What is the prostate all about? Where is it located, how is a prostate orgasm different from other orgasms, and how can toys help? Also, what are the health benefits of using prostate massagers such as Aneros? Return guest and prostate expert Forrest Andrews answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question: I love my partner but I want more sex than she does and I feel like a scumbag...what should I do about this? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21. About our guest:...
Nov 16, 2021•1 hr 3 min
In this episode we talk about squirting, gushing, g-spots and so much more with sex educator and (soon to be) author Kenneth Play. Kenneth shares the biology behind how it works as well as plenty of tips and tricks on how to do it (whether you are the giver or receiver). If you've ever wondered about squirting then you definitely do not want to miss this one. We also answer a sex question about losing/lowering libido after menopause. If you want to skip to the interview, fast forward to minute 2...
Nov 09, 2021•1 hr 13 min
Why is productivity valued above pleasure, and how does this harm sex and relationships? What about those folks who say “I just don’t have time (for sex/connection)? How can busy folks (and parents) add more pleasure into their daily lives? We also answer a sex questions about how to fulfill your bisexual partner's fantasies. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Lisa Welsh is a Sexual Empowerment and Pleasure Coach who helps people to overcome sexual shame a...
Nov 02, 2021•58 min
"Sexting" culture is pretty huge right now, so we decided to invite Kyer Wiltshire - one of our brilliant photographers who specializes in capturing the Natural Beauty through the lens of being nude in nature - to share all about DIY erotic photography whether you want to take a sensual photo of yourself at home or outdoors, or for material to send to a lover. We also chat about tips on lighting, props, positions, angles, as well as how taking sensual or nude photos of ourselves can help us love...
Oct 29, 2021•55 min
Well this was a fun one. World renown comedian Lisa Lampanelli has joined forced with Nick Scopoletti and Beau McDowell to create the Losers With a Dream Podcast. Lisa is 60, celibate and couldn't be happier to be done with the deeeaakkk. Nick is dating, finally over blondes and loves women who ask for what they want. Beau is in love and still frustrated that his testosterone forces him is masturbate everyday. Note: This podcast is a mix of playful (sometimes mildly harsh) comedy and vulnerable ...
Oct 26, 2021•1 hr 16 min
In this super fun and informative episode with Sexpert Sunny Megatron we talk all about kink and BDSM, why learning more strategic "soft skills" are key, as well as plenty of playful and sexy tips and tricks on bringing more kink into your erotic life. We also answer a sex question: Is it okay to go outside of my marriage if my partner isn't satisfying my sexual needs? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24. About our guest: Sunny Megatron is a sexuality & kink educator and...
Oct 19, 2021•1 hr 11 min
Why and when does passion go out the window in so many long-term relationships? What are some tips and tools for lovers/couples to revive it? We also answer a (graphic) sex question about what to do about upset stomach/bowels from "finishing inside" after anal sex. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Naomi Slater is an experienced love & intimacy coach, host of the “Divine Couples” podcast, yoga teacher and bio-energy therapist. She is the creator of th...
Oct 12, 2021•55 min
How can partners get through conflict and come back to being in a loving, connected place? How can partners help each other with their triggers? And what if the triggered person triggers you? Relationship expert and author Jayson Gaddis answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question: What do I say when my partner asks me what I want but I have no idea, and how can I learn to orgasm through penetrative sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16 (but you may miss out o...
Oct 06, 2021•1 hr 2 min
How can penis-owners step into their dominant power both in and out of the bedroom (without turning into "toxic masculinity")? What are the four most impactful keys to helping folks develop their personal masculine? And what are some fun/juicy tips for listeners who want to bring more kink into the bedroom? Orpheus Black - BDSM expert and three-time leather title holder with 20+ years of experience in the Dom world answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question about "dirty talk". Want...
Sep 28, 2021•1 hr
Why are kegels important? Is there such things as doing too many kegel exercises? And for folks who have or are going to have a baby - what should they be concerned about regarding their pelvic floor? What changes should they be aware of? How does sex change? How long do you really have to wait to have postpartum sex? And what options are out there for more pleasure before, during and after having a baby? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. About our guest: Brooke Cates is ...
