2024•36 min•Season 2Ep. 8
In this episode, Somer has an honest conversation directed towards the 20 and 30 somethings but really, for all of us, with one of her good friends, Callie Holland. They cover the pressure you feel to have life figured out, the issue of loneliness, the need for connection, what the real hold up is on pursuing discipleship, and how those of us no longer in our 20's and 30's can step up and begin investing in these younger women. They also recap the Super Bowl Half Time show and why Usher > Rih...
Feb 19, 2024•43 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Michelle and Somer follow up last week's conversation with Dara LaPorta by talking through their own experiences creating sweet atmospheres at home. If you've ever wanted a little extra motivation to make your home a hub of laughter and peace, today's episode is for you! Pura Smart Home Plug In Join The Patreon (Marriage Episode Coming Soon!) 2nd Timothy Study...
Feb 12, 2024•39 min•Season 2Ep. 6
In this episode, Somer chats with one of our favorites, Dara LaPorta, a She Works His Way OG from way back. Dive into Dara's world as she joyfully navigates the chaos as a mom of four with one foot in the health and fitness world and another leading in women's ministry. Dara gives us her take on creating a cozy family vibe, and why she swears by intentional peace and chill family rhythms. Tune in for these nuggets of wisdom on slowing down, being intentional, and finding a relaxed rhythm in our ...
Feb 05, 2024•34 min
Michelle and Somer talk about what it feels like for things not to go the way you hoped they would, and how to see the beauty in God's plan even when it's hard. 03:00 The Struggle with Unfulfilled Dreams and Hopes 05:00 The Book of Ecclesiastes and its Lessons 07:21 The Inspiring Story of Ruth 10:22 Our Experiences with Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams 14:54 It's Okay To Ask God Why 15:50 Dealing with Disappointment and Finding Purpose 17:20 Finding Joy in the Presence of God 18:54 Drawing Closer to...
Jan 29, 2024•35 min•Season 2Ep. 4
In this episode, Michelle chats with one of her favorite authors, Jordan Raynor, and together they discuss the upcoming release of his newest book, 'The Sacredness of Secular Work'. 01:24 Joy and Excitement in Faith and Work 03:00 The Intersection of Ministry and Marketplace 04:03 The Sacredness of Secular Work 05:17 The Concept of Anti-Bucket List 05:46 The Eternal Perspective of Work 18:21 Scratching Off Glimpses of the Kingdom 23:01 Practical Ways to Make Disciples Buy Jordan's book Enter to ...
Jan 22, 2024•34 min•Season 2Ep. 3
With millions of Americans struggling with their mental health, it's safe to say that JOY could be a game changer for a lot of us. In this conversation Somer and Michelle, mostly Michelle because SHE WROTE A NEW COMMENTARY, discuss the value in practicing and pursuing joy using the book of Philippians and the example of Paul as their anchoring truth on the matter. Whether you are struggling with joy or you are close to someone who is, this is a convo you'll want in on! 04:50 The Importance of Jo...
Jan 15, 2024•37 min•Season 2Ep. 2
In this episode Somer's husband, Kent, joins her for a talk we usually leave the men out of. Today we're kicking off Season 2 of The SWHW Podcast talking about the same thing EVERYBODY is talking about... our bodies. With insights from a Pastor and 'girl dad', they explore how cultural pressures can distort our perceptions of our bodies and undermine our self-esteem, hindering us from being able to live fully on mission for God. 00:01 Introduction and Welcome to Season Two 01:13 Introducing the ...
Jan 08, 2024•46 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Holiday Movie Showdown: Celebrating Christmas Classics & Hidden Gems In one of your favorite episodes each year, Somer and Michelle countdown their all time favorite Christmas movies (and a few of their not so favorites) . Let them put together your Christmas movie playlist for this holiday season while you focus on the other 11 billion Christmas tasks on your list! Grab your peppermint mocha and let's goooo. The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step Planner. Become a Donor 00:52 Christmas Movie...
