This episode is all about how to add more hotness and newness into your relationship. From exploring non-monogamy to kink to role-play, or just adding a little spice to your monogamous lover-ship, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey has something to teach you. About our guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London. With more than 30 years helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specialize...
May 24, 2022•57 min•Ep. 277
Why is monogamy so hard for so many long-term partnerships? What are the “new models” for monogamy, and how can both monogamous and non-monogamous partner/s work together to recreate the relationship as a means for better sex and connection? For Dr. Nelson's free 40 Questions to Start Your New Monogamy Agreement, check out our blog at shamelesssex.com or click here About our guest: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certifie...
May 17, 2022•54 min
Why is it so common for vulva-owners to experience pain during penetrative sex, and what are some of the solutions? What about hemorrhoids? Can people with hemorrhoids still explore and enjoy anal sex? And if so, what can they do to make it more pleasurable? Trigger warning: We talk a lot about bowel movements AKA poop in this episode. But hey, everybody poops, right? To learn more about our guest: Dr. Meredith Brezinski is a pelvic health and orthopedic physical therapist located in Portland, O...
May 10, 2022•1 hr 4 min
In this fun in-person recording we collaborate with two badass women - Natasha Root, the creator of the successful Fan's Utopia site where she sells porn performers used panties, sex toys and more - as well as Kenna James, an award winning adult star and model, as well 2016’s Penthouse Magazine Pet of the Year. While our main intention was to focus on the porn industry as well this lucrative business Natasha has created, we also somehow end up getting a free Anal 101 lesson as well. Enjoy! About...
May 03, 2022•1 hr 11 min
Episode #258 was all about how to give blowjobs and handjobs (on/with) penis-owners, and now it's time for Alicia and Erwan Davon to join us once again to give us all the juicy tips on how this applies to vulva pleasure. They talk about everything from their top techniques for manual stimulation to oral stimulation to how to have extended orgasms along the way. Note: We had a bit of a technical issue so we apologize if the audio quality is not top notch :/ About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davo...
Apr 26, 2022•1 hr 4 min
Sex Educator and Sex Hacker Kenneth Play returns to teach us his top sex hacks from fulfilling fantasies to curating a mind-blowing 90 minute orgasmic experience to multiple orgasms, unlocking erogenous zones, being a great lover no matter what size you are, and so much more. You definitely do not want to miss this one, and be sure to check out his new book Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence. Also, join our free Shameless Se...
Apr 19, 2022•58 min
Return guest and badass sex-ed priestess Layla Martin joins us to talk all about how to have the best sex of your life. Listen to learn why she says "If you want to f**k a Goddess then you have to know you're a God". Be sure to check out her upcoming offerings: To sign up for Layla's FREE Epic Lover's Digital Guide, click here To check out her 21 Day Erotic Confidence Challenge, click here About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love t...
Apr 12, 2022•1 hr 7 min
What are the different types of erotic blueprints? How might each one show up in sex and relationships - both as superpowers and challenges? And how can folks to utilize their erotic blueprints in their daily lives in the bedroom and beyond? About our guest: Julianne is a women’s life and health coach, Erotic Blueprint Master Coach, Certified Somatic Sexologist Practitioner, and Certified Holistic Health Counselor. Her innovative Goddess Approach Methodology focuses on healing the mind, body, an...
Apr 05, 2022•1 hr 3 min
This episode includes a raw yet playful discussion of all the things we wish we knew about sex from our teenage years, to our 20's, to our 30's and soon to be 40's. We shamelessly share everything from our first sexual experiences to some of the not so great ones, to the tips and tools we've learned along the way where great sex and deep connection are now the standard (but with the understanding that we will be forever learning and growing). We both share our love and appreciation for getting o...
Mar 29, 2022•1 hr 12 min
In this bonus episode we learn all about what it means to “maximize pleasure for for you”, as well as ways people can bring their personal pleasure game to the next level from both a burlesque star's and sex therapist's perspectives. To learn more, be sure to check out their offerings including their upcoming April 2nd, 2022 InToPleasure Virtual event here: intopleasure.com About our guests: Michelle L’amour is an international burlesque star and empowerment advocate. She is the creator of InToP...
