Is the newness or spark gone in your longterm relationship? Do you feel like your partner is more like a (best) friend as opposed to a lover? Maybe the communication has broken down, or perhaps it was never there to start. Or are you craving better, more connected hot sex? If so, guess what? Despite how frustrating this is, know that you are 100% normal! Also, we have plenty of episodes on how to reignite the fire (episode 381 with Dolly Josette is a great option), AND also starting November 12t...
Sep 12, 2024•21 min
What are the common problems women in particular face when it comes to orgasms, and what are some of the top tips for overcoming these challenges? What if someone has never had an orgasm? Why is masturbation a pivotal place to start and how can someone develop a helpful masturbation practice? And how do sex toys - both solo and partnered - fit into all of this? About our guest: Charlene Douglas is the author of Come Closer: Everything You Ever Wanted to Ask a Sex and Relationship Therapist and i...
Sep 10, 2024•57 min
In this episode we interview the revolutionary Anne Hodder-Shipp about her latest book Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages of Modern Love. We discuss why the classic book 5 Love Languages is both limiting and dismissive of many people's experiences, the diversity of love languages can how they can evolve, the 18 and growing love languages for the modern world, and how you can apply them to your life here and now. Anne is also the founder of Everyone Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) - a sex educator cert...
Sep 03, 2024•1 hr 14 min
Why is touch so important to all humans? What is platonic erotic touch? How does it differ from other touch? What are the benefits of giving or receiving platonic erotic touch? How is platonic erotic touch created, and how do I find people to share it with? What if feels happen? Can I prevent catching the feels in platonic erotic touch? About our guest: Despite how young she appears (thank goodness for all the GREAT orgasms), Monica Jayne comes with 25 years experience and many certifications to...
Aug 27, 2024•1 hr 7 min
In this bonus episode we interview Pretty Ink, the talented content creator behind College Craze - a hot interactive video game designed for the female gaze. Learn why this is Amy's preferred "porn", as well as what goes behind creating story-driven content with lots of arousing sex scenes. About our guest: Pretty Ink is a black, female, solo developer passionate about sex, immersive gaming, and good storytelling. Her current project under Pretty Ink Games is College Craze, an adult dating and l...
Aug 23, 2024•42 min
This episode is inspired by Hailey Magee's new book Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power, as well as the "People Pleaser Support Group" skit on SNL. We discuss why people pleasing in the bedroom is different than other forms of people pleasing, why someone would say yes when they mean maybe or no, the common consequences of sexual people pleasing, as well as some tools to to stop people pleasing here and now. We also discuss why working on your relationship with rejection and disappointment ...
Aug 20, 2024•1 hr 9 min
Sexual Folklorist, podcaster and coach Dixie De La Tour joins Shameless Sex to teach us all about the magic behind erotic storytelling -just in time for Anal August! Learn about how developing your personal narrative can help you talk about difficult/intimate things (SEX!) + hear us share some of our own butt jam stories and witness the magic that is Bawdy Storytelling! Check out the Njoy plugs here and the Inflatable Plug here + get 20% off with code ANALAUGUST2024 Follow us on IG @shamelesssex...
Aug 13, 2024•1 hr 26 min
This episode is an inside look into the wonderful world of sex work! From everything from favorite client stories to myth busting to the variations of sex work (stripping, camming, etc) - the fabulous Marcela Alonso shamelessly shares all about a day in the life of being a loud and proud sex worker. About our guest: Marcela Alonso is a woman of many hats and talents—she’s a content creator, social media influencer, podcast host, comedienne, and SAG card-carrying mainstream actress. With over two...
Aug 06, 2024•1 hr 6 min
What are "sex parties" and why is The Play different from other play parties? What can anyone and everyone - regardless of their interest in sex parties or non-monogamy - learn from the way The Play beautifully orchestrates and curates their parties? Why is STI testing so important + unique to the way The Play operates? Also, can monogamous people go to sex parties? We known ENM isn't for everyone yet so many of you (yes you) are curious about threesomes and more-somes...and even sex parties! Tu...
Jul 30, 2024•2 hr 38 min
How can people find the right sex toy for them? What makes a sex toy a great toy or product? What are some of the top sex toys on the market? And what about lubes? Also, what the F is a praise kink? And why is having a sexual AHA moment so important? About our guest: Lisa Finn ("Finn" - she/her/they) is a Brooklyn-based Sex Educator. Since starting with Babeland in 2016, Finn has hosted countless interviews and workshops - both virtual to audiences of hundreds of attendees, and in-person from le...