Dec 04, 2023•53 min
Somer and Michelle are pumped to have this conversation with you about taking time off and put everything they discuss into practice as we slow waaaaaaayy down at the end of the year. Taking time off isn't easy, but God both created us to rest and He commands us to rest. Bottom line: taking time off matters. This conversation is jam-packed with practicality as we discuss: best practices to plan for rest how to prioritize rest when you and your spouse rest differently and/or you have young kids d...
Nov 27, 2023•39 min
In this episode Somer and Michelle share a game-changing assessment they have been using for a year now! Using red, yellow, and green as your answer, they'll ask you to check in on four crucial areas of your life. They are the areas we all tend to brush off, but it can be a dangerous game to keep ignoring the signs. The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step Planner SHOP THE BLACK FRIDAY SALE ON FRIDAY! 00:50 The Importance of Self-Assessment 01:05 The Role of Questions in Self-Reflection 02:06 The S...
Nov 20, 2023•40 min•Ep. 106
In this week's conversation, Somer + Michelle do a deep dive into big spending (if you're listening in real time, just in time for the Black Friday + Cyber Monday crazy!) Listen in if you need reminders on: the difference between genuine generosity and pressure-driven obligation guilt-free missing out practical tips for protecting your joy The 2024 3 STEP PLANNER is here! The SWHW Patreon Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) Become a...
Nov 13, 2023•33 min
Ready to laugh and cringe? In honor of kicking off the holiday season, Somer + Michelle are re-living their best + worst Thanksgiving memories, plus doing a little this or that Thanksgiving style. Whether you love Thanksgiving or you're a bit a turkey Scrooge (like a certain co-host to be revealed in the episode) , we've got something for you. Join our Patreon. Become a donor....
Nov 06, 2023•43 min•Ep. 104
In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer talk about what they felt last week's confidence quiz (go listen to the previous episode if you missed it!) revealed to them personally + what is missing from the way the world measures confidence, including: releasing yourself from the pressure of trying to build confidence the world's way helpful ways (and not-so helpful ways!) to talk about confidence to the next generation where your confidence belongs Scriptures referenced: - Philippians 1:6 - 2...
Oct 30, 2023•30 min•Ep. 103
In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer take a confidence quiz in real time. (You'll have to listen to learn where we got it!) Listen + take this quiz with us to determine: what elicits your confidence + what exposes your insecurity the root of your confidence how other people's perceptions affect your confidence The SWHW Patreon Come to Knoxville for a SWHW Live Event Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) Become a Donor...
Oct 23, 2023•30 min•Ep. 102
In this conversation requested by our Patreon community, Somer and Michelle dig into: TWO very special birthdays we're celebrating what our perspective on human limits ultimately reveals about our trust in God how an abundance mindset without Christ is still scarcity the throw back MTV show Rich Kids Of Beverly Hills lack, comparison + fear vs. peace, joy + contentment (and a whole lot more!) Scripture referenced: - Philippians 4 - Matthew 14:13-21 The SWHW Patreon Come to Knoxville for a SWHW L...
Oct 16, 2023•40 min•Ep. 101
In this conversation, Michelle asks Somer all the questions about what God showed her over the last year as both of her daughters got engaged and married. If you saw the wedding pics from a few weeks ago, and and wanted more - it's all here, including: why parents should ultimately be the biggest encouragers for our kids to "leave and cleave" to their spouse + how to do it the beauty of God's faithfulness to grow your marriage while watching your kids fall in love how she felt when she met their...
Oct 09, 2023•47 min
In this live recording from a conference Somer spoke at earlier this year on the topic of Soul Care, she uses the example of Jesus withdrawing from the crowds to help us understand how we need to sometimes eliminate the external noise so that we can give attention to our souls. If you feel tired, burnt out, or on the verge of either of those, you might want to listen in! The SWHW Patreon Come to Knoxville for a SWHW Live Event Get Our 2nd Timothy Study Order The She Works His Way Book (To get th...
Oct 02, 2023•40 min