Mar 25, 2022•37 min
One of the more common answers we share when addressing your sex questions is to go get support with a (sex) therapist or coach. But we realize taking that next step is not always an easy process. Return guest Keeley Rankin, M.A. and Sex and Relationship Coach joins us to answer everything from why it's helpful to work with a (sex and relationship) therapist or coach, to where to find them and the questions you should ask to see if they feel right to you, as well as red flags to watch out for, a...
Mar 22, 2022•1 hr 27 min
Repeat guest Orpheus Black joins us to discuss everything from the differences between BDSM and Fetish, to tools and tips for spanking, face slapping and chocking - all with a great emphasis on pleasure, play, safety and consent. His expertise and relatable way of teaching will likely inspire you to want to learn more via his upcoming 2-part course on "The Erotic Art of Spanking" happening online April 2nd and April 9th, 2022. Space is limited so sign up ASAP at orpheusblack.com and be sure to u...
Mar 15, 2022•1 hr 2 min
Certified Sexologist and world renown educator Destin Gerek joins us once again to teach us all about penis-owners can learn to up their sexual confidence and skills - resulting in the high probability of becoming one of the best lovers their vulva-owning partners has ever had. Not only does he dive into the qualities of what makes a great lover, he also shares plenty of tips, tools and practices that you can begin to implement in your life whether you are single, dating or long-term partnered. ...
Mar 08, 2022•1 hr 4 min
Dear friend and Shameless Sex Podcast's "resident sex therapist" Dr. Nan Wise returns to teach us all about how to talk about sex with our (sexual) partners while answering sex questions sent in from listeners. Dr. Nan makes those intimidating conversations fun, sexy...even easy! About our guest: Nan Wise, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost...
Mar 01, 2022•1 hr 7 min
Hard or Soft Podcast is hosted by Tahoe and Orlando - two men who candidly speak about their exploration in the world of sex. The goals of these conversations are to offer the typically taboo perspective of men being open with their sexuality while simultaneously providing a safe place for women to understand men more, and for men to feel comfortable exploring in this realm without shame. With new episodes every week, the hosts engage in educational, and honest conversations with a wide variety ...
Feb 22, 2022•1 hr 5 min
What are the most common sex and relationship issues sex coaches are seeing these days? What are the tools to work through these common issues that may lead to better connection and great sex? Sex Coaching Pioneer Dr. Patti Britton answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Patti Britton has over 40 years of expertise as a clinical sexologist, author, and sex coach. Patti teaches professionals keys for helping their own clients/patients/ students find solutions to their sexual roadblocks. S...
Feb 15, 2022•1 hr 6 min
Return guest Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions💋", joins us to talk about f*cking. Why are so many vulva-owners not enjoying penetrative sex? How can folks learn to be a master f*cker - both as a giver and receiver? We also talk about positions, techniques, toys and so much more. About our guest: Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions💋" is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. She is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Pe...
Feb 08, 2022•1 hr 15 min
What are some of the most common issues penis owners are facing when it comes to their sexual health and performance? What advice are the top 50 doctors sharing on working with these shifts? What new medical sciences and technologies are available to "the 21st century man"? Dr. Brandeis answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Judson Brandeis is a graduate of Brown University and Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, with Urologic Surgery residency at UCLA and a post-doc fello...
Feb 01, 2022•57 min
What is semen retention and how it relates to sexual mastery (and multiple orgasms!)? Why would someone want to learn to do it? What are some simple tools that penis owners can use for sexual mastery? About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery, offering them the perspective and insight of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She guides people to use their sexual energy with integrity and intent...
Jan 25, 2022•1 hr 3 min
Edward is passionate about teaching powerful practices to help embody true leadership with clarity, presence, and authenticity from the bedroom to the boardroom. He holds a 2nd degree black belt in Aikido and is a senior instructor of Sheng Zhen Meditation. With this unique combination of martial arts, movement, and meditation he has helped thousands of people relax their bodies, quiet their minds, and embody the wisdom of an open heart full of love. He is the founder of Knot Love, an open-heart...
