Erika interviews erotic novelist and former national security analyst, AB Kelleher. Listen to the end for a free book giveaway! They talk about what it's like to be an erotic novelist and what makes it a great erotic novel. Follow me on Twitter @MrsErikaMiley or IG @erikamileytherapy and send an email to littlegreenpills@mail.com to win a free copy of Little Green Pills. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Apr 16, 2020•31 min•Season 3Ep. 106
This week Kara Bolling and I had a virtual coffee date where we talked about what to do when you're pregnant and working as a practioner. How to plan the time off, and what happens if you make the tough choice of taking an extended leave away from your clients. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Apr 09, 2020•30 min•Season 3Ep. 105
Today Erika interviews Melinda DeSeta, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who works with young professionals and millennials. They talk about online dating and being vulnerable through the online medium. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Apr 02, 2020•19 min•Season 3Ep. 104
This week Erika talks to Certified Sex Therapist, Janis Roszler, and Registered Nurse, former president of the American Association of Diabetes Educators, Donna Rice all about their new book, Intimacy & Diabetes . Now available on Amazon. We talked all about how diabetes affects a person's sexuality, desire, biological functions, and much more. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Mar 26, 2020•39 min•Season 3Ep. 103
Erika takes a few minutes to talk about Sex and the Corona Virus (COVID-19) and what it means in regards to your physical connections with others. She goes over safety to protect yourself, your partners, and things you can do if there’s concern about touching each other. Erika also talks about handling prolonged isolation and anxiety. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Mar 19, 2020•21 min•Season 3Ep. 102
Pandia Health: www.sextalkwitherika.com/pandia Today Erika interviews Ryan Scoats, PhD, a lecturer at Coventry University in Sociology. Much of his work focuses on people’s monogamy, sexuality, masculinity, and friendship among men. They talked about threesomes, one of the most common fantasies expressed by adults. Erika and Ryan talked about his book, Understanding Threesomes: Gender, Sex, and Consensual Non-Monogamy. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My t...
Mar 12, 2020•33 min•Season 3Ep. 101
Pandia Health: https://sextalkwitherika.com/pandia Trigger warning: This episode contains our therapeutic experiences treating those who have committed sexual crimes. Today I spoke to Dr. Earl Yarington about what it's like to be a therapist treating sex offenders, those who have been or currently are in the prison system. Earl and I talk about what it's like to want to treat these folks so that we help to create safer communities for when they are out of prison. Full show notes here . Join my P...
Mar 05, 2020•45 min•Season 3Ep. 100
Pandia Health: https://sextalkwitherika.com/pandia Today Erika interviews Zita Nickeson, certified Sex Therapist, Sex Educator, kink knowledgeable therapist, located in Washington state, licensed in Washington, Idaho, and Colorado. Zita is a mentor who heavily impacted much of how Erika sees sex therapy. She works to forward kink friendliness among therapist. They spend much of the episode talking about how to manage the situations therapists run into on a regular basis with their clients. Full ...
Feb 27, 2020•33 min•Season 3Ep. 99
Pandia Health: https://sextalkwitherika.com/pandia An interview with the wonderful Brian Earp, Associate Director at the Yale Hastings Program in Ethics and Health Policy. He's also the writer of Love Drugs, just released in the US about 2 weeks at the time of recording. For our UK listeners, the book is call Love is the Drug. We talked about the use of psychedelics in mental health treatment. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.menta...
Feb 20, 2020•29 min•Season 3Ep. 98
Pandia Health: https://sextalkwitherika.com/pandia Founder of the Harvey Institute, writer, teacher, all around making the field of psycho-therapy better Doug Braun-Harvey. We cover the distance around how therapists can feel icky about sex because they're not immune to the cultural shame around sexuality. That shame impacts how we need to challenge the discomfort around sex and clients. We also talk about the 6 S's. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My the...
Feb 10, 2020•48 min•Season 3Ep. 97
Pandia Health: https://sextalkwitherika.com/pandia This show is for my helpers, for my fellow therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, RN’s, and ARNPs. First I want to say I am sorry. I am sorry that you did not learn in school about sexual health. I am sorry that as a result when your client’s or patient’s bring up these issues it often leads to discomfort, feeling like an imposter, or numerous other feelings you were not trained to understand and tackle within yourself. Your education missed ...
Feb 06, 2020•18 min•Season 3Ep. 96
Pandia Health: https://sextalkwitherika.com/pandia Dr. Eric Sprankle joins us today to talk about religious shame around sex and pleasure. It's an amazing conversation talking about how to dismantled the shaming system and promote a comprehensive sex education. Find the full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Jan 30, 2020•28 min•Season 3Ep. 95
Susan joins us again today to talk about predicted sex trends of 2020! Get ready to read the tea leaves and join us on a wild ride of figuring out what’s going to be hot this year! Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Jan 23, 2020•54 min•Season 3Ep. 94
Today Erika talks with the wonderful Jeff Abraham, badass CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, and we’re talking about premature ejaculation. Promescent is developed by urologists, recommended by thousands, used by millions. Whether it’s premature ejaculation, a partner that’s slow to climax, or just the pride of endurance, everyone wants to last longer in bed. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Jan 16, 2020•48 min•Season 3Ep. 93
Erika brings back Abbie Rolf to talk about why the words we use to describe each other, our genitals, and much more have a lot of meaning. We talk about how the Trans community is especially affected by the evolution in language around sexuality. Let’s talk about common words around genitalia! Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Jan 09, 2020•23 min•Season 3Ep. 92
Denise Wiesner, author, acupuncturist who specializes in fertility in addition to being a sex coach. Has sex become work because you are trying to get pregnant? Have you struggled to see your partner as anything other than a baby maker? Yo it’s a real issue for many folks who struggle to have babies. Learn all about the art of infertility treatment and how to come back to pleasure and connection with your partners. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My thera...
