Bianca Laureano joins me in this episode to talk about the trauma going on in the US, especially after an attempted coup by white supremacists. We talk about how power and intersectionality impacts our sex lives. Full show notes here .
Feb 04, 2021•47 min•Season 4Ep. 132
In this episode, Ricky Siegel joins me to talk about anxiety and it's impact on sex. We reflect on what anxiety and the state of the world in 2020, cruising into 2021, has done to our sex lives and our bodies generally. This episode was recorded before the 2020 US Election, so you already know the outcome folks. More about Ricky and the full show notes are here .
Jan 28, 2021•29 min•Season 4Ep. 131
Happy belated New Year 2021 and this episode means something different doesn’t it… I went back and listened to our last episode with Susan Bratton… We were so hopeful, we were excited… Now here we are none of our plans happened! Ugh! That's okay because I brought back the ever wonderful, amazing, trusted hot sex advisor to millions, Susan Bratton. Full show notes here .
Jan 21, 2021•43 min•Season 4Ep. 130
Hey folks! Today I interview Ola Midzynska, CEO & Founder of Sx Tech from Berlin, Germany! We chat about the punk rock journey of fighting for pleasure using technology. We also talk about the impact of a pandemic on creativity, entrepreneurialism, and burnout. Find the show notes here .
Jan 14, 2021•27 min•Season 4Ep. 129
Today we talk all about the book and history behind The Masculine in Relationship, with our amazing guest GS Youngblood! We talk about the understanding of masculinity and it's impact on the sexual dynamic. Super interesting stuff! Full show notes here .
Jan 07, 2021•41 min•Season 4Ep. 128
This week we're talking about the connection between our cultural understanding of masculinity and infidelity. We also take time to dive into her latest book, Chasing Masculinity: Men, Validation, and Infidelity. Find the full show notes here .
Dec 31, 2020•34 min•Season 4Ep. 127
Hey folks! I wanted to do a podcast/video series about sex across the world. Think Rick Steve meets Sex Nerd. This episode is the introduction to this series, and I want to hear from you. I want to hear from folks across the world how they are having sex, what education did they get, and what are your cultural processes that are different? Full show notes here .
Dec 24, 2020•42 min•Season 4Ep. 126
Welcome back folks for our second episode of season 4, how exciting! I'm joined by Mistress Harley, a financial dominatrix, in this episode. What is financial domination you ask? Well, you'll just have to listen in! We'll talk about how Mistress Harley became a dominatrix, and how she connected with this particular niche. And if you're not ready to listen yet, let me just say, make sure you listen to hear about her new album, 10 Pimpstress Commandments. Check out the full show note here ....
Dec 17, 2020•35 min•Season 4Ep. 125
We're back! Season 4 of Sex Talk with Erika Miley! I'm so excited to have the amazing Shawna Potter from the band War on Women, and author of Making Spaces Safer! We're diving into Sex, Drugs, & Rock n' Roll, I think topics near and dear to many of our hearts! War on Women has a new album that debuted October 31, 2020. Check out the full show notes here !
Dec 10, 2020•35 min•Season 4Ep. 124
Erika and Dr. Nazanin Moali decided to do a crossover Halloween episode for you! They talk about 5 things to spookify your sex life! You get to hear two very nerdy sex experts spend time talking about every body's favorite thing, sex! Do not miss this one. Check out the full show notes here .
Oct 31, 2020•54 min•Season 4Ep. 123
Have you ever felt like all you are is a diagnosis? This episode is for you, Erika talks with Dr. Melvin Lee Phillips, who specializes in sexual issues for those who deal with chronic illness. In their conversation they tackle common misconceptions and how pleasure can be restorative when dealing with illness. Full show notes here .
Oct 01, 2020•28 min•Ep. 73
Abby Rolf, mental health therapist specializing in transgender knowledgeable and inclusive care. Check out the full show notes here .
Sep 17, 2020•21 min•Ep. 83
I work with a lot of female identified folks. Your work around sex and context informs that work a lot. As you have been writing, researching, podcasting, thoughts around how context matters for female identified folks now. Full show notes here .
Sep 03, 2020•43 min•Ep. 85
In this episode, we get to talk about what it means to try the "butt stuff" or anal play or anal sex. Full show notes here .
Aug 20, 2020•23 min•Ep. 4
Join my Patreon here www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon Erika talks about upcoming changes to the podcast, and the much needed break she is taking from recording. It won't be a forever break, just enough to recharge, refocus and reformat. Find the full show notes here .
Aug 05, 2020•20 min•Season 3Ep. 122
Howdy, folks! I have the privilege, this week, of talking with Shawna Potter. She is the front-person for War On Women, musician, and author of the book titled “Making Spaces Safer”. We get into sexism, harassment, and what it is like to be a woman in the world today. Find the full show notes here .
Jul 30, 2020•32 min•Season 3Ep. 121
Welcome folks! I'm sitting with the absolutely fabulous, and unconquerable, pleasure positive sex and relationship coach, Celine Manning. Today we’re talking all about enthusiasm in bed! We’re also going to tackle preparing for sex and how each of these impacts the context of our sexual experiences. Find the full show notes here .