Jan 21, 2022•55 min
This episode is packed with all kinds of goodies on how to navigate modern day relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, or wanting to add a third, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast offer tools and tips on how to deepen connection, sharpen communication skills, and do relationships in a way that works for you as a unique sexual being. About our guests: Jase, Dedeker, and Emily, created the Multiamory Podcast in 2014 because they were tired of the same old toxic dating advice. The...
Jan 19, 2022•57 min
Alicia and Erwan join us once again to talk all about oral and hand pleasure for penises. They share their three top techniques for manual and oral stimulation, as well as plenty of other juicy tips on how to be a great giver. Be sure to check out Alicia and Erwan's upcoming online Valentine's Day Pleasure Course by clicking here Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully...
Jan 11, 2022•1 hr 4 min
We are so excited for this interview! Barbara Carrellas is Amy's favorite Tantra teacher as she beautifully blends sex, intimacy, BDSM, and Tantra in a way where everyday folks truly can access ecstatic orgasmic bliss. We talk all about how to think and breathe ourselves into orgasm, as well as the power of breath in orgasmic potential. Note: We had some audio issues so we had to switch over to Zoom for this recording. Please be gentle with us. The interview starts at minute 14. Interested in ou...
Jan 04, 2022•1 hr 1 min
In this episode we interview the creators of Bonobo Network - a sex-positive community that hosts sex parties, as well as educational workshops, retreats, potlucks, happy hours, discussion groups, online mixers, interviews, and so much more. We talk all about the ins and outs of sex parties, the importance of safety and consent, and how connection and community serve to create more aliveness in our everyday lives. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. Want to make friends wit...
Dec 28, 2021•1 hr 9 min
What’s the problem with striving for 50/50 fairness in modern day marriages and relationships? How does an 80/80 approach lead to more connection and far less conflict? What does “the way you do life is the way you do sex" mean, and what 80/80 tools can couples apply to their relationships to inspire more intimacy and great sex? Nate Klemp, PhD answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question about how to talk to a partner about keeping it casual. Want to make friends with other Shameles...
Dec 21, 2021•1 hr 4 min
What is “mind-blowing sex”? What gets in the way of having it? How can folks begin to move from "okay" or "good" sex to MIND BLOWING life-altering sex - not just from time to time but as a regular part our lives? The incredible Layla Martin shares all this and so much more. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 1...
Dec 14, 2021•1 hr 15 min
The holiday's are here and it's cold outside (at least where we live), so why not keep it hot by adding more pleasure into the mix? In this episode we share a number of sexy gift ideas that will inspire more eroticism and connection in your life including some that won't cost you a dime. We also share our top sex toy gift ideas for this holiday season. Want 20% off and free shipping on the ultimate Naughty or Nice sexy kits for couples? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at ...
Dec 10, 2021•47 min
Return guest Dr. Alison Ash joins is to talk all about fantasies: What kind of things do people most commonly fantasize about? What if we fantasize about someone other than our partner? Are fantasies and actual role play (acting them out) the same thing? Also, how can we up our fantasy game whether alone or with a partner? We also answer a sex question about jealousy over a partner's past sexual partners. Want to skip for the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash ...
Dec 07, 2021•59 min
Well this was a fun one. Our dear friend and Somatic Healer Ian Stratton joins us to talk all about how we can become our best selves in all fields including in relationships, with purpose and passion, and within our own being. Stay tuned for a playful yet informative episode. We also answer a sex question about helping a partner deal with "premature ejaculation" shame. About our guest: Our friend Ian Stratton is a man on a mission to help liberate others from trauma and unconscious programming,...
Nov 30, 2021•1 hr 13 min
Ams and Kat from the 2HotWives podcast tell us all about their adventures opening up their longterm marriages and then venturing out into "the lifestyle". From everything including MMF and FFM threesomes to sexy house parties and swinger resorts, they share all about their experiences and even offer a few tips on how to do so lovingly and ethically. We also answer a sex question about load and ball size. Want to skip to the interview. Fast forward to minute 16. About our guests: Ams and Kat, hos...
Nov 23, 2021•1 hr 8 min