Jan 02, 2020•24 min•Season 3Ep. 91
Janet Bayramyan is a licensed therapist specializes in trauma, relationship, and sex therapy. In Janet’s workbook she helps you tackle the many issues that arise in long distance relationships. Erika and Janet talk about the challenges and benefits in a long-distance relationships in addition to how to handle conflict. They also talk about how sex can be a barrier and requires creativity to enjoy physical intimacy. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My thera...
Dec 26, 2019•32 min•Season 2Ep. 90
Thanks to Jessica Cline, psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy and financial therapy to being willing to be on the show and understand how relationships, sex, and money are some of the biggest issues’ relationships face. Jessica unravels the details of the money and sex issues many of her clients’ face. She talked openly about how sex and money are often the two topics many people have issues that begin before the people were in relationship together. She also addressed how sex and money i...
Dec 19, 2019•31 min•Season 2Ep. 89
Infidelity is one of the most common reasons people in relationship come to therapy. So, Erika decided to put together a whole panel of experts to tell you about the common themes, issues, people face while dealing with the issue of infidelity. Cheating is defined by the people experiencing it often, so this panel tackle the bigger picture of cheating and loads of other issues we see with our clients. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: w...
Dec 12, 2019•52 min•Season 2Ep. 88
This episode is all about the new segment called Ask Erika. Erika is joined by return guest Dr. Sarah Schvitz, who is a love and relationships psychologist. Erika and Dr. Sarah tackle all sorts of common questions that they receive and give you the advice you are looking for. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Dec 05, 2019•42 min•Season 2Ep. 87
Dr. Ari Tuckman is back for another episode! Erika and Ari tackle how to have tough conversations about sex with your partner or even in therapy! Erika also introduces a new segment called Ask Erika. Erika and Ari talk about how these conversations can bring up shame and embarrassment. They also explore the recent story about the rapper T.I. and his crossing his daughter’s boundaries by asking about her hymen during an OBGYN appointment. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitheri...
Nov 28, 2019•46 min•Season 2Ep. 86
Talking today with Emily Nagoski, PHD whose work around sex and context tells a lot about sexual interactions. Emily shares her thoughts around writing, researching, podcasting, and how context matters for female identified folks. Full show notes here .
Nov 21, 2019•43 min•Season 2Ep. 85
Erika talks with Susan Bratton who is the trusted hot sex advisor to millions. Erika and Susan tackle all sorts of modern-day sex trends from cultural beliefs to current toys. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Nov 14, 2019•34 min•Season 2Ep. 84
Today I interview Abby Rolf, mental health therapist specializing in transgender knowledgeable and inclusive care. We talk a lot about how language is gendered and how that impacts movements around equality. Full show notes here .
Nov 07, 2019•21 min•Season 2Ep. 83
The world has issues around sex. The issues are more common than you would think. Erika talks with Cyndi Darnell, international sex and relationship therapist. Cyndi has moved from Australia to the United States and explored the commonalities and differences between the countries and issues with sex and relationships. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Oct 31, 2019•28 min•Season 2Ep. 82
Often in relationships we are not talking about how mental health issues are impacting our sex lives and relationships. In this episode Erika talks with Dr. Ari Tuckman, psychologist, author, certified sex therapist, and ADHD expert about how relationships are impacted by ADHD. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Oct 24, 2019•28 min•Season 2Ep. 81
During the month of October, it is breast cancer awareness month. To spread awareness Erika talks with Brandie Sellers, a Nationally Certified Counselor based in North Texas. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com
Oct 17, 2019•21 min•Season 2Ep. 80
Our world create distance from our bodies, feelings, and relationships. Mindfulness can allow a person to reconnect with themselves in so many facets in their lives. Erika interviews Joe Molinari, Sex and Trauma Therapist in Minneapolis about how the male identified clients he sees can use mindfulness to reconnect to their sexuality, treat sexual dysfunction, and connect with their partners in ways they never anticipated. Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon M...
Oct 10, 2019•29 min•Season 2Ep. 79
Sex and Relationship therapist Dr. Joe Kort and Erika tackle the myths and misconceptions around male sexuality. They also tackle how it impacts relationships and the adversarial dynamics it can create. Do not miss this episode that attempts to obliterate shame and encourages men to seek help! Full show notes here . Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My therapy practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com...
Oct 03, 2019•23 min•Season 2Ep. 78
Female bodied people come to me all of time asking this very common question, “Why can’t I have an orgasm during sex?” Then I’m usually asking them if sex to them means penetration. They usually answer yes. This episode is going to tackle the social, cultural, and physiological nature of the vulva! Dr. Laurie Mintz, teaches human sexuality at University of Florida, has private practice, and has written two books the Tired Women’s Guide to Passionate Sex, and today’s topic Becoming Cliterate. Ful...
Sep 26, 2019•20 min•Season 2Ep. 77