Jul 24, 2024•59 min
When it comes to sex or relationships and wanting to find a therapist or coach, what should people know before they shop around? Are all sex therapists “created equal”? Why is it so important for therapists to be educated on how to support their client’s sexuality while not creating more shame? As a client, what are some of the signs my therapist or coach might not be a good fit for me? And how can I go about that? For people who want to become a sex educator or therapist, how can they start to ...
Jul 16, 2024•1 hr 7 min
In this episode we meet with ENM and relational expert Ally Iseman. We discuss everything from cheating and affairs to the how to's of non-monogamy, the many variations of non-monogamy, as well as how to become an expert communicator in your relationships. This episode is for monogamous and non-monogamous people who want to up their relational skills for more sexy success in and out of the bedroom. Bio: Ally Iseman is the Founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, through which she offers concierge guidanc...
Jul 09, 2024•1 hr 19 min
What are some of the many reasons why people might not be interested in having sex with their partners? When it comes to mismatched libidos, what are are top tips for couples in working together to find ways to meet each other’s sexual wants or desires as best as they can? What about period sex? We know not everyone is into it and aren’t trying to convince people to change their minds about it, but what are the main hangups are about period sex? Are there any benefits? And how can people have mo...
Jul 02, 2024•1 hr 15 min
This mini episode features a 10 minute clip for a new mini series that we absolutely love called Making Magic, featuring some of the world's most renown sex educators and all about how the Magic Wand became the world's most famous vibrator. Porn is one of the most common ways people find out about the Magic Wand and get excited to try it themselves. In this episode, we hear from porn performers and directors about why the Magic Wand works so well in on-screen sex – and why filming with it can so...
Jun 28, 2024•18 min
In this episode we talk about how to pleasure all the dicks, cocks and penises in your life with fellatio expert and Sexologist Jody ProHOEvocative. And PS: Jody is going to perform in our live show in Chicago this Sunday, June 24th. Listen to this episode to understand why you don't want to miss it :) More details below. About our guest: Jody is a certified sexologist and fellatio instructor, unapologetically exploring the realms of sexuality, blending candid discussions on sexual health, perso...
Jun 25, 2024•1 hr 5 min
In this episode repeat guest and world renown Sexpert Tyomi Morgan teaches us all about how to become the master of pussy pleasure. From techniques for hands and mouths to toys and beyond, Tyomi will blow your mind (and maybe your lover's bits) with all of the gold she shares. About our guest: Certified Sexologist Tyomi Morgan is an international pleasure coach with 12+ years experience as a thought leader, writer and influencer in the field of Sexuality. Her talent for delivering relatable, dig...
Jun 18, 2024•1 hr 14 min
This episode is with the fabulous duo Florence and Reed from the Come Curious podcast. We talk about everything from awkward/uncomfortable sexual experiences to top super hot sexual experiences, why you should have your friend film you having sex, why sex on the beach isn't for everyone, sex in bathroom stalls, kink and fetishes, and how people move through/beyond body shame and discover their unique “sexy”. Be prepared to laugh and learn because these two women are absolutely shameless! About o...
Jun 11, 2024•1 hr 15 min
What is the slut pledge and why should we take it? How does embracing our desires relate to bravery? What does it mean to “lose your erotic virginity”, and how does this bring more pleasure and aliveness into one's life? How does being a bisexual person require a lot of erotic bravery? Are bi folks the ultimate unicorn for threesomes? And what are some top tips (regardless of orientation) for successful threesomes? About our guest: April Hirschman is the author of the self-help book Best Breakup...
Jun 04, 2024•1 hr 2 min
How did the fabulous designer Melanie Rose of Netflix's hit show How to Build a Sex Room become known as the “Mary Poppins of sex rooms”? How would someone know what kind of sex room would be the right fit for them, and what they lived in a small two bedroom apartment and have kids? Or a one bedroom or studio…can they make a sex room (or closet/trunk)? What is the purpose of couples making a "mood board" and how does it apply beyond building sex rooms? How can couples uncover their desires and f...
May 28, 2024•1 hr
What is happening behind the scenes when sex/intimacy happens in film, television and porn? What us an "intimacy coordinator" and why do they play a pivotal roll in the on-set production? How do intimacy coordinators choreograph a scene, awnd hat makes CINTIMA’s training important and unique? How does watching a show with intimate plots deepen a couple’s relationship, and how does the quality of the content for intimate scenes - as well as what is happening behind the scenes - affect the consume...