Sep 21, 2021•1 hr 4 min
Erica and Milah of Good Moms Bad Choices joins us to talk about everything from talking to their kids about sex and why it's important to say "vagina", how smoking weed makes them better people/parents, what it's like being a sex podcaster and navigating the dating world, and the importance of being bad. "Whether you like threesomes on the weekend or smoking weed, you should be able to do whatever the fuck you want as long as it is not negatively affecting your child and your spirit”. Want to sk...
Sep 14, 2021•1 hr 4 min
Why do a lot of vulva-owners experience painful sex? What can they do about it both holistically and via working with a medical professional? What about penis-owners who experience some form of "sexual dysfunction"? And how do the O-shot, P-shot, Femiwave and Gainswave work? Dr. Eisenbrown answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question: Am I addicted to sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Dr. Eisenbrown is a private practicing urologist who i...
Sep 07, 2021•1 hr 2 min
What does it mean to be a Feminine Dominatrix - both as a lifestyle and/or as a profession? What is the difference between physical and psychological punishment, and why might someone be into this? How does it serve them? What can everyday folks learn from FemDoms in terms of boundaries and how to be more dominant in the bedroom? And how do fetishes fit into FemDom work? Mistress Eva answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question: I'm a vulva owner and I can't orgasm from penetrative s...
Aug 31, 2021•52 min
What does the research say around why people want or choose non monogamy? How does someone know which relationship style is right for them? And what are some tips for folks who want to "open smarter"? We also read a testimonial from Dr. Shawn about how to navigate anal sex and hemorrhoids. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Zhana Vrangalova, PhD, is a NYC-based sex and relationships consultant, speaker, and writer passionate about elevating society’s conve...
Aug 24, 2021•1 hr 4 min
Return guest Samia Burton joins us to talk all about how to up your blowjob game. She even covers topics such as how to strengthen the receiver's (penis-owner’s) orgasm, as well as how to prolong their erection. We also answer a sex question: My wife likes anal sex but I'm not into it. How can I learn to like it? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13. About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education by offering hands on se...
Aug 17, 2021•1 hr 9 min
Last week Erik Everhard taught us all about how to have great anal sex from a penis-owner's/top's perspective, so this week we are coming in hot from a bottom's perspective (AKA the person being penetrated). Happy Anal August everyone! Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX o...
Aug 10, 2021•1 hr 13 min
Return guest, author, coach, porn star and adult film director, Erik Everhard, joins us to teach us all about anal sex from a top's (the one doing the penetrating) perspective. Happy Anal August everyone! Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Erik Everhard is one of world's top male porn stars, having starred in and directed over 3,000 films. Erik is a professional coach and one of the most decorated adult performers of the 21st century. He is a leading autho...
Aug 03, 2021•1 hr 9 min
Tim Lagman is a certified sex educator with the American College of Sexologists International and pleasure advocate based in Toronto, Canada. He began his sexual journey through escorting where he worked with a number of clients from different backgrounds and all walks of life ranging from couples, individuals, poly relationships, and everything in between. Tim then went to study at Durham College where he received his diploma in Business Management specializing in the music industry and graduat...
Jul 30, 2021•43 min
What makes a great lover? How can both couples and singles up their sexual mastery skills? Return guests and dream couple Erwan and Alicia answer all this and more. We also answer a sex question about kegel balls/vaginal beads. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students i...
Jul 27, 2021•1 hr 4 min
Tune in for our favorite hot girl summer stories, plus tips on navigating breakups, single life, and how to live it up as your most badass single self this summer. Other links: Get 20% off our fav CBD sleep and achy muscle remedy with code Shameless at sunsetlakecbd.com Get 20% off your delicious chilled summer wine game at DRINKBEV.com/SHAMELESS or use code SHAMELESS Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while master...