Jul 23, 2020•25 min•Season 3Ep. 120
Join my Patreon www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice www.mentalandsexualhealth.com Hey, folks! We have an extra special treat for you with this episode. I'm talking to two fabulous ladies and amazing sexologists, Dr. Jess O'Reilly and Ms. Marla Stewart. They're on the show with me to discuss their co-written book, “The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay”, and what that means for all sexual beings of the world. Join us! Find the full show notes here ....
Jul 16, 2020•27 min•Season 3Ep. 119
Patreon www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice www.mentalandsexualhealth.com Hey, all! This episode is directed at my helpers out there. This episode is going to be about race in the therapy room. How does this tie to sex, you might wonder? Because all of our identities matter… and being able to talk about racial identity in therapy is essential to understanding how our bodies exist in the world. Find the full show notes here ....
Jul 09, 2020•44 min•Season 3Ep. 118
Erika talks to us about breaking down the expectations of sexuality and intimacy and challenging perfectionism. What expectations do you have around sexuality and intimacy? How do those expectations impact your sexual life on your own or with partners? Find the full show notes here .
Jul 02, 2020•19 min•Season 3Ep. 117
Find the Sex Talk Patreon here. patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com Hang on to your hats, folks! Erika's got royalty in the house this week! Listen in as she holds an audience with Queen Ana Algos, Pro Dominatrix, a collared submissive, and a top heavy switch. Full show notes here ....
Jun 25, 2020•30 min•Season 3Ep. 116
Find the Sex Talk Patreon here. patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com Erika gets down with Vanessa Carlisle, PhD! They talk about Vanessa's life journey through the world of sex work up to filling additional roles as a writer, educator, and consultant. They chat about the effects of the Covid-19 pandemic on sex workers, and attempt to de-mystify the subjects surrounding sex-work. Full show notes here ....
Jun 18, 2020•35 min•Season 3Ep. 115
Find the Sex Talk Patreon here. patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com Erika and Dr. Rachel Needle, psychologist, certified sex therapist, co-director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, and doer of all the things, talk about the importance of being educated about sexual health; especially for those who are in the helping and medical fields. They focus on questions like: What kind of client testimony can give the impression that a therapist wasn’t prop...
Jun 11, 2020•20 min•Season 3Ep. 113
Erika sits down to talk about the state of events in the United States. This is a call to action to stand with our black friends, family, and neighbors. It's time that white people take action to tear down a system of institutionalized racism built by our forefathers, benefited and maintained by white people. Equality has been called for, it's time for us to make it right, fair, and just. Full show notes here .
Jun 04, 2020•14 min•Season 3Ep. 114
Find the Sex Talk Patreon here. patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com Erika talks with Amanda Luterman, licensed psychotherapist, specializing in the erotic dynamic of relationships. What is erotic empathy and what’s it all about? Amanda explains how to understand that your partner’s attraction to you is not based on how you see yourself. Full show notes here ....
May 28, 2020•25 min•Season 3Ep. 112
Find the Sex Talk Patreon here. patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com Erika talks with co-owners Dr. Jake Deakins and Peter Deakins, RN of Inland Wellness and Vitality which is located in Spokane, WA. All three talk about the various medical procedures available to patients seeking help with erectile dysfunction, sexual performance issues, hormone replacement therapy (HRT), and so much more. Sexual health is far more than just about genitals and thi...
May 21, 2020•27 min•Season 3Ep. 111
Find the Sex Talk Patreon here. patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com This week on Sex Talk, Erika and Ashley Cobb (sexpert, blogger, badass) talk about how blowjobs evoke both enthusiasm and hesitation, then discuss wonderful tips on how to turn hesitation into enthusiasm. They encourage regular communication with partners and set straight some expectations vs. reality scenarios. Full show notes here ....
May 14, 2020•19 min•Season 3Ep. 110
Find the Sex Talk Patreon here. patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com Erika takes on a chat with MMA coach, and host of "The Takedown", Josh Thomas about brain injury and making decisions that protect athletes (and, subsequently, their partners). They emphasize the importance of preventive activity, and the requirement for athletes to speak with their partners openly and consensually when negotiating sexual activity and dynamics. Erika gains some en...
May 07, 2020•30 min•Season 3Ep. 109
Find the Sex Talk Patreon here. patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com This week, Erika chats with fellow therapist, Elyssa Rice, about the therapeutic elements of BDSM in addition to its more obvious fantasy ties. They turn over some common myths and misconceptions about kink, cover the importance of consent, and enlighten us on the power dynamics found in BDSM relationships as well as how they can help individuals rescript some past traumas. Full s...
Apr 30, 2020•29 min•Season 3Ep. 108
Sex Talk with Erika Miley Patreon Erika sits down with Brandon Ruckedashel and talks about how we document world-changing events, touching on how much of the world's art comes from conflict. They discuss the changes over time in how sexual material is created and accessed as well as what the future of sex work may look like. In addition, they get into the topics of dating during the pandemic and dealing with the overall uncertainty that comes with facing a large-scale crisis. Full show notes her...
Apr 23, 2020•1 hr 25 min•Season 3Ep. 107