BEST OF SEXTOK: How to Set Up a Relationship so You Talk Openly About Sex, Why am I Over-Sensitive After Orgasm, and Do I Really Have to Wear a Condom? - podcast episode cover

BEST OF SEXTOK: How to Set Up a Relationship so You Talk Openly About Sex, Why am I Over-Sensitive After Orgasm, and Do I Really Have to Wear a Condom?

Jan 10, 202421 minSeason 8Ep. 1
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Episode description

A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives.


In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) After a few relationships in my twenties, I have enjoyed ten years of being (voluntarily) single, but am now looking to meet someone new. I’m keen for my next relationship to have open, honest communication around sex. I know it’s easier to start as you mean to go on, so I’d like to ask when and how I can start to set this precedent?


2) I'm a 42 year-old female and it has always taken me ages to orgasm; but, once I've had an orgasm I'm so sensitized I can't be touched...anywhere. As a result, I generally just fake it for my partner so he orgasms, and always feel unsatisfied. Is this normal, or is there something I can do to desensitize myself?


3) I’m 46 and back dating after a messy divorce. I was married for 20 years and feeling a bit nervous about it all. My main concern is safe sex. I’m on the Pill so protected against pregnancy, but should I be using a condom? I didn’t like using them in my 20s, but maybe they’ve changed now. What’s the etiquette? Do I bring some with me? Should I suggest it, or wait for him to? How likely is it to catch anything later in life?


To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://sextokpod.com/anonymous-questions


Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off!

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