Jul 20, 2021•1 hr 6 min
Why do folks continue to debate if the g-spot is a real thing? Does everyone have the potential to enjoy g-spot stimulation? What if someone is new to using sex toys for penetrative sex? And what's the deal with the new VDOM strap-on technology? We also answer a sex question: I'm jealous of the pleasure my wife gets from her vibrator. Oh, and we are giving away some FREE sex toys and lube! Tune in to find out how to win! About our guest: Glenise Kinard-Moore is the founder of SkiiMoo Tech and th...
Jul 13, 2021•46 min
Repeat guest and dear friend Dr. Nan Wise answers your sex questions about challenges with orgasm and pleasure. Never had an orgasm? Getting in your head during penetration? Or perhaps you orgasms just aren't what they used to be? Dr. Nan discusses all this while sharing applicable tips on how to bring more pleasure into your erotic world. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21. About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist...
Jul 06, 2021•1 hr 1 min
Is there an art to kissing? Does technique matter? What are the qualities of a really great kisser? And what usually gets in the way of great kissing (aka not so great kissing)? Repeat guest Darshana Avila answers all this and more including some great tips and techniques. We also answer a sex question: I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend anymore. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: “We are erotic by nature.” This is the foundation of everything that...
Jun 29, 2021•1 hr 4 min
What is romance really all about? Why do some people shy away from it? And how people can Americans learn a thing or two about romance from the French? We also answer a sex question: I want to experience pegging with my wife but how can I bring this up when she doesn't like talking about sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Guy Blaise is an author and Frenchman currently living and working in America. He lived in Eastern France and Paris, where he witne...
Jun 22, 2021•50 min
What is sex work and why do a lot of sex workers love working in this field? What is the difference between escorting, stripping, prostitution, etc? And what are some awesome tips sex workers can teach non-sex worker folks about how to be sexy, seductive and in their power in the bedroom? We also answer a sex question about best ways to stay clean/hygenic in the bedroom. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. About our guest/s: Danica is a sarcastic, straightforward, sex-posit...
Jun 15, 2021•1 hr
What does it mean to be transgender and non-binary? What are some of the current issues trans and non-binary folks are facing? And what are some tips for folks who are considering (or are already) transitioning? About our guest: Looking at Rae now, you’d never guess that they used to travel with their fundamentalist Southern Baptist parents doing missionary puppet shows. It wasn’t until Rae went to college at a small conservative school in Texas that they embraced what they’d always known deep d...
Jun 08, 2021•1 hr 10 min
What are non-ejaculatory orgasms and why would a penis-owner want to learn how to do this? How does it lead to more full bodied or multi-orgasmic experiences? And how might it increase intimacy and sexual connection between partners? Shasta and Ian share all this plus tips on how to master these techniques. We also answer a sex question about dating someone who has never had sex before. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guests: Shasta Townsend and Ian Lavalley a...
Jun 01, 2021•51 min
What are some of the obstacles folks with disabilities might have when it come to sex? What are some tips for folks with disabilities to have more pleasure in their lives? Kelly shares this as well as her favorite sex toys for folks with disabilities. About our guest: Kelly Gordon is a 32 year old entrepreneur and consultant based in the West Midlands, UK! She has Spinal Muscular Atrophy Type 3 which is a genetic disability meaning for her, that she uses an electric wheelchair to get around. Kel...
May 28, 2021•42 min
What gets in the way of people having great sex with themselves or others? What is the most powerful thing people can do to amp up the pleasure? Return guest and dear friend, Pyasa, answers all this and more (along with plenty of applicable tips for how to how more sexual pleasure in your life). We also answer a sex question about dirty talk. And we share our fav sex toy of the week: The Kurve About our guest: Pyasa is a trauma-informed somatic sexologist, Interdisciplinary Pelvic specialist, an...
May 25, 2021•45 min
Why is masturbation important? How can it change your life for the better? And what are some of the ways people can bring more self-pleasure into their lives? August shares her own personal journey as well as plenty of tips and applicable life hacks for ways you can have great sex with yourself. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and producer of the podcast...
May 18, 2021•57 min