May 21, 2024•1 hr 26 min
What is a “relationship/sex life reboot”? What are some of the main reasons why women and/or couples find themselves in a place that needs a reboot, and is this the same as a "sexless" marriage or relationship? How do hormones tie into all of this? Are there any preventative measures people can take to avoid entering the “I/We need a reboot”? And what about DIY ways people can do on their own when they are in the “help, I need a reboot” space? About our guest: Dolly Josette is a somatic sex coac...
May 14, 2024•1 hr 9 min
In this episode we chat with dear friend and fellow sex educator Tracy Felder. Tracy has traveled the world and has years of experience mastering the art of "sex on the road". From optimizing your (sexual) health while traveling, sex on airplanes, knowing what should be in your sexy travel kit, safety regulations with sex toys, and staying connected to partners from afar, listen to this episode to get your road time sexy on. About our guest: On a mission to spread her sex-positive skills at a na...
May 07, 2024•1 hr 26 min
Why is it so important to create a safe erotic space for bi and bi curious women (as compared to other sex parties)? What actually happens at Skirt Club parties? Why do a lot of people feel bisexuality is an “invisible” orientation? Who are all women play parties for? And how can people talk to their partners about wanting to attend Skirt Club (or explore bisexuality in general)? About our guest: Genevieve is the founder of Skirt Club, a private members club for bi-curious & bisexual women. With...
Apr 30, 2024•1 hr 6 min
What is the purpose of pheromones? What do they do and how do they work in the body? Do pheromones change based on hormones? Is it true that certain people’s pheromones are not for us? Is there anything that can be done when pheromones don't feel aligned? Is the universe saying this person isn’t compatible with me? About our guest: Jacqui Rubinoff is a dynamic entrepreneur and relationship expert with a profound passion for promoting healthy and fulfilling connections between individuals. With o...
Apr 23, 2024•1 hr
What is ED, what are the main causes, and who does it affect? What are some of the common treatments and exercises that can help with blood flow issues that cause ED? Is Scrotox really Botox for the balls? What does it do and does it really work? What about Botox for the penis? Is it a thing and how can it help with erections? How does a person’s mental health (stress/depression/anxiety) have an effect on ED just as much as a person’s physiological health? And can people who have experienced pro...
Apr 16, 2024•1 hr 10 min
How has the porn industry shifted over the past 20 years, and how is it that Hollywood still gets it wrong when it comes to intimacy? What are the most common fantasies that women have based on their top porn interests? What about men/other genders? If I identify as a feminist and yet I’m super attracted to porn that involves dominance and submission, and maybe even some rough sex, can I still be a feminist while thinking this is hot? How can gang bang scenes (and gang bangs in general) be empow...
Apr 09, 2024•1 hr 2 min
In this episode Amy talks about our current favorite sex toys including Amy's mom's favorite, which just might be your mom's kryptonite too. From pussy toys to cock stimulators, Amy shares all about what's getting us off in 2024, as well as how to find the right sex toy for you. For toy references: Check out the Womanzier with air-pulse technology here (and get 20% off with code SPRINGWOMAN20*), or: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/search?q=womanizer* Check out the VIM wand by Fun Factory here (...
Apr 05, 2024•33 min
What’s the truth about being single? The good, the bad, the ugly? Why is being single at some point in your adult life important? How can single people become “single and stoked”? What are the steps or what does it take to love single life? What if I’m single and want to stay that way for a while. How can I navigate casual sex without getting into a relationship? And what if I’m single and looking for a LTR? Top tips for navigating sex and dating from this perspective? About our guest: Brianne H...
Apr 02, 2024•53 min
Amy Merrill is an artist/activist at the intersection of creative communications, technology, and social change. In 2015, she co-founded Plan C to transform access to abortion pills by mail in the US, and under her co-leadership Plan C has grown to an annual audience of millions on an award-winning website, press reach in the billions, nationwide partnerships in research, creative and tech and “Plan C” as a household term for abortion pills. She was named in Fast Company’s 2023 Most Creative Peo...
Mar 29, 2024•49 min
This episode is all about kissing, smooching, making out, and doing the nasty tongue dance. Repeat guests and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon teach us all about the skills needed to be a great kisser, how to match your lover's kissing style, what to do if your partner is just so so in the kissing department, as well as hickeys, spitting, and if there's such thing as too much tongue About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher leve...
Mar 26, 2024•1 hr 7 min